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My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex / My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life / My Husband Is Very Jealous Because I’m Beautiful – 16-year-old Housewife (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by johnfem321: 5:51pm On Aug 11, 2022
Make special juice for for him every evening

Banana, milk, cloves.. just give him as smoothies.. don’t worry it you that will get tired..
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Samajogs: 5:51pm On Aug 11, 2022
I once did that to my wife of 9yrs(3kids). Na her old school friends come dey runs things. Sometimes I go pick them dey come back...unknowly
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by nedekid: 5:52pm On Aug 11, 2022
Check yourself. Is there something turning him off?
Do you shower when you get back from work before you jump on the bed? Do you brush. A great turn off is smell. Some of us have very poor tolerance for odor. Some folks, both men and women will shit, wipe their ass with just tissue and life goes on. Then visit the other room.
Just imagine setting doggie with a smelling arse shocked some ladies will pee, wear their panties, when they then open their legs na so, so amonia go smell. Those that the vj ozzes nko.
Some times when oga cannot tell the wife as it may hurt her feelings, he generally just gets turned off. Likewise it also happens with men and their women getting turned off by poor hygiene.
If I go to poo 10 times a day, I bath 10 times!

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Angelfrost(m): 5:52pm On Aug 11, 2022
Low libido is not uncommon nor unusual, especially among married people.

It's always a wonder how sex drive diminishes months to years after marriage.

Pride or ego won't allow most men admit that their sex drives have taken the same route and direction as the Nigerian economy. They just leave the women to keep burning in desire and suffering till they stumble upon 'fulfillment' outside.

Op, that woman needs to get the husband to address his bedroom shortfalls before the inevitable infidelity creeps in... It is treatable and easy to improve.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by PointZerom: 5:52pm On Aug 11, 2022
thorpido:
Hmmm.If it is there,it is there and if it isn't,then it may never be there.
Your hubby probably has a low libido and this is something you should have checked before tying the knot with him.
For a woman it might be easier to spice up her sex drive but for a man, it's harder if he has a low sex drive.
There are foods that could help drive your hubby's sex drive like bananas,water melon etc.You can get him Gingko biloba supplements too. You could try giving him that.
Try to be sexy for him too.Keep fit and trim and get nice underwear and perfumes.That can help too though it's not so much about you but him.

A lot of things can cause this.

Stress.
Masturbation.
Psychological effects.
Low libido.

Number 1 and 2 are the most cause of it.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by tiger28: 5:53pm On Aug 11, 2022
See how these young losers are readily giving out their contacts just to sleep with a MARRIED Woman??

And no one sees how sad it is?

Very VERY PATHETIC!!!!

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Epicji: 5:54pm On Aug 11, 2022
Same thing is happening to me right now.l don't find my wife attractive. To get turned on,l will first have to watch porn film.

Few questions:-
Is ur Bobby still standing
Do u have sexy body

I love them young
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Allisgud: 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2022
OyeofIkoTuN:
Probably your stomach is too big.....

Or aweartoogad baba like new work more than heaven.

Most men love new work.....Twice a month is fair if he's busy but wait ooo if he treats you like he treats shalewa, you might come here crying that your husband is a nympho and you can't stand it anymore..

Women..!
farmer name-cassava
Traditional name-dimgba
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by mikesly: 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2022
Use cucumber. come thank me later.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Omoslim26: 5:55pm On Aug 11, 2022
He might be going through some stuffs.
Talk to him again about him tell make him understand how the situation is affecting you.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by sochijioke(m): 5:56pm On Aug 11, 2022
tiger28:
See how these young losers are readily giving out their contacts just to sleep with a MARRIED Woman??

And no one sees how sad it is?

Very VERY PATHETIC!!!!
Hmmmmmm....I feel pity for you...
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by khalids: 5:57pm On Aug 11, 2022
what is that answer women usually give, when men make this complain


Abeg make person remind me again ooooo.......
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by DukeNija(m): 5:57pm On Aug 11, 2022
Kollins11:
In otherwords.. You're a sex stave woman.

Have you really tried to sit him down to discuss this and let him know how you feel?
If a man stays away from sex for two months, he either has a medical issue that has made his libido drop or he is getting it elsewhere.

But incase you're so frustrated and you really need a strong solid 8 inches dick to ride.. Just give me a message, I'm available. Let me help your husband to shift your womb. God says always help your neighbor in need. I willing to help you cure your konji.

You had a solid first paragraph and I believe it Twas your rational, God given wisdom at play. The second half, the devil took the wheels so just delete it.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by NaBanga: 5:57pm On Aug 11, 2022
If you don't have kids yet, it may be best to leave. It's only going to get worse and you will end up cheating. If you are fine with cheating, then stay. However I know women. If he is rich, you will stay and suffer. Just don't get caught cheating or you may regret it.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Confirm4real(m): 5:58pm On Aug 11, 2022
All I can say is life no balance...

Whereas some women are complaining of too much sex from their husbands.

Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 11, 2022
Kollins11:
In otherwords.. You're a sex stave woman.

Have you really tried to sit him down to discuss this and let him know how you feel?
If a man stays away from sex for two months, he either has a medical issue that has made his libido drop or he is getting it elsewhere.

But incase you're so frustrated and you really need a strong solid 8 inches dick to ride.. Just give me a message, I'm available. Let me help your husband to shift your womb. God says always help your neighbor in need. I willing to help you cure your konji.
You wan die, do you know wetin dey turn the man off wey make am dey run from sex with his wife

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by 1gbdata: 6:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
sorry
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by playpaz: 6:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
You dey think about sex in this Economy wey we dey soo smiley

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Realists(m): 6:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
Prepare his favorite food with enough onions, he will be the one rushing.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by BluntCrazeMan: 6:02pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"



What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
While some couples are waiting for their kids to leave for school every single day so that they tumble in the rumble till 11:00am before they leave for their days businesses

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by beejay85: 6:03pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"



What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
Mix koko samba and milk for am shocked
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Ken4Christ: 6:03pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"



What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

He is probably gay. It is not normal. The sex urge of men is normally stronger than that of a woman. If she can manage herself financially, she should ask for a divorce.

These are some of the things that should have been discussed before marriage.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Way4orward: 6:05pm On Aug 11, 2022
Repackage yourself before him.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by hedonido: 6:05pm On Aug 11, 2022
Women never understand that for many men, sex during casual flings, situationships, no strings attached relationships etc is VERY different from sex in marriage. This thing called marriage brings with it a frustrating and demoralising combination of undue financial pressure of 'responsibility' on the man, monotony, see finish familiarity, a sense of shortchange-ment, a sense of cage-ment and unbearable stricture, and so forth. Different men handle this differently.

And to think that most 'serious' men spent a long time wooing the woman who was forming disinterest in sex during the wooing phase, only for the same woman to reveal her hypersexual core after the so-called marriage.... Some of these men can't process or come to terms with that deceitful volte-face. Besides, Conservative men don't understand it and wouldn't accept it for their so-called wife to be the one demanding sex in spite of the whole stress and pressures of the marriage itself. They expect the woman to be the sexually uninterested or neutral creature that she pretended to be in the beginning, who is only available at the husband's request, to fulfill his sexual need when he wants it..

Of course there are other men with very high sex drives who would constantly demand the thing almost everyday. But then, to each their own.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Switruth: 6:06pm On Aug 11, 2022
Tegabadguy:
just Gmail me......tegasunday@60gmail.com...lets me help your husband cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
not all things you joke with.... you want to sleep with a married woman ? Nevermind someone is waiting for your wife. Today or tomorrow

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by forestwilda: 6:06pm On Aug 11, 2022
The young man does not fancy u. Sit him down and work on de grey area.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Makowonda: 6:07pm On Aug 11, 2022
Twice a week?Did I even read it well?Twice a month?E be like say your oga dey one ogbanje group wey de forbid "tswanking".Holy-holy People Association of Nigeria,you can see how important it is to be having sex with your partner before marriage ba?
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by 2blessed01(m): 6:08pm On Aug 11, 2022
Kollins11:
In otherwords.. You're a sex stave woman.

Have you really tried to sit him down to discuss this and let him know how you feel?
If a man stays away from sex for two months, he either has a medical issue that has made his libido drop or he is getting it elsewhere.

But incase you're so frustrated and you really need a strong solid 8 inches dick to ride.. Just give me a message, I'm available. Let me help your husband to shift your womb. God says always help your neighbor in need. I willing to help you cure your konji.
Chai bros...E B LYK SAY U NO WAN MAKE HEAVEN WITH ME grin

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by etimocity(m): 6:08pm On Aug 11, 2022
you has to know that some time sparkling libido is multivate by happiness when someone happy he or she will always be in the mood to think of sex, i am talking base on experience.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by jimter44(m): 6:09pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
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I got married in 2021. Ever since day one



What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

Relate these statements; I got married in 2021..........
What can she do house? This is a fiction.

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