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Femi8586:
You're getting it all wrong.

OP never said women should generally be restricted from using social media.
But getting married to a woman who is so attached to social media as a man is what could be dangerous.

It's not hating women but just the ugly truth unless you just wanna turn yourself to online women defender.

Thank you so much brother!

God bless TheGidRedpiller

Femi8586:
You're getting it all wrong.

OP never said women should generally be restricted from using social media.
But getting married to a woman who is so attached to social media as a man is what could be dangerous.

It's not hating women but just the ugly truth unless you just wanna turn yourself to online women defender.

So the ones that makes their living online and therefore, has to constantly be on all social media, are to be seen as dangerous because?

Make una dey use una sense to reason, if at this day and age, you cannot know the difference between the attention seeking little girls from the serious ones regardless of their online presence, you all need to get your brain checked

You have common sense, try to use it, instead of y'all constant generalisations and bitterness.

Pecky123:
And who told you they'll never make a good wife ? You love bashing women online why...

Who called you here?

You should write a book, even shola on twitter can't stand where you dey.

Alusiizizi:
GidRedPiller, ignore the cheap, over-used, stale narrative that this simpleton presented. They use this pseudo reverse-psychology tactic so much that they sound like a broken record, i.e. "You are a misogynist"(really?), "You are intimidated by women"(Yeah right, and my pet monkey conquered a pride of lions yesterday, dumbass!!), and let me not forget my all-time favorite "This is the 21th century or "In this modern day and age"(Sure, that means that this poster is a 21th century idi0t".

This is a lot of nonsense to put out on a faceless forum such as this. You couldn't even address the core issue. I even debated whether to reply this nonsense you put up there. Get a life son. I believe you are brighter than this

slipperyanus07:
God bless TheGidRedpiller

When last did you say the same prayer for your mum or any close members of your family?

Femi8586:
You're getting it all wrong.

OP never said women should generally be restricted from using social media.
But getting married to a woman who is so attached to social media as a man is what could be dangerous.

It's not hating women but just the ugly truth unless you just wanna turn yourself to online women defender.

So you haven't heard of social media influencers, digital content creators, and online marketers. Men and women are spending meaningful time making cool funds and you are telling me that a female partner spending too much time online is dangerous??

Where are these people from?? Because I don't understand how you can honestly think this way

Ikennaford:
Bible says you provide for them, they're the weaker sex,I follow Bible principles, your principles is man made so calm down and play the game,I don't like the way you bash women but on this one you are 100%right,no Man in his right sense will settle for Instagram or sm nude girls, they all for the street

You are a funny African
So a man made book with a touch of patriarchy says you should provide for women.. but what you really don't understand about their motive is to perpetually keep women under their authority through the purchasing power.
It's pure psychology....; And that's the only way women are willing to be under your authority(eye service)


If the reverse was the case, you as a male would still pretend to be under her authority so as to enjoy the benefits...

Issues40:
So you haven't heard of social media influencers, digital content creators, and online marketers. Men and women are spending meaningful time making cool funds and you are telling me that a female partner spending too much time online is dangerous??

Where are these people from?? Because I don't understand how you can honestly think this way

Lol. The op didn't say they ain't making cool funds... He said they are red flags for anything relationship...
If you haven't heard the concept "side Hussle", then you have a long way to go

You do not want to tell yourself the truth

Issues40:
Go and sit down somewhere or better still engage in something productive. All you think about is how to bash women online.

So women who are active on social media do not deserve husbands at all.
Let me ask you something Thegidredpiller. Do you know what dispensation we are in?? This is the 21st century son. The age of technology and digitalization. This is the age where a lot of people are making millions gaining financial freedom with the social media.

So tell me son, why should females be left out? What is this problem that you have with females that's holding you down so bad. Are you intimidated by them or something? I'm even starting to think that you are the underdog here because your posts suggest that you are scared of women and that they intimidate you a lot. And you cover all that stuff up with how women are evil and how they should be treated like shit. You devout hours of your life thinking about women and you come here on nairaland looking for young gullible boys to follow and like your posts.

It is the age of technological advancement. Men, as well as women should be allowed to use the social Media as they please. You can't be enjoying social media and be scared of your partner doing the same.... it's selfish to think that way

Don't condemn his message so soon. He is right. You're right. It's all about perspective. He understands what he is talking about but you don't see it his way. Relax and ignore or ask questions but don't condemn the message.

TheGidRedpiller:
This one thinks women ever intend on being productive in ANYTHING at all!!

This is funny, well, understand something today, if you are already married, you need to know that you are your wife's greatest asset, nothing she ever did to financially support herself even though it's something very lucrative and yielding will ever be inputted into anything concerning her more than the money she gets from you.

If you are not married, understand that even if your future wife earns 10 times more than you, you and essentially MEN in general is her real hustle.
Whatever she does for a living no matter how extravagant, IS A SIDE HUSTLE!!

Women hate the idea of having to provide for ANYONE including herself, she will always be in the hunt for men to live off of.

MY POINT; It does not matter what age we are in, women will always be in the minority when it comes to being PRODUCTIVE!!

The regular woman on social media is not trying to take advantage of the golden opportunities that come with it, she is not there for anyone but HERSELF!!
Stop lying to yourself.

Even though your comment do not have many likes, believe me, you're very right and it takes one with deep understanding and psychic skills to perfectly understand what you stated.

Most people naturally ascribe others they relate to be selfless, goody-goody and understanding until they get utterly disappointed. They mostly come to their senses when they get reasonably older.

Unfortunately based on women's tender voices, looks and softness, some ignorant men make themselves to believe that women see things and react to them the way they (the men) do. I don't blame them at all cause it comes to the case of deep intuition, feeling and understanding, most men fail terribly. A fact well known.

No one is all good or all bad. People will react to different situations and conditions in different ways in which may be termed good or bad. Everyone is for themselves first before anything else, especially a woman, who is naturally weaker in strength. It is a selfish world, a place of battle and struggle, and being in a relationship with anyone for any duration doesn't change these things.

The internet is filled with a lot of rubbish today and fools also share advices, teachings and all sort of messages besides the high level of salacious content and toxicity, the very things that has made people behaviorally defective.

Why deliberately harbour an irredeemable burden on yourself for such a long period of time?

Why be a willing party to your calamity when you could avoid it from the initial?

Compared to the useless girls in the universities, workplace or city neighborhoods, there are many women who would give you peace of mind out there who aren't internet addicted. If one doesn't find them around him, let him go to where he'll find them.

Broveens42:
You are a funny African
So a man made book with a touch of patriarchy says you should provide for women.. but what you really don't understand about their motive is to perpetually keep women under their authority through the purchasing power.
It's pure psychology....; And that's the only way women are willing to be under your authority(eye service)


If the reverse was the case, you as a male would still pretend to be under her authority so as to enjoy the benefits...

You are still not making sense,

Ikennaford:
You are still not making sense,

Typical African...
Always making random statements without countering the points


If it didn't make sense to you, then there would be no need react. You could just flip over

You're right bro, God bless you,.

Broveens42:
Typical African...
Always making random statements without countering the points


If it didn't make sense to you, then there would be no need react. You could just flip over

You got yourself bleeped up cuz...if you disrespect me again imma put you in a box