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Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Divay22(f): 1:26am On Aug 19, 2022
newcommer:
You talk too much
Lol grin grin
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by luminouz(m): 5:47am On Aug 19, 2022
Divay22:
Lol grin grin
What's funny? undecided

Better Goan sleep before I catch you
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by luminouz(m): 5:47am On Aug 19, 2022
newcommer:
You talk too much
You talk too little
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nobody: 6:27am On Aug 19, 2022
Veetee:
I have a friend, lets call him Ben. He is 24 years o;d. he is a street boy( yahoo yahoo). wire boy

He was involved in a relationship with a girl from calabar, she schools at Unical. Ben lives in lagos( ajah to be precise ) in one of those popular estate. The girlfriend ususally comes around regularly to visit, and to be honest with you she is very pretty and all.

Ben being the first born of the family is trying to get serious with this girlfriend of his, he takes care of her financially.

Then finally she told Ben that she is pregnant for him. Ben was happy and he told his mum about it. He sents her money regularly afterwards for ante natal care. amounts ranging from 500k to 700K. He doesnt have peoblems with it.

Then suddenly she came up with a story that she almost got miscarriage and that she is bleeding, so she said the doctor said she will need extra care,

That was how BEN sent his calabar girl friend 1.5m . I got wind of this during a conversation when we were having some drinks.

Ofcourse I didnt advise him against it since he has already sent her the money and he said he was going to marry her.

The worse finally happened when Ben decided to open an instagram account( not with his real names) and he was following his girlfriend.

he then noticed his girlfriend is always posting pictures with a particular dude, one particular post he saw the boy putting on his clothes.
most times when his girlfriend visits, she takes some of his designer clothes along with her to calabar.

He confronted his girlfriend about this particular guy , but she said the guy is his brother.. the next thing he noticed was that the girl later went private on instagram but what she didnt know was that ben was following her already with a different name.

Then a post she made that finally rocked the boat was a video of she and this so called brother in a cozy room and she was all over the guy and all, she even made a post begging her followers to help support this guy to help him get to big brother house.

Ben couldnt stand it anymore he had to confront her about it with all the evidence, he told her he was no longer interested and that the she should refund his money back to him , it is now clear she has been using Ben's money to bankroll her boyfriend in calabar. The dude in calabar is good looking .

It got really messy that my friend threatened her to refund his money back or he would informed his men in calabar to treat her bleep up,(Ben is a cultist) she responded by saying Ben is a joker that if he tries it she would report him to EFCC. Omo as Ben hear EFCC cold enter him body he decided to chill and let it slide

At a later date, she called and was like Ben should calm down and that they should remain good friends. Lol..Good friends indeed
Ben didnt argue with her and he told her he accepted. He blocked her completely on all social media platform and since then there has been no communication.

On a cool evening while we were having a drink in our usual spot, Ben told me something that touched me. He said girls see yahoo boys as fugitive.

My point now is as a street boy, why not use money you make from the street to either further your education by going for short courses or even having investments , or running a good business that you can front to your family and friends to live a legitimate life.

These girls( ofcourse I mean the educated ones) do not have regards for you as a yahoo boy, they are just after your money and the good life you are giving them. I checked up the meaning of a fugitive, and it says someone who escaped from a prison and is on the run.
Guys una need to wise up.
stop trying to impress any relationship with money, and don't take any relationship too serious, if you suspect a lady is not honest with u, don't react, act like everything is cool, just play along but withdraw from taking certain responsibilities... continue, then do your own back cheesy

I've learnt that it's a risk paying child support for baby mamas... most of them are chronic cheats and savage liars.

... If ur girlfriend gets pregnant and claims u are the one and u have ur doubts, Run !!!, when the baby is 2 years old comeback and apologise then do a DNA... if it's your child go to court and claim your child, don't marry the mother if you don't love her.

cheesy
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Justkatty(f): 6:50am On Aug 19, 2022
BadRadio:
stop trying to impress any relationship with money, and don't take any relationship too serious, if you suspect a lady is not honest with u, don't react, act like everything is cool, just play along but withdraw from taking certain responsibilities... continue, then do your own back cheesy

I've learnt that it's a risk paying child support for baby mamas... most of them are chronic cheats and savage liars.

... If ur girlfriend gets pregnant and claims u are the one and u have ur doubts, Run !!!, when the baby is 2 years old comeback and apologise then do a DNA... if it's your child go to court and claim your child, don't marry the mother if you don't love her.

cheesy
After 2years come back and claim your childhuh
God!!! Person wey do you this thing e no go better for am.
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Divay22(f): 7:30am On Aug 19, 2022
luminouz:
What's funny? undecided

Better Goan sleep before I catch you
Hahahahaha
But he's right though grin grin
That nigga talks too much
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Bignuell(m): 7:40am On Aug 19, 2022
"Women are more loyal to their feelings than your sacrifice".
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by RentaStallion(m): 7:41am On Aug 19, 2022
I can't get serious with a university girl... Guys are not learning at all.. either we are friends with benefits or simply Bleep mates. I dare not catch any mumu feelings self. Woman make dey school dey collect different rods. You dey here dey form BF. Mumu guys everywhere.
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Uptheante(m): 8:00am On Aug 19, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.
Timely
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Eleyigidgan: 8:01am On Aug 19, 2022
Veetee:
I have a friend, lets call him Ben. He is 24 years o;d. he is a street boy( yahoo yahoo). wire boy

He was involved in a relationship with a girl from calabar, she schools at Unical. Ben lives in lagos( ajah to be precise ) in one of those popular estate. The girlfriend ususally comes around regularly to visit, and to be honest with you she is very pretty and all.

Ben being the first born of the family is trying to get serious with this girlfriend of his, he takes care of her financially.

Then finally she told Ben that she is pregnant for him. Ben was happy and he told his mum about it. He sents her money regularly afterwards for ante natal care. amounts ranging from 500k to 700K. He doesnt have peoblems with it.

Then suddenly she came up with a story that she almost got miscarriage and that she is bleeding, so she said the doctor said she will need extra care,

That was how BEN sent his calabar girl friend 1.5m . I got wind of this during a conversation when we were having some drinks.

Ofcourse I didnt advise him against it since he has already sent her the money and he said he was going to marry her.

The worse finally happened when Ben decided to open an instagram account( not with his real names) and he was following his girlfriend.

he then noticed his girlfriend is always posting pictures with a particular dude, one particular post he saw the boy putting on his clothes.
most times when his girlfriend visits, she takes some of his designer clothes along with her to calabar.

He confronted his girlfriend about this particular guy , but she said the guy is his brother.. the next thing he noticed was that the girl later went private on instagram but what she didnt know was that ben was following her already with a different name.

Then a post she made that finally rocked the boat was a video of she and this so called brother in a cozy room and she was all over the guy and all, she even made a post begging her followers to help support this guy to help him get to big brother house.

Ben couldnt stand it anymore he had to confront her about it with all the evidence, he told her he was no longer interested and that the she should refund his money back to him , it is now clear she has been using Ben's money to bankroll her boyfriend in calabar. The dude in calabar is good looking .

It got really messy that my friend threatened her to refund his money back or he would informed his men in calabar to treat her bleep up,(Ben is a cultist) she responded by saying Ben is a joker that if he tries it she would report him to EFCC. Omo as Ben hear EFCC cold enter him body he decided to chill and let it slide

At a later date, she called and was like Ben should calm down and that they should remain good friends. Lol..Good friends indeed
Ben didnt argue with her and he told her he accepted. He blocked her completely on all social media platform and since then there has been no communication.

On a cool evening while we were having a drink in our usual spot, Ben told me something that touched me. He said girls see yahoo boys as fugitive.

My point now is as a street boy, why not use money you make from the street to either further your education by going for short courses or even having investments , or running a good business that you can front to your family and friends to live a legitimate life.

These girls( ofcourse I mean the educated ones) do not have regards for you as a yahoo boy, they are just after your money and the good life you are giving them. I checked up the meaning of a fugitive, and it says someone who escaped from a prison and is on the run.
Guys una need to wise up.
Ben na idiot, since him na Yahoo, why him no use the girl do plus?
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Kingcalls: 8:22am On Aug 19, 2022
Veetee:
I have a friend, lets call him Ben. He is 24 years o;d. he is a street boy( yahoo yahoo). wire boy

He was involved in a relationship with a girl from calabar, she schools at Unical. Ben lives in lagos( ajah to be precise ) in one of those popular estate. The girlfriend ususally comes around regularly to visit, and to be honest with you she is very pretty and all.

Ben being the first born of the family is trying to get serious with this girlfriend of his, he takes care of her financially.

Then finally she told Ben that she is pregnant for him. Ben was happy and he told his mum about it. He sents her money regularly afterwards for ante natal care. amounts ranging from 500k to 700K. He doesnt have peoblems with it.

Then suddenly she came up with a story that she almost got miscarriage and that she is bleeding, so she said the doctor said she will need extra care,

That was how BEN sent his calabar girl friend 1.5m . I got wind of this during a conversation when we were having some drinks.

Ofcourse I didnt advise him against it since he has already sent her the money and he said he was going to marry her.

The worse finally happened when Ben decided to open an instagram account( not with his real names) and he was following his girlfriend.

he then noticed his girlfriend is always posting pictures with a particular dude, one particular post he saw the boy putting on his clothes.
most times when his girlfriend visits, she takes some of his designer clothes along with her to calabar.

He confronted his girlfriend about this particular guy , but she said the guy is his brother.. the next thing he noticed was that the girl later went private on instagram but what she didnt know was that ben was following her already with a different name.

Then a post she made that finally rocked the boat was a video of she and this so called brother in a cozy room and she was all over the guy and all, she even made a post begging her followers to help support this guy to help him get to big brother house.

Ben couldnt stand it anymore he had to confront her about it with all the evidence, he told her he was no longer interested and that the she should refund his money back to him , it is now clear she has been using Ben's money to bankroll her boyfriend in calabar. The dude in calabar is good looking .

It got really messy that my friend threatened her to refund his money back or he would informed his men in calabar to treat her bleep up,(Ben is a cultist) she responded by saying Ben is a joker that if he tries it she would report him to EFCC. Omo as Ben hear EFCC cold enter him body he decided to chill and let it slide

At a later date, she called and was like Ben should calm down and that they should remain good friends. Lol..Good friends indeed
Ben didnt argue with her and he told her he accepted. He blocked her completely on all social media platform and since then there has been no communication.

On a cool evening while we were having a drink in our usual spot, Ben told me something that touched me. He said girls see yahoo boys as fugitive.

My point now is as a street boy, why not use money you make from the street to either further your education by going for short courses or even having investments , or running a good business that you can front to your family and friends to live a legitimate life.

These girls( ofcourse I mean the educated ones) do not have regards for you as a yahoo boy, they are just after your money and the good life you are giving them. I checked up the meaning of a fugitive, and it says someone who escaped from a prison and is on the run.
Guys una need to wise up.
Most women are the devils incarnation.... no give woman wey u wan marry pass 20k a month .... the onlyvwoman that deserves ur money is the one that was with u when u were struggling and even at that ...onlyvspen on her when u marry her and have kids ... apart from that, don't be foolish with ur money on a woman... its better u hire prostitutes than spend on ordinary gf ... women are naturally selfish and are never compassionate

Our forefathers subjugated them bcis they knew how evil they are ...but men suddenly turned simps and unleashed them
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Kingcalls: 8:30am On Aug 19, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.
U need to create this as a topic ...u are a wise man ...young men need to know this... alot were never taught this... they were just taught to be loving towards women and that women can never do wrong....alot of men are suffering or damaged today for trusting women
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nobody: 10:41am On Aug 19, 2022
Funny enough the girl will be wasted, unless Ben is not a street guy. Street guys don't forgive double crossing. Her Bleep up is in the cooler.

My advice to ladies out there...Never you get entangled under any guise with anyone into illegal or shady dealings, thinking that you can use the law against them. Is a matter of time, you will loose out because your solace (The Law and its enforcers) will disappoint you.
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by luminouz(m): 10:57am On Aug 19, 2022
Divay22:
Hahahahaha
But he's right though grin grin
That nigga talks too much
I wouldn't say that. He just explains in details.

Just say you don't like him, ok? grin

How are you jare?
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by bigpicture001: 11:08am On Aug 19, 2022
Orgasmgiver123:
Somebody that is good in English should narrate the epistle for me abeg
I stopped at “ lets call him ben”


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here
Mr.. English I hail ooo
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Orgasmgiver123(m): 11:10am On Aug 19, 2022
bigpicture001:
Mr.. English I hail ooo
cool
I hail you too bruv
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nobody: 11:42am On Aug 19, 2022
Justkatty:
After 2years come back and claim your childhuh
God!!! Person wey do you this thing e no go better for am.
na lie?
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Justkatty(f): 12:49pm On Aug 19, 2022
BadRadio:
na lie?
I pity who go carry belle for you.
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nobody: 3:31pm On Aug 19, 2022
Op is your story fictional?

I don't think any cultist would have fallen for an EFCC threat, they are cultists, theyll just attack her in the middle of the night, force her to produce the money and maybe kill her or not...

How will she call EFCC?
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 19, 2022
Justkatty:
I pity who go carry belle for you.
na u nah... cheesy
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by luminouz(m): 5:29pm On Aug 19, 2022
LordVoldermort:
Op is your story fictional?

I don't think any cultist would have fallen for an EFCC threat, they are cultists, theyll just attack her in the middle of the night, force her to produce the money and maybe kill her or not...

How will she call EFCC?
Another person with logical reasoning.

Just too few people are capable of such on NL. Nice one
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Divay22(f): 6:56pm On Aug 19, 2022
luminouz:
I wouldn't say that. He just explains in details.

Just say you don't like him, ok? grin

How are you jare?
Na the details too dey long so grin

I'm good and you?
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by luminouz(m): 7:12pm On Aug 19, 2022
Divay22:
Na the details too dey long so grin

I'm good and you?
I full ground jare ..

When are you making my pounded yam with egusi soup na?

You promised!!!
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Divay22(f): 7:44pm On Aug 19, 2022
luminouz:
I full ground jare ..

When are you making my pounded yam with egusi soup na?

You promised!!!
Hahahahaha
When last did you eat in your dreams? grin grin
I'll do the needful there
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nwaotu10(m): 8:23pm On Aug 19, 2022
Ben Is a SIMP le man grin
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by luminouz(m): 9:22pm On Aug 19, 2022
Divay22:
Hahahahaha
When last did you eat in your dreams? grin grin
I'll do the needful there
grin grin
Bad geh
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by AlphaTaikun: 9:41am On Aug 20, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. The way he's a fugitive to his fraud victims is the same way his girlfriend is a fugitive to him. Now, he understands the feelings that come with being a victim of a scam and other fraudulent activities. Thief catch thief. Lol.

Ok, that's for that.

2. Say no to crime in whatever shape, style, and color. But be ruthless in the attainment of genuine goals and ambitions.

3. Women have men they love. No matter what you do for them they will remain loyal to that man. Rich or poor, it doesn't matter.

4. You cannot buy a woman's love with money. Showing her money from the onset is like exposing your wounds to dogs. They will lick and parasitize on you till they fill their stomach.

5. If you are a rich man, weigh every word of your sexual partner twice, thrice, several times. Same with other people.

They don't love you. What they love is your money.

6. Don't be blinded by love. Romance is an adventure for men, but many men have fallen there without being able to rise because they were not wise and proactive in their dealings with women.

7. Your woman should not know the secret of your business. Don't allow romance to make you become an open book and easily predictable. Refer to 6 above.

8. Once a woman starts pressurizing you, you must take time to know the underlying factor responsible for it. Most times, it is a way of manipulation.

9. When people hasten you to do something, they probably have something to gain. And they will abandon you if the results backfire. Thread with caution.

9. Avoid every form of a long-distance sexual relationship. The cost always outweighs the reason or benefit behind it.

10. You don't monitor or spy on women. That's a fool's job.

Once you suspect any ulterior motive caution her. If it persists, disown her. Time spent acting as an undercover should be channeled into other productive areas of life. With women, guts and intuitions take the lead. Then, follow with reason.

11. If she allows other men in her DM and space when in a relationship, it means you are still an option. This should make you never take her seriously. Just fun and cruise.

Women can only be loyal to one man. If she's not, she's for the street. Refer to the 3 above.

12. Don't take women at face value. Before you commit to her, you must examine her thoroughly.

You will know a woman's true color when you are poor than when you are rich. In the presence of abundance, manipulators are attentive and pretentious.

Who stands by you when you are poor? Who wants to exchange value for value with you? This is a litmus test to determine the quality of people you should take as acquaintances.

13. If she's not consistent with her behavior dump her. Except she's ascending.

14. Don't spend on women that have not submitted to you. (Marriage is the seal).

15. Men and women can't be friends. But if she insists, never spend. Only reciprocate kind gestures.

16. Don't believe every word women say. Judge their character and words. Refer to 5 above.

17. Better to help men than women. Ungrateful people abound, but in the scenario that anyone will help you when you're in a tough challenge, the probability that it will be a man is higher. Women don't associate with losers. (Even the poor man she's loyal to provides her emotional feelings and things other men can't).

18. If you want to help a woman, help her father, brother, nephew, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or son. These people will help her. But you have helped them to better their lives and they can now help their women.

19. Don't fall for romance because it will ruin you as a man. Guard your edges in your dealings with women. Refer to 6 above.

20. Say no to fraud. Say no to crime. Truth, logic, wisdom, and integrity no matter how ignored or bastardized are the only savior that can help us as individuals and as a society. Money is material and can never erase their importance.

Thanks.
Word!
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Veetee(op): 12:09pm On Aug 20, 2022
LordVoldermort:
Op is your story fictional?

I don't think any cultist would have fallen for an EFCC threat, they are cultists, theyll just attack her in the middle of the night, force her to produce the money and maybe kill her or not...

How will she call EFCC?
It is never a fictional story, the only thing not real there in the story is the name of the friend I am talking about

If you are close to cultist or you have them as friends in school, you would realise cultist are cowards. at the mention of police, they would start pannicking. A cultist doesnt like to be involved with police issues let alone EFCC.

EFCC recently invaded the street Ben lives in so he is fully aware of such threat. Some group of yahoo guys hooked up with some girls and they didnt settle them on the agreed fee, the girls returned with EFCC officials and they arrested all the boys, a guy escaped through the fence to a neigboring compound, the efcc guys followed him and cut up with him, they even ended up arresting guys in the compound he ran too.
so bro yahoo boys or cultist fear security officials alot.
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by oguntoyese: 12:50pm On Aug 20, 2022
Stupid simp
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 20, 2022
Veetee:
It is never a fictional story, the only thing not real there in the story is the name of the friend I am talking about

If you are close to cultist or you have them as friends in school, you would realise cultist are cowards. at the mention of police, they would start pannicking. A cultist doesnt like to be involved with police issues let alone EFCC.

EFCC recently invaded the street Ben lives in so he is fully aware of such threat. Some group of yahoo guys hooked up with some girls and they didnt settle them on the agreed fee, the girls returned with EFCC officials and they arrested all the boys, a guy escaped through the fence to a neigboring compound, the efcc guys followed him and cut up with him, they even ended up arresting guys in the compound he ran too.
so bro yahoo boys or cultist fear security officials alot.
Ok, Good explanation
Re: Hard Lessons I Got From A Friend's Messy Break Up. by zed7: 8:29pm On Aug 20, 2022
Also realise that a girl dating a yahoo boy is taking a big risk. He can use her for rituals.
My take on the story, stay far away from Yahoo boys at all cost, both male and female.
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