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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:34pm On May 30, 2022
DAY 150, REDPILL 2022

Men must sort themselves out. There is no mistake about this, neglect or inability is tantamount to self-alienation.

Women just need to work a little and wait at the corner to breed with the man that has sorted himself out.

The man + woman who sorted themselves out in love, unity and loyalty along the way are the ones worthy of holy matrimony. But in our modern world, women don't want to go through this process with a man. And as a result, a disorderliness in the mating/dating game. Even the man who helped sort the woman out is neglected at the end.

Authority: Be sharp.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 7:43pm On May 30, 2022
Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill undecided REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

Exactly. They forget that the redpill even encourages you to focus on your grind and make money, it’s part of the whole movement..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HelpYourself(m): 7:52pm On May 30, 2022
Someoneschild2:
While hiding your suffering, endeavor to create networks of high value individuals.

Play the courtier!
Good evening,

I saw your email.
Check your mail for a reply

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 8:17pm On May 30, 2022
Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill undecided REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

Sadly, most people who are swallowing the Red Pill in bulk will never achieve the result of their effort, which is to have a balanced dating life. This is because many of them who ought to be Black Pill are wasting their time trying to practice Red Pill.

Imagine them going with the abundance mindset theory when they look like crap or are actually worse than crap. They think a girl will come running back to them if they ignore her and act like they are millions of fishes in the sea. She will only return if you are a high-value man. Since you are not, displaying an abundance mindset will only make you a faker who is trying to be what he's not - a high-value man.

Someone who is high value doesn't have time to play stupid games. But fakers will wait for 10 to 15 minutes before replying to a girl's chat only in the name of trying to pass off as a busy high value man. This ruins their chances especially when the girl is certain for them. Once they lose her, they return to the fake abundance mindset.

Look, if you are not hot-looking, an abundance mindset won't work for you. Ask yourself, are girls always falling for you? If no, then why do you think having an abundance mindset will make you get them? Oh, an abundance mindset means you can always find another girl? How often do you find them? grin

The below video explains why many will even have enough success as Black Pillers than being Red Pill.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwKuZjeig5Q

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 9:28pm On May 30, 2022
Zabiboy:

Please, go and get your pvc. the election could be rigged, but there's satisfaction from knowing you did your best to create a change.
Heard today is the last day for ONLINE registration..
Better late than never

https://cvr.inecnigeria.org/Home/start

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kikiwalle(m): 11:09pm On May 30, 2022
There's a girl who is playing like she interested me, she keeps striking greenlight whenever we met, like greetings, smiling and helping me with some work. She is my junior in a place of work. Sometimes she is the one asking me if have something that she could help me with.
She is beautiful, and her age is in-between 17 and 18, she has a friend who they are always together.
When I see that happening I started having feelings to the extent that one day I call them and say I have something that I want to to talk with you Janice (her name) but not here I will come to your house (she is living with her parents) also I'm in the North where it's okay to date a girl in her parents home till marriage. She kept silent for a moment and they look eachother then she said we should talk it here, why not here, her friend also insist that we do it here. I say let's ignore it since you don't want it in your house, or if you think about it come tell me.
I do this to shit test the greenlight she is showing.
Two weeks now, she didn't come to talk about it, me also just let it go like nothing happened, didn't change my mood. When she greets me or does anything like in the past I respond normally. Nothing changed both sides.
DID I PAST THE SHIT TEST?
WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH THIS?
Thank You

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 11:46pm On May 30, 2022
JESHAL:
We need to make money, improve the quality of our living to take care of ourselves and health but how can we do this and not be a target of a woman who wants to see us a a retirement plan when she's post wall or even young attractive women in their prime 18-25 yrs who just see us a money bags to enjoy their youths and maximize their Hypergamy

Only Solution
Find a virgin undefiled to commit to long term and invest in to create a family when you are ready to settle down
The issue now is most of the available virgins these days are ugly lipsrsealed

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:01am On May 31, 2022
Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill undecided REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

The first point of attack: "your posts are too long".

I always say this: '99% of men and 100% of women are the same.

It is only the dull in mind, the one who has a limited scope of matters arising, a slow thinking individual with an irrational models of how things operate, a myopic person who can't telescope beyond his/her feelings - an inability to look pass the nose to even the surrounding community...that judge wisdom, truth and intellect based on status, wealth and power. This gives rise to the 'authority bias'.

It is a psyop when it comes to the truth, if you're an adherent or pursuer of the truth, traveling down this rabbit hole, you will be mocked, shamed, ridiculed. Your accusers see you as an oppression, intransigent and coming to reduce them to nothing once you become liberated, hence, they will look for various possible means to never see you come through. It is a political, social, emotional, economical, cultural attack. Simply put, they are JEALOUS! Jealous of you and everything that's giving you shape.

Some will even go as far as digging up past mistakes, poor decisions and juvenile ways you've done things just to smear you. They always forget that nothing in life is constant and improvement is eternal. But since they are slow and low in IQ why will they think this way?

Poor or rich, TRUTH IS TRUTH! But so sad that a wise man can't be considered for his wisdom because he is poor! And a a rich man is a friend to many. There might be a correlation between wisdom and wealth: wisdom should bring wealth, and one ought to be wise in handling wealth. However, these entities: wealth and wisdom differs. One can be wise and poor, or wise and rich, or stupid and poor, or stupid and rich: this is the matrix.

When you come across idiotic folks like this, you just allow them wallow like sows in the mud, because that is what is beffiting them.

In as much every (young) man is doing something better than yesterday, micro-dosing themselves for each day that comes by, they are on the right track and a 100 times better than idiots who fold their legs and hands pointing fingers, unnecessarily criticizing and throwing tantrums.

Thanks for your take up there. Kudos.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:09am On May 31, 2022
Lemme just drop this here grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by virginboy1(m): 8:02am On May 31, 2022
sajmark:

100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.
Deep

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:07am On May 31, 2022
sajmark:

100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.
that's why women are the masters of the game. they play it to perfection. they'll never settle while they're at their best . its only us men cause we're dumb and also cause we tend to enter our peak very late in life.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Awinneralways: 9:36am On May 31, 2022
ubunja:
that's why women are the masters of the game. they play it to perfection. they'll never settle while they're at their best . its only us men cause we're dumb and also cause we tend to enter our peak very late in life.

I have an SA chick who’s complaining about the shortage of men over there. According to her, most men are either gay or don’t approach women in SA.

I had a great laugh. What’s happening over there

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tranquility2345: 9:41am On May 31, 2022
Awinneralways:


I have an SA chick who’s complaining about the shortage of men over there. According to her, most men are either gay or don’t approach women in SA.

I had a great laugh. What’s happening over there

See this mentally sick troll yearning okpata as usual. Who dash you SA chick? Are you not gay

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McOluOmo: 10:06am On May 31, 2022
Junnior:

The issue now is most of the available virgins these days are ugly lipsrsealed
How you takno?

Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Someoneschild2: 11:19am On May 31, 2022
My thoughts on this is as clear as the sun.

I want to hear your thoughts.
Dating and marriage are two different worlds.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by galadima77(m): 1:37pm On May 31, 2022
Susily:



A thunderous resetting slap won't kill anybody....you don't excuse women's bad behavior especially if she gets physically violent with a man

Any woman that raises her hand to hit a man have AUTOMATICALLY IDENTIFIED AS A MAN, and should be treated as such in combat

If a woman hits a man, the man shouldn't punch her as that could have more damaging effect on her body, but he should make sure to give her RESOUNDING SLAPS that'll make her see stars....at least that won't kill her but will teach her vital lessons never to hit a man

You will live long king! How can a woman slap me and I'd walk away? My ancestors will turn in their graves.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 1:58pm On May 31, 2022
Smartb0y:
Lemme just drop this here grin
the last guy will wife her ND pay her family high amount for used item

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 2:06pm On May 31, 2022
Someoneschild2:
My thoughts on this is as clear as the sun.

I want to hear your thoughts.
Dating and marriage are two different worlds.
the marriage don tire the man ND the woman didn't say what really happened, this ain't a day issue it's been long

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 2:24pm On May 31, 2022
NEVER EVER BE THE TYPE OF MAN SHE IS ATTRACTED TO FINANCIALLY WHEN THE SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS NOT PRESENT IN HER EQUATION FOR YOU



"JESHAL" IN THE BUILDING

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by stevesawo: 2:41pm On May 31, 2022
Happiness is renting a boat from time to time.
Sadness is owning a boat all year long.

This message is not about boats.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 3:32pm On May 31, 2022
DAY 151, REDPILL 2022

The idea is about creating an impression that will make her keep coming. You create this impression by bypassing the norms. You flirt. You make sexual connotations. You better yourself to make it effective; better than her one way or the other makes it smooth.


However, you must know that some women have great walls of defense - good parents, good fathers, and conservative. You don't need to force your techniques on these ones...allow it flow. You penetrate through their skin, get to their feelings, make them emotional...even the conservative will eventually succumb.

Creating impressions works, but it doesn't indicate that you will take all the women to bed, or even the woman you like to bed. Impressions via paying for every thing she shits will bring you more leeches, and not women that truly loves the atmosphere surrounding you.

Authority: Stay bright.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 3:50pm On May 31, 2022
Awinneralways:


I have an SA chick who’s complaining about the shortage of men over there. According to her, most men are either gay or don’t approach women in SA.

I had a great laugh. What’s happening over there
its an interesting dynamic over here,, homosexuality being legal means there's a real thriving gay subculture; but is it big enough to inconvenience women? Maybe Yes maybe No. Because gays are by far one of the most successful groups of men I think it's more a case of women being drawn to certain upwardly mobile gents only to realize they're gay. The men they like usually turn out to be homo. I think that's what's happening.

But then there's other factors that are more directly eating away at the prospective male market like the fact that a lot of men are in jail, some hooked on drugs, others chasing alcohol and many just flat out losing interest in dating for whatever reason.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.
and in SA it's no different, sex before marriage is a huge norm here with cohabitation exactly like in the US where a girl as young as 20 can just pack her bag and go live with her BF and no one at home bats an eye. so the sex is always plentiful, it's the commitment that's going down the drain, given that SA men have always been commitment-phobic (cause most are raised by single mothers so they never learnt what it is for a man to love a woman since they never had a father figure), its now even worse cause social media and the slow but steady awakening of men to the real nature of women, are all making men see women as short term pleasures but long term headaches. if these men hated commitment before, the hate it MORE now. which is a real dilemma for SA women who find themselves good enough for sex but not good enough for marriage.
there's a complaint that SA women love Money, but let me tell you SA women don't even know what gold digging is. they are one of the cheapest groups of women in Africa. I belong to an exclusive gold diggers group of SA women on Instagram and I'm always laughing at the things they demand and their stories. these are working class women cute as hell but they're literally chasing peanuts. and they just love that dick they'll even turn around and let you golddig them if you're good at sex. lol.

given that commitment is hard to come by, it's a buyer's market out here, you can have the cutest chick for the lowest bride price. bride prices are notoriously low here. which is rather strange cause these girls are hot. but then again most of them drink and like to party.
I could go on..... hope I answered you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uzomacharles: 4:16pm On May 31, 2022
ubunja:
its an interesting dynamic over here,, homosexuality being legal means there's a real thriving gay subculture; but is it big enough to inconvenience women? Maybe Yes maybe No. Because gays are by far one of the most successful groups of men I think it's more a case of women being drawn to certain upwardly mobile gents only to realize they're gay. The men they like usually turn out to be homo. I think that's what's happening.

But then there's other factors that are more directly eating away at the prospective male market like the fact that a lot of men are in jail, some hooked on drugs, others chasing alcohol and many just flat out losing interest in dating for whatever reason.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.
and in SA it's no different, sex before marriage is a huge norm here with cohabitation exactly like in the US where a girl as young as 20 can just pack her bag and go live with her BF and no one at home bats an eye. so the sex is always plentiful, it's the commitment that's going down the drain, given that SA men have always been commitment-phobic (cause most are raised by single mothers so they never learnt what it is for a man to love a woman since they never had a father figure), its now even worse cause social media and the slow but steady awakening of men to the real nature of women, are all making men see women as short term pleasures but long term headaches. if these men hated commitment before, the hate it MORE now. which is a real dilemma for SA women who find themselves good enough for sex but not good enough for marriage.
there's a complaint that SA women love Money, but let me tell you SA women don't even know what gold digging is. they are one of the cheapest groups of women in Africa. I belong to an exclusive gold diggers group of SA women on Instagram and I'm always laughing at the things they demand and their stories. these are working class women cute as hell but they're literally chasing peanuts. and they just love that dick they'll even turn around and let you golddig them if you're good at sex. lol.

given that commitment is hard to come by, it's a buyer's market out here, you can have the cutest chick for the lowest bride price. bride prices are notoriously low here. which is rather strange cause these girls are hot. but then again most of them drink and like to party.
I could go on..... hope I answered you.


you stay in SA?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Awinneralways: 5:16pm On May 31, 2022
ubunja:
its an interesting dynamic over here,, homosexuality being legal means there's a real thriving gay subculture; but is it big enough to inconvenience women? Maybe Yes maybe No. Because gays are by far one of the most successful groups of men I think it's more a case of women being drawn to certain upwardly mobile gents only to realize they're gay. The men they like usually turn out to be homo. I think that's what's happening.

But then there's other factors that are more directly eating away at the prospective male market like the fact that a lot of men are in jail, some hooked on drugs, others chasing alcohol and many just flat out losing interest in dating for whatever reason.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.
and in SA it's no different, sex before marriage is a huge norm here with cohabitation exactly like in the US where a girl as young as 20 can just pack her bag and go live with her BF and no one at home bats an eye. so the sex is always plentiful, it's the commitment that's going down the drain, given that SA men have always been commitment-phobic (cause most are raised by single mothers so they never learnt what it is for a man to love a woman since they never had a father figure), its now even worse cause social media and the slow but steady awakening of men to the real nature of women, are all making men see women as short term pleasures but long term headaches. if these men hated commitment before, the hate it MORE now. which is a real dilemma for SA women who find themselves good enough for sex but not good enough for marriage.
there's a complaint that SA women love Money, but let me tell you SA women don't even know what gold digging is. they are one of the cheapest groups of women in Africa. I belong to an exclusive gold diggers group of SA women on Instagram and I'm always laughing at the things they demand and their stories. these are working class women cute as hell but they're literally chasing peanuts. and they just love that dick they'll even turn around and let you golddig them if you're good at sex. lol.

given that commitment is hard to come by, it's a buyer's market out here, you can have the cutest chick for the lowest bride price. bride prices are notoriously low here. which is rather strange cause these girls are hot. but then again most of them drink and like to party.
I could go on..... hope I answered you.

grin @ the bolded. Very well said.

I totally agree that an average SA chick is cute as hell. Last time i visited, upon my return to Nigeria, it felt as though Nigerian girls donot wear make up atall because of how ugly everyone looked.

SA chicks are hollywood standard beautiful.

I narrated the attitude of Nigerian girls and their gold digging to my SA chick and she was furious as hell. She even encouraged me to man up and not give anyone a dime. It was strange to me. You’re right that the gold digging culture is not pervasive over there.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by virginboy1(m): 5:34pm On May 31, 2022
Trex4:
You guys don't understand Redpill undecided REDPILL IS THE TRUTH. Or aims to be. Wether you're poor or rich the truth is still the truth.

For example, picture a nice Chicken dish. You're seeing it well garnished and cooked, That's BLUE PILL. Redpill will show the truth about the dish. Like the torture the chickens go through, the artificial additives, the under paid Chefs and other unhygienic processes used in arriving at the final product. Wether it's a Mama put or expensive 5 star restaurant chicken. It's still the same process.

The creator of the thread Glycolysis named this thread REALITY EVERY GUY SHOULD KNOW. Not every rich guy, or every poor guy. He said every guy. Cause I've seen some people here in past claim redpill is only for poor people

This whole, Get money Bla Bla is becoming stale. It's like preaching to the choir. I believe everyone here is hustling for money. I know Mj bolt and Die rich from the crypto thread, I know cave A dullam is coding and some people here like pansophist are based abroad self.

MORAL: Wether you have money or not, Redpill or female nature will still be the same! Try to get money yes, But understand Redpill as a man it'll help you in many spheres of life.

Words of wisdom

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 5:34pm On May 31, 2022
ubunja:
its an interesting dynamic over here,, homosexuality being legal means there's a real thriving gay subculture; but is it big enough to inconvenience women? Maybe Yes maybe No. Because gays are by far one of the most successful groups of men I think it's more a case of women being drawn to certain upwardly mobile gents only to realize they're gay. The men they like usually turn out to be homo. I think that's what's happening.

But then there's other factors that are more directly eating away at the prospective male market like the fact that a lot of men are in jail, some hooked on drugs, others chasing alcohol and many just flat out losing interest in dating for whatever reason.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.
and in SA it's no different, sex before marriage is a huge norm here with cohabitation exactly like in the US where a girl as young as 20 can just pack her bag and go live with her BF and no one at home bats an eye. so the sex is always plentiful, it's the commitment that's going down the drain, given that SA men have always been commitment-phobic (cause most are raised by single mothers so they never learnt what it is for a man to love a woman since they never had a father figure), its now even worse cause social media and the slow but steady awakening of men to the real nature of women, are all making men see women as short term pleasures but long term headaches. if these men hated commitment before, the hate it MORE now. which is a real dilemma for SA women who find themselves good enough for sex but not good enough for marriage.
there's a complaint that SA women love Money, but let me tell you SA women don't even know what gold digging is. they are one of the cheapest groups of women in Africa. I belong to an exclusive gold diggers group of SA women on Instagram and I'm always laughing at the things they demand and their stories. these are working class women cute as hell but they're literally chasing peanuts. and they just love that dick they'll even turn around and let you golddig them if you're good at sex. lol.

given that commitment is hard to come by, it's a buyer's market out here, you can have the cutest chick for the lowest bride price. bride prices are notoriously low here. which is rather strange cause these girls are hot. but then again most of them drink and like to party.
I could go on..... hope I answered you.

UK is also experiencing the same thing. That's why white girls rush any Nigerian at sight.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 5:37pm On May 31, 2022
Uzomacharles:


you stay in SA?
yes.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Uzomacharles: 5:43pm On May 31, 2022
ubunja:
yes.
One Love

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 5:49pm On May 31, 2022
Awinneralways:


grin @ the bolded. Very well said.

I totally agree that an average SA chick is cute as hell. Last time i visited, upon my return to Nigeria, it felt as though Nigerian girls donot wear make up atall because of how ugly everyone looked.

SA chicks are hollywood standard beautiful.

I narrated the attitude of Nigerian girls and their gold digging to my SA chick and she was furious as hell. She even encouraged me to man up and not give anyone a dime. It was strange to me. You’re right that the gold digging culture is not pervasive over there.
women over here are pickmes , they love men a little bit too much. there's little they won't do for a man. a chick at college will drop out at the blink of an eye if a man promises them marriage. I actually know a girl who did, although the guy ended up playing her.
this is a place where a one night stand girl will do all your washing and clean your place before she leaves in the morning. they really don't mind.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Peaceyw(m): 6:04pm On May 31, 2022
Boundless is the matrix, the red pill will lead you to the shore.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:11pm On May 31, 2022
I expected this humans Vs aliens movie to be trash but I'm rather impressed. the emotional parts blended well with the action parts. I recommend. films that explore the father/daughter dynamic always find a soft spot in my heart...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 6:20pm On May 31, 2022
ubunja:
I expected this humans Vs aliens movie to be trash but I'm rather impressed. the emotional parts blended well with the action parts. I recommend. films that explore the father/daughter dynamic always find a soft spot in my heart...

It’s an interesting movie.. Time travel sh*t..

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