| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by amadiwati(m): 2:30pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! In my opinion, allow her. Don't force her to come home. Allow her mother nurse the baby unless she doesn't want to. Keep visiting and providing as much as you can. Explore all your options and exhaust then them. Iet getting a nanny be your last option |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 2:30pm On May 26, 2022 |
But OP, we are more than the third party you want to hear about this... |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by demmyboy1(m): 2:30pm On May 26, 2022 |
Brother, your wife might be going through postpartum depression even considering the fact this is her first child. Sit her down, and talk to her calmly to iron things out. Avoid outsiders meddling in your family affairs. PEACE. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Socratiz: 2:30pm On May 26, 2022 |
I suspect that your wife is suffering from PTSD. Forcing her to return to you is not the solution, she needs help.
Try to connect with a professional counsellor who specialises in mental health. Some women have this experience as a result of childbirth.
Please note that she's not mad. This is just a phase and she can easily overcome it if you get help for her.
You can send me a mail |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nwantaoma: 2:31pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! my brother go demand 4 ur change let her family minus d two yrs u both spent den balance u..so u cn get ur slf anoda woman...I hate rubbish 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by jaxxy(m): 2:31pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! ure wife is yet to say what's troubling her and making her act this way. The key to the problem is finding how to make her talk or getting sm1 who she will open up to. Her friend or pastor or close sibling. She's dealing with smtn and not talking. in the mean time ignore her and focus on the baby either at her place or ur place. Bt please ignore her complety for awhile and keep observing her development. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by amadiwati(m): 2:31pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! In my opinion, allow her. Don't force her to come home. Allow her mother nurse the baby unless she doesn't want to. Keep visiting and providing as much as you can. Explore all your options and exhaust then them. Iet getting a nanny be your last option. If she wants to go.she should do the proper thing and file for divorce. |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by CaptainFM1: 2:31pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife.[b] I hate divorce with passion. [/b]My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! Why do you hate divorce? I'm not here to sound moral or immoral here. I just want to know your reasons. We need to understand that the era of "for better, for worse" is over. That phrase should not be read again at weddings. Infact, this days your reason could be as simple as "you're tired of your partner" or "you don't fancy/like him anymore" With Feminism growing and gaining grounds, people are no longer having that faith in the marriage institution. It appears as a scam to many. And I'm still looking for the root cause! 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by AutoChick4U(f): 2:31pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! Probably suffering from Post Natal Depression. Be patient |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by zedman1(m): 2:32pm On May 26, 2022 |
Two things I think ;
1. Postpartum depression.
2. She's deeply in love with someone else, probably her twin flame. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Evidenx(m): 2:33pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! TAKE CARE OF YOUR BABY AND MOVE ON. ITS A SPIRIT PROBLEM. NA ONLY GOD GO FIT BRING YOUR WIFE BACK. CRY TO GOD. |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Otunski: 2:34pm On May 26, 2022 |
Guy go and take that baby to your mum for proper care. The child shouldn't suffer for the unruly behavior of his or her mother. Don't beg her to come back, move on with your life. Best of luck! 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by bruse212: 2:34pm On May 26, 2022 |
My brother so after singing '' carry me dey go to my husband house she don tire ? honestly, marriage nowadays be like NEPA & APC. No hope. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Olayetan(m): 2:34pm On May 26, 2022 |
Don't retrieve the baby, she may be going tru post partum, get professional to talk her through it and she will be fine. |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Parisian: 2:34pm On May 26, 2022 |
Who told you it's fake. If I begin opening threads to state real life experiences of things I've witnessed you'd think it's fake too ,but just know that things are happening. NaBanga:
All these fake accounts and stories....
At any rate, she likely has postpartum depression. She won't get any real medical treatment in Nigeria, unless it's from a top hospital. The best thing is to leave her with her family, so she is being watched and the baby is being cared for. She will come out of it in time. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by RPG2020(m): 2:35pm On May 26, 2022 |
Let's hear her own side of the story before judgment
Tell her to create a fake account and explain to us
Case pending till she's here with her story |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by jurjes(f): 2:35pm On May 26, 2022 |
Classic case of post partum depression. It happened to me when I had my first child and many a time I felt like throwing myself into the river close to our house then.
Find a way to get through to her mind and walk with her to get her out of that state of mind
I wish you both well 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by mercy87(f): 2:36pm On May 26, 2022 |
Google how to care for my wife suffering from postpartum depression. |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Mccullum: 2:36pm On May 26, 2022 |
Stop this rubbish of postpartum disorder,
If it's postpartum problem, she'll lost her senses immediately after given birth to that baby,
she'll be eccentric to every one around her, not to you specifically, she's suffering from indecision problem,
she is in a state of confusion on concluding her life with you, her mind may not be with you,
I suggest, you may leave her for a while, may be she can retrace her self back to you,
the baby still small to be collected from her mother, leave the child with her and your mother in-law,
distance your self from her, don't call her, just be sending money for the wellbeing of the baby,
try to get one or two persons that will be honest to assist you monitor her, this will enhance you to gather information on her next mission,
that will picture her real reasons for changing toward you, it'll also enhance your final decision on her. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by kelmicheal: 2:37pm On May 26, 2022 |
is like ogbanje dey worry her later she will come to her senses 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Beremx(f): 2:37pm On May 26, 2022 |
after4:
she is in love with someone else!
no kill yourself over her
absolutely senseless comment. You and those who liked your comment are deluded.Google postpartum depression and know what it’s all about. |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by WimaxNG: 2:38pm On May 26, 2022 |
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| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by emmabango2021: 2:39pm On May 26, 2022 |
Oga! So unfortunate even your in-law could not find out what is wrong with your wife. My friend believe it or not your wife is having a "spiritual husband" issue and can only be handle if taken to Church for deliverance. I tell you she didn't know what she is doing, she actually needs your support now to help her overcome this spiritual matter. Take her to a Bible believing Church for prayers. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by mens83: 2:40pm On May 26, 2022 |
May be case of POSTPARTUM SYNDROME
Seek God's face and medical counselling |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by blaquebelle: 2:40pm On May 26, 2022 |
How does being raised by a single parent affect the child later? Honestfrend:
This is not good... Does she go 2 church, if she does take the matter to her pastor.
Your story is not complete.. I feel something may be wrong with her and she is finding it hard to tell. It could be health issue.
Els going to carry your baby is not a good idea. Naturally I don't support a baby raised by a single parent. The will definitely affect the child in later life.
Whatsoever u decide to do ensure she gets medical help. Goodluck anyways
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| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by drlateef: 2:41pm On May 26, 2022 |
gaby:
Your wife needs serious medical attention.
This could be postpartum stress disorder or some more serious mental condition.
Some animals do go through this stress too when they give birth and fail to exhibit that natural maternal instinct to begin to care for their babies.
Instead of trying to force her back to you and pretend all is well in your marriage or to avoid "what will people say or think", I'd advise you to seek her professional help and darn what people would say or think.
You'd be playing with fire living under the same roof with a woman yet to be diagnosed of what she has mentally, and you just might end up as collateral damage in the process when she decides to butcher you and the pikin take play but God forbid.
She's dealing with underlying mental issues.
I was just going to say that. She is probably having post-partum depression. That’s why she can’t take care of the baby. You need to get the baby away from the mother and get a nanny or the grannies can take care of the baby for you. Otherwise she may kill the baby or the baby might be harmed by her. She needs mental health assessment and treatment including therapy as required. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by yemi1504: 2:41pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! Well, that gender served you breakfast as e dey hot! This generation of women, I keep saying are nothing to write home about and I will keep saying it. This is one of their results. Between them and their mothers, who behave like children and are highly emotional, I do not know SMH. |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by yemi1504: 2:42pm On May 26, 2022 |
after4:
she is in love with someone else!
no kill yourself over her
Abi |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 26, 2022 |
These days a woman will misbehave and they will say it's post partum depression and all nonsense.
All in a bid to avoid being accountable.
Our mothers gave birth to many kids, took care of them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Elpadre(m): 2:43pm On May 26, 2022 |
For me it's postpartum depression and you need to assist her but first the baby should be moved away or taken away from her for safety reason, second pay attention to her I beg . |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Neddstark: 2:43pm On May 26, 2022 |
A woman that cannot take care of her baby is not a good.mother. More or less a good wife. Guy, make money beg your inlaws to take care of the baby. I mean pay them to. Or take the baby home, let your trusted sisters, mum or aunts do the same. As for your marriage, accept your fate, you will not be happy being with her. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Otunbakayce: 2:43pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! Post-partum depression! |
