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What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 3:01pm On Jul 16, 2022
Are the teachings or doctrines bordering on "star" normal?

Within the context of how it is being used today by some people out there and here, what really is someone's star?

Who initiated such doctrine or teaching?

What prompted or inspired them to espouse such doctrine or teaching?

Where can this "star" be found? Is it something someone else can touch: as in, is it tangible?

If it is not something someone else can touch, how, then, can stealing it be possible?

Anyone who is knowledgeable in these matters should enlighten us.
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by Carcholce: 3:28pm On Jul 16, 2022
I don’t think anyone can steal your star but your star can be used or suppressed (delayed) unknown to you.

Take for example a young man with promising future, that used to top scores in his academic pursuit. Such young man will excel in any field he chose to pursue.

Then he unfortunately meets a lady that is the opposite him. Two things are involved, it’s either the lady drags him down or he drags the lady up with him. But when love and sex is involved, most young men lose their senses, hence gets dragged down by the woman instead.


Another example is there are some people that whatever they touch brings money. Whatever they do, they do it well and it turns to gold. If such person is a man, and he is unfortunate to meet a lady that uses men to up the ladder, when sex and love is involved, such man can lose his senses and abandon his own future, instead he’ll focus all his might in providing the lady of her wants and needs. Such men over time forget their own identity and who they are. At this stage he can even forget how he got to the stage he is, everything will wreck in his very eyes, you know he’ll get abandoned by the woman when this happens and it will take time to realize the damage and start fixing himself.


This does not only apply to man and woman relationship. A man can also use a man and a woman can also use a woman. Even at your work place too. You can work for someone but you shouldn’t work for someone forever, that is if you know what you are doing.

Everyone has a star, but not everyone knows they have a star. A star does not translate to a physical star in another dimension. But spiritually that star translate to how well and how good you attain success at what you do. If you are good at what you do, some people will want to use you, while some will envy and jealous you while others will be happy with you. Some people also call this grace. It’s all simple stuffs that needs deeper understanding of how life really works.

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Re: What Really Is "Star"? by PoliteActivist: 3:48pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:
I don’t think anyone can steal your star but your star can be used or suppressed (delayed) unknown to you.

Take for example a young man with promising future, that used to top scores in his academic pursuit. Such young man will excel in any field he chose to pursue.
...

And how do you know all this? Or we are to take your word for it just because it seems logical. Well, how things really are rarely aligns with what is logical to us. Truth is, we don't really know. It is possible you are destined to end up a certain way, regardless of who you meet or don't meet
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by Carcholce: 4:35pm On Jul 16, 2022
PoliteActivist:


And how do you know all this? Or we are to take your word for it just because it seems logical. Well, how things really are rarely aligns with what is logical to us. Truth is, we don't really know. It is possible you are destined to end up a certain way, regardless of who you meet or don't meet


How do I know all this? Because I have been there.

I only touched the area where the OP asked if stars can be stolen. If I was to go deeper, you’ll have to buy me bottles of beer for the weekend.

Thank you for acknowledging that it sounds logical by the way. grin

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Re: What Really Is "Star"? by PoliteActivist: 6:12pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:



How do I know all this? Because I have been there.

I only touched the area where the OP asked if stars can be stolen. If I was to go deeper, you’ll have to buy me bottles of beer for the weekend.

Thank you for acknowledging that it sounds logical by the way. grin

You've been where? How do you even know if anything exists outside your head, talkless of been there. Fact is, we have no way of knowing the true nature of this our reality, talkless of knowing if there is destiny.
Yeah logical, but many things that are logical to us turn out not to be so in reality. For example, the speed of light cannot be increased no matter what you do!
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:09pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:
I don’t think anyone can steal your star but your star can be used or suppressed (delayed) unknown to you.


Thing is, what do you think is your star?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:10pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:


Take for example a young man with promising future, that used to top scores in his academic pursuit. Such young man will excel in any field he chose to pursue.

Is this star?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:16pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:


Then he unfortunately meets a lady that is the opposite him. Two things are involved, it’s either the lady drags him down or he drags the lady up with him. But when love and sex is involved, most young men lose their senses, hence gets dragged down by the woman instead.


Effect of associating with unserious people, people who do not share the vision you have for yourself.

This also happens, even more often, with normal same gender friendships. When a brilliant student starts associating with unserious students, he/she will likely slack.

I don't think this has defined what "star" is, at least, within the context of popular usage out there.
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:21pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:


Another example is there are some people that whatever they touch brings money. Whatever they do, they do it well and it turns to gold. If such person is a man, and he is unfortunate to meet a lady that uses men to up the ladder, when sex and love is involved, such man can lose his senses and abandon his own future, instead he’ll focus all his might in providing the lady of her wants and needs. Such men over time forget their own identity and who they are. At this stage he can even forget how he got to the stage he is, everything will wreck in his very eyes, you know he’ll get abandoned by the woman when this happens and it will take time to realize the damage and start fixing himself.



This is complicated. A lot of intricacies abound here. There are so many ways that one could explain the above assertions.
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by helinues: 7:23pm On Jul 16, 2022
Star sign is only an astronomical term used to calculate date and time using the neighbouring stars to determine the earth location.

All those Gemini, Aries, Capricorn are just name of distant stars
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:24pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:


This does not only apply to man and woman relationship. A man can also use a man and a woman can also use a woman. Even at your work place too. You can work for someone but you shouldn’t work for someone forever, that is if you know what you are doing.


This would be after you have really identified what star is and what yours is, don't you think so?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by MrToothBrush: 7:24pm On Jul 16, 2022
A star... Is just a simple way of explaining destiny's effect on our course of existence.
Now the question is can your destiny be changed? Yes it can be manipulated/changed.

Can such occurrence be proven with empirical evidence? No, it can't be proven because it's spiritual. Then it's best to conclude spirituality and destiny is a lie in the first instance.

Live your life and be hopeful things will change for the better.
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:29pm On Jul 16, 2022
Carcholce:

Everyone has a star, but not everyone knows they have a star. A star does not translate to a physical star in another dimension.[b] But spiritually that star translate to how well and how good you attain success at what you do. [/b]If you are good at what you do, some people will want to use you, while some will envy and jealous you while others will be happy with you. Some people also call this grace. It’s all simple stuffs that needs deeper understanding of how life really works.

At the emboldened, if this is what you have come to understand as a person's "star", could you say that it can be stolen, blocked, delayed or transferred from one person to another?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:33pm On Jul 16, 2022
MrToothBrush:
A star... Is just a simple way of explaining destiny's effect on our course of existence.
Now the question is can your destiny be changed? Yes it can be changed or suppressed.

The questions now are:

1. What is destiny?
2. How sure are you of what you call your destiny?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:37pm On Jul 16, 2022
MrToothBrush:


Can such occurrence be proven with empirical evidence? No, it can't be proven because it's spiritual. Then it's best to conclude spirituality and destiny is a lie in the first instance.



I disagree. Spirituality is as real as the oxygen we inhale. The question should be: "what is spirituality"?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by MrToothBrush: 7:39pm On Jul 16, 2022
elated177:


The questions now are:

1. What is destiny?
2. How sure are you of what you call your destiny?

bro there is no such thing as destiny, just humans being born and dying just the same way all others came. Destiny is just a key term to motivate humans with a drive to achieve.

You believe your destined to be Rich, then you start to work hard. You believe you are destined to be famous then you begin to work hard towards it... Just like other millions of humans out there

There is absolutely nothing special about a human when you take a deeper look at it. What significance is your destiny if you are still going to die anyway ?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by MrToothBrush: 7:40pm On Jul 16, 2022
elated177:



I disagree. Spirituality is as real as the oxygen we inhale. The question should be: "what is spirituality"?


Prove it
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:50pm On Jul 16, 2022
MrToothBrush:


Prove it

Prove spirituality? Let us focus on the issue at hand.
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 7:52pm On Jul 16, 2022
MrToothBrush:

bro there is no such thing as destiny, just humans being born and dying just the same way all others came. Destiny is just a key term to motivate humans with a drive to achieve.

You believe your destined to be Rich, then you start to work hard. You believe you are destined to be famous then you begin to work hard towards it... Just like other millions of humans out there

There is absolutely nothing special about a human when you take a deeper look at it. What significance is your destiny if you are still going to die anyway ?


Are you an atheist?
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by MrToothBrush: 8:08pm On Jul 16, 2022
elated177:


Prove spirituality? Let us focus on the issue at hand.

Good bye
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by Gofwane(m): 8:31pm On Jul 16, 2022
That Carcholce of a dude is very smart. I noticed that right from those days of "stupidity"
One of the nairalanders I started following
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 9:10pm On Jul 16, 2022
MrToothBrush:


Good bye



Arrivederci!
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by Nonam: 5:22pm On Jul 17, 2022
You are sounding very stupid. Why are you asking questions if you know too much about the stars of men?

Despite the fact that Carcholce has given you some measure of understanding, you still sound very ignorant and stupid.

elated177:


Effect of associating with unserious people, people who do not share the vision you have for yourself.

This also happens, even more often, with normal same gender friendships. When a brilliant student starts associating with unserious students, he/she will likely slack.

I don't think this has defined what "star" is, at least, within the context of popular usage out there.
Re: What Really Is "Star"? by elated177: 5:46pm On Jul 18, 2022
Nonam:
You are sounding very stupid. Why are you asking questions if you know too much about the stars of men?

Despite the fact that Carcholce has given you some measure of understanding, you still sound very ignorant and stupid.


Frustration on behalf of another! Wow!

Nonam, it is impossible to infect me with the sheer ignorance and the absolute stupidity that have been pervasive in your lineage from time immemorial.

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