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Relationship Matters by Donchieli: 11:17am On Jul 24, 2022
You know how the saying goes men are scum!!

Is that really true?
Were they born that way?
Or some persons(the other gender) made them that way?

Well here is a true story

A colleague of mine during his university days, used to date a girl, the girl came from another state to school in the guyz state of residence, so along the line they met and the guy fell in love, during their dating days the guy would during the semester break drive this girl to their house in another state approximately 8 hours away and return after a couple of days and when school is to resuming he will drive to go pick her up and bring her back to school, this continued till graduation, now when all things are done, he decided to take things to the next level and the girl in question refused to marry him in her defense that the kind of job he does, does not align with the teaching of her religion(parents also play a role in her decision) and she ended up marrying a guy working with nepa, same Nepa people that practically every Nigerian has sworn at/for

The guy has giving up on love as he admitted, now if a good girl comes his way, he might take the initiative and move on or he might just try to exact revenge on this other girl due to how he was treated

And you still say men are scum!!

P. S I have a cousin who trained a girl all through her studies in school of nursing, he had to endure and survive all through that face of live for her betterment only for her to finish get a job, that was when she realized he was not upto her standard

Abi my welder neighbor who brought a girl from the village put her in school after she graduated, she said he was too local

Girls say men are scum, men betrayed them for the one's who had hopes but at the end of the day, what those ladies lost was their time and effort

In a man's case, time, effort, resources(we all know who does the spending)

Maka hear from you bro
Re: Relationship Matters by Theweb: 11:28am On Jul 24, 2022
Donchieli:
You know how the saying goes men are scum!!

Is that really true?
Were they born that way?
Or some persons(the other gender) made them that way?

Well here is a true story

A colleague of mine during his university days, used to date a girl, the girl came from another state to school in the guyz state of residence, so along the line they met and the guy fell in love, during their dating days the guy would during the semester break drive this girl to their house in another state approximately 8 hours away and return after a couple of days and when school is to resuming he will drive to go pick her up and bring her back to school, this continued till graduation, now when all things are done, he decided to take things to the next level and the girl in question refused to marry him in her defense that the kind of job he does, does not align with the teaching of her religion(parents also play a role in her decision) and she ended up marrying a guy working with nepa, same Nepa people that practically every Nigerian has sworn at/for

The guy has giving up on love as he admitted, now if a good girl comes his way, he might take the initiative and move on or he might just try to exact revenge on this other girl due to how he was treated

And you still say men are scum!!

P. S I have a cousin who trained a girl all through her studies in school of nursing, he had to endure and survive all through that face of live for her betterment only for her to finish get a job, that was when she realized he was not upto her standard

Abi my welder neighbor who brought a girl from the village put her in school after she graduated, she said he was too local

Girls say men are scum, men betrayed them for the one's who had hopes but at the end of the day, what those ladies lost was their time and effort

In a man's case, time, effort, resources(we all know who does the spending)

Maka hear from you bro
Not all men. There are good ones.
Re: Relationship Matters by Donchieli: 11:33am On Jul 24, 2022
I never said all
Theweb:
Not all men. There are good ones.
Re: Relationship Matters by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 24, 2022
Men are not scum... Just that the other gender's desires are insatiable
Re: Relationship Matters by Rosaline5000: 11:49am On Jul 24, 2022
It's a 2 way street, nobody is perfect.
Men also hurt women like crazy, I have a relative that dated a guy who was so broke she was the one feeding him for years, she aborted 3 pregnancies for him because he wasn't ready, she lend him a huge sum of money to get a job, only for him to get the job and told her face blank, that he doesn't love her and was in love with a certain girl in his street.
This dude wasted years of my relative life and put her through shit only for him to become somebody and she is no longer a standard to him, las las he got married to that posh girl that he said he was in love in his street, this posh girl that didn't look at her when he was broke.
My relative was broken for years.
So that's how life is, no gender have a monopoly on wickedness, both men and women hurt each other, let's just pray we met the good ones

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Re: Relationship Matters by Autobot05: 3:55pm On Jul 24, 2022
Donchieli:
You know how the saying goes men are scum!!

Is that really true?
Were they born that way?
Or some persons(the other gender) made them that way?

Well here is a true story

A colleague of mine during his university days, used to date a girl, the girl came from another state to school in the guyz state of residence, so along the line they met and the guy fell in love, during their dating days the guy would during the semester break drive this girl to their house in another state approximately 8 hours away and return after a couple of days and when school is to resuming he will drive to go pick her up and bring her back to school, this continued till graduation, now when all things are done, he decided to take things to the next level and the girl in question refused to marry him in her defense that the kind of job he does, does not align with the teaching of her religion(parents also play a role in her decision) and she ended up marrying a guy working with nepa, same Nepa people that practically every Nigerian has sworn at/for

The guy has giving up on love as he admitted, now if a good girl comes his way, he might take the initiative and move on or he might just try to exact revenge on this other girl due to how he was treated

And you still say men are scum!!

P. S I have a cousin who trained a girl all through her studies in school of nursing, he had to endure and survive all through that face of live for her betterment only for her to finish get a job, that was when she realized he was not upto her standard

Abi my welder neighbor who brought a girl from the village put her in school after she graduated, she said he was too local

Girls say men are scum, men betrayed them for the one's who had hopes but at the end of the day, what those ladies lost was their time and effort

In a man's case, time, effort, resources(we all know who does the spending)

Maka hear from you bro



I almost became someone like that but it’s unfair to revenge on another who doesn’t even know what happened.

But I can testify to that ( women make men what they are )
Like this sef once a girl tells me sth my brain already sees it as a lie .. I dunno why maybe it’s a defense mechanism I learnt due to my experiences




Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

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Re: Relationship Matters by Tboymessiah(m): 6:12pm On Jul 24, 2022
NasoLifeBe!!!
Re: Relationship Matters by Prettyclown: 6:17pm On Jul 24, 2022
Exactly babe....let's pray we meet the good ones
Rosaline5000:
It's a 2 way street, nobody is perfect.
Men also hurt women like crazy, I have a relative that dated a guy who was so broke she was the one feeding him for years, she aborted 3 pregnancies for him because he wasn't ready, she lend him a huge sum of money to get a job, only for him to get the job and told her face blank, that he doesn't love her and was in love with a certain girl in his street.
This dude wasted years of my relative life and put her through shit only for him to become somebody and she is no longer a standard to him, las las he got married to that posh girl that he said he was in love in his street, this posh girl that didn't look at her when he was broke.
My relative was broken for years.
So that's how life is, no gender have a monopoly on wickedness, both men and women hurt each other, let's just pray we met the good ones
Re: Relationship Matters by Nyascobar1414: 6:25pm On Jul 24, 2022
That is the price all simps have to pay..
As for me I'm tired of telling them to love themselves more than the other gender...



Unfortunately, Men enjoy suff€ring.

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