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Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

This is an exhibition of Stockholm syndrome at its finest, don’t do it.


Make him pay through his nose for raping you. I can only imagine the trauma you’ve been through, my sympathies to you. If he doesn’t want to go to jail, he’s got to settle you in cash for the damages and hospital bills. If you spent 100k request 500k and watch him beg to pay 300k.

Do not forgive, to me it’s death to all rapists, cause they are animals. sex is the easiest commodity to get in todays world, it’s only a very weak man who is broke or someone sick in the head who will resort to forcing a girl to sex. Like, how do you even enjoy it. Whether another girl Becomes a victim when he gets out of there depends on how the case was handled. Imagine, he didn’t use protection. That’s how close he came to giving an innocent girl HIV or Other STIs if he had them. Again I say Do not forgive. Rapists have no place in our streets, help us get him off.

Come to think of it, the IPO has no place to ask you whether you forgive him or not, the guy should be tried already. It’s a crime against the state so your hands are off. What is Nigerian police even doing ?!?




as for the Guy above who beat me to FTC, in your next life you will return as a Nigerian with PMB your president.



My Peace I leave you

Yo fish, there is no bad effect in forgiving. the guy raped you and you are here asking maybe to forgive him, even the IPO need to be jailed, what kind of ? is he asking, asking you to forgive him, if you did/do then you really will be raped again

If you refuse to teach him by forgiving him, it should feel like you assisted him when he rapes someone else which he will.

I see you have a nature of closing your threads so you can behave as if we never told you when you don't learn. That's why I'm quoting this for perpetuity and so we can remind you.

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

In this life, learn how to be wise.
The street is wicked, learn how to protect yourself!
Learn how to say no! Without feeling bad!
Learn how to move on!
Learn how to love with your head and not your heart!
Learn how to have options!
Learn how never to be put in a position of disadvantage!
Learn to be responsible!
Learn to think of consequences, think logically more than emotionally!

Op, you've a lot to learn and I hope you learn fast, sorry for your scars but such is life. Be wise!

dontrulee:
In this life, learn how to be wise.
The street is wicked, learn how to protect yourself!
Learn how to say no! Without feeling bad!
Learn how to move on!
Learn how to love with your head and not your heart!
Learn how to have options!
Learn how never to be put in a position of disadvantage!
Learn to be responsible!
Learn to think of consequences, think logically more than emotionally!

Op, you've a lot to learn and I hope you learn fast, sorry for your scars but such is life. Be wise!

How was this helpful?!

NoahHadNoArk:
How was this helpful?!

If it's not helpful to you, you can face your front please! Thank you.

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

Do it for other women.

Stop going to a man's house if u won't Bleep him.

Just b wise.

Best one niqqqa
This is exact same thing am going through but for the past 3years mehn with this 9 rules of life yours is what I wrote down in my diary and I must say am ok now..

dontrulee:
In this life, learn how to be wise.
The street is wicked, learn how to protect yourself!
Learn how to say no! Without feeling bad!
Learn how to move on!
Learn how to love with your head and not your heart!
Learn how to have options!
Learn how never to be put in a position of disadvantage!
Learn to be responsible!
Learn to think of consequences, think logically more than emotionally!

Op, you've a lot to learn and I hope you learn fast, sorry for your scars but such is life. Be wise!

Op you better let that fool pay for his sins,most men are wicked sha,how can you rape a lady in the name of one silly payback,if i'm the one(Godforbid) i will make sure that idiot rot in jail,Op so sorry for what happen pls make sure you get proper medical attention and pls allow that demon to pay for his crime so he can feel the pain you felt.

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

Forgiving him and him going to prison are two different things.....

know this ..and know peace

Idonweak:
Fuçk forgiveness.

If you were my sister and you said shit like this around me I'll give you hot slap. No forgiveness for rapist. Normal he's supposed to pay with his life but it's good you let the law handle it. Let him pay for what he did by rotting in jail. You're not only doing this to get justice but also saving another innocent girl who might offend that demonic dude.

What if he decide to poison you as a way to punish you and you're already dead? Will you be here to ask this silly question?

And before anyone thinks a woman said the above, this person has a joystick.

Forgive him and move on.

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

I'm trying to understand the scenario here.
Follow your heart and find peace.
Since you're not a vengeful person leave him to God.

Cooked up stories abound wouldn't let someone to know which thread to expend energy to give quality advice on.




Show pic of the doctor's report as evidence and let some of us fight for battle for you since you are too chicken hearted to seek justice.


Some NGOs need to fill prosecution quota, the year is almost at an end and next year funding never clear.

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

that was bad, very bad. Its not your fault if he spend his life in jail, what he did was wrong and please don't feel bad but if you can forgive him them fine but what's the probability that he won't do that to another person?