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Re: My Husband Raped Me. by GolDRoger: 5:01pm On Sep 15, 2022
Moh247:



Oga read your comments below..


The only reason no man anywhere in the world even police won't prosecute rape against an husband is because by law during marriage ceremony you are officially giving consent to your legally married husband



Then this...



This is very different case

Mentally deranged person, druged person, children , sleeping person or anyone in coma can't give consent


You're talking from both side of your mouth Bro.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by bepositive11: 5:16pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I see... undecided
Indeed, there is a problem, and clearly there needs to be awareness made of this. Na wa o! undecided

Seriously! It needs more awareness. Most Nigerian women don't know this.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Agboriotejoye(m): 5:30pm On Sep 15, 2022
Temmylee01:
https://dailypost.ng/2017/08/03/man-sentenced-repeatedly-raping-wife-filming-act/ read that and satisfy your curiosity.

Did you even read the story? It is fake. No names were mentioned nor where it happened. It seems to just be planted to push a narrative. You should be more circumspect about stories lifted from media
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by naikeboy(m): 5:31pm On Sep 15, 2022
But when the man day borrow huge sums of money day pay for the pussy u no call am rape ooo. How man go rape pussy wan him done pay for. Interesting...
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by luluosas(m): 5:44pm On Sep 15, 2022
You are so wrong madam
Wittyglam:

A lot of people experience rape in marriage but are too ashamed to talk about it.
Have you ever heard about rape in marriage or have you ever experience it.

Sex is something we must talk about before going marriage.

Check this out for more detail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUYaBqJ0zj4
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by sholly28(m): 5:47pm On Sep 15, 2022
VeryWickedMan:
Return his bride price first
I dey always like your comment
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Mikelake(m): 5:53pm On Sep 15, 2022
All this peeps with very shallow understanding just come here to spill nonsense and cause confusion.. profers solutions rather than initiating unnecessary quarrel and discord..
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Agboriotejoye(m): 6:13pm On Sep 15, 2022
Moh247:


Rape is very sensitive Na why I had to refrain from engaging her further

Stop lying

You're an ignoramus always chooking your mouth in to what you don't know

Stop forming knowledgeable
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Fearyourcreator: 6:15pm On Sep 15, 2022
yommyoke:


And one big reason for that is that partners don't respect one another again, how would someone say no to you but you still go ahead and force your way with them.
Divorce is better than getting raped sha

Their wahala ... Which one be rape inside marriage... If anyone no gree do make them divorce na... How will a partner deny the other sex and still wants to stay ... No be winchy be that ...

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Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Moh247: 6:16pm On Sep 15, 2022
Agboriotejoye:


Stop lying

You're an ignoramus always chooking your mouth in to what you don't know

Stop forming knowledgeable

Thanks for your indept knowledge

Very educational
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Agboriotejoye(m): 6:24pm On Sep 15, 2022
Moh247:


Thanks for your indept knowledge

Very educational
You're welcome
Next time, try to interrogate issues with knowledge before you run away with your tail
The story in the link is fake. There was no mention of where it happened or the name of the judge who did the sentencing as is expected of every decent reportage on crime
That's besides the fact that you were right initially that in most countries of the world, marital rape does not exist and even in the few countries it does, it is very hard to prove
Bye
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Moh247: 6:25pm On Sep 15, 2022
Agboriotejoye:

You're welcome
Next time, try to interrogate issues with knowledge before you run away with your tail
The story in the link is fake. There was no mention of where it happened or the name of the judge who did the sentencing as is expected of every decent reportage on crime
That's besides the fact that you were right initially that in most countries of the world, marital rape does not exist and even in the few countries it does, it is very hard to prove
Bye

Thanks bye
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by mercy87(f): 7:11pm On Sep 15, 2022
dollynnn:


Coming from someone who is not informed

Hello what do you mean by the above?
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by tnerro1(m): 7:24pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
was the insult necessary? You can pass without saying a world.

She is just being dramatic, if such should happen, it can be resolved in the family system or cycle , but no, she wants the whole world to put mouth . If she is not married, itโ€™s a different issue, she can even hold a world press conference about it self.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Cromagnon: 7:54pm On Sep 15, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
as much as rape in marriage is very real, in Africa where women are sold off to their husband (thank to bride price etc), i can fully understand why a husband would believe that he OWNS HIS WIFE therefore he can use her as he pleases.
how many sold women do you know? Una go just de form wokeness without sense
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by taiwolomo1: 8:07pm On Sep 15, 2022
She really sounded stewpid while trying to affirm rape in marriage grin
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Wittyglam(f): 8:47pm On Sep 15, 2022
lookingfly:
me Sha know say i can't force any gal to knack.......even after deep pre-intimacy with the finger and being naked, if she resist. I won't force her. It's that simple for me.
thank you.

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Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Nyenom: 9:28pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:

A lot of people experience rape in marriage but are too ashamed to talk about it.
Have you ever heard about rape in marriage or have you ever experience it.

Sex is something we must talk about before going marriage.

Check this out for more detail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUYaBqJ0zj4

Hypocrasy at the peak of attention Seeking..
What Do Women Really Need/Want.? For God Sake.! Man Get Big Gboola or noget she go still complain. Now husband rape wife? If he refuses to have sex naw na wahala..
Anty when u finish Define rape between a husband&wife just become a Lesbian

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Re: My Husband Raped Me. by oliidell(m): 9:28pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So, what part of the definition of the contract allows a man to literally forcefully Penetrate his wife against her will? Doesn't that ring all too clearly as yet another form of abuse? , undecided

Leave the idiot.t jumping up and down justify marital rape
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by hdrifter11: 9:43pm On Sep 15, 2022
Well under normal conditions it's possible if and only if they are both Atheists
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by PlanktonX: 9:51pm On Sep 15, 2022
MADAM, You dey mad gan nnnn. Ur husband raped you? Why you no rape am back.

Better advice him to marry second wife so that sex will never bring disagreement. Or probably 3 rd option.

Rape kill you?
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by bitbillionaire: 10:17pm On Sep 15, 2022
My friend shut up. If your husband raped you why didn't you rape him too?
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Exceed15: 10:49pm On Sep 15, 2022
These feminists won't stop to amuse me..rape in marriage? Foolish people. If you are not ready to love the man and fulfill your sexual obligation get out of the marriage n stop punishing the poor him.. nonsense
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Exceed15: 10:53pm On Sep 15, 2022
jeromestarks:

You're a chicken.

Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person's consent. - Wikipedia.

What does "I do" mean after reading out the marriage vow? Your mumu no get part 2
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by tafat: 11:04pm On Sep 15, 2022
Moh247:
cool


There is no rape in marriage

All sex in marriage is legal conjugal rights of both parties

Did you forget your wedding vows of for better for worse

You can't even take it to court or win

If you don't want to have sex abeg stay away from marriage and quickly file for divorce

Starving your partner of sex is a sin



.
help me tell them abeg
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:15am On Sep 16, 2022
Moh247:
cool
There is no rape in marriage
All sex in marriage is legal conjugal rights of both parties
Did you forget your wedding vows of for better for worse
You can't even take it to court or win
If you don't want to have sex abeg stay away from marriage and quickly file for divorce
Starving your partner of sex is a sin
.

Whatever.

A man can force himself on a woman when she doesn't want sex o, even in marriage.

The physical and even emotional trauma can be there, whether less intense or more.

Why as a man would I force myself on my wife if I love her?

Substituting marital privilege and entitlement for love is evil and animalistic. Why not address the reason she doesn't want sex at that moment?

Instead, a man should woo his wife. Yes. Toast her for sex. Make her happy. Compliment her. Help her out with chores, sef, so she won't be too tired or stressed.

It's not simping. It's sense. She's happy in the marriage. You get to bust some nut.

It's a win-win!
grin

Don't brutalise your wife in the name of conjugal privilege o. You might bring out a part of her you didn't know existed.

The technicality of the law won't help you as a man when you're in the morgue after consuming a compendium of toxins inside vegetable soup because your wife is fed up of being used like the kitchen sink.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by wildernessVoice: 5:35am On Sep 16, 2022
It's the partner that denied the other that should be Charge of marital fraud.

1 Corinthians 7:5
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by samuelpeters(m): 6:37am On Sep 16, 2022
Flows001:

I'm a Lawyer and I can tell you as a fact that there is nothing like rape between two legally married persons..
The only exception is when such happens when the Court has granted a Decree of Judicial Separation and the man goes ahead to sleep with her without her consent.
Apart from that, no man can be convicted for rape against his lawfully married wife.
Don't mind what ignorant folks have been saying in this thread.
Thank you.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by samuelpeters(m): 6:39am On Sep 16, 2022
bularuz:


Yes, criminal liability in marriage, when legally married there are some crimes you cannot commit against your spouse not just rape.
Wow!
That's good to know.
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Thomthom(m): 6:48am On Sep 16, 2022
Every thing this days Na rape rape rape.. Divorce him and carry him to Court...
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by byteem: 6:59am On Sep 16, 2022
bepositive11:


Seriously! It needs more awareness. Most Nigerian women don't know this.

Ignorance is no excuse .. the sad part is that despite they choose to rub that ignorance on our faces a simple research will reveal.this things less than 10 sec..
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by wirinet(m): 7:39am On Sep 16, 2022
Jeezuzpick:


Whatever.

A man can force himself on a woman when she doesn't want sex o, even in marriage.

The physical and even emotional trauma can be there, whether less intense or more.

Why as a man would I force myself on my wife if I love her?

Substituting marital privilege and entitlement for love is evil and animalistic. Why not address the reason she doesn't want sex at that moment?

Instead, a man should woo his wife. Yes. Toast her for sex. Make her happy. Compliment her. Help her out with chores, sef, so she won't be too tired or stressed.

It's not simping. It's sense. She's happy in the marriage. You get to bust some nut.

It's a win-win!
grin

Don't brutalise your wife in the name of conjugal privilege o. You might bring out a part of her you didn't know existed.

The technicality of the law won't help you as a man when you're in the morgue after consuming a compendium of toxins inside vegetable soup because your wife is fed up of being used like the kitchen sink.
You are still avoiding to acknowledge and answer the main question - why did she sign the marriage vow if she didn't intend to keep it in the first place?

Didn't she see the phrase - "to have and to hold" in the vow?

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