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So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2007 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot of things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, left with no choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.

I started working in 2014...my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#

You said she was a 4/10. Just curious man, what attracted you to her ?

Godoverevery:
So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, so choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#

no spending days are long gone bro except the lady is rich. Things working in the natural is money working behind the scenes in most cases

ON POINT.
TRUE DEFINITION.

Sekoni003:
You said she was a 4/10. Just curious man, what attracted you to her ?

So what first attract me was one day during engineering drawing class, she explained one drawing to a guy at my front and I followed the process which made it very easy.

So then onward I started watching her and I needed someone serious to make me focus then.

She was a 4/10 due to lack of funds but after I came to her life bro she enter 6/10 because I got her clothes and foot wearfrom lag.

She was ilorin based.

Godoverevery:
So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, so choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#

I really, really hope and pray that guys will learn from your experience.
There a lot of lost, confused, pussy-whipped boys out there in our society today who think the way to a lady's heart is by spending money on her.

May God urgently deliver them all.

Godoverevery:
So what first attract me was one day during engineering drawing class, she explained one drawing to a guy at my front and I followed the process which made it very easy.

So then onward I started watching her and I needed someone serious to make me focus then.

She was a 4/10 due to lack of funds but after I came to her life bro she enter 6/10 because I got her clothes and foot wearfrom lag.

She was ilorin based.

You upgraded her then? It's quite a shame she didn't turn out to be the one for you. Experiences like this surely make one wiser in the journey of life. Cheers man.

A girlfriend can NEVER love you more than your mother and sister. Blood is a bond. Family is everything

Brother, Let me tell me you a strategy that has always worked for me

•Before I can give a casual girlfriend #100 I'd first give #1000 to my main girlfriend.

•Before I can give my main girlfriend #1000, I'd have given my sister #10,000

• Before I can give my sister #10,000, I'd have given my mum #100,000

In short, if as a girl you want me to spend #1000 on you, you will have to wait until I spend #100,000 on my mum at that same time before I can grant your wish

Make this simple steps above a principle and you will forever be free from leeches

TimiMoore:
Brother, Let me tell me you a strategy that has always worked for me

•Before I can give a casual girlfriend #100 I'd first give #1000 to my main girlfriend.

•Before I can give my main girlfriend #1000, I'd have given my sister #10,000

• Before I can give my sister #10,000, I'd have given my mum #100,000

In short, if as a girl you want me to spend #1000 on you, you will have to wait until I spend #100,000 on my mum at that same time before I can grant your wish

Make this simple steps above a principle and you will forever be free from leeches

You be boss ooo.
You still dey give girls money?
For me, na girls dey give me money and I am not ashamed about it because the money I spent on girls when I was a simp no be small. I have recouped it back. I no send

The average girl is never broke.
The day I knew this was when I got close to a lady at a bookstore (I am a lover of books) and one day she complained that she was broke (she thinks I have money to spare because of how frequent I buy books). I frankly told her I don't have at the moment. In my eyes, she made a few calls billed some guys and an account that was zero naira became 20k. That day, my eyes was enlightened. I knew the unknown.

Billing has been from time memorial one of the reasons alot of people have no solid investment
Yet some people are still willing to take the risk so that they will be called caring and 'u've always been there for me'
70 years old man.....
have they not left u......

Godoverevery:
....._{Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.}

Mutherfucker.z never loved us!

dontrulee:
You be boss ooo.
You still dey give girls money?
For me, na girls dey give me money and I am not ashamed about it because the money I spent on girls when I was a simp no be small. I have recouped it back. I no send

If it don't make dollars it don't make sense.

edoman2016:
A girlfriend can NEVER love you more than your mother and sister. Blood is a bond. Family is everything

A sister cannot love you more than her child.

Only spend a lot on people with return on investments (your family, your guys), not these 304s and covert prostitutes.

Check these girls' Instagram and get the shock of your life.

No be who get feelings they love?


Wetin I go chop tomorrow no even sure

not only guys in uni but to every guys out there..never place a bitch above your mother and your sisters, those girls have nothing to offer you when you go broke apart from their over wide pussy....

Let he who has functional ears hear the words from the experienced ones. The best way to learn is from the experience of others.

Still waiting for the long read

Its a pity what happened to you.
But its more pathetic that you're comparing and outside whom has not proven herself to a family.
Even your family has proven themsleves to you at some point so if a girl deserves it plz give her everything she deserves

Godoverevery:
So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, so choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#

Uni days, I wanted giving one bitch one of my ATM card. My account had two cards then. Imagine lady telling me undergraduate that she has suitors, my heart b jumping upandan. Long story short, I was assaulted by same bitch and left with swollen head. Guy men, shine your eyes

Medianna:
Its a pity what happened to you.
But its more pathetic that you're comparing and outside whom has not proven herself to a family.
Even your family has proven themsleves to you at some point so if a girl deserves it plz give her everything she deserves

Lol.......never surprised.

It must start and end with what they only deserve.......Have only met to 2 selfless female in my life out of over 50.

Pure selfishness is when anyone is in a relationship for rewards.

dontrulee:
The average girl is never broke.
The day I knew this was when I got close to a lady at a bookstore (I am a lover of books) and one day she complained that she was broke (she thinks I have money to spare because of how frequent I buy books). I frankly told her I don't have at the moment. In my eyes, she made a few calls billed some guys and an account that was zero naira became 20k. That day, my eyes was enlightened. I knew the unknown.

And common sense did not tell you that something is wrong somewhere
I mean we all know how this gimme gimme works between male and female of there is no blood bond

Godoverevery:
Lol.......never surprised.

It must start and end with what they only deserve.......Have only met to 2 selfless female in my life out of over 50.

Pure selfishness is when anyone is in a relationship for rewards.

Wetin concern me concern selflessness or selfishness in this post..
All I'm saying is give honor to whom honor is due.
What is my business with if its a male or a female?
Is it not the same uni that people date and finally get married to themselves
Abeg because e bad for Bitrus doesn't mean it will be bad for bala

Medianna:
And common sense did not tell you that something is wrong somewhere
I mean we all know how this gimme gimme works between male and female of there is no blood bond

How do you babes perform the magic of gimme gimme, pls tell us

Ask dontrullee he may have the answer medianna doesn't have that answer.

id4sho:
How do you babes perform the magic of gimme gimme, pls tell us

Medianna:
Wetin concern me concern selflessness or selfishness in this post..
All I'm saying is give honor to whom honor is due.
What is my business with if its a male or a female?

I don't know why you getting worked up.

Maybe you go back to check what you typed with your glasses on.

That bull shit of if a lady deserves it you should give her everything is what am against........no one deserves anything or everything in a relationship but only in marriage.

Anything you give or do in relationship is a big lost.....I repeat anything you give or do in a relationship is a very big lost.

Uni relationship that leads to marriage is ratio 2:1000.

U can prove me wrong by asking guys and ladies who are graduate.

I don't have strength to battle words abeg.
Whatever

Godoverevery:
I don't know why you getting worked up.

Maybe you go back to check what you typed with your glasses on.

That bull shit of if a lady deserves it you should give everything is what am against........no one deserves anything or everything in a relationship but only in marriage.

Anything you give or do in relationship is a big lost.....I repeat anything you give or do in a relationship is a very big lost.