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Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Oyiboman69: 3:32pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: 1 Like
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Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by dochenaj: 3:33pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Good, you're good to go then. God will help you as you commit to it. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by BigIyanga: 3:33pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Nobody’s tips and advice can help u.. raising kids is by learning and growing. There is no manual. No 2 kids are the same. Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Oyiboman69: 3:37pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Rozross:post on the issue on ground and stop being nossy.... 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Helpout12345: 3:40pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Women defenders are here. And they blindly defend without sense. They are just looking for every avenue to blame the man here, up to not seeing anything wrong in raising a child in a hotel environment and a 6 years old boy picking locks as being "handy" 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Oyiboman69: 3:44pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:you can do it but its not gonna be easy,besides, you'll be enjoying their services by helping you out in no distant time. I advice you take them,enroll them in a school not far between your business and your home. the six years old will be attending to some little things too good luck |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Amumaigwe: 3:50pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Send me a mail @systemsandgadgetsltd@gmail.com |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by delpee(f): 4:00pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: You have valid reasons to get your kids through the Social Welfare Department or with the help of CSOs. You'll need to prove that you can care for them because by law, they should still be with their mother. The law doesn't envisage her living in an hotel though. Get a lawyer or social worker to help you out. You can also try the mediation court that's shown on TVC on Saturdays. The Justice Court...Good for alternative dispute resolution instead of a wieldy and expensive court process. Modified Just read the updates. Great that she has agreed but please follow due process for your peace of mind and the safety of the children. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by OkoRemi2023(m): 4:08pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: you kids on Nairaland sef, I blame the Op that need sensible and mature tips to care for kids bringing it Here 70% of nairalanders are still child in brain and In age, if you need to seek advise on bringing up a child go to motherless babies home for training and they can help you be training them too while you just go check them someone needs tips on how to care after his kids and some dummies are asking foolish questions 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by delpee(f): 4:10pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
efficiencie: @OP This is good advice for you. Still try to formalise their stay with you as you take custody. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Basiljoe: 4:12pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Hypergamy doesn't care about male idealistic expectations of love. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 4:12pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Why are you using the pronoun "he" to refer to your wife? Oga are you married to a man? Are you gay? |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Savagery101: 4:16pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
What time of work is she doing in an hotel |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Helpout12345: 4:19pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
OkoRemi2023: I don't even understand why people still bring their family matters to nairaland these days where children, frustrated misogynists and misandrists will only make their matter worst. Are there no more elderly and experienced people in real life to seek good advise from? If you are looking for advise on how to raise children, look around you for good parents raising their children in a good way to seek your advise from. If you are looking for advise on marriage, do same. Look for experienced and married people in real life to advice you. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Amumaigwe: 4:23pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
debbydams: End of arguments. Who wins @kobojunkie in an argument that requires defending a wayward married woman? |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by mystery22: 4:25pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Op you made a mistake replying those two junkies beginning of the thread 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Nobody: 4:29pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
I think the bitter truth is to quite the job, find a part job and cater for the children or you reconcile with there mother. Because the children are more important than any other things and there better future should be your priority |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Amumaigwe: 4:32pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Gaddafi1: But the wife is looking for hook-up already. How do you expect a hook-up mother to raise responsible daughters? |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by DollarSigns(m): 4:36pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Exactly Say no to Raw s.ex always use a condom till you are sure that you’re 100% ready to care for kids under whatever conditions PS: you should have been more emotionally ready to cater for ya kids before rearing em Plus it’s obvious that maybe for a while when you were feeling irresponsible and juvenile, you dumped the whole responsibilities on her, she is even so happy to be relieved even for a short time, I don’t feel impressed at all Mek una stop to the produce more yahoo boys as kids cos already street choke Traffic heavy |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by DollarSigns(m): 4:40pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
OkoRemi2023: Ancestors gang Weldone ya hear Much talk Las las nothing said Not impressed |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Uqw1: 4:51pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Why |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Belleful: 4:52pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Let them stay with your mom why u provide their needs |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by debbydams(f): 4:52pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Amumaigwe:I don't understand |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Codes151(m): 4:59pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:should have tot about that earlier. No differences between husband n wife that isn't reconcilable |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Rrchrd(m): 5:02pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
fman:He? You're very funny ooh |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Mindlog: 5:07pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
OkoRemi2023: If he does that, he and the management of the motherless babies home need to be arrested and prosecuted, he is neither dead nor his now ex-wife....why punish those children by placing them in such a place? If he can't be their primary caregiver, he has no business having custody of their children 2 Likes |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by BusinessPlan22: 5:07pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: Joker.... I pity you. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by phemmyfour: 5:10pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:Get them to a safety place. Your relatives, neighbor etc |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by Tb222(m): 5:16pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Do all you can to take your kids away from there, the environment can really influence them. |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by SURElee(f): 5:20pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Since you you are complaining, quit your job and raise your kids. Do you think the mother of your kids, is happy to work and raise her kids in that hotel? No. But their are bills to be paid and she has to be a responsible mother to earn money to raise her kids and foot the bills. Did your son tell you he learnt how to open doors using knife from that environment or from movies he has been exposed to? And what did you say to him at age 6 as a father figure? If you and their mother are no longer together, can you now see the danger of a dysfunctional home playing out here on the kids at 6 and 4 years of age? Have you tried setting up their mother to do business? If you have not, then you have no business coming online to shout your kids are raised in a hotel. Nigeria is dealing with people economy wise, if you don't know, know this now. You leave home 8am and return 6/6:30pm and you are complaining of their mum. If they were with you for this holiday, would you have fared better as a single parent? Sit down with their mum and make things work. 1 Like |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by newdawn2017(f): 5:34pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete:if u need great insight especially as a single day, chat with @afriproud on ig, an experienceed child handler & observer she will put u through since she is an amateur child psychologist, yes. Cos u ve to start reintroducing urself to ur kids as they ve returned to a ferral State & re could be inductrinated against u. Thank me later |
Re: My kids are being trained in an hotel!! I Need Advice.. by mrdino(m): 5:47pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Irupetepete: If truly you are bothered about your children's welfare and upbringing, then let this be a motivation to you to: 1. Work hard to increase your income and your living. 2. Seek legal action with enough evidence to secure your children's custody. It's not easy raising children, that's why I stated point one above. |
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