I am almost 30 but but yet to stand financially as a man despite being hardworking and ambitious,i have being on the streets hustling since 18 no parents or siblings to help ,I don't want to blame the Government or economy but I hope Gods grace finds me someday ,my agemate cousin who where both born in the same year and month is getting married soon meaning he is now capable of feeding more than two mouths while I am still hustling for daily bread,to make matters worse he didn't even call me to invite me i heard from my sister meaning I am no longer important to him ,I know it because I no get money if not him for don call me.
I discussed this with my friend yesterday and he told me assuming I have started Yahoo as he advised me years back I for don hammer by now but I don't want to do yahoo because of my active conscience.
I have being depressed for days now,my girlfriend came around yesterday and she brought about the marriage issue like she knows what I am thinking again.

Swallow the REDPILL and stop disturbing us.

It's a normal feeling

Dont let jealousy cloud your mental sight to see the potentials in you.

VictorDivine:
Dont let jealousy cloud your mental sight to see the potentials in you.

I am not jealous of him I just feel left behind.

Guy ....forget all this envy.....
U dont know what hes doing for a living...see all this social media lives...all na packaging....
..you dey chop and pay your bills without begging anybody...?? Guy.. you are doing well...

If na certificate or skill u dey use chop....do your part by doubling up i.e., getting more degrees or improvimg your skill and apply for higher roles and connect with senior professionals online and offline for referrals....

Also...no let anyone deceive you...no one makes it by hardwork alone... we all need the right push or pull/ grace/ luck/ favor/ mercy or whatever u call it from an external source.... ask dangote...government backing all the way...

.therefore....pray and key into the principle of give and recieve....do good like helping orphans, old widows and those in need... the universe knows how to arrange favors when your pocket is a continous channel into the hands of others in need...

I will advise u like a brother I have known for years


Erase that stupid thought from ur head .everyone must not get married at same time

Don't rush into marriage bcuz other are getting married .B4 u get married, make sure u can tolerate the foolishness of a woman


U are just 30 I see guys get married at d age of 34 -35

fati2001:
Swallow the REDPILL and stop disturbing us.

@30
Is like you want him to be more frustrated

Divay22:

@30
Is like you want him to be more frustrated

There's still time you know they say " man's clock doesn't tick out " so he can make it even @60

fati2001:


There's still time you know they say " man's clock doesn't tick out " so he can make it even @60

Just say you want to kill him

I can help you overtake him.

Kindly ask those into marriage already if they all wish to continue, give us the feedback bro.
There isn't a late comer into it, be financially strong before you enter marriage.

U get gf,ur time to get married don Dey close.
When u sef decide to rough it and settle down,others too will feel intimidated cus they all assume u made it.
Ur guy fit Dey cut cost by not inviting all family members.Na food and take home gossip pple Dey come find for weddings.
This Life na who wear shoe they knw where e take Dey pain am.

You re jealous not depressed....

Life is not a competition oga zukwanike joor. Las las who knws u will be better off than him that marry early than u. Marriage is nt an accomplishment but if e dey enter ur eyes u fit go marry so u can go deeper in poverty.

Goodmarlian:


I am not jealous of him I just feel left behind.

oga leave that matter, oga u no enjoy freedom u get bah well go marry since e dey hungry u sef u go knw wetin u put hand. Dey born una the same time no mean say God go judge una together. Even twin get different destiny. Hope ur cousin go gree tell wetin he dey face after marriage.

Life is not a competition.

Continue to do you and stop focusing on other people's achievements.

Goodmarlian:

I am almost 30 but but yet to stand financially as a man despite being hardworking and ambitious,i have being on the streets hustling since 18 no parents or siblings to help ,I don't want to blame the Government or economy but I hope Gods grace finds me someday ,my agemate cousin who where both born in the same year and month is getting married soon meaning he is now capable of feeding more than two mouths while I am still hustling for daily bread,to make matters worse he didn't even call me to invite me i heard from my sister meaning I am no longer important to him ,I know it because I no get money if not him for don call me.
I discussed this with my friend yesterday and he told me assuming I have started Yahoo as he advised me years back I for don hammer by now but I don't want to do yahoo because of my active conscience.
I have being depressed for days now,my girlfriend came around yesterday and she brought about the marriage issue like she knows what I am thinking again.

VeryWickedMan:
I can help you overtake him.

This guy is hilarious

So what? Life don end?

Wetin even concern you with your cousin life ..una dey Dey competition?... this life is very easy to live ..the earlier you don't compete with anybody in life and he beta for you .... u said u feel left out. .I understand you perfectly but everybody has their own time ..him getting married before you does not mean he his living beta than you ..mayb he was lucky enough to get a good and understanding partner ..you don't need to be rich to get married.... for instance that your cousin z dead will u come here to say u feel left out ..Nd u want to join him wen u think of anything positive also think of the negative.. u shud be grateful for life ..

advanceDNA:
Guy ....forget all this envy.....
U dont know what hes doing for a living...see all this social media lives...all na packaging....
..you dey chop and pay your bills without begging anybody...?? Guy.. you are doing well...

If na certificate or skill u dey use chop....do your part by doubling up i.e., getting more degrees or improvimg your skill and apply for higher roles and connect with senior professionals online and offline for referrals....

Also...no let anyone deceive you...no one makes it by hardluck alone... we all need the right push or pull/ grace/ luck/ favor/ mercy or whatever u call it from an external source.

.therefore....pray and key into the principle of give and recieve....do good like helping orphans, old widows and those in need... the universe knows how to arrange favors when your pocket is a continous channel into the hands of others in need...

And if he's doing well and earning legitimately?

Op getat!

Abfinest007:
I will advise u like a brother I have known for years


Erase that stupid thought from ur head .everyone must not get married at same time

Don't rush into marriage bcuz other are getting married .B4 u get married, make sure u can tolerate the foolishness of a woman


U are just 30 I see guys get married at d age of 34 -35

Op is not talking about getting married, why don't you guys read in between the line. He's only concerned that he has not made money yet compared to his cousin getting married

Agbebakun22:
Life is not a competition oga zukwanike joor. Las las who knws u will be better off than him that marry early than u. Marriage is nt an accomplishment but if e dey enter ur eyes u fit go marry so u can go deeper in poverty.

There is a probability he won't be better of than him. The cousin has not done him any wrong by being successful

Goodmarlian:

I am almost 30 but but yet to stand financially as a man despite being hardworking and ambitious,i have being on the streets hustling since 18 no parents or siblings to help ,I don't want to blame the Government or economy but I hope Gods grace finds me someday ,my agemate cousin who where both born in the same year and month is getting married soon meaning he is now capable of feeding more than two mouths while I am still hustling for daily bread,to make matters worse he didn't even call me to invite me i heard from my sister meaning I am no longer important to him ,I know it because I no get money if not him for don call me.
I discussed this with my friend yesterday and he told me assuming I have started Yahoo as he advised me years back I for don hammer by now but I don't want to do yahoo because of my active conscience.
I have being depressed for days now,my girlfriend came around yesterday and she brought about the marriage issue like she knows what I am thinking again.

you should be grateful that you have a girlfriend, perhaps she loves you I assume. focus, work hard, smart and money will come.


I have never had and I don't think I will ever find love but I am still happy and enjoying my life, brother.
be grateful for the little you have, some are praying and fasting everyday to have 1/10 of what you have. you're blessed.

Op start business no matter how small the biz is, later it will grow to feed you and your future wife.

Goodmarlian:

I am almost 30 but but yet to stand financially as a man despite being hardworking and ambitious,i have being on the streets hustling since 18 no parents or siblings to help ,I don't want to blame the Government or economy but I hope Gods grace finds me someday ,my agemate cousin who where both born in the same year and month is getting married soon meaning he is now capable of feeding more than two mouths while I am still hustling for daily bread,to make matters worse he didn't even call me to invite me i heard from my sister meaning I am no longer important to him ,I know it because I no get money if not him for don call me.
I discussed this with my friend yesterday and he told me assuming I have started Yahoo as he advised me years back I for don hammer by now but I don't want to do yahoo because of my active conscience.
I have being depressed for days now,my girlfriend came around yesterday and she brought about the marriage issue like she knows what I am thinking again.

You're here beating yourself saying hes getting married because he can now feed two mouths. Says who?
Do you know whether it the fiancee that is bucksing him up?
Do you know if she's the one funding the wedding under G?

See, most marriages you see these days are not totally on the man. Some ladies are rushing guys into marriage and Wil fute the bills even after the ceremony, the women still carry 80% of the responsibilities until the man is able to stand well and meet up. So, don't be fooled by only what you see outside.

Look, never you compare your self with any one based on life's achievements because our timing in life are different.
If you keep using other peoples timing as a measure for your own achievements, you'll commit or worst still, sink into depression.

Wait for your time. It will soon come. Also keep praying and reminding God.

Tunjibalogun:

And if he's doing well and earning legitimately?

What is your point?? Cos this your question sounds like something a 4 year old will ask..

advanceDNA:


What is your point?? Cos this your question sounds like something a 4 year old will ask..

You sounded like an infant. Just because his cousin is doing well then he could be into something illegitimate. You guys are jealous morons that's why u are both poor.

Goodmarlian:

I am almost 30 but but yet to stand financially as a man despite being hardworking and ambitious,i have being on the streets hustling since 18 no parents or siblings to help ,I don't want to blame the Government or economy but I hope Gods grace finds me someday ,my agemate cousin who where both born in the same year and month is getting married soon meaning he is now capable of feeding more than two mouths while I am still hustling for daily bread,to make matters worse he didn't even call me to invite me i heard from my sister meaning I am no longer important to him ,I know it because I no get money if not him for don call me.
I discussed this with my friend yesterday and he told me assuming I have started Yahoo as he advised me years back I for don hammer by now but I don't want to do yahoo because of my active conscience.
I have being depressed for days now,my girlfriend came around yesterday and she brought about the marriage issue like she knows what I am thinking again.

When your mates died, did you also get sad that you did not join them to the grave

Tunjibalogun:

You sounded like an infant. Just because his cousin is doing well then he could be into something illegitimate. You guys are jealous morons that's why u are both poor.

Infants dont talk man...look for another insult.......I never said the cousin is into something illegitimate...u cant even read...

.. i told him not to envy anybody and i made example with fake lives on social media .because someone that can envy his cousin in a bad way will envy outsiders....i even advised the guy to double up.....but u cant see that since have comprehemsion problem and assume what is not like a schizophrenic human being.....

geez!! How are people around you relating with you.....

story of my life..trust me you are not the only one passing through this

baba no dey worry yourself...your story with change at any moment

no be to marry early..na to stay for the marriage na Him be the PROBLEM


relax and keep on pushing it small small...