This issue of made ladies or ladies with higher income not being able to manage their homes is prevalent almost everywhere.
Not even in Nigeria alone.

1. Case study 1:

My cousin: she is well to do (so to say) about 1.4 million NGN monthly.

At some point, she said she was not built for marriage. Citing having to rush home to cook for husband, answerable to him and all.

Finally, at 33 or so, she got married.

They husband was on 600k/per month.

She wasn't cooking at least for the guy. She was against hiring of maid. She practically was doing nothing.

Only to bath herself, go for spar and all.

She was all about ordering food from vendors.

They will cook and supply different pot of soups and all and she will dump them in freezers.

Husband will always have to defrost and microwave before he eats.

She will shout at the guy and wasn't submissive in any way.

Husband got tired and sued for divorce and that was it.

She's just living life as she pleases now.

2. Case study 2:

My Aunt: She earns almost 4 million per month. Well paid and other allowances.

She's all about shouting at people and all.

Always trying to be the alpha.

Always travelling to countries of choice for vacation.

Had series of divorces.

Last one, husband in the abroad got tired.

Got involved with a cool headed oyibo lady.

They are living happily.

She's living alone at 58 and always complaining about everything.

3. Case study 3.

My Boss' wife:

Lady's got her own money. Cool business.

But she's got very terrible character.

Very foul.

Shouts and talk down on every of her domestic staff.

Shouts and talk down on Boss himself.

She's nearly impossible.

Oga decided to find peace and solace in the arm of a younger lady to whom he will flee whenever his wife start
to unleash dragon fire.

Truth is, it takes the grace of God to find a peaceful rich woman who will be a "WIFE" to her husband.

There are good ones out there, but very rare to come by.

Hmm

54321......

What kind of mentalities are these

Cutehector:
What kind of mentalities are these

Reality.

.

Daughters of eve no go fit amaze me again.
Op, what u wrote is actually nothing but d raw truth. Even d ones that aren't contributing anything are so toxic in their homes.
A man will feed d family for d rest of his life but a day feeding from d wife, d whole world would definitely hear it that d wife fed d family. And when u ask, they next thing u will hear is that women are weird that way.
D best thing in dis whole thing is just get one pregnant and settle her then live your life to d fullest.

Balderdash! Granted that the women in your family and those close to you in general are from weak ethical leanings, citing your submission, but they are not standard - you don't have to agree with me. Some of us have always seen and had the best of them. Of course, perfection is out of the equation, something that hypocrites do expect from others, forgetting that it is an exclusive preserve of the creator of the universe.

There are women from strong ethical leanings who, whether successful materially or not, are embodiments of diligence and peacefully relatable with self-conquered men. In fact, even the termagants you said full your family, they are still malleable with the right potions.

A woman, regardless of her stratum and ethical leanings, is always easily malleable if, as a man, you know your way around life.

MisterGrace:
Reality.

Reality of what?

RealGandalf:
This issue of made ladies or ladies with higher income not being able to manage their homes is prevalent almost everywhere.
Not even in Nigeria alone.

1. Case study 1:

My cousin: she is well to do (so to say) about 1.4 million NGN monthly.

At some point, she said she was not built for marriage. Citing having to rush home to cook for husband, answerable to him and all.

Finally, at 33 or so, she got married.

They husband was on 600k/per month.

She wasn't cooking at least for the guy. She was against hiring of maid. She practically was doing nothing.

Only to bath herself, go for spar and all.

She was all about ordering food from vendors.

They will cook and supply different pot of soups and all and she will dump them in freezers.

Husband will always have to defrost and microwave before he eats.

She will shout at the guy and wasn't submissive in any way.

Husband got tired and sued for divorce and that was it.

She's just living life as she pleases now.

2. Case study 2:

My Aunt: She earns almost 4 million per month. Well paid and other allowances.

She's all about shouting at people and all.

Always trying to be the alpha.

Always travelling to countries of choice for vacation.

Had series of divorces.

Last one, husband in the abroad got tired.

Got involved with a cool headed oyibo lady.

They are living happily.

She's living alone at 58 and always complaining about everything.

3. Case study 3.

My Boss' wife:

Lady's got her own money. Cool business.

But she's got very terrible character.

Very foul.

Shouts and talk down on every of her domestic staff.

Shouts and talk down on Boss himself.

She's nearly impossible.

Oga decided to find peace and solace in the arm of a younger lady to whom he will flee whenever his wife start
to unleash dragon fire.

Truth is, it takes the grace of God to find a peaceful rich woman who will be a "WIFE" to her husband.

There are good ones out there, but very rare to come by.

Money only enables the bad character of some people. Money is not the cause of their bad personalities.

RightToReject:
Balderdash! Granted that the women in your family and those close to you in general are from weak ethical leanings, citing your submission, but they are not standard - you don't have to agree with me. Some of us have always seen and had the best of them. Of course, perfection is out of the equation, something that hypocrites do expect from others, forgetting that it is an exclusive preserve of the creator of the universe.

There are women from strong ethical leanings who, whether successful materially or not, are embodiments of diligence and peacefully relatable with self-conquered men. In fact, even the termagants you said full your family, they are still malleable with the right potions.

A woman, regardless of her stratum and ethical leanings, is always easily malleable if, as a man, you know your way around life.

Did you see this line

There are good ones out there, but very rare to come by.

Or you just wanted to type and book space?

This is happen mostly when one is controlled by money

No Woman can practically handle being rich, fame and stress..... except with mutually arrangement control or supervision of a male. Could be the father, brother, husband or friend.



They usually overburdened with the responsibility to routinely keep up hence, They lashes out at anything and everything.....even something irrespective whether harmless or harmful

Money, sex and power are three things that can ruin a person’s life when it’s not being controlled, it’s not a gender thing.
For many years, women have been deprived of the opportunity to be independent and now that they’re beginning to taste what it’s like, it’s quite normal for some to get carried away (think of a child that tasted chocolate for the first time)

But,

Some men are constantly letting these things control them even though they’ve been exposed to it for a long time yet the society over looks it… that’s double standards.

In summary, there’s nothing wrong with being with a rich and powerful woman, it all depends on her character and values.
Only insecure men will avoid rich women.

RealGandalf:
This issue of made ladies or ladies with higher income not being able to manage their homes is prevalent almost everywhere.
Not even in Nigeria alone.

1. Case study 1:

My cousin: she is well to do (so to say) about 1.4 million NGN monthly.

At some point, she said she was not built for marriage. Citing having to rush home to cook for husband, answerable to him and all.

Finally, at 33 or so, she got married.

They husband was on 600k/per month.

She wasn't cooking at least for the guy. She was against hiring of maid. She practically was doing nothing.

Only to bath herself, go for spar and all.

She was all about ordering food from vendors.

They will cook and supply different pot of soups and all and she will dump them in freezers.

Husband will always have to defrost and microwave before he eats.

She will shout at the guy and wasn't submissive in any way.

Husband got tired and sued for divorce and that was it.

She's just living life as she pleases now.

2. Case study 2:

My Aunt: She earns almost 4 million per month. Well paid and other allowances.

She's all about shouting at people and all.

Always trying to be the alpha.

Always travelling to countries of choice for vacation.

Had series of divorces.

Last one, husband in the abroad got tired.

Got involved with a cool headed oyibo lady.

They are living happily.

She's living alone at 58 and always complaining about everything.

3. Case study 3.

My Boss' wife:

Lady's got her own money. Cool business.

But she's got very terrible character.

Very foul.

Shouts and talk down on every of her domestic staff.

Shouts and talk down on Boss himself.

She's nearly impossible.

Oga decided to find peace and solace in the arm of a younger lady to whom he will flee whenever his wife start
to unleash dragon fire.

Truth is, it takes the grace of God to find a peaceful rich woman who will be a "WIFE" to her husband.

There are good ones out there, but very rare to come by.

nothing new here the funny thing is that you only see character on women but the truth is that men having doing that for years

those women are just showing characters thats usaully displayed by men to their women

The female gender will always try to prove a point that they can also be the head and hence can go to any point possible to prove their point, some end up going extreme
Well I believe that it is not gender based but everyone has that tendency just that it is seemed as normal wen it comes from the male and since they have no point to prove that they are the head

RealGandalf:
This issue of made ladies or ladies with higher income not being able to manage their homes is prevalent almost everywhere.
Not even in Nigeria alone.

1. Case study 1:

My cousin: she is well to do (so to say) about 1.4 million NGN monthly.

At some point, she said she was not built for marriage. Citing having to rush home to cook for husband, answerable to him and all.

Finally, at 33 or so, she got married.

They husband was on 600k/per month.

She wasn't cooking at least for the guy. She was against hiring of maid. She practically was doing nothing.

Only to bath herself, go for spar and all.

She was all about ordering food from vendors.

They will cook and supply different pot of soups and all and she will dump them in freezers.

Husband will always have to defrost and microwave before he eats.

She will shout at the guy and wasn't submissive in any way.

Husband got tired and sued for divorce and that was it.

She's just living life as she pleases now.

2. Case study 2:

My Aunt: She earns almost 4 million per month. Well paid and other allowances.

She's all about shouting at people and all.

Always trying to be the alpha.

Always travelling to countries of choice for vacation.

Had series of divorces.

Last one, husband in the abroad got tired.

Got involved with a cool headed oyibo lady.

They are living happily.

She's living alone at 58 and always complaining about everything.

3. Case study 3.

My Boss' wife:

Lady's got her own money. Cool business.

But she's got very terrible character.

Very foul.

Shouts and talk down on every of her domestic staff.

Shouts and talk down on Boss himself.

She's nearly impossible.

Oga decided to find peace and solace in the arm of a younger lady to whom he will flee whenever his wife start
to unleash dragon fire.

Truth is, it takes the grace of God to find a peaceful rich woman who will be a "WIFE" to her husband.

There are good ones out there, but very rare to come by.

If you like marry poor woman, na your papa sabi....pressure go kill you lass lass....it take a strong man to marry a strong woman, if your weak go and marry broke ass students....Alakija husband sha no dey richest men list and she's she's richest woman in Nigeria....

missimelda01:
Money, sex and power are three things that can ruin a person’s life when it’s not being controlled, it’s not a gender thing.
For many years, women have been deprived of the opportunity to be independent and now that they’re beginning to taste what it’s like, it’s quite normal for some to get carried away (think of a child that tasted chocolate for the first time)

But,

Some men are constantly letting these things control them even though they’ve been exposed to it for a long time yet the society over looks it… that’s double standards.

In summary, there’s nothing wrong with being with a rich and powerful woman, it all depends on her character and values.
Only insecure men will avoid rich women.

I just knew with all the plenty talk, you will end with guilt-tripping mehn..


Only insecure men will avoid rich women

JBriel:



I just knew with all the plenty talk, you will end with guilt-tripping mehn..


Only insecure men will avoid rich women

That's how you choose to see it

Lol, smh.

No wahala. Just ensure that all the women in your family are not 'made'.

I am sure you wish they all get married.

When I dey talk am ,una dey say I dey craze or I'm not modern.
Na experience with a lot of them make me kill that idea.
I need space,I want freedom....na their mantra.
One tell me say she's a full grown woman and i should not restrict her movements or tell her what to do,
That she is free to go to any country of her choice for vacation and if I'm not coming she'll still go,
Or I can't hold her from having girls night out with her friends if they come town(clubbing sef follow),she say make she make those points clear before marriage.
Funny thing is I'm way more richer than this person,the gap is so obvious.
Sometimes when she starts to cap,dey form levels,i go remind am say I be odogwu, she go stay quiet.
Now imagine if she was richer?Suicide!
Anything independent woman,my hand no dey.
When I ready to marry,I will look for a 22 year old out of university girl,if she must work,there's plenty of room in my business.
Carry your so called independence go meet men weh no fit hustle,no carry am come hustler side.
You can date them, have casual fun with them but try not to marry them for your sanity's sake and to prevent yourself from emasculation and emotional/verbal torture.
There may be good,submissive ones out there but very few and they'll pretend a lot,it takes a very smart man to see beyond their smoke screen.

Lol. This thing pain una well well sha. I can't stop laughing.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. This thing pain una well well sha. I can't stop laughing.

Off your mic

SeaTrade:
When I dey talk am ,una dey say I dey craze or I'm not modern.
Na experience with a lot of them make me kill that idea.
I need space,I want freedom....na their mantra.
One tell me say she's a full grown woman and i should not restrict her movements or tell her what to do,
That she is free to go to any country of her choice for vacation and if I'm not coming she'll still go,
Or I can't hold her from having girls night out with her friends if they come town(clubbing sef follow),she say make she make those points clear before marriage.
Funny thing is I'm way more richer than this person,the gap is so obvious.
Sometimes when she starts to cap,dey form levels,i go remind am say I be odogwu, she go stay quiet.
Now imagine if she was richer?Suicide!
Anything independent woman,my hand no dey.
When I ready to marry,I will look for a 22 year old out of university girl,if she must work,there's plenty of room in my business.
Carry your so called independence go meet men weh no fit hustle,no carry am come hustler side.
You can date them, have casual fun with them but try not to marry them for your sanity's sake and to prevent yourself from emasculation and emotional/verbal torture.
There may be good,submissive ones out there but very few and they'll pretend a lot,it takes a very smart man to see beyond their smoke screen.

My dear comrade, you have said it all :


Anything independent woman,my hand no dey.



Carry your so called independence go meet men weh no fit hustle,no carry am come hustler side.



You can date them, have casual fun with them but try not to marry them for your sanity's sake and to prevent yourself from emasculation and emotional/verbal torture



There may be good,submissive ones out there but very few and they'll pretend a lot,it takes a very smart man to see beyond their smoke screen.

Omo na wa o, you can never please men.
You work and earn a living for yourself - problem

You decide to depend on them- double wahala

...

SeaTrade:
When I dey talk am ,una dey say I dey craze or I'm not modern.
Na experience with a lot of them make me kill that idea.
I need space,I want freedom....na their mantra.
One tell me say she's a full grown woman and i should not restrict her movements or tell her what to do,
That she is free to go to any country of her choice for vacation and if I'm not coming she'll still go,
Or I can't hold her from having girls night out with her friends if they come town(clubbing sef follow),she say make she make those points clear before marriage.
Funny thing is I'm way more richer than this person,the gap is so obvious.
Sometimes when she starts to cap,dey form levels,i go remind am say I be odogwu, she go stay quiet.
Now imagine if she was richer?Suicide!
Anything independent woman,my hand no dey.
When I ready to marry,I will look for a 22 year old out of university girl,if she must work,there's plenty of room in my business.
Carry your so called independence go meet men weh no fit hustle,no carry am come hustler side.
You can date them, have casual fun with them but try not to marry them for your sanity's sake and to prevent yourself from emasculation and emotional/verbal torture.
There may be good,submissive ones out there but very few and they'll pretend a lot,it takes a very smart man to see beyond their smoke screen.

You seem to know a lot of "bad" made ladies. Some of us know good made ones. For every bad one you mention, there is a good one.

If you want to marry a made lady just make sure you re manipulative. Know when to use a mix of vawulence and persuasion to get what you want. Women love unpredictable men.

Duchessree:
Omo na wa o, you can never please men.
You work and earn a living for yourself - problem

You decide to depend on them- double wahala

My ex-wife said she didn't like our former apartment because she often fought with neighbors and said we must leave the place. I told her that we had 5 months left and that I had not gathered money for a new house rent. She said she would find the money.

She paid for the new apartment. There was a day I used a spiritual perfume on myself. She asked when did I start using perfume and which kind of perfume it was. I told her it was for prayer. She flared up and said I must find a new apartment where using prayer perfume would be tolerated. I left her forever.