Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

Keep up with your work and hope.Keep the faith and keep pushing.
There are your mates who are in worse positions,some even dealing with health issues.

Forget about your ignorant classmate. You are making an honest living, and that's all that matters. At 32, you have your whole life ahead of you. Life can and does change in the twinkling of an eye. Continue working hard, trust God, make positive declarations and most importantly, hold hands with your wife and pray. God is faithful and He will bless you.

Your classmate is ignorant.

Life isn’t balanced. Ignore that your friend and stay focused on the grind.

Remember: The plan is to get your fam out of trenches. Don’t give up.

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

Do you know the source of his wealth? No..
Is he your destiny helper? No
Is he feeding your two beautiful boys? No
In all, does he have any relevance in your life? No..
So why are u bothered...
See my brother, any body that can't add value to your life..is not worth thinking about...cool down.., the Lord will answer you..you know as your boys go dey tug at your shirt disturbing you for sweet or ice cream...na so you gas dey worry God by constantly and consistently praising him...he go answer you..trust me..
No look that your guy o...cos you can't vouch for source of his wealth...good luck....I'll keep this thread to check up on you...e get why

Chin-up! You came this far and don’t let peoples’ perception of your life affect you. Remember you’ve got your family to look out for. Life isn’t exactly a rat race ( I’d implore you to see life through this prism). Don’t compare yourself to others. Set a goal for yourself and work hard to achieve them. There’s a Yoruba adage that says, “ Ebi o e pa igun dale” ( Vulture no de stay hungry till night - food must to come hin way!).

I know this is easier said than done but calm down and count your blessings no matter how much you want to trivialize them. Be grateful for life and your family. And most importantly, keep working hard.

Feel free to quote me whenever you need someone to talk to.

Be strong and courageous. Focus on your hustle and ignore such persons. You have a great future ahead. Cheer up

⏩Life is in stages...


At least you are married and have
2 lovely boys..☑️☑️☑️

Many well to do people marry & for
years, no children. Others marry and
they have 6 girls and looking for boys
upandan.

One day, your levels go change
for the better..

Peace✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

why the rush to birth kids inside poverty .Africans Dem swear for una ? U could be more creative repackage you CV as a logistic officer and Target the like of red Starr,Ups and DHL . Open side business like POS etc

Munamoqel:
why the rush to birth kids inside poverty .Africans Dem swear for una ? U could be more creative repackage you CV as a logistic officer and Target the like of red Starr,Ups and DHL . Open side business like POS etc

Some of you are just ignorant about life.. "No die no die.. No time wey no die no go die o"

You're not trying at all, just cuz your friend acted as if he doesn't know you and you want to take your life... Who'll you leave your kids for? Bro as far as you still have God up there everything is still intact....BELIEVE

Thunder fire You
After giving birth to two kids and I can bet your wife is already pregnant again. You want to commit suicide and keep expanding poverty in our society?

Bro such is life! keep pushing one day is is one day.

Munamoqel:
why the rush to birth kids inside poverty .Africans Dem swear for una ? U could be more creative repackage you CV as a logistic officer and Target the like of red Starr,Ups and DHL . Open side business like POS etc

Does it means that things are hard and he will not have family of his own? What if he gets to 45 and things remain where it is, is that the time to start family? Things are hard generally, everyone should know their limit and not biting more than they can chew.

Blueace247:


Some of you are just ignorant about life.. "No die no die.. No time wey no die no go die o"

this are the reasons Africans are a the bottom are always poor .na only procreation proceation inside poverty .wife libilty , twins libilty age 32 year .what the rush for .to further crowd ajegunle or to live and raised kid in shanties

I understand how you feel but that experience of your classmate ignoring you should motivate and drive you to work harder and pray harder that God should bless all your efforts.

Use your bad experience to work for you instead of breaking you.all the best

Why you run go marry bro when you could barely feed yourself

As a maid you are not comfortable enough to feed four mouths I don’t think you have a business in marriage, pikin no Dey finish for heaven’, don’t bring poor innocent kids into your misery, that’s unfair to them

gbaskiboy:
Does it means that things are hard and he will not have family of his own? What if he gets to 45 and things remain where it is, is that the time to start family? Things are hard generally, everyone should know their limit and not biting more than they can chew.

Africans and mumu .the time to start family is when you fianacial bouyant enough by you standard and aspirations .family is a capital intensive venture that need finance .it not age thing .@ 32 with a degree he should be thinking how to have additional survival skills ,learn a new trade to upgrade his living conditions instead of adding more burden and misery .what the rush to cramp in ajegunle ,badia etc and kids will attend dead end school ? Africans need reorientation like the Chinese .

Gadafii:
Why you run go marry bro when you could barely feed yourself

As a maid you are not comfortable enough to feed four mouths I don’t think you have a business in marriage, pikin no Dey finish for heaven’, don’t bring poor innocent kids into your misery, that’s unfair to them

Nigerians very mumu people .you are roasting up and down next na another roasting by carrying wife . Now every is crowed .

Bros, if you were alone hussling.
I don't think you will feel the pressure you felt.

Sometimes I asked myself what's the rush to bring kids into these insane world?

How sure are u that the guy could remember u clearly after 12yrs? Not every one have the brain of repicking or recognizing thier old friends or classmate after long years. Pahaps, did u mention about been ur classmate back then to him?

That your class mate f**ked up !
Trust me, you are far better than him but you don't know yet.

Are you really sure he recognized you? Did you call his name and he ignored you.

Even if he did recognize you and snubbed you it's not a big deal, get over with it, your own way too will open.

He might not remember you or your face might have change ...Don't stress yourself over nothing ...... Did you introduce yourself to him... I bearly remember more than 40% of my class mate, but I expect the 40% to remind me of others ...work on your self esteem.

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Jameszinchenkov:
Thunder fire You
After giving birth to two kids and I can bet your wife is already pregnant again. You want to commit suicide and keep expanding poverty in our society?

Nah crime to give birth to kid. Abi u no read say nah twins e born?
How did you know his wife is pregnant again?
Change your drug dealer

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

Forget suicide bro, Trust God, things will get better. Send your account details let me post 5k for your two boys. They are blessed.

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

Just ignore and continue with your life

1. He may purposely do not want to associate with you maybe because of your current status

2. He mat not remember you... for real.. some people memory are short... he may not recognise you until you give him more hint


Anyway just ignore... all this should be your success story...

When I go thorough shit in life...I jot them down in a journal... when I get to that great level... I will definitely write a book about it...

So be strong

Ola5TP:
How sure are u that the guy could remember u clearly after 12yrs? Not every one have the brain of repicking or recognizing thier old friends or classmate after long years. Pahaps, did u mention about been ur classmate back then to him?

NoToPile:
Are you really sure he recognized you? Did you call his name and he ignored you.

Even if he did recognize you and snubbed you it's not a big deal, get over with it, your own way too will open.

Ola5TP:
How sure are u that the guy could remember u clearly after 12yrs? Not every one have the brain of repicking or recognizing thier old friends or classmate after long years. Pahaps, did u mention about been ur classmate back then to him?

GOD Bless all of you above for your objective comments, Aamin.
@Arkhanmu
Don't you think he might be having his own issues that makes him faraway from who is around?
Why didn't you call him out or inferiority complex did not allow you to identify yourself. Or you buga the guy so much while in school now you can't stand before him? Over to you!
I have some of my secondary school mates who are not doing well like us, but they will still call you, hangout with you. The bond is their, the relationship is their, we never look down at them because we know and believe in their hustle give them business if we can.
I keep telling some of my friends and acquaintances who run business to Bill me like normal customers, because I don't like a friend to be begging me for money when I can easily help his business.

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

Don't measure your life against anyone if you want to enjoy the rest of your life. Your friend did not owe you greetings...if you gree t him and he does not greet you...move on...besides he might have forgotten you....how many times that happens.....suicide will not solve your problem....what did you study and what was your grade?..dm me