vickvan:
Honestly, it takes deep courage honestly. Hunger plus depression is killing me slowly. I need a deep hug.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Yes, it takes only courage to live this life. U may not know what others are going tru until u find urself in their shoes. Those who have once or several times have suicidal thoughts would understand what i am saying. I now understood why some folks take their life. Life itself is a battle and it takes only the courage to live it. No matter what u are going tru, always remember that the life we are living isn't fair. Just a word of encourage from u could save someone from depression, from giving up or from taking ones life.

Blupen:
me i am totally tired ooh hunger + depression + no job + no smartphone i just sit at home and help my mother and break her melon (egusi) @24.....but i know one day all will be fine

Truvelisback:
I can relate very well, especially the pressure of getting a job.

bukky1994:
1 Pete 5:10 read it, and you will be fine

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Yes, it takes only courage to live this life. U may not know what others are going tru until u find urself in their shoes. Those who have once or several times have suicidal thoughts would understand what i am saying. I now understood why some folks take their life. Life itself is a battle and it takes only courage to live it. No matter what u are going tru, always remember that the life we are living isn't fair. Just a word of encourage from u could save someone from depression, from giving up or from taking ones life.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Yes, it takes only courage to live this life. U may not know what others are going tru until u find urself in their shoes. Those who have once or several times have suicidal thoughts would understand what i am saying. I now understood why some folks take their life. Life itself is a battle and it takes only courage to live it. No matter what u are going tru, always remember that the life we are living isn't fair. Just a word of encourage from u could save someone from depression, from giving up or from taking ones life.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Yes, it takes only courage to live this life. U may not know what others are going tru until u find urself in their shoes. Those who have once or several times have suicidal thoughts would understand what i am saying. I now understood why some folks take their life. Life itself is a battle and it takes only courage to live it. No matter what u are going tru, always remember that the life we are living isn't fair. Just a word of encourage from u could save someone from depression, from giving up or from taking ones life.

EjimaOfLagos:




My current situation at the moment after thinking of how to feed my wife and twins! No job things are not going fine, thought of suicide for the first time in my life, depression is real, things are very rough to the extent of not having anything to eat. My wife has bought things on credit & she always hide!

Pls anybody wey God touch him heart

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vickvan:
Honestly, it takes deep courage honestly. Hunger plus depression is killing me slowly. I need a deep hug.

imagrg:
Everyone thinks his load is the heaviest. But he who feels it, knows it most.
....BOB NESTAR MARLEY.

Blupen:
Coming from a poor backgroud in nigerian is similar to being born with handcuffs on....

emmaodet:

bukky1994:
1 Pete 5:10 read it, and you will be fine

Slynation:
Honestly speaking...Life is no longer for the weak, therefore you have to be strong in other to survive

But when I see Nigerians complaining, I just felt bad because in the right sense, most of them are looking at other people nor refusing to take up a skill, for the records, I'm into housing project and I can boldly say that most of the young guys picking up jobs are from neighbouring countries like Togolese, Niger, Cameroon, Ghana etc and they are making money on a low while my Nigerian folks are busy pressing laptops upandan and shouting there is no jobs...

Like I will always advise...learn a skill, be good at what you do and you will start running away from money and work...

PrinceofAgoAre:
It's crazy fam.. I was at faith academie's grad party yday and this kids were just munching on anything carrying iphones all around like its nothing living like they got no worries.. Man i just felt down wondering why my own folks no been get money na, mke i dey enjoy life too na.

Truvelisback:
Some issues some people face are not job related or money related. It could be health issue, marital issues like inability to get married, family issues etc. Haven't u red or heard how wealthy people or people with good job commit suicide? Even with their wealth, they are still depressed.

pansophist:


I know how painful that can be. I studied in a very elite university and everyday was almost like depression. Kids of 19 coming to class with posh cars, skin as bright as the sun, and even if they decide to drop out, suffering will never be a portion.

I felt like going to naija, grab my papa for throat, and change am for am straight. And I was the few black dude in that school. The rich kids will now form clique amongst themselves and shut it out to others. Class then was more of a fashion parade that actual learning.

But deep down, I knew my time de come, or if its not me, my kids will enjoy such. These kids had parents that worked hard, and if yours didn't do it for you, do it for your kids. But there are things I saw that made me realise that rich or poor, we all suffer equally.

A wealthy British man approached me on time and appeal to be friend with his son, that his son is so shy and insular. This son is literally what Nigerians will call a mumu. He is not dumb, but a didirin. Slap him, he will probably go home and call the police. He fear pass chicken. The price of over-protection and over-providing.

One wealthy Brazilian girl is so scared of facing the world. She always tell me how jealous she is when she sees people who are confident and hustle their way, that they can survive in life unlike her that relies on her parents wealth.

Her parents also were deeply worried that their timid daughter will run down their company after they hand it over to her. Because of my confidence, self-assurance and individuality, lots of these folks even with their wealth wanted to be friends, just to know how to live life being strong and tough.

It was easy to be their friend because I don't care if your father is Bill Gates, I no send you. If we go out, I'll pay for myself, and treat you like every normal person. I respect myself alot, so being my friend didn't burdened them in anyway.

So life gives us different coin, but you'll be naive to think they others don't have their own struggles. Everybody does. Some of these kids are in what I'll describe as being on an "existential drip". Take away the drip (their parental support) and you'll see that you're better than them in everything that matters.

Many have parents that were not there in their life due to the pursuit of wealth. And so on. So my guy, life will give you all the reason to go home and punch your father in the face asking him, "why you fork up"? but don't ever think it's greener on the other side.