solmusdesigns:



Your happiness comes from yourself not from your girlfriend or others

No RIP for comrade wey commit suicide

If I happened to be the Devil, his punishment till eternity is to lockup his soul in his ex girlfriends bedroom so that his soul can watch other men fvck the hell out of his ex girlfriend without been able to talk as a dead soul


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You are hereby declared ex,present,future National leader of vawulence...

GreatVocalist:
My advice to men:

If you know you don't have what it takes to tie the knot yet with your girlfriend, and you know she's pushing and eager to get married, guy reduce that love to 20% or any point where you feel that whatever she does won't have a major effect on your mental health, because there's every chance that what happened to this guy will happen to you.

Forget the promises of “I can wait for you, I believe in you, let's grow together and create a future for each other” . Oga na because she never jam better opportunity yet. Keep loving without thinking o! When she starts misbehaving, body go tell you. She might even smile with you, making you feel you're in safe hands. When a ready man comes for her, she may not even think twice before grabbing that opportunity!

I nor say make you break up with am o. The point here is, love with sense, don't expect much from a woman who's seemingly desperate for marriage, and above all, work on yourself. Don't allow your believing in yourself depend on her believing in you. Work on yourself!

you get sense comrade

GreatVocalist:

First of all, ponder/meditate intensely on these things I've typed. Ponder on it and your mind will accept that you have a lot to lose if you keep up with whatever it is you're doing that you aren't pleased with. In many cases, if a woman notices that you're very weak emotionally and quick to show to her how much you love her, she might take you for granted and act however she wants.

Try to reduce the attention you give to her. Instead, focus more on ways to develop yourself as a man, not for her, but for yourself. I know most of the things you do, you do it because you want her to see more reasons to love you. Do away with this and start doing things for yourself. Oh no, not even yourself, but for God. Only then will you find real purpose in life.

You need to add value to your life. You'll be scarcely valued by your girlfriend if you keep focusing on her, and not building yourself. Add value to your life, to make it difficult for her to let you go.

Basically, get involved in things that would make you think less about her. The less you think about something/someone, the less attracted you get to that thing/person. Again, I'm not saying you should do away with the feelings completely and break up with her, just be in control so that in case she starts acting weird, you'll have little to nothing to lose.

Absolutely..Give what you can afford to lose .. Do is as if it's charity ...If she goes or stays nothing changes..Keep living the life

This is one of the reasons we cannot legalize the use of gun here

Smile. Imagine Nairaland organizes a get together. I trust u won't show up Sha. Cos if people like me identify u, u fit no return

Candidlady:


So you killed yourself cuz of lady anyways 72 virgins awaits you. Win win decision if you ask me.

Rather than going bout raping and causing havoc to women Ithink men should actually do this
it is in their DNA

You earn my respect
Rest in peace

GreatVocalist:

First of all, ponder/meditate intensely on these things I've typed. Ponder on it and your mind will accept that you have a lot to lose if you keep up with whatever it is you're doing that you aren't pleased with. In many cases, if a woman notices that you're very weak emotionally and quick to show to her how much you love her, she might take you for granted and act however she wants.

Try to reduce the attention you give to her. Instead, focus more on ways to develop yourself as a man, not for her, but for yourself. I know most of the things you do, you do it because you want her to see more reasons to love you. Do away with this and start doing things for yourself. Oh no, not even yourself, but for God. Only then will you find real purpose in life.

You need to add value to your life. You'll be scarcely valued by your girlfriend if you keep focusing on her, and not building yourself. Add value to your life, to make it difficult for her to let you go.

Basically, get involved in things that would make you think less about her. The less you think about something/someone, the less attracted you get to that thing/person. Again, I'm not saying you should do away with the feelings completely and break up with her, just be in control so that in case she starts acting weird, you'll have little to nothing to lose.

101. element of love reduction

Well I'm so disappointed by what he did.
Like seriously how'd he allow himself to be so deeply involved that he had to die because his girlfriend got married to someone else.

I'll be mad yes! But it won't pass a day or two and I'm back on my feet, that it is I'd be mad in the first place.

You don't know most ladies, they can be dating you and be putting eyes and feet elsewhere waiting for someone to take them to the altar.

Don't trust completely. Always have it at the back of your mind that where your race ends, another will take your place.

I dont know why nairaland ladies are always one sided.....

If it were to be a lady that commited suicide , the narrative would have been different... They will put the blame on the man for dating the woman without intending to marry her.....

But now, it is a man that committed suicide, everyone is making fun of him..... I think the best you can do is to just say RIP and not laugh at him....

Everyone has their mental limit, if you cant be depressed by an heartbreak, fine , but others are not like you ...... People's background are different

T for thanks

Idiot pissed and shít on himself struggling for life. I wonder what was going on in his weak mind in his final minutes.. She chose someone else so fûckn what? If many guys dey like me all these our girls go dey comport. I love u with everything but with all my senses brightly on and any pim I drop u like a hot plate and u will be wondering if it's the same person loving u like the early morning sun over the earth. Nonsense mugu guy.

Candidlady:


So you killed yourself cuz of lady anyways 72 virgins awaits you. Win win decision if you ask me.

Rather than going bout raping and causing havoc to women Ithink men should actually do this
it is in their DNA

You earn my respect
Rest in peace

their death no dey shake me

HantaVirus:
He did the right thing

He's in a better place now

At least,the dead have nothing to worry about

No oooo, depending on where the danfo bus drop the dead.

And we have millions of Nigeria girls who are looking for people like u..

A fool at 42

42 years old man? Maybe the lady was tired of waiting and she moved ahead to marry someone who was ready.

GreatVocalist:
My advice to men:

If you know you don't have what it takes to tie the knot yet with your girlfriend, and you know she's pushing and eager to get married, guy reduce that love to 20% or any point where you feel that whatever she does won't have a major effect on your mental health, because there's every chance that what happened to this guy will happen to you.

Forget the promises of “I can wait for you, I believe in you, let's grow together and create a future for each other” . Oga na because she never jam better opportunity yet. Keep loving without thinking o! When she starts misbehaving, body go tell you. She might even smile with you, making you feel you're in safe hands. When a ready man comes for her, she may not even think twice before grabbing that opportunity!

I nor say make you break up with am o. The point here is, love with sense, don't expect much from a woman who's seemingly desperate for marriage, and above all, work on yourself. Don't allow your believing in yourself depend on her believing in you. Work on yourself!

nice one from you

Fumbled345:
I dont know why nairaland ladies are always one sided.....

If it were to be a lady that commited suicide , the narrative would have been different... They will put the blame on the man for dating the woman without intending to marry her.....

But now, it is a man that committed suicide, everyone is making fun of him..... I think the best you can do is to just say RIP and not laugh at him....

Everyone has their mental limit, if you cant be depressed by an heartbreak, fine , but others are not like you ...... People's background are different

T for thanks

Nah. That is exactly how you people shame women that commit suicide due to lack of a partner.

In fact, if I were to follow the footsteps of guys here, I would ask the deceased why he waited until he was 42. Next time he should make hay while the sun shines, not doing shakara in his young age, rejecting suitors and forming most-wanted.

RIP to him.

Fumbled345:
I dont know why nairaland ladies are always one sided.....

If it were to be a lady that commited suicide , the narrative would have been different... They will put the blame on the man for dating the woman without intending to marry her.....

But now, it is a man that committed suicide, everyone is making fun of him..... I think the best you can do is to just say RIP and not laugh at him....

Everyone has their mental limit, if you cant be depressed by an heartbreak, fine , but others are not like you ...... People's background are different

T for thanks

The antimale in this world and pro women of this generation of Lust is something else no wonder we've not had any new Innovation since the last 50years since when the women liberation women started .....Just wait and see a thread on how a woman comited suicide because her boyfriend got married to her best friend then you would see how they lay the blame on men...
Men are this men are that even leaving out her best friend....
Such is what I have noticed......Most men have been manipulated to competite for a abundant resource called women....Thinking they are going to get a prize for it in later years but unfortunately no prize for getting a woman ......

Aboki no levelAboki no levelAboki no level

Very unnecessary, there are many other beautiful women out there. Even more beautiful than the one that left.

A person with with purpose no go try this gibberish. That's why is pertinent to discover your purpose in this life. Moreover, its a known fact that women marry who is ready. know this and know peace.

Your second paragraph Tho.

Candidlady:


So you killed yourself cuz of lady anyways 72 virgins awaits you. Win win decision if you ask me.

Rather than going bout raping and causing havoc to women Ithink men should actually do this
it is in their DNA

You earn my respect
Rest in peace

A fool at 40

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Fedrick100:


I don’t even know how to reduce love,i have tried reducing the love i have for my girlfriend but it’s not working

Tell me how i fit reduce the love

get another girl make u de knack..take am serious small like say na ur second choice

SIMPle men association should mourn the departure of one of their beloved

Get rich or die trying

Don turn...

Get girlfriend or die trying

And someone will still say their is no true love.
Rest on, you are a strong man.

Rest in perfect peace man.

A whole 42year-old man, a full adult, still talking about girlfriend instead of a wife.

Aklee4994:
Get rich or die trying

Don turn...

Get girlfriend or die trying

I taya o!!

Candidlady:


So you killed yourself cuz of lady anyways 72 virgins awaits you. Win win decision if you ask me.

Rather than going bout raping and causing havoc to women Ithink men should actually do this
it is in their DNA

You earn my respect
Rest in peace

No 72 virgins anywhere... Committing suicide is not good Islamically

GreatVocalist:
My advice to men:

If you know you don't have what it takes to tie the knot yet with your girlfriend, and you know she's pushing and eager to get married, guy reduce that love to 20% or any point where you feel that whatever she does won't have a major effect on your mental health, because there's every chance that what happened to this guy will happen to you.

Forget the promises of “I can wait for you, I believe in you, let's grow together and create a future for each other” . Oga na because she never jam better opportunity yet. Keep loving without thinking o! When she starts misbehaving, body go tell you. She might even smile with you, making you feel you're in safe hands. When a ready man comes for her, she may not even think twice before grabbing that opportunity!

I nor say make you break up with am o. The point here is, love with sense, don't expect much from a woman who's seemingly desperate for marriage, and above all, work on yourself. Don't allow your believing in yourself depend on her believing in you. Work on yourself!

you just spoke to me directly, my girlfriend that we have been together for four years now is getting married to another person, I felt my whole life is crushing, i haven't eaten food since yesterday cos of heart break, this is the first and only girlfriend I have ever had in my life. I pray I heal from this heart break fast