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CovenHighPriest:
Who remembers Putit? I don't recall him calling it redpill then but his threads were beautiful, I don't know why he chose to deactivate his account.

His threads focused more on masculine excellence and how men should act and not simp. I don't remember names or have links to those threads (anyone that remember any of them should please post the link to those threads) but I'll always remember this one not just for what he preached there but how women didn't want such message to get to guys; they shamed men endlessly in that thread even tho Putit was holding men accountable smh, it was their selfish nature playing out and not wanting men to think for a second and realize that they were actually acting stupid in the name of trying to get laid.
Here's the thread https://www.nairaland.com/3757217/men-getting-weaker-women-getting
I would call this guy's thread my glitch in the matrix.

Then from his threads I discovered similar ones like Harddon, respect to that guy. Game is an important aspect of this game and he was an expertise in that department, but to me it was like being given expo in the exam hall, you'll pass but what happens when you get called in by the panel for defense?

Now that's where Ubunja comes in, he was the hero that most of us needed and not only did he connect the dots he showed us why things are not the way we taught they were. That thread explaining why guys are like that and girls are like this was monumental to the understanding of male and female sexual dynamics; his awareness of female nature was unmatched and it gave many maybe not a solid win but a least a fighting chance!.

I remember one time he was asked what motivated him to write the miseducations and he replied; "I am tired of men that was meant to conquer and dominate the world being conquered by something as small as pussy". Now gentleman that's a noble and enough reason for me. #Respect!

In recent times, men are getting weaker while women are getting stronger. Most men now act weak around women. That's why there are so many spoilt n disrespectful young women out there.

It's damn crazy..

There are so many wussy men who now eat up and condole these girls bad behaviors because they need sex from them. These spoilt women now feel they can eat their cake and have it. That's bad

Women can't live without men and they know it.. It's no surprise all my life I have heard women say they would rather hangout with male instead of female because they tend to get along with guys. And note that women with more male friends have more sex but not actually with them.

If a woman is placed in a jungle were there are wild animals, I doubt if she'll come out alive but put a man in a jungle full of wild animal, there is possibility he'll survive because men have physical attributes that can help him fight predators. Men have the body suited for fighting both animal and man.


Women may not possess the physical attributes of men but they have the ability to emotionally manipulate men..It's no wonder a girl of 20 years old can make a man of 45 years old behave like a 5 years old boy. Sex is the most powerful tool women have against men


Women are the gate keepers of sex while men are the gate keepers of commitment/relationships. Women knows they are the sexual gate keepers, and they know some men can sacrifices their kidneys (or even their life) for sex. That's why they take full advantages of it to emotionally manipulate men to get what they want.

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women.

SEX is the most powerful weapon a woman have against a man

ATTENTION (or validation) is the most powerful weapon a man have against a woman.

Men are not taking advantage of the power ( of attention) they have. Women needs men attention. That's why they spend long time making up and painting their face before stepping out of their house
Attention is important to women ( and I think they love male attention more than sex itself). A man can manipulate a woman’s desire through adjustments to the amount or intensity of attention he gives to or withholds from her.

That's why a woman will chase a man that pay/give less attention to her.

CovenHighPriest:
Who remembers Putit? I don't recall him calling it redpill then but his threads were beautiful, I don't know why he chose to deactivate his account.

His threads focused more on masculine excellence and how men should act and not simp. I don't remember names or have links to those threads (anyone that remember any of them should please post the link to those threads) but I'll always remember this one not just for what he preached there but how women didn't want such message to get to guys; they shamed men endlessly in that thread even tho Putit was holding men accountable smh, it was their selfish nature playing out and not wanting men to think for a second and realize that they were actually acting stupid in the name of trying to get laid.
Here's the thread https://www.nairaland.com/3757217/men-getting-weaker-women-getting
I would call this guy's thread my glitch in the matrix.

Then from his threads I discovered similar ones like Harddon, respect to that guy. Game is an important aspect of this game and he was an expertise in that department, but to me it was like being given expo in the exam hall, you'll pass but what happens when you get called in by the panel for defense?

Now that's where Ubunja comes in, he was the hero that most of us needed and not only did he connect the dots he showed us why things are not the way we taught they were. That thread explaining why guys are like that and girls are like this was monumental to the understanding of male and female sexual dynamics; his awareness of female nature was unmatched and it gave many maybe not a solid win but a least a fighting chance!.

I remember one time he was asked what motivated him to write the miseducations and he replied; "I am tired of men that was meant to conquer and dominate the world being conquered by something as small as pussy". Now gentleman that's a noble and enough reason for me. #Respect!

A very long post, but If you're smart you learn a lot from it.

The only time you are allow pay for sex is when the girl identifies herself as a 'prostitute'. A prostitute is a woman who engaged in sexual inter course for money. So If you approach a prostitute for sex, you must pay, so you wouldn't be embarrassed..

If a woman does not identifies herself as a prostitute, I don't see any reason why you should be giving her money.

Now let me tell you few solid reasons why giving a woman money in hope of sleeping with her is totally useless...>.
Recent research and studies as found that women (especially in their 20s) earns more than men of same age. You might be doubting, but there's truth in that study. 3 month ago my cousin(a guy)went for a job interview at a notable company. About 17 job seekers (graduates) showed up for the interview. 8 were ladies while the rest were men. According to my angry cousin, After the interview, when the results was out, 7 out of 8 the ladies got employed, and 1 other guy. The rest on them were placed on PENDING. He was angry because he was sure he performed well at the interview.
He( my cousin) said the only dude who got the job has an uncle who works in that company. In fact that was reasons the dude was able to secure a job..

Now, I'm not going to judge only based on my cousin's experience. Speaking from my personal experience and some of my close friends experience, women are mostly favoured when it comes securing and getting jobs.. That was why I was not so surprise when I heard ( on a Television program) that women earn more than men.
You see, Currently the average 25 years old lady is richer than the average 25 years old dude..

That's one reason why treating a woman with any financial favor in order to share her company romantically or sexually is totally useless..

I'll tell you another reason why it's foolish to do so.


A years ago, about 2 days to Xmas, I met a very good and close friend of mine. A lady. No doubt, she's a very beautiful lady, even without makeup. While we were discussing, I told her she must celebrate Christmas for me. She gave me her (ATM) Card and told me to take 4k from her account.
I happily hurried to the nearest bank to withdraw the cash. After withdrawing the cash, I decided to check her account balance. My GOD!!, she has almost a million in her account. I was SHOCKED.
I was shocked because she was not from a rich family and as at that time, she just started working at a small industry and she has just worked for only 6 month month. Her pay is not even up to 50k naira..

When I got back to her, After confessing to her about checking her account balance. I playfully confronted her on how she got that huge money.. She's was honest with me. She said most of the money are from MEN

Now, If you're guy reading these, in your mind might be screaming "slut"..But that's far from the Truth, not all beautiful girls are slut. Don't be stupid.

Pay attention to these....>

She confessed something to me ( I already know from my personal experience with women). She told me she does not need to have sex with a man for the him to give her any financial favor. While she spoke I listen to her curiously, she said all she has to do is to flash the guy FAKE GREENLIGHT, and with that she'll extorting cash from him..

Fake Greenlight from a girl means;; she's sincerely does not find you attractive and not interested in you sexually or romantically but will PRETEND she is, in order to obtain financial favor (or any other kind of favour) from you..
The Truth is most women are like that, especially the ones in their 20s..

You might be thinking in your head " this is so unfair, women are heartless, women are selfish, women are wicked, women are bitches, women are bla bla bla bla bla"..Lol

Don't be silly bro, women didn't point gun at your face and forced you to spend your energy and MONEY on them. That was you own decision.

That's another reason you should never feel obligated to spend on women.

Let me tell one more reasons you should not feel obligated to spend money on a girl you are interested in sexually or romantically.

Another reason is ' WOMEN LOVE SEX'.

Yes, women love sex as much as men love sex..DON'T BE DECEIVED.

Back in the days before I even got admission into the university, I use believe women will only agree to have sleep with you if you're RICH, or let me say I used to think women will only have sex with you If you spend a significant amount of money on them. It was when I grew some BALLS and start meeting and dating women, I realized that believe was false.

In fact, It was not until I started sleeping girls whom their boyfriend is spend more money on them than me, and I was not even spending any huge significant of sum of money on the women, I discovered that "believe" that women will only date or have sex with you if you're rich is totally false..

That's is it guys, never feel obligated to spend on a lady even if she's your girlfriend or you want to make her girlfriend or any other reason.

Final note;
Don't get me wrong, I never say you must never spend money on her. If you want to spend money on her, do it on your TERMS, do it because you just felt like spending on her at that moment.

Please never feel obligated to spend on woman SIMPLY because she's a woman and she has boobs and fine ass..

Guys should work and build them self to the MAN they want to become..


Work hard and be wise.

ubunja:
it's how they do it. A lot of guys here have no problem complaining about female nature day and night posting memes and articles about women's cruelty,, but the moment there's a proposal that men do something and be proactive and take concrete steps to play the game to win, for a change, suddenly you're called an agent of chaos who's endlessly immoral.

Myself I'm taking a page from the women's playbook and doing them how they do men.

Most girls will not like this post especially the materialistic/ slay queens . Not all women are materialistic and manipulative. There are some real, classy and confident ladies out there.
Only weak men can be easily manipulated and women know it. There are different ways women (sub)consciously check to decide if you're a weak wussy guy they can easily manipulate;

- If she can gets away with acting like a spoil little girl, being rude or disrespecting you, she'll know you're weak and easily manipulated
- If she can easily influence you to behave in a certain manner i.e she can get you to behave in a supplicating manner towards her, she'll know you're not a REAL MAN but a weak man she can control and manipulative to achieve her own selfish agenda.

When a woman notice she cannot manipulate you or use her sexual appeal to control you, she'll either hate you (and start avoiding you) OR respect you( and start trying to get your attention).

But here is the problem with most (weak) men, they don't want any woman to hate them or reject them. They want every girl they woo to like and accept them. They want sex from every girl they meet.. And guess what;; when a materialistic/manipulative woman noticed that from you, she smartly take advantage of you. These kind of women will end up wasting your time, MONEY and energy. BE WARNED.


Realistically, a materialistic/manipulative woman can be deceptive. When she encounters a man she can easily manipulate, she'll gives him the wrong impression and make him think she's interested in him. This dude will start catching feelings and start obsessing over her. With that she can easily toy with his emotions and get him to do anything she want. Poor boy. ... (A moment of silence for any guy in that situation right now).

One funny but pathetic thing I have noticed about some guys (especially weak guys) is that they like bossy women. They like a woman who plays too hard to get. They always chase after her online, offline, anywhere they meet her... They try to get her attention. These men tends to assume that women who play hard to get are high quality, good, classy women. Men who are experience with women knows that's not true..
If she's playing too hard to get for you, it's good sign that she might not be interested. Stop wasting your time on her. That same girl is easy to get for another dude somewhere..

Guys be wise.. Even the Bible says a "fool and his money are easily parted"

CaveAdullam:
1. Did Eedris Abdulkareem rose to fame immediately after birth?

Given a reasonable probability: what if the woman is responsible for his fame? What if the woman has been an important core in his life? What if she was there with him before the name, fame, and brand? These are necessary questions you need to ponder before concluding.

2. The wife donating her kidney is more than Eedris being a brand name...Eedris is out of the market, though, a music legend. The wife knows already that it will be easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for Eedris to make a stampede audience come back to the music industry considering his health and age. This should tell you something.

3. It is still a debate whether humans are inherently altruistic or selfish. Looking at it from both sides, humans occupy both sides. They are altruistic when it comes to kinship, territory, resources, and mate - this ensures the continuity of their genetic line in the gene pool.

Ditto they are selfish - they want to accrue everything for themselves to ensure optimum survival and continuity in the gene pool.

4. The mating strategies between men and women conflict. For one to gain, the other must lose. Yet, both still evolved to be complementary, alleviating their weaknesses. However, in humans, as a result of our intellect and civilization, there's already sexual exploitation.

5. Like it or not, man has the burden on performance placed upon his shoulders. By being a man:

a. You must prove yourself to yourself because you don't want to remain at the bottom. And, or,

b. you must prove yourself to society because only then can you gain respect and power. If you don't desire/have power and respect, those that have it will make you their subject. And, or,

c. you must prove yourself to gain women. Remember hypergamy. And that your priority as an animal on a subconscious and primal level is: Reproduction.

6. Men being protectors and providers is what has brought us to this age and stage of civilization. The burden is instinctual. Men can default to an extent based on how much you harangue them, but because it is an instinct, they will fall back to it. You can't erase the effects of genes by environmental influences. Highest you can do is to redirect behaviors and strict laws. But genes will always find a way to express themselves and you should work with them to a reasonable course.

7. Men have never complained about their duties until recently when they discovered that their rewards are shortchanged and are being exploited. Scenarios like these will lead to procrastination in men, men's withdrawal from society, and the decline of society. When men are no longer in charge of the horns, the bull goes wild.

8. If hypergamy is a straight jacket, women will never consider marriage even for a single day. Because there are men who are better than the man she is committing to.

The issue of unscrupulous, neurotic, and ignorant monkey branching among women today is because of the polluted sexual and family laws and the effects of social media.

There's no control, no law, therefore, everything roams with freedom. Womens' monkey branching today or hyper-hypergamy is still for one reason: the best mate - good genes and resources.

9. Genuine desire doesn't mean martyrdom, or saviorhood, however, it may lead to that.

Genuine desire means women are the choosy sex: they choose the men they want to mate with, thereby making it easy for men to reproduce with them. By the way, what do men want from women: sex? Other things that come with it are just additions.

Sex is a woman's highest investment in a relationship because it leads to a risky condition: pregnancy, which leads to a strenuous job: nurturing children. Men don't care about a woman's finance. Men date down, women date high.Or, roughly at the same level for both.

The woman that chooses you will make sexual intercourse with her easy, meaning that she is ready to bear the cost of pregnancy and other consequences as a result of her sexual relationship.

Also, she can be altruistic because she protects your genetic lineage - children. And selfish because you satisfied her biological imperative - hypergamy.

As a man, you are altruistic because you care for both the woman and children and you are also selfish because you used her to satisfy your reproductive desires - children.

Romantic love is how both sides play their game.

Aside from sex cum reproduction which is the utmost essence of genuine desire, a woman can show love, or act as a companion or assistance to a man.

Abundance mentality should not be left out, Genuine desire or not, a man should make way for his reproductive rights.

10. Humans, amid their psychological and sexual behavior are both altruistic and selfish.

DAY 236, REDPILL 2022.

Authority: Be wise.

Cc. Heartofcity12

heartofcity12:
Hmmn, it’s why they say all roads lead to sex.
Cc: ubunja

heartofcity12:
Exactly.
NM isn’t an upcoming artiste tho..

heartofcity12:
Boom

Alvelt14:
UBUNJA deserves all the accolades. He really changed my perception about women and life in general.

Forever grateful.

Respect.

Tranquility2345:
This na wetin that fool dey wish una when he say make una dey impregnate babymamas up and down. I pity the idiots wey go listen to the fool

Martinez39s:
Ubunja really tried a lot and he earned all the respect he has. At a time, and for a long while, Ubunja was the face of the red pill on nairaland. Even the creator of this thread, GLYCOLYSISS, was once somewhat of a blue pill fellow on nairaland some years back; he slowly became redpilled around the time of Ubunja's miseducations and the time of others, myself included.

The time I really gained hoped that anyone can be saved was when a certain nwaezeemannuel (the former Ozo of nairaland) became a redpiller and started sympathising with us. Good old days for those that can remember.

ubunja:
80/20 is in full effect. "You don't need women to be a man just succeed and you're a man". nope. success without women is always a miserable existence for men cause they get lonely easy.
in all my writings I've never talked about sexual temperance and sexual control cause I've always operated from the viewpoint that most men are struggling to get sex and telling someone who's starving for puccy to deal with puccy in moderation has always been hilarious to me--- how you gonna be moderate and have self control around women when you're not getting any women to begin with?

what most men need is women, especially sex. that's what male loneliness is all about. it's also why for ages, even before that article on THE RISE OF SINGLE LONELY MEN came out, I put that display picture on my profile that explains what male loneliness is.

even before that article came out,, I knew a lot of men were lonely, that is, not getting sex. and it's funny how a lot of men don't wanna hear anything about sex and will go to great lengths to call you shallow and desperate for always talking about sex and not other nobler things like building your career etc,, but the same men, after building themselves find that women are not exactly streaming to them, and they're left lonely with all their achievements. as said article has revealed.

hypergamy declares women want someone who makes more than them,, yet the same women are screwing nobodies and getting pregnant for nobodies. how do you reconcile the two?
well hypergamy IS NOT sexual. what turns a woman on is the same regardless of a man's financial position. if a woman is turned on by muscles, she'll be turned on by muscles regardless of the guy's job status - just that if muscle guy is top achieving, a woman will deal with him PUBLICLY,,but if he's a broke failure, the woman will deal with him SECRETLY. at either state, muscle guy will get the puccy. it's why/how many times, broke men and successful men end up dealing with the same type of chicks. cause both are what turns her on.
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make I go download am

Ballzproblem2:
effect of Andrew Tates , thanks to rumble he is back ,his haters
will gnash their teeth ,I like the CEO of this platform he stands for free speech ,but he should be careful , anybody that goes against blue pill ideology gets attacked from all angles

Martinez39s:
Ubunja really tried a lot and he earned all the respect he has. At a time, and for a long while, Ubunja was the face of the red pill on nairaland. Even the creator of this thread, GLYCOLYSISS, was once somewhat of a blue pill fellow on nairaland some years back; he slowly became redpilled around the time of Ubunja's miseducations and the time of others, myself included.

The time I really gained hoped that anyone can be saved was when a certain nwaezeemannuel (the former Ozo of nairaland) became a redpiller and started sympathising with us. Good old days for those that can remember.

MJBOLT:

make I go download am

BigBashiru:
Why doesn't ubuja post again

emmaodet:
Hi Marto, i am fine likewise family and yours?

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blinking001:
I remember nwaezeemmanuel's era of simping. He took simping to a whole new level.
Myself inclusive i was once a SIMPle man, when i remember those years i just smh in regrets. Imagine exchanging banter with a fellow male nairalander all because i was defending an american uncouth biitch here. Spits. Never again.

CR777:
Please don't ever write 2pac Shakur and Will Smith's name on the same page/sentence.

Both names are like light and darkness, they can never meet.
50 Will smiths can't be compared to the fearless 2Pac.
Even Jada herself still hasn't gotten over the love and admiration she had for 2pac despite his death 26 years ago. Couldn't have said this any better... Very apt bro. Pac and smith are like parrarell lines

A man who fought white supremacy so hard in the late 80s and early 90s when racism was at its peak shouldn't be likened to a fool who is still with a woman that openly admitted to sleeping with her son's friend.

Yes, Pac loved and admired different women but he was no where near being a simp and never showed any symptom of oneitis.
He loved and held his mother so dearly but never failed to caution her when she fu*ked up by her constant use of drugs and relapses.

He was never afraid of confronting anyone be you Man, woman, friend, foe or even the president.

Never make that comparison again bro.

Pukkalolo:
Most men are struggling to get sex. And our today's society contribute greatly to this.

They make something as easy as getting sex very complicated. The society create unrealistic yardstick for guys to get ordinary sex, and these yardstick is almost quite impossible to live up to.

Society says you must first become a high value, high status, inspirational, badass and successful motherfu*ker before you can get girls and sex.

The movies is a huge contributor to this. The movies is one of the biggest factors that have messed up men's sex life. In most movies, there's always a good guy, a beautiful girl and the bad guy. The bad guy is there to terrorize the people and the beautiful girl.

As anticipated, the good guy goes to fight the bad guy disturbing the peace of the people. The beautiful girl is probably held hostage by the bad guy. The good guy goes ahead to rescue her. The good guy eventually rescue the people, and the land is safe again. At the end of the movie, the beautiful girl rewards the good guy with a kiss. And that's the end of the movie.

Almost all movies have their story line similar to this in one way or the other. Now, isn't that ridiculous.

These movies plants a seed in a boy's head that he's not really worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless he’s does something epical, mind blowing and legendary.

And when the boy sees that he can never be Superman or Spider Man, which means he can never do something mind-blowing and legendary in order to win the affection of a beautiful girl, he’ll try to achieve this by making attempts to impress her with his designers, champagne, Rolex watch or fancy car OR he act like a well-mannered nice guy and showers her with financial and materialistic gifts so she’ll think good things about him.

I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me by ladies because I understand that attraction and getting sex is primitively simple---but the society and media complicate things for guys by saying you must cure cancer, build space ship and become a man of greatness that a stadium full of people are dying to touch before you can finally get the girl.

But that's total bullshit.

Anyways, my point is, you don't necessarily have to become the next Elon, Amazon, Mark, Gate /Mandela, before you can get common sex.

Pukkalolo:
God bless you for writing this...You just said what's typically on my mind.

Getting girls and sex is originally simple; Or how else do you explain how there are billions of people in the world. Peope didn't come from the moon: People sex each other behind close doors to produce people.

Most men are struggling to get sex. And our today's society contribute greatly to this.

They make something as easy as getting sex very complicated. The society create unrealistic yardstick for guys to get ordinary sex, and these yardstick is almost quite impossible to live up to.

Society says you must first become a high value, high status, inspirational, badass and successful motherfu*ker before you can get girls and sex.

The movies is a huge contributor to this. The movies is one of the biggest factors that have messed up men's sex life. In most movies, there's always a good guy, a beautiful girl and the bad guy. The bad guy is there to terrorize the people and the beautiful girl.

As anticipated, the good guy goes to fight the bad guy disturbing the peace of the people. The beautiful girl is probably held hostage by the bad guy. The good guy goes ahead to rescue her. The good guy eventually rescue the people, and the land is safe again. At the end of the movie, the beautiful girl rewards the good guy with a kiss. And that's the end of the movie.

Almost all movies have their story line similar to this in one way or the other. Now, isn't that ridiculous.

These movies plants a seed in a boy's head that he's not really worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless he’s does something epical, mind blowing and legendary.

And when the boy sees that he can never be Superman or Spider Man, which means he can never do something mind-blowing and legendary in order to win the affection of a beautiful girl, he’ll try to achieve this by making attempts to impress her with his designers, champagne, Rolex watch or fancy car OR he act like a well-mannered nice guy and showers her with financial and materialistic gifts so she’ll think good things about him.

I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me by ladies because I understand that attraction and getting sex is primitively simple---but the society and media complicate things for guys by saying you must cure cancer, build space ship and become a man of greatness that a stadium full of people are dying to touch before you can finally get the girl.

But that's total bullshit.

Anyways, my point is, you don't necessarily have to become the next Elon, Amazon, Mark, Gate /Mandela, before you can get common sex.