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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Nobody: 1:04pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD

You're a Husband's Child. Know what? Yours is the type of situations God loves to intervene in. And when one door closes many others are opened. Kudos, brave sister.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Jeffy1206(m): 1:05pm On Aug 09, 2022
What do male bosses need female sec for? If not for something else undecided
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Realtalk20: 1:05pm On Aug 09, 2022
Okealaaye:


You're a Husband's Child. Know what? Yours is the type of situat

What sort of grammar is this ? undecided

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by TheZeezle(m): 1:08pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD



Are you happy now? Who go press the bobbi if him no press am?
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by longifilis(m): 1:08pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD


You are in dire need of a job, you should have made it cleared to the people's here
There are good people everywhere and you will soon meet yours
"He suddenly started being friendly ( giving you bus fare and snacks) what figure of speech is this? Next time be concise rather than wordy
She's good at what she does, someone should please help.
Glad tidings!

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Nobody: 1:08pm On Aug 09, 2022
Realtalk20:


What sort of grammar is this ? undecided

Learn to read between the lines. In simple terms, so that you can understand, it means she's not fathered by a strange man, but her mum's husband.
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Whoknowsme: 1:09pm On Aug 09, 2022
lovemaths:


If you are in Lagos. There is a skill acquisition going on in Lagos, Ibadan and Ghana and tailoring is included. It is free.

Send me a message on Whatsapp so that I can send you the registration link. My number is in my signature below. Hurry up. Deadline is tomorrow.

Skills to be learned
Barbing

Art & Craft: hats, beads, bead work, artist

Hairdressing

Coding ( Website Design)

Make-Up

Events Decoration

Photography

Tailoring

Content creation/written

Music training

Music Production

Social Media Marketing

Graphics Design

Cinematography

Sports

Pls I'm interested. How do I attend?
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Slynation(m): 1:09pm On Aug 09, 2022
Konji na bastard....
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by PharmacyStore: 1:09pm On Aug 09, 2022
It is well
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by jaxxy(m): 1:10pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD

why are u using a newly opened account??

Well u made the right decision office/work place abuse can affect ur personal productivity and mental health never tolerate it for too long.

It's better to leave and have ur sanity and peace unless it can be safely managed.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Nobody: 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2022
This world is so cruel walai

I experienced Similar thing

But you will get a better one

I don't know if u reside in lagos

I sent you an email, kindly reply

No be for relationship o
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by MoneyMustBMade(m): 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2022
U did the right thing
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by VenumX: 1:11pm On Aug 09, 2022
Africans and their wickedness. Always using the bad economy to practice their own wickedness. That your useless boss must be a red piller.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by femijay8271(m): 1:12pm On Aug 09, 2022
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Thank God for you
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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by blackboy(m): 1:14pm On Aug 09, 2022
Hmmm. An evil man capitalising on the poverty in the land.
Old enough to be your late dad's age and what he can think of is to be sleeping with you. You are not qualified for the job in the first instance and you made it known to him. Instead of sending you for training or online courses he is shouting at you and underpaying you.
He cant pay N20k monthly and can't treat or talk to his worker well no wonder he wants to be sleeping with her. Slave master and self entitlement mentality.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Akano5(m): 1:18pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD

Me self dey find work, I haven't see yet..
This country is finished
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by ONNYX: 1:19pm On Aug 09, 2022
There are always three sides to a story.......this is your side.
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Henvest: 1:21pm On Aug 09, 2022
I'm going through worst situations now.
I see my self struck with the worst person any body could work with it.
2016 at advice of my mother I fold up my promising business to go work with his brother who just got promoted. it turned out to be the worst decision of my life.
U are abuse, insulted, humiliated and degraded every passing second.
2016 when I shut my business all future indicators where promising and I was doing very well for my self..
Back then few millions can't lock me up but fast ward to 2022 I see myself making due with token of less than 60k as salary.
All the promises of better tomorrow thrown over board, Sometimes I wonder why I waited so long to take a walk when things ain't what I expected,
My mum kept begging me to stay that surely his brother has plans...smile.
But she is late now, cause of her death is story for another day.

I know the question will be what are my still doing with him,
Am married now , leaving means starting from ground zero and with no savings to sustain my family for the time been it is very difficult for me now.
I'm going into depression I so want to leave that beast. The thought of working with him kills me every day

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by superCleanworks(m): 1:23pm On Aug 09, 2022
spinna:
Ah ahh? As a man you can say this ? Lol

I mean every word oh.
even some ashawo can't accept such play.
I don't like men without code of conduct & self respect especially around women that call you boss.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Nobody: 1:23pm On Aug 09, 2022
Lol at pushed him on the ground lmao Ajasco Jabo
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Akano5(m): 1:29pm On Aug 09, 2022
Nwatachoba1:
This world is so cruel walai

I experienced Similar thing

But you will get a better one

I don't know if u reside in lagos

I sent you an email, kindly reply

No be for relationship o

Sir, I reside in Orile...
Can you link me up?? I just need help
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by SamOchuko: 1:31pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD


U suppose slap the bagga as he day for floor, he won intimidate you into dating him, d man na beast.
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by ibechris(m): 1:32pm On Aug 09, 2022
U are too sound to be paid that paltry sum of money...too bad!


That is the level some idiots have have reduced our women to be.

I like ur guts seriously.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by chikason22(m): 1:36pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD
Please the place you worked, is it an hospital?
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:37pm On Aug 09, 2022
seunak2016:
sue ? you think this is America? you think the poor get justice in this country nigeria? the case go use 100 yrs in court or will be dismissed self
atleast
The boss should have included "sometimes we rape people here" as one of the terms and conditions/conditions of service in the offer letter before employing the poor Lady.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by Kingkaspev(m): 1:38pm On Aug 09, 2022
[quote author=lovemaths post=115532648]

If you are in Lagos. There is a skill acquisition going on in Lagos, Ibadan and Ghana and tailoring is included. It is free.

Send me a message on Whatsapp so that I can send you the registration link. My number is in my signature below. Hurry up. Deadline is tomorrow.

Skills to be learned
Barbing

Art & Craft: hats, beads, bead work, artist

Hairdressing

Coding ( Website Design)

Make-Up

Events Decoration

Photography

Tailoring

Content creation/written

Music training

Music Production

Social Media Marketing

Graphics Design

Cinematography

Sports

[/please I can'tfind your WhatsAppnumber, how do I get it]
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by SuperbCrown: 1:40pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD
Are you in ibadan?
Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by seunak2016: 1:40pm On Aug 09, 2022
VeeVeeMyLuv:
atleast
The boss should have included "sometimes we rape people here" as one of the terms and conditions/conditions of service in the offer letter before employing the poor Lady.
lol...she learn some skill free. some good Samaritan now organised free training, op should enrol for that and pray because this life is spiritual. some force don't want someone to prosper in life, na person no go gree

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by AmazingELixir: 1:43pm On Aug 09, 2022
Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD

Wonder what Redpillers have to say about the dog Op calls her ex boss.


Poor girl....sorry, the life of an aspiring young female ain't easy at all....if I recall what one of my gf told me about her father's friend who engaged her in his company during her industrial attachment wayback hmmm!

Abi is it the one that went for interview at the BRT company in Lagos...those ones don't mind if you're married or not..unfortunately somany women can't help compromising due to limited employment opportunities out there.

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Re: I Finally Re-signed And I'm Free From My Abusive Boss by chaiks: 1:46pm On Aug 09, 2022
Thank God you left. Just praying for everything to go well this month so that I will resign this month and enter Japan next month under the mext scholarship. My boss is too demeaning and assign too much task to me due to the situation of Nigeria. God pass everyone finally.

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