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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by GOATandYAMtheory: 5:59pm On Jul 04, 2022

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

mumu pikin..you sef go turn father someday na..you go tell us weda e easy..

If the man is feeding you and paying your school fees, thank God..and be grateful..

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by JoyousFurnitire(m): 6:03pm On Jul 04, 2022

PortHarcourtcit:
a 19yr old studying medicine? Ahh if you are graduate you can not say this...

He could be an !d!ot undecided

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by juman(m): 6:45pm On Jul 04, 2022

Studying medicine while you have no money.
Its hard task.
Maybe your state government help medicine students (bursary), try to ask around.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Failure44(op): 6:56pm On Jul 04, 2022

h0pze3:
How much does you owe loan app

Lemme compare

12k on palmpay
Also owing jumia loan 18k.

So 30k in total.

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MIRACULOUS123(m): 7:04pm On Jul 04, 2022

VeryWickedMan:
Your father made a grave mistake not lighting the matches

Comrade calm down e never reach this

Try dey show pity nah grin

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by A100Steps: 7:11pm On Jul 04, 2022

Sounds like you're suffering, unfortunately you'd continue suffering until you realize that you're the only person who can do anything about your suffering.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by GboyegaD(m): 7:38pm On Jul 04, 2022

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Learn to live within your means.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Ola5TP: 7:51pm On Jul 04, 2022

First of all, i want u to understand that this life aint balance. U have pains today but why dont u wait for God to turn the table around in ur favor. He knows ur pains, he knows how to work things out for u. Remember that the rejected stone later turn out to be the important corner stone. And who laugh last laugh the best. Never take revenge by ur self. Take note of THAT. ..Peace..

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by CHoccolaTE: 8:05pm On Jul 04, 2022

So many future dead beat dads in the comment section. See them defending Op's fathers behavior.

There is no justification for abandoning your 19yr old child to fend for himself when you earn half a million. I don't know how some Nigerian men reason. That's just wickedness, especially when you know he is studying a course like medicine that hardly gives time for side hustle.

If you know you can't cater for kids then don't give birth. Simple.

But Nigerian men will always defend each other even in evil doing. One person is already looking for how to shift the blame to his mother sef.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by blingxx(m): 8:14pm On Jul 04, 2022

Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle

At 19yr you say ? How old where you when you left your father's house ? In this same country where everything is fvcking hard ,the youths are doomed to fail already ... angry

May your children reason this way brrrh .. tbh wtf are you even saying undecided

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Cypress042: 8:19pm On Jul 04, 2022

blingxx:
At 19yr you say ? How old where you when you left your father's house ? In this same country where everything is fvcking hard ,the youths are doomed to fail already ... May your children reason this way brrrh .. tbh wtf are you even saying

Is my opinion and you can't do sh*t, get that clear sad

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by lulufaj(m): 8:24pm On Jul 04, 2022

My dear brother,

Here is my unsolicited advice. Yes He is your father and no matter what he does(Which I condem) but dont you think you are abit entitled? Dont you think placing all the faults on your dad is wrong and you also need to take responsibility for your life? It appears your motivation is what others are doing: buying cars and phones. If you find yourself in his shoes,dont you think you will do the very same thing but perhaps in a different way?

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by blingxx(m): 8:24pm On Jul 04, 2022

Cypress042:
Is my opinion and you can't do sh*t, get that clear

You still haven't answered my question ..how old where you when you left your father's house ?

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Cypress042: 8:29pm On Jul 04, 2022

blingxx:
You still haven't answered my question ..how old where you when you left your father's house ?

And how's my personal life your problem ?

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Truvelisback(m): 8:29pm On Jul 04, 2022

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Cravemore: 8:32pm On Jul 04, 2022

Raspberries:
Bad advice... Africans are damaged thanks to this mentality...

You mustn't suffer to be responsible... Compare yourselves to your mates in the West...

Your independence was borne out of a need to survive... Your father messed you up... Cause his father treated him bad, he did the same to you? And you think that's normal?

Children should grow in a home with supportive parents who help them transition into adulthood... Not abandon them...

And the op mustn't reconcile with his father... If someone doesn't love you enough, then you let them go...

A father who watches his children suffer is irresponsible... There's no excuse or reason for his selfish actions...

Mr, what DAT guy said was right. If someone doesn't care for you, then what you gonna do? Offcourse you no Go sit down dey look Uche face. you can make a way yourself. On my own opinion,
okay, now he's 19 years Old of age and Still looking for a support. Is he a Baby? For yankee, @16 yo. done run enter street. Ok.
what of those that came to life and didn't see there parents, them no even see de faces of who born dem talkless of there siblings, Did they not made it in life. haven't you seen it? If you haven't, i have friends that made it without anyone close to dem dey can call family. If not friends and people wey help dem. So dats the best advice e can get there. He should Go n hustle in the street. Though I done talk am before say %99 percent of our fathers are wicked. But this sh*t go motivate you, and make you stand up on your feet. Sometimes all this things comes from our father minds, cuz dey want us to be ginger and man up. So forget story.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Cravemore: 8:33pm On Jul 04, 2022

Fashdeejay:
No matter what your father does, you are a product of his sperm upgraded. Focus the energy you are using to hate to become better than he is.... I do not support any father no being a good father but you'll realize more when you are old enough, you'll understand the reason why he is like this.... My dad once said to me and I quote him 'my father didnt do it for me, so why should I do it for you?' .... I became independent from my early teens, working and hustling, my mom tried her best and supported me with prayers.... But one thing I did was take care of them both.... Irrespective of the pain my dad put me through, I spent on him well before he died and he was appreciative of it. Don't be like your father.... Let the hate dissipate and love him irrespective and instead of burning all that energy hating, channel it into making your own greatness ..... The true victory in such battles is when you show him you are better by having him learn from you... Sometimes na bad situation dey jingah growth....

Good one

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:33pm On Jul 04, 2022

Op you better grow up. You are not the only one from a broken home. You even have your mom some don't have their mom. You can't blame your father for your failure. He may have failed you but you seem to have failed yourself and your mom and ylmaune your future kids.
You better grow up and get your life together. Stop looking at how much your dad earns and hoping to punish him at old age. What if he dies before old age, or what if you to yourself die before him. Or because you think he's your father he must grow old to need your help at old age and you have to live to punish him at old age?
As it stands now you are on your one and you owe yourself some peace. You can't have that peace when all you think about is how to revenge your dad.
You are not a baby. Sit up and get a life for yourself.
If you like abuse me but I have told you what you need to know.
Live as though you had no father and you will see how things will start working for you.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by anataala: 8:33pm On Jul 04, 2022

It’s you that would suffer certainty not your father. You need your parents more than they need you. Repent before it’s too late.

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Chisaedhor: 8:34pm On Jul 04, 2022

We will.makemsuffer Tinubu suffer 2023 loss

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Elidrisy20: 8:35pm On Jul 04, 2022

This your father,is he an ipob member?

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Kutunban: 8:35pm On Jul 04, 2022

Entitlement

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Nyanabo(m): 8:35pm On Jul 04, 2022

This mindset won't help you bro. I had this same resolve 2018-2021. I planned on making my dad suffer. But God had other plans and took him early 2021, And I miss him. I could give everything to have him back... I discovered I 2as wrong even though he wronged me.

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:36pm On Jul 04, 2022

Cravemore:
Mr, what DAT guy said was right. If someone doesn't care for you, then what you gonna do? Offcourse you no Go sit down dey look Uche face. you can make a way yourself. On my own opinion,
okay, now he's 19 years Old of age and Still looking for a support. Is he a Baby? For yankee, @16 yo. done run enter street. Ok.
what of those that came to life and didn't see there parents, them no even see de faces of who born dem talkless of there siblings, Did they not made it in life. haven't you seen it? If you haven't, i have friends that made it without anyone close to dem dey can call family. If not friends and people wey help dem. So dats the best advice e can get there. He should Go n hustle in the street. Though I done talk am before say %99 percent of our fathers are wicked. But this sh*t go motivate you, and make you stand up on your feet. Sometimes all this things comes from our father minds, cuz dey want us to be ginger and man up. So forget story.

Don't mind him. Let him sit there and be lamenting as if his father cut off his hands. Does he think everyone out there making it had their parents by their side?

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by michoim(m): 8:37pm On Jul 04, 2022

Who sponsored you to that school you mentioned?...

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by oyeb15: 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2022

Trauma in ones early life usually ignite greatness.

Everything is for a purpose. You will even thank your father in future.

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by dominique(mod): 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2022

VeryWickedMan:
Leave story & answer the question
You have such a great mom & you are still borrowing from loan apps but only your Dad is the problem.

If she was earning what the father is earning, he wouldn't be in this situation. You guys must always look for an angle to shift the blame of your failure in parenting on the mother, it's not going to fly this time so REST!

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by PROPEACE: 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2022

VeryWickedMan:
Leave story & answer the question
You have such a great mom & you are still borrowing from loan apps but only your Dad is the problem.

Million dollar question! Failure44, don't be surprised, your dad may be a better father than you'd be!

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by checkoutEnugu: 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2022

Failure44:
I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

My own is already forgotten.

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by NGArmyTerrorist: 8:38pm On Jul 04, 2022

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Na so Timaya and Phyno take warn husspupy but him no gree but today, he is locked up and Timaya and Phyno are enjoying themselves! Internet man, change your mindset, no go do pass yourself before your engine go knock! I won't say more.. What am i saying "no go put your hands for evil things " call your family members and let them know what's up! But your dad is something else ooh! Nawaooo!

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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Qwerty4u(m): 8:39pm On Jul 04, 2022

VeryWickedMan:
How about your Mom?

You are really Avery Wickeded man in A very good way....

Been following your comments.. oil of wisdom dey ya head by the way just dey drop words philosophically....

Where is his your mum man. Gbam question

Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ZUBY77(m): 8:39pm On Jul 04, 2022

Make sure you don't die before him. As it is, it seems he is better than you. Anuofia

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