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pansophist:
Its sad that redpill on nairaland focused so damn much about women, but it's way larger than that. Lazy boys that should do something reasonable with their life will seek solace in the redpill, and think it will save them from the responsibility of developing themselves.

The kind of hate speech that litters nairaland now is disgraceful, like misandrist and feminism, now we have sworn women haters who call themselves alpha males. These slowpokes probably are virgins, or their sexual experience are with prostitutes. Probably will go masturbate after insulting women here, shame.

If you like, swallow a tank of redpill capsules, if you refuse to develop yourself as a man, women will not send you. You won't even send yourself because you'll feel inferior. Both path are painful (laziness and productivity), but one is a road to redemption while the other is a one way journey to hell on earth. Your choice.

Kipaji:
Every man needs to read this. Not only lazy boys but also sexually-frustrated and laxist men seek solace in the redpill. And much of what the redpill content creators online say is delusional.

MikeofKd:
Truth is alpha male or not ,you can’t possibly please women , the moment you realize this ,the better. This theory would help you grow in dealing with these female creatures ,you learn to keep a balance with them ,you don’t fall too hard and you don’t go too soft either, more like a neutral state.

This theory also would make the right woman stay , the ones that would come and go ,you won’t even feel them that much cause you wouldn’t be overly emotional attached to them. Balancing is everything.

Maxxim:
Don't mind the typos tho
I've always been a fan of Ubunja miseducation until I started examining all his teachings and practices, I have nothing against him, I'm just trying to clear you guys on some of the things you need to consider before taking into action some of his teachings.

There is this fact that our thinking and our sense of reasoning are quite different so this teaching can't be recommended to every guys out there wanting to grow a beautiful home in the future.

The very first time I read his epistles it was an eye opener for me because it creates this awareness by telling me more about what goes on every women's mind and how complex their thoughts are.

But then I realised following his lessons deep down will only lead you into
Losing your emotion (which is the essence of entering a relationship)
You lose being Compassionate.
You become a player by trying this method on every girls you meet.

Making some research further shows that if you keep following this pyscological tricks you'll never be able to build a healthy relationship.

So i tried digging into this matter after sometimes I realised most of we men out here are weak guys.
Most guys are boys in adult body they lack self confidence.
They don't understand the woman pyscology

Majority of us have been affected by social validation, been needy in every relationship and the lack of self reliance.

What I mean in essence is that most guys haven't gotten the time to study and analyse themselves.
Instead of liking the kind of person we are knowing we are the result of the actions we take and that other people will only advise us based on who we are externally instead of internally we try to please everyone's opinion.

When we lack self reliance we make the woman make most decisions which is what most women hate because no matter their social status they'll always need a man that can lead them.

Aside from that a needy man shows a woman that something is wrong
with him, that he is trying to just “get”
something from her. In short, that he cannot add value to her life,that he can only take value.

You can safely
bet she will avoid any type of intimate relationship with such a man, at all costs.

And most importantly some men don't have any purpose.
When it comes to having purpose in life it means having a reason of living, it creates a pathway towards your future ambition.
And so when a man lacks this and women senses those absent areas they're prone to become uninterested in you.

They've got to see proof that you have the potential to be a responsible man.

So as a man you've got to be yourself, improve your social life by becoming freeman, be authentic, turn on your masculinity then you'll always win the heart of women.

These are my thought guys I stand to be corrected if there's any need for it.

pansophist:
The pansophist persona you know on nairaland has also been through pain. Forget all the sweet stories I write about me here, like probably all of us, I've been through hell. Funny enough, my hell came from other men like me, and the people that have made my life far more better were women.

From envy, aggressive hate, jealousy, talk down, being stolen from, defrauded, almost beaten by a gang, all came from men, not women. At most, women will deny you sex and give you false illusion of love, but if you're smart, you'll see their game and just ignore them.

A woman can only use a dumb man. A woman can't use you without permission, so its always good for a man to reflect on himself and not just hate women. If I become stupid, there are millions of men out there that will dupe me off my money, probably even you.

Anyways keep working hard. As you earn more and grow, you'll get more hate from men than women, it's a guarantee. Lots of good women out there have been used, videos published on pornhub against their wish by men, should they hate men?

Humanity is toxic, its not a gender thing. And when you spotlight the toxity of women why smoothly excluding that of men, then you're impartial. The Nigeria of today that is the earthly version of hell is led by men, not women. So we practically made their life worse, how about that?

I've learnt to always look inward, and refuse to be like those who hurt me, that's ultimate strength. I'm not bitter at all, and I try to help as much men as possible through advice. So if a girl broke your heart, it's just a girl, don't extrapolate that pain on every women out there.

pansophist:
Its sad that redpill on nairaland focused so damn much about women, but it's way larger than that. Lazy boys that should do something reasonable with their life will seek solace in the redpill, and think it will save them from the responsibility of developing themselves.

The kind of hate speech that litters nairaland now is disgraceful, like misandrist and feminism, now we have sworn women haters who call themselves alpha males. These slowpokes probably are virgins, or their sexual experience are with prostitutes. Probably will go masturbate after insulting women here, shame.

If you like, swallow a tank of redpill capsules, if you refuse to develop yourself as a man, women will not send you. You won't even send yourself because you'll feel inferior. Both path are painful (laziness and productivity), but one is a road to redemption while the other is a one way journey to hell on earth. Your choice.