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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by BigIyanga: 1:56pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw:People having too much pride withou having common sense. So it’s OK to collect money for business from younger bro?? Las las na ur helper be ur helper.. whether young or old 5 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Testimony1988(m): 1:57pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
He should listen to his brother's advice, but for him to have impregnate a lady without doing the needful is very wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by slumcat(m): 2:01pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
If your brother decides to finance your wedding you should see it as a goodwill gesture I guess. There are so many people that'll kill to have the opportunity. I sincerely hope your wedding goes as planned. 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Obiorahpcfg: 2:02pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
You are a bad friend with bad advice! Don't you know, that lady might be his luck opener? Secondly how will you feel is the lady in question is your sister! |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by michaelponle(m): 2:02pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Nobody here have made any meaning contribution. He should not take the offer at all. If his brother so care about him, he should upgrade his financial status n let him use his own money to do it. Questions to ask What does the younger brother do? Did the younger brother stay with him before? When is he so concern about paying bride price for him than upgrading him. And your friend Bleep up big time! 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by adecz: 2:04pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Ecolaw , just take the money from your brother and carry out the rites for this woman that has been faithful to you. Simply discuss the areas your loving younger brother can assist you in business. You aren't getting any younger❗️❗️ I come in peace✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️ 3 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Mom007(f): 2:06pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Na waa for people sha! So which is more shameful? Staying with her 8yrs without marriage abi letting someone finance your wedding? You even see someone ready to cover your shame and finance your wedding, you are posing... Abi is it not your brother? I don't blame you sha. Its the silly woman that has been doing wifely duties for such a wicked soul that I blame! I pity you. Pray nothing happens to that woman in that your unwed state... Else you marry her corpse! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by escapadechuks: 2:08pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
He should collect the money and do business. Meanwhile, he kept someone's daughter in his house for 8years without doing the needful. Mshew. With two children already. What is there again? 8 years. See finish. And she's still with him She did this to herself. The younger brother has more sense than his older brother. I suspect he wants to get married soon but wants his brother to be properly married first. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by SamOchuko: 2:09pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw: Did he forget about his not having a good job when he kept her at home without paying her bride price for 8 years? He forgot about not having a good job when he got he pregnant twice and got two kids, it is now that his own flesh and blood want to assist him that he suddenly remember he’s not gainfully employed, how will people know who’s footing the bill for the marriage? Na brain resetting slap you need. 4 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by happney65: 2:10pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Pastor wayre. |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by sabreal: 2:12pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: what is the meaning of babby mama? |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by gassbee: 2:12pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Klass99:3 simple reasons 1. Her parents are not financially buoyant and are both based in d village while she is here in lagos with nobody to monitor her. 2. She is not working or doing anything to bring in some income and is likely depending on the guy to survive 3. Her parents could b probably be dead 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by damble: 2:17pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Righteousness2:Your head dey there pastor righteousness. You are on point 2 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by pinkygurl(f): 2:20pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Nice one but he should hurriedly pay that bride price quickly if he knows what is good for him. Not praying for bad thing o, but my elder brother whose supposed (wife) died and they were not married, just cohabiting together, went through hell to get her buried. She unfortunately died with pregnancy trying to give birth again. Na that time you go know the kind yeye African culture some Nigerian tribes get, Not only was he mandated to pay the bride price of the corpse before she could be buried , He also slept in the same room with the dead corpse for one night only. It wasn't an easy time at all , but he fulfilled all the obligations and she was finally laid to rest.(obituary poster bearing Mrs). Big bro was very traumatised by the event.Death normally for married couples is the official time to be free of each other as there is no marriage in heaven. But that was the time Big bro, was getting joined to a corpse.lmagine getting married for the first time and his bride was a dead body . omo It's not something one would wish on his worst enemy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by DonBenny77(m): 2:21pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Not bad, but try pay for the bride price 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by KaptainAfrika: 2:21pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
He wanna be a shareholder in your wife's company. |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Nawttiboi007(m): 2:26pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Gloriagee:your aproko too much.. at ur age? |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by RZArecta(m): 2:27pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw:if they've been staying together for eight years and have produced two kids along the way, what else are they waiting for ? He should collect the list and make sure that particular aspect of bride price at least should come from his pocket. Any other thing should be termed as assistance 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by lomprico(m): 2:30pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw: You are a highly irresponsible person and a very stupid one. 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by SimplePlan34: 2:31pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
thatigboman1: Then he is free to accept the money 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Gloriagee(f): 2:34pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Sorry about your ignorance. Do you know my age... anyway, run along and keep being the naughty boy you are Nawttiboi007: |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Minjim: 2:35pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Where is the problem? |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by sniperr007(m): 2:39pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw: Tell your friend to do the needful and swallow his pride. Fit be the reason he never get money Na cos of the life e dey live. Once he do the needful with the girl. E go surprise how life go sweet. |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by grandstar(m): 2:42pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw I have asked my younger ones for assistance in the past and they've been there for me. I have also been there for them. 3 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by ceejay80s(m): 2:43pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Righteousness2:OK I agree it's fornication, what of if he chooses to get married in a court, is it still fornication? I mean as in a local government with certificate? |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Cherrybae(f): 2:50pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Op you are the person. Stop be bold and open up else I wont advice you |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Tegabadguy(m): 2:51pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
EcoLaw:don't accept oooooo.. |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by rickleye: 2:54pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
What’s the problem here ! From times past where is it written that only older brother must be financially stable. Go and prostate and get the money before he decides to inject it in a new project. If you are too steeped in tradition - consider it a loan and set money aside to pay back. Although, in hindsight since you both have been living together and have 2 kids ! What’s with the traditional marriage, is someone chasing you ? |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Calibrator: 2:57pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Hope you have a way of wiping the brain of the child to prevent seeking out the rightful father in adulthood..... You are all just relieving the sperm donor of his child training responsibility thatigboman1: |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by Mike008(m): 3:00pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
Which is a lesser wrong? Cohabiting illegally with a woman who is not your wife, and bearing offspring in the process or humbling yourself to accept help from your younger brother to do the needful? If for any reason you believe your situation will turn around because of some ongoing project or plan which will crystallize into something tangible you may hold off accepting help from your brother. But if you are waking up everyday, merely hoping that something good will come without any conscious plans about your life, those 8 years will soon become 16 and nothing will change. This alone is enough to cause you to worry. Accept help from your brother to at least right one wrong, after all he is your flesh and blood. After your marriage make sure you get your life to back together enough to become proud of yourself. In this way, your brother may never look down on you in the future, if you make yourself enough money to even repay him back at any time. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Finance My Wedding. by seunmind44: 3:02pm On Sep 01, 2022 |
The brother should give him the money to start business Wedding is just a few hours ceremony |
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