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| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by brandsoncharlie: 11:59pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
Justkatty:He should save up for wetin na, u want to kill the man. After she has regain fully, she should work. I wouldn’t advice any lady to wait for her husband because anything can happen. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by livinbygrace: 12:00am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Mcslize:If you want to waste your money and give village people your glory,invest I. Forex.No be only touch down ,na touch up.Werey people . |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:01am On Aug 24, 2022 |
zed7:U think is every Nigerian that lives in this our Lagos? Lmao Go to Jos and see cheap food stuff. With 500 a pot of stew/soup is sure...locations where varieties abound,u tend to spend less. @op,if wifey can’t do white collar job because of pregnancy wahala. Pls open a small business for her. Let her run a business...if rent is an issue she can start from home or she learns a skill...does she have passion for baking/food business or anything? She can start attending a class from a pro. Think about this pls. Wahala no dey finish |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:01am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Minjim:How often does your wife insult you? Don't be ashamed, tell us. It's an anonymous forum ![]() |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:04am On Aug 24, 2022 |
AstraDroid:This is a white man mentality. Kids in Nigeria are a blessing and the sole reason for getting married. If there are no kids, then there is no marriage. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Acidosis(m): 12:05am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Minjim:How long will you continue to pay annual rent with your 4-month salary as a married man with responsibilities? Thank God you have a support system but shouldn't you be making more concrete and realistic plans for yourself? Be smart and stop blaming your wife. You and your partner need to share a common vision. That's something you need to work on. She's not a tree. Talk to her, she would listen. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:09am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Minjim:See the way you’re overheating. That’s the right word used to describe what you’re doing to your old man. But know that,It’s not your fault and it can never be your fault. I am sure you’re a graduate,if the country was good,Daddy’s money won’t entice u,not at all. Long life to ur Daddy |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:12am On Aug 24, 2022 |
pansophist:I beseech u to open your eyes and read thoroughly what he posted. While keeping ur Nigeria mentality aside, Go and read that post again |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:16am On Aug 24, 2022*. Modified: 12:37am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Food prices are the most expensive thing in Nigeria. I shuttle in and out of Nigeria frequently and I can tell you for a fact that the more developed a country is, the cheaper food becomes. If I take 20 euros to the open market here, I'll feed for straight one week. I'll buy at least 3kg of chicken, oil, rice, tomatoes, fruits, bread, drinks, pepper, potatoes, vegetables, and even small chop at the market. And its because all these food are grown mostly in the country. Meanwhile Nigeria imports frozen chicken, rice, oil, and lots of foods. This is why things are expensive. And our farmers mostly don't use farm machines, yielding less crops, and no national logistics to move perishable foods quickly to consumers. And the end, the consumer suffers it all. All the bottleneck prices will be heaped on the end buyer. This is why foods are expensive. I respect you my man. I don't think I can survive on that. I'll just remain single before one daughter of man go change am for me. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:17am On Aug 24, 2022 |
pansophist:Honestly I dislike lazy women. @minjim The day your wife insults u,use ur charging cord to tie those her lazy mouth. Na her mate dey ring bell for bend down select dem;for Balogun market...Na her mates dey go waterside for Oron to go buy fresh fish to sell in d market. Na her mates dey push wheel barrow with coolers of cooked food for sale. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:20am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Landmack:Youre right, but that's not a good way to look at it. Ungrateful Women will always live amongst us, but why marry such in the first place? Such women should be left for the rich men that deserves them. I hope she finds such a man. At the end, age humbles us all. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by profnez(m): 12:23am On Aug 24, 2022 |
xxmoney15:Brotherly don't give up on the forex stuff, I'm also interested, please can I meet you on WhatsApp? |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:23am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Landmack:I did. My point stands. People marry in Nigeria mostly for kids. So his suggestion will not be adopted by the poor masses. UN projection is that by 2100, Nigeria will be more populated than China. Nigeria population has also tripled from the 70's, and growing exponentially. We have one of the highest birth rate in the world, which testify to what i said earlier. I repeat, people marry for kids in naija. Companionship is a topping. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:24am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Tobaadis:I’m very sure the FG establishment is the sole reason why u allowed her to stay at KD if not U for don drag her down to your base. You’re not an igbo man,are you? Na only my igbo brother go tell him wife to resign from her well paid job and come join him; even if he is soaking Garri morning and night at his base and can hardly feed himself,I lie? |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:27am On Aug 24, 2022 |
pansophist:Same thing I told him. When he was supposed to be taking courtship very serious,they’ll be busy fornicating 6-6 . So how then do they study their partners ? How then do they know who to dump at the right time before together forever? ![]() |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Nobody: 12:29am On Aug 24, 2022 |
pansophist:It is not really a white man's mentality. it is a wise man's mentality irrespective of race and complexion. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:31am On Aug 24, 2022 |
123readygo:Mehn, my heart melt reading op post. And what's worse? There are folks than earns way lower with kids. Just pause and imagine their pain. I can't imagine going through life with only survival on my mind and not to thrive, to live, and pursue something meaningful. Also, a man feels alive when he can comfortably cater for his family. The fast way to depress a man is to make him incapable of taking care of his family. And majority of men in naija live through this. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:36am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Landmack:Last last, many people are the architect of their own problems ![]() Normally if I see people suffering stupidly, before I pity the person, I always ask, "what did he do"?, is it his fault? You can't put your hand in a crocodiles mouth and shocked when it cut it off. Courting for many people is to nack and nack, then marry, then suffer. Then yab each other until their either endure or divorce. Men suppose de look well well, because men carries the burden of marriage mostly. Verify the woman or you pay for it. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:36am On Aug 24, 2022 |
pansophist:Nigeria population will continue to quadruple because poor pple are still giving birth like rats. The govt keeps looking away from this impending danger...in fact, the danger already lives with us. Who gave birth to the bandits and other vices? |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by profnez(m): 12:38am On Aug 24, 2022 |
beekyynd:Please teach me, I have been learning since last year, I have blowed my account several times but I will never give up on forex trading. Please teach me your techniques. Can I meet you on WhatsApp? |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Landmack: 12:42am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Kudos to those old parents whose children are surviving on their wealth/inheritance. Those were d parents whom were hustling and saving up cash either to buy landed properties or to establish a big business and now posterity dey enjoy their hardwork and wisdom. Some parents had those privilege but chose to squander them on ashawos/frivolities of the 60s,70’s etc and now don’t even have a pin to their name. It’s well o |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by pansophist(m): 12:44am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Landmack:Naija government does not serve the mass. Infact Nigerians defacto are stateless. You are on paper, a citizen of Nigeria but in practice, you have no citizenship. When your relationship with the state is one of pain, wickedness, anger and indifference, its safe to say that such person has no citizenship in practice. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by tamcamp253: 12:52am On Aug 24, 2022 |
God will Bless your wife and she will put to bed successfully a beautiful and healthy baby By God grace tomtomastom4: |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by HappyDolphinRea: 12:57am On Aug 24, 2022 |
tomtomastom4:i did not see any where you mentioned saving for delivery aka hospital bill i budgeted 100k for delivery but finally paid 400k so think twice on the matter |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by toprealman: 12:57am On Aug 24, 2022 |
tomtomastom4:I wish I had the opportunity to recruit you to work or me. You are a real man! |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Chydo63(m): 12:58am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Rozross:i followed your initial thread and know how much you asked for a breakdown like this and i wondered what you actually wanted it for. Now that this OP has taken time to elaborate on his expenditure, you still didn't satisfy my curiosity. Why exactly did you want this breakdown in the first place? A response from you could really help to disabuse the minds of several people who hitherto perceived you as a gold digger! |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Nobody: 1:28am On Aug 24, 2022 |
tomtomastom4:Is she having birth complications? If no, why is she at home doing nothing when she's just five months? That's how laziness starts. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by seanwilliam(m): 1:40am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Kudos to you op. May God bless you and your supportive wife however, right now, by balance diet, it’s practically impossible for two adults to feed on 20k per week here in southwest especially in Lagos . Infact , a single man can’t boost of balance diet with 20k per week in this kind of economy most especially if he’s not cooking at home.. and pls have it at the back of your mind that you’re not living life, you’re just surviving and I pray you don’t have health issues cos you’re not eating good food and you can’t afford sound medical care.. Again , God will bless u . Pls endeavor to multiply your source of income and your wife should get something doing no matter how small . No way I will suffer myself like this, I won’t survive it for long. |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Nobody: 1:45am On Aug 24, 2022 |
It's only a woman who's on a similar level who will marry a man like him, so he has no reason to feel guilty about his situation. They're in it together. They can get to a better place together. Blessedmercy8: |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Mcslize: 1:50am On Aug 24, 2022 |
livinbygrace:Before you type, you supposed know I am already in the game. See this one say I should go and invest. We don't invest, we analyze and place trades and the market works for us. We are technical analysts. That is if you even know what that means. You will just open mouth WA cuz u want to type. Most of you lack proper information. You don't even know how something works. Get some exposures young man before you open mouth WA. Na small boy wey u senior dey analyze charts and living his best life so. Most of you prefer 9-5 job than having a skill that will give you precious freedom. Yeye! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcS3Z1QwfY0&t=53s |
| Re: How I Survive On A Salary Of 95k As A Married Man by Mcslize: 2:14am On Aug 24, 2022*. Modified: 2:42am On Aug 24, 2022 |
Eagba:To an extent but it depends on if you are day trader or a swing trader. With your technical analysis and price action knowledge, fundamental won't have any influence on your setups if you are a swing trader. I learned from one of the best. As in, this guy is just too good. I follow exactly how he trades. He don't bother himself with fundamental and we are all doing very well. Top down analysis is a process of analyzing a particular price chart from a higher timeframe to a lower timeframe to project thousands of pips into the future, using past historical price movements based on your major key levels (support & resistance key levels). Your major key levels are the zones or areas where price respected or retested multiple times without breaking past it. Price movements are mostly reverted at major levels which directly gives you clue of where the market will move. With that top down analysis knowledge and a proper risk and psychological management, you will hardly lose trades. Cuz you will always look out for the best setups in the market. You will 80% of the time be able to ascertain the direction of the market. It's not magic. It's something you learn and will be so good in it. Like my mentor will always say, allow the market to come to you and knock on your door. Don't chase the market. Top down Analysis Strategy criteria 1. Identify the direction of the trend on monthly time frame 2. Plot your major key levels on the weekly time frame 3. Look for trading opportunities on the daily time frame 4. Place your trades on the 4 hour time frame, close your laptop/phone and go about your daily life and let the market work for you. I am grateful for getting to know about Forex and taking action I won't lie. Once you are good, you are good. Nothing can stop you. |
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