So I met this girl sometime last year in school, we had issues in keke where in I asked her to drop down from the keke that I already paid for charter... after that incident, I loved her... I asked her out and she told me she was engaged and getting married, but I persisted .. I made her come to my house, and we had s**.
. According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with me and then leave being that it must be what I wanted , I had to let her know I needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love me ( or so I thouht).
I got to find out that her supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real.. they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him .

This girl lives in with me , I get pissed when the guy calls her.. she tells the guy she loves him and then come back to me to tell me the same ...
Few days ago , we had issues again because of this and she called me selfish, that I don't care about the feelings of the guy and that I knew from the beginning .
I love this girl deeply, and she says she loves me too, most of her sisters knows me but her feel she is lying to me ... I feel she doesn't love me and I should let her go ..

She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy and I should have a heart attack if I want to, that I should take the relationship step by step , and I'm ime wtf,

What do I do nairalanders ?? I'm confused ..
Should I let her go or keep her around knowing filly well she's gonna leave .... its very clear to me that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that .
Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with Me.

I need help...I'm losing myself for a girl.


Eight months later , dubai guy came back.. the girl left to lagos airport to meet him .

After a few months with him she found out that she couldn't marry him, he has been lying to her.. once she told me she was going to her parents house only to find out later that she went to see this guy , they had sex (although she claimed she was raped by him) took her a month to find out she was pregnant, brokeup with me again, then got frustrated when the guy says he doesn't want marriage , just baby mama . She came back to me with the pregnancy begging for me to take her back, she bought pills and although I told her I wasn't going to be involved , I helped go pick up the pills, took care of her through the pain.. now everytime I look at her , it's with disgust .... I feel sick just thinking of it ... do I break up now? She's promise to change and that I should give her this one chance to prove herself

Too early for this.. Today na moneyday(0jo Aje) let go make money first and come back for your issue

Hey, chaaaaapppp, today is monday.
Go and open ur shop
and forget about any gurl
IRMC

Elmojiid:
Too early for this.. Today na moneyday(0jo Aje) let go make money first and come back for your issue

I work from my home.

Hollybratt:
Hey, chaaaaapppp, today is monday.
Go and open ur shop
and forget about any gurl
IRMC

Ok boss

Go out and hustle bro. Happy Monday!

baba go hustle make u be like that guy from dubai

headbasher96:
baba go hustle make u be like that guy from dubai

Omo I found out sef say I get money pass the guy from dubai... lolzzz

Omo, only you fit advise yourself.. You be second option all along and you even know yet you dey enjoy am...I no fit take this kind disrespect. A hoe is always a hoe ..Imagine the dubai guy change him mind say him won come back to the girl, omo the girl to accept am back sharperly.. Don't be an option to any girl, because you are worth more than that.

Op, you said that you are confused and u sound like someone ready to remain inside the confussion.

Nooo op u know what to do na.are u a kid?

If no be say the medicine wey i dey SIMPS don finish i for give too. oya breakup with her op. thank you

Davincii78:

Omo I found out sef say I get money pass the guy from dubai... lolzzz

well u know ladies and flashy life them no mind friend mad oyibo man that has nothing just to answer the oyibo name

Jflex07:
Omo, only you fit advise yourself.. You be second option all along and you even know yet you dey enjoy am...I no fit take this kind disrespect. A hoe is always a hoe ..Imagine the dubai guy change him mind say him won come back to the girl, omo the girl to accept am back sharperly.. Don't be an option to any girl, because you are worth more than that.

Thanks bro.. revenge is best served cold.. I dey prepare payback

Allison012:
Op, you said that you are confused and u sound like someone ready to remain inside the confussion.

Nooo op u know what to do na.are u a kid?

If no be say the medicine wey i dey SIMPS don finish i for give too. oya breakup with her op. thank you

Try gimme that drug, e be like I don dey lose my red pills

Just like the other OP tell you, never you be a second option.
Try dey know ur worth as a man, She come back dey beg you, bcus say the Dubai guy reject her, she dey beg you.
If that guy come back tomorrow dey beg her she go run leave u sharperly.
You better wise up as a man

And less I forget, abeg I want learn this work from home stuff

Davincii78:
So I met this girl sometime last year in school, we had issues in keke where in I asked her to drop down from the keke that I already paid for charter... after that incident, I loved her... I asked her out and she told me she was engaged and getting married, but I persisted .. I made her come to my house, and we had s**.
. According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with me and then leave being that it must be what I wanted , I had to let her know I needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love me ( or so I thouht).
I got to find out that her supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real.. they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him .

This girl lives in with me , I get pissed when the guy calls her.. she tells the guy she loves him and then come back to me to tell me the same ...
Few days ago , we had issues again because of this and she called me selfish, that I don't care about the feelings of the guy and that I knew from the beginning .
I love this girl deeply, and she says she loves me too, most of her sisters knows me but her feel she is lying to me ... I feel she doesn't love me and I should let her go ..

She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy and I should have a heart attack if I want to, that I should take the relationship step by step , and I'm ime wtf,

What do I do nairalanders ?? I'm confused ..
Should I let her go or keep her around knowing filly well she's gonna leave .... its very clear to me that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that .
Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with Me.

I need help...I'm losing myself for a girl.


Eight months later , dubai guy came back.. the girl left to lagos airport to meet him .

After a few months with him she found out that she couldn't marry him, he has been lying to her.. once she told me she was going to her parents house only to find out later that she went to see this guy , they had sex (although she claimed she was raped by him) took her a month to find out she was pregnant, brokeup with me again, then got frustrated when the guy says he doesn't want marriage , just baby mama . She came back to me with the pregnancy begging for me to take her back, she bought pills and although I told her I wasn't going to be involved , I helped go pick up the pills, took care of her through the pain.. now everytime I look at her , it's with disgust .... I feel sick just thinking of it ... do I break up now? She's promise to change and that I should give her this one chance to prove herself

Your mumu and stupidity will someday clear from your eyes.

Davincii78:



I work from my home.

Davincii78:
So I met this girl sometime last year in school, we had issues in keke where in I asked her to drop down from the keke that I already paid for charter... after that incident, I loved her... I asked her out and she told me she was engaged and getting married, but I persisted .. I made her come to my house, and we had s**.
. According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with me and then leave being that it must be what I wanted , I had to let her know I needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love me ( or so I thouht).
I got to find out that her supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real.. they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him .

This girl lives in with me , I get pissed when the guy calls her.. she tells the guy she loves him and then come back to me to tell me the same ...
Few days ago , we had issues again because of this and she called me selfish, that I don't care about the feelings of the guy and that I knew from the beginning .
I love this girl deeply, and she says she loves me too, most of her sisters knows me but her feel she is lying to me ... I feel she doesn't love me and I should let her go ..

She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy and I should have a heart attack if I want to, that I should take the relationship step by step , and I'm ime wtf,

What do I do nairalanders ?? I'm confused ..
Should I let her go or keep her around knowing filly well she's gonna leave .... its very clear to me that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that .
Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with Me.

I need help...I'm losing myself for a girl.


Eight months later , dubai guy came back.. the girl left to lagos airport to meet him .

After a few months with him she found out that she couldn't marry him, he has been lying to her.. once she told me she was going to her parents house only to find out later that she went to see this guy , they had sex (although she claimed she was raped by him) took her a month to find out she was pregnant, brokeup with me again, then got frustrated when the guy says he doesn't want marriage , just baby mama . She came back to me with the pregnancy begging for me to take her back, she bought pills and although I told her I wasn't going to be involved , I helped go pick up the pills, took care of her through the pain.. now everytime I look at her , it's with disgust .... I feel sick just thinking of it ... do I break up now? She's promise to change and that I should give her this one chance to prove herself

I wanted to insult you but let me just say this, it will be better if u let her go, she's pregnant and want a fool like you to take the responsibility for another man, biko wise up she's pregnant for him and so what, she doesn't deserve any pity