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Yeah end the relationship since you two ain't smart enough to be in a marriage/relationship...

Here is my advise.

I don't care what is happening in your relationship. We all have our own problems.

Get your pvc and be Atikulated.

Atiku 2023

Please end it. Na bad advise i wan dey give on nairaland

dabling:
Hi,

I need advice please. My fiancé only wants to have 2 kids. But, I would like to have 4. But I'm willing to compromise to having 3. I told her that I can compromise to having 3 kids, but no way I'm just having 2. She doesn't want to budge on having just 2 kids. My question now is, should I end the relationship because of this? I don't know what to do.

You forgot to tell us how much you make .

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to tell us how much you make .

I'm very comfortable financially

dabling:
Hi,

I need advice please. My fiancé only wants to have 2 kids. But, I would like to have 4. But I'm willing to compromise to having 3. I told her that I can compromise to having 3 kids, but no way I'm just having 2. She doesn't want to budge on having just 2 kids. My question now is, should I end the relationship because of this? I don't know what to do.

Btw, I'm very very comfortable financially.

Stop all these unnecessary arguments. Shebi you would both get married, once you're married she won't deny you sex. So after 2 kids just keep releasing inside her till you get the number of kids you want.

It's not everything you must argue about.

dabling:
Hi,

I need advice please. My fiancé only wants to have 2 kids. But, I would like to have 4. But I'm willing to compromise to having 3. I told her that I can compromise to having 3 kids, but no way I'm just having 2. She doesn't want to budge on having just 2 kids. My question now is, should I end the relationship because of this? I don't know what to do.

Btw, I'm very very comfortable financially.

She is in charge and as a nice guy.. pls follow her instructions and have only one Kid..
Remember if you end the relationship you would never get another girl to love or accept to marry you again..
So do her wish.. infact reduce it to just one child so that she can preserve her body..

dabling:
I'm very comfortable financially

I asked to a figure.

Kobojunkie:
I asked to a figure.

I'm in abroad. So very comfortable. My fiancé is based in Nigeria.

OP, I don't if you see the thread of the Yoruba guy that marry from Southern Kaduna and the wife is begging her ex for money?

Issue of compatibility is being neglected in relationship. You are obviously seeing a red flag but you are asking if you should end or continue with the relationship hoping she will change when you guys married. I don't know if some guys refuse to learn other people's mistakes on purpose.

End that relationship now if you guys can't accept on the number of children you guys want to have. Next time, she will tell the number of times you should visit Nigeria.

Compatibility is the keyword and I am not seeing it in your relationship.