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I met this pretty lady ago 6months ago although I have know her before then but we don't talk not that we have any issue. Just someone u see and pass until we collide abo 6months ago.

So we start getting close and not we her very close. So we start dating, although no sex yet. She do come around and we just play n talk.

I really have treated her nice the best way I can as a man.


Now just about a week ago I called her if she can come around to my place as usual. She said she will be going out that day that she won't be able 2 come. I said OK, no stress.

That day in the evening I called her she didn't pick, the next day the same thing. Uptill this moment she has not pick my calls, doesn't reply my messages. I don't know what to do. I love this girl.

Am really worried. She doesn't want me to come to her house although she lives with her mother and siblings.

How can u ascertain her wellbeing when u haven't checked on her? Go to her house nau. u nid to know if she's ok n safe.

Damnnn niggar

Common niggar

Let her be....regular texting and calling of a woman makes them feel you are weak...


You know what when you don't actually give a fuckkkkk about the whereabouts of your woman or care what they do and who they move with that is when they love you the more

Oga, u wan hear?
Nothing do that gal, she don waka, make u self waka...
Ahead ahead......
Onto the next thing, after all life is all about meeting and parting, ("we meet to part and part to meet".

Honestfrend:
I met this pretty lady ago 6months ago although I have know her before then but we don't talk not that we have any issue. Just someone u see and pass until we collide abo 6months ago.

So we start getting close and not we her very close. So we start dating, although no sex yet. She do come around and we just play n talk.

I really have treated her nice the best way I can as a man.


Now just about a week ago I called her if she can come around to my place as usual. She said she will be going out that day that she won't be able 2 come. I said OK, no stress.

That day in the evening I called her she didn't pick, the next day the same thing. Uptill this moment she has not pick my calls, doesn't reply my messages. I don't know what to do. I love this girl.

Am really worried. She doesn't want me to come to her house although she lives with her mother and siblings.

Bro u dey choke the girl....ignore her for days or weeks....if she doesn't look for u, move on....odawise be ready to suffer emotionally for a verrryyyyy loooonggggg time ooo

Maybe she doesn't want to come to your house that why she isn't taking your calls,i think you should check up on her but i don't why nigeria men like telling girls to come over to their place like i don't understand can't you guys go somewhere pleasant like cinema or something why your house,once a guy tells me that i just loose interest and i will start snubing you,op pls i'm not just speaking to you i'm speaking generally.

virginprincess:
Maybe she doesn't want to come to your house that why she isn't taking your calls,i think you should check up on her but i don't why nigeria men like telling girls to come over to their place like i don't understand can't you guys go somewhere pleasant like cinema or something why your house,once a guy tells me that i just loose interest and i will start snubing you,op pls i'm not just speaking to you i'm speaking generally.

I have taken her to most of the best places in Lagos.. If it's about going out forget it..

virginprincess:
Maybe she doesn't want to come to your house that why she isn't taking your calls,i think you should check up on her but i don't why nigeria men like telling girls to come over to their place like i don't understand can't you guys go somewhere pleasant like cinema or something why your house,once a guy tells me that i just loose interest and i will start snubing you,op pls i'm not just speaking to you i'm speaking generally.

Una fit agree share bills??
Everytime go to cinema and nonsense.

Honestfrend:
I have taken her to most of the best places in Lagos.. If it's about going out forget it..

Like i said earlier i wasn't referring to only you,i was speaking generally,i think you should give her some space,maybe she thinks you are stalking her,just let her be for now or you can also check up on her if you wish to.

bennyflipy:
Una fit agree share bills??
Everytime go to cinema and nonsense.

Which one is share bills,how much do you pay to enter a cinema that you want to share bills with a lady besides if you don't want to go to a place where you would spend money why don't you guys meet in an open place where there are people,why a private place like your house if you don't have hidden intentions.

virginprincess:
Which one is share bills,how much do you pay to enter a cinema that you want to share bills with a lady besides if you don't want to go to a place where you would spend money why don't you guys meet in an open place where there are people,why a private place like your house if you don't have hidden intentions.

And who told you they haven't been to a public place

bennyflipy:
And who told you they haven't been to a public place

oga,i'm not referring only to the op,i'm speaking generally.

virginprincess:
oga,i'm not referring only to the op,i'm speaking generally.

Generally or the op, guys have been meeting girls in public places. You people want to usually use a guy to access places you can't go on a normal day.
Because a guy asked a girl to come to his house has become a problem.

Na the mumu op I blame sef

Honestfrend:
I met this pretty lady ago 6months ago although I have know her before then but we don't talk not that we have any issue. Just someone u see and pass until we collide abo 6months ago.

So we start getting close and not we her very close. So we start dating, although no sex yet. She do come around and we just play n talk.

I really have treated her nice the best way I can as a man.


Now just about a week ago I called her if she can come around to my place as usual. She said she will be going out that day that she won't be able 2 come. I said OK, no stress.

That day in the evening I called her she didn't pick, the next day the same thing. Uptill this moment she has not pick my calls, doesn't reply my messages. I don't know what to do. I love this girl.

Am really worried. She doesn't want me to come to her house although she lives with her mother and siblings.

well done Mr SIMP

Nonywendy:
well done Mr SIMP

Tnk u Mr UNSIMP.