donbachi:
Just as APC abandoned Nigerians

I just needed this laugh

Khaleesi4lyf:
E pain am

Please my dear get the hell outta my mention please... I have a enough on my head already

I guess you don't know the meaning of pain, a final year student for that matter.

And me getting out of a trol men. Is'nt doable.

Don't worry when your fiction tale makes fp, you would recieve bash worster than my own.

Cheap attention seeker.

Haakeem:
I guess you don't know the meaning of pain, a final year student for that matter.

And me getting out of a trol men. Is'nt doable.

Don't worry when your fiction tale makes fp, you would recieve bash worster than my own.

Cheap attention seeker.

Mynd44 please do the needful

Khaleesi4lyf:
I see u weren't shown enough love while growing up... U have so much bitterness in you and it's so disgusting ewwww!!!

Please take yourself out of my mention...

Lalasticlala, mynd44 this guy here is derailing my thread please.

You broke 2 rule, lol call the mods. unto your self.

attention seeker.

Khaleesi4lyf:
Mynd44 please do the needful

lol, the mod are'nt kids.

And you forgot you were the one that abused me first?.

Lets see who would get banned.

Wait o, pregnancy aside from raping should come as a result of when two grown up adults man and woman come together and plan it and also both parties should also be ready for the responsibilities afterwards. In this your own case now, it seems you were the only one who wanted the pregnancy since according to your write up, the baby daddy have absconded. I am sure he wasn't ready for the responsibility you're about to mount on his head.

How much is condoms for heavens sake that you can't use to avoid all this stories since you can't abstain? Now see, you can open to your people which i am very sure they'll be disappointed in you. Instead of to bring kpali come back na belle you bring. Like wise you can't go to his people who might call you a liar since it wasn't their son that informed them first.

The only solution now is for you to tell your people. Accept all the blame but they'll still be with you and support you through out especially your mum. Don't go to his people because they might not believe you. While your people have accepted your circumstance, keep on praying for your baby daddy's return. If he doesn't fine, just put yourself together and move on.

Most importantly, try graduate successfully with no carry over atleast let you people happy small.

Leave Premarital Sex U No Gree Now Don See AM.

Emma2Seconds:
Leave Premarital Sex U No Gree Now Don See AM.

Are you a virgin?

What's Your Gain Now?

Khaleesi4lyf:
Are you a virgin?

Khaleesi4lyf:
I know his parents, his family house and all that... Do I need to visit them

if you are not visiting your in-laws who will you visit.

Emma2Seconds:
What's Your Gain Now?

I just wanna know

Tell me what you have gained so far from the act?? Just tell me one advantage of premarital sex for you and I will tell you the solutions to your issues.

Khaleesi4lyf:
I just wanna know

Emma2Seconds:
Tell me what you have gained so far from the act?? Just tell me one advantage of premarital sex for you and I will tell you the solutions to your issues.

I asked you a question and you haven't answered me

Which Question are you talking about

Khaleesi4lyf:
I asked you a question and you haven't answered me

Sister Say No To Sex

Emma2Seconds:
Which Question are you talking about

Emma2Seconds:
Which Question are you talking about

Are you a virgin?

B4 you tell me the Gain For your sexual act abii??

Khaleesi4lyf:
Are you a virgin?

Ebidosie Onato !!

Khaleesi4lyf:
Are you a virgin?

I understand what you are saying and your concerns, but as much as I do not want to blame you for this your present condition, you still have questions to answer. Firstly, why did you allow someone who you know is not your husband to impregnate you? I know you are an adult in your late twenties, but did you think about this type of problem or situation before the did was done? How are you sure that the person you sent mails to will come back knowing fully well what he has done? Even if he does come back, are you sure he will take responsibility for you and the child? You know the type of parents you have and still allowed such to happen to you. Since you've decided to keep the child, you have to inform your mum first on your present condition telling her everything without leaving anything out. She will tell you how to take the issue to your father. You said you know the family of the guy, to me it is not advisable to take it to them or informing them as they will never believe you. They might even convince their son to do same. Go to your mum as I told you, if eventually he comes back and is ready to take responsibility for your combined action ( you and him), fine and good.

Khaleesi4lyf:
ignored

No wonder the guy abandoned you and disappeared.

You have bad manners and hate correction.

Go solve your pregnancy problem after all when you were raising your two legs up shouting "sweet, sweet, more, deepper; we were not there.

.

VeryWickedMan:



Hahaha

Since you are in a corporate relationship, I suggest you visit his head office and raise hell there until a senior executive intervenes.

Omg! You will not kill person with laughter o!

So sorry OP, I wish you good luck.

Khaleesi4lyf:
Good morning NLanders! I'm not new to this forum but just created this new profile to hide my identity...

I've been abandoned by my boyfriend of two years and I'm pregnant for him... The pregnancy is far gone and I don't want to terminate it (abortion is not my thing). I can't seem to contact him, his number is not going through, but he sent me an email saying he has traveled, I asked how I was gonna go about the pregnancy, my medications, baby things how do I come up with them and he blatantly told me I should handle it all when ever her comes back he's gonna refund all I spent... Since then I've sent him several mails and he hasn't responded.

I'm a final year student and I haven't been able to open up to my family. I feel depressed! I feel alone. I don't know what to do. It's as if the world is on my shoulders...

I really don't want to go into much details so please don't judge me...

First of all, sorry for your situation!

Is your family Well-to-do? If your answer is yes, then this is my response.

Accept that what has happened, has happened, and having a baby at this age isn't the end of your life as well. Since your family can cater for your baby, It is in your best interest to allow them do it without worrying about your absconded boyfriend. Complete your degree by probably paying your way through the final paper as Nigeria is already a useless country, so anything goes. I know It is emotionally draining, but remember that your scenario is pretty common amongst young Nigerians.

Regarding abortion, I know Nigeria is a religious country, and the Bible is against abortion, but I see it as necessary evil especially for people who are from poor backgrounds. A surgical abortion is technically proven to be safe.

Khaleesi4lyf:
Good morning NLanders! I'm not new to this forum but just created this new profile to hide my identity...

I've been abandoned by my boyfriend of two years and I'm pregnant for him... The pregnancy is far gone and I don't want to terminate it (abortion is not my thing). I can't seem to contact him, his number is not going through, but he sent me an email saying he has traveled, I asked how I was gonna go about the pregnancy, my medications, baby things how do I come up with them and he blatantly told me I should handle it all when ever her comes back he's gonna refund all I spent... Since then I've sent him several mails and he hasn't responded.

I'm a final year student and I haven't been able to open up to my family. I feel depressed! I feel alone. I don't know what to do. It's as if the world is on my shoulders...

I really don't want to go into much details so please don't judge me...

I don’t know why a girl will open her t0tO to nack raw and act confused when she’s pregnant. The most annoying is when she and the yeye bf seem clueless on what next to do, when it’s obvious that every nack may lead to pregnancy.

Before you lose your virginity as a man or a woman, always be prepared with whatever comes with it, whether STD, pregnancy or abortion.

It’s really foolish to get pregnant by a nincompoop and act as though you do not considered that to be the result. To make it worse, you don’t even have any plans to take care of the unwanted pregnancy.

Take responsibility and stop bothering people who don’t care about you and your problems.

Two f00!s

Reinamaria:


It's better than abortion. Way better.
Plus, you'd be making a childless couple's dream come true.

Or some depraved ritualists . Na naija we dey o. No lose guard

yuping:
if you are not visiting your in-laws who will you visit.

An unfortunate simp that will be 'lucky' to have her in his life and accept her and her baby for who she is

burritto:


I don’t know why a girl will open her t0tO to nack raw and act confused when she’s pregnant. The most annoying is when she and the yeye bf seem clueless on what next to do, when it’s obvious that every nack may lead to pregnancy.

Before you lose your virginity as a man or a woman, always be prepared with whatever comes with it, whether STD, pregnancy or abortion.

It’s really foolish to get pregnant by a nincompoop and act as though you do not considered that to be the result. To make it worse, you don’t even have any plans to take care of the unwanted pregnancy.

Take responsibility and stop bothering people who don’t care about you and your problems.

Two f00!s

lol

TheRealOwner:

An unfortunate simp that will be 'lucky' to have her in his life and accept her and her baby for who she is

Really unfortunate

truthsayer009:


First of all, sorry for your situation!

Is your family Well-to-do? If your answer is yes, then this is my response.

Accept that what has happened, has happened, and having a baby at this age isn't the end of your life as well. Since your family can cater for your baby, It is in your best interest to allow them do it without worrying about your absconded boyfriend. Complete your degree by probably paying your way through the final paper as Nigeria is already a useless country, so anything goes. I know It is emotionally draining, but remember that your scenario is pretty common amongst young Nigerians.

Regarding abortion, I know Nigeria is a religious country, and the Bible is against abortion, but I see it as necessary evil especially for people who are from poor backgrounds. A surgical abortion is technically proven to be safe.

Thank you! I'm not clueless on what to do? Just needed to vent it out and I think I'm much better now.
My parents are comfortable so it's not an issue.. Thank you...

TheRealOwner:

An unfortunate simp that will be 'lucky' to have her in his life and accept her and her baby for who she is

na true ooo, but and na God create this simps them nawaoo.

Khaleesi4lyf:
Thank you! I'm not clueless on what to do? Just needed to vent it out and I think I'm much better now.
My parents are comfortable so it's not an issue.. Thank you...

You're welcome, It is a common issue for people to have kids outside of wedlock. Acura impregnated Genevieve Nnaji at a tender age of 15 and fled to the US. She delivered her baby at 16. She still fulfilled her destiny. Money solves problems like this, especially if your parents aren't judgemental people or you have a sibling that cares. Imagine if Genevieve killed herself with depression, how are we going to be entertained with all those great movies she made. Shit happens, na so life be.

truthsayer009:


You're welcome, It is a common issue for people to have kids outside of wedlock. Acura impregnated Genevieve Nnaji at a tender age of 15 and fled to the US. She delivered her baby at 16. She still fulfilled her destiny. Money solves problems like this, especially if your parents aren't judgemental people or you have a sibling that cares. Imagine if Genevieve killed herself with depression, how are we going to be entertained with all those great movies she made. Shit happens, na so life be.

Thank you for your kind words...