Sometimes we all need assistance in order to meet a need. That need could be employment, school fees, house rent, capital for new investments, clothes, food, shelter, etc. I have been there!
As a man, please understand that sometimes ladies could come to you for financial assistance and it's not out of place. However, what is out of place is you demanding sex in return.
Nobody is ever under any obligation to assist another person. If you can't help without demanding sex, please forget about it. There are many guys who have had sex with ladies they assisted. What a shame!

On many occasions, I have encountered ladies who needed assistance from me. Many years ago, a lady needed just an "ordinary N200" and she entered my little apartment then dressed in a way that suggested that if her words can't get it from me, her sexy body will. But she was mistaken as I assisted her without demanding anything in return. That's the way of gentlemen.

Gentlemen don't demand sex in return when ladies approach them for financial assistance. Aside from being a child of God, another thing that helped me as a single man then was my conscience. I was always putting my sisters in the shoes of those needy ladies. I was always asking myself: "What if this was my sister asking for assistance from a man?". I couldn't just imagine my own sisters being taken advantage of by some randy men. Sex should be a consensual thing, not coercion. Remember, pre-marital sex is SIN.

Men who take advantage of ladies in need are cowards, selfish and insensitive. Instead of taking advantage of that lady why can't you let her go? If you don't assist you are not committing any crime. But when you take advantage of a needy lady sexually, you have no conscience and God won't be happy with you.

Just yesterday, after I had made my previous post on this very conversation, a young beautiful lady approached me financially. I couldn't help her and I informed her. She understood the reasons I cited and she thanked me and left. Needy ladies are most times at their most vulnerable times. Sometimes even without a man demanding sex, they're willing to offer it because of desperation. But please gentlemen, resist the temptation and decline that immoral offer. The lady I narrated in my post yesterday took off her top. She had a sexy body that was very tempting but I decided not to do it. Before she left, her respect for me increased. There are many guys out there who would assist ladies without demanding sex in return. Please be one of such men!
I hope you have heard me very clearly!

The life of a woman is very very difficult... but don't also forget that some of these women knowing they don't have any other way of saying thank you, present themselves so cheaply to the man as a way of saying thank yo for any assistance

Hmmm...

Not clearly.

Men who take advantage of women in need are sex starved predators... Every opportunity to have sex, they take it... Reason most urinate in public, exposing themselves... You should go to the 'ashawo' thread in the sexuality section... Disappointing...

And women who lied to collect money from men are .....

Ejix4:
women also use and dump men okay

Did you read the op's post?

Datboredberri:
Did you read the op's post?

as at that time, i didn't but now, i have...

What about women who takes advantage of konji or any other pressing need to exploit menfolks?

@Loveudie, what do you have to say to that?

All Good For The Two....

Both are foolish not coward
And why would you think women who sells themselves for goodies are victim

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LoveUdie:
Sometimes we all need assistance in order to meet a need. That need could be employment, school fees, house rent, capital for new investments, clothes, food, shelter, etc. I have been there!
As a man, please understand that sometimes ladies could come to you for financial assistance and it's not out of place. However, what is out of place is you demanding sex in return.
Nobody is ever under any obligation to assist another person. If you can't help without demanding sex, please forget about it. There are many guys who have had sex with ladies they assisted. What a shame!

On many occasions, I have encountered ladies who needed assistance from me. Many years ago, a lady needed just an "ordinary N200" and she entered my little apartment then dressed in a way that suggested that if her words can't get it from me, her sexy body will. But she was mistaken as I assisted her without demanding anything in return. That's the way of gentlemen.

Gentlemen don't demand sex in return when ladies approach them for financial assistance. Aside from being a child of God, another thing that helped me as a single man then was my conscience. I was always putting my sisters in the shoes of those needy ladies. I was always asking myself: "What if this was my sister asking for assistance from a man?". I couldn't just imagine my own sisters being taken advantage of by some randy men. Sex should be a consensual thing, not coercion. Remember, pre-marital sex is SIN.

Men who take advantage of ladies in need are cowards, selfish and insensitive. Instead of taking advantage of that lady why can't you let her go? If you don't assist you are not committing any crime. But when you take advantage of a needy lady sexually, you have no conscience and God won't be happy with you.

Just yesterday, after I had made my previous post on this very conversation, a young beautiful lady approached me financially. I couldn't help her and I informed her. She understood the reasons I cited and she thanked me and left. Needy ladies are most times at their most vulnerable times. Sometimes even without a man demanding sex, they're willing to offer it because of desperation. But please gentlemen, resist the temptation and decline that immoral offer. The lady I narrated in my post yesterday took off her top. She had a sexy body that was very tempting but I decided not to do it. Before she left, her respect for me increased. There are many guys out there who would assist ladies without demanding sex in return. Please be one of such men!
I hope you have heard me very clearly!

What is all this nonsense bayi?

Are you mæd?
You made it seem as if the men forced them into sex or something? You clearly had no issue with the girls offering sex for favours but had issues with the men taking such offers? That's not cool.

If the life of a woman is difficult, do you know how very difficult that of a man is? Who even cares if a man works or eats or dies or whatever? So if a man says I can't help you but the woman offers her body and the man accepts, then the man is bad? You forget, no one is entitled to give you anything for free. People both men and women can help you freely and others won't, so it's left to you to either accept or reject their offer.

Yes, you put these needy women in the places of your sister and wanted to help. You declined their sexual offers and helped them anyways and kudos to you. I have had experiences like yours. But these women offered sex in the first place and while I or you, might not be cool with it, other men have no issues accepting such offers in return for money or help, as long as these women are not forced or raped. And they haven't done anything to go to jail for.

So get off your high moral horse and smell the coffee.

What about the ones that love free things, are they strong?

I hope say no be female wey type this thing

One thing I understand is this, once a man helps a woman in need with money and collect sex in return den it's not HELP it's now give and take. So in the future when u see such lady u can't really boast that u helped her cux she will remind u that she paid u in KIND. That's just it.