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edward1106:
Probably, it was his best way to see you off his gate knowing you may not want to go if for any other reasons given he was done with you. I guess you had a sore feeling he took much from you if you know what I mean. Try not be entirely dependent on a guy. Do things yourself and gain much respect. Advice

He didn't take anything from me, it was a six months relationship. the problem is me, I trust too much and if later discover it's lie there's a way I feel be it male or female. Get that part!!! Shaaa me don wise I won't trust again.

Una no dey tire ni...Please do something ueful with your life and stop bothering yourself about that F-gender...Start a business, go to school, invent.something, get focus and busy
Stop peddling stupidity all the time it shows the kind of man you're

Prettygirl200:
Jesus Christ!! Who born this guy? Make e con carry e pikin comot from here oooo

then proooof to us that u not a racist by simply shoowin me yor booobsi.only me i beg?

dontrulee:
While you may be right to an extent, girls that are loyal truly exists. Yes, I have come across them and there are traits or characters they have if you're observant. I for myself don't trust anyone 100% because my eyes have seen many things. And interestingly I have this ability to "know" a person and get them to reveal their bad or dark side easily whether male or female. The number of secrets I have in my hands are shattering. I'm still amazed how individuals will trust me to the extent that they'll reveal secrets to me that if revealed is capable of destroying their lives forever and I realized that it's because I'm trustworthy cos at the point of death I won't reveal your secret not even if you become my worst enemy because it's simply my choice.

Relationship and dating is a complex, dynamic and fun game. I have had my share of this part of life as I have personally interacted with more than 1K + ladies of all class. So my understanding of ladies is topnotch , still yet I do not claim to understand them 100%.

I realized it's better to focus on yourself and get yourself better, women are always available and will always be there, so what's the bother? Why want to kill yourself because of one woman? Why expend your resources on a woman not committed to you? Infact I changed the norm, ladies spend on me for me to give them face because they know I am a person of value. More than 100+ ladies that have sworn never to give money to guys have eventually given me money because I'm different and they know that I can give it back to them ten times over. Almost everyone is in a relationship for an advantage. My number one rule is "whatever you do, do not put yourself at a disadvantage". I hope you understand all my rants.

cap

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

Everybody can and will never be like you. Whatsoever you give your babe, she'll recreate it and give it to you multiple times.
Stop all these rant talks against ladies, swallow your ego and build yourself.

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

And who told you that after you put the ring on her that she wouldn't be still fucvking around.
No be only you be her husband. You are just the official husband with other ones that live off what you give her.

Prettygirl200:
He didn't take anything from me, it was a six months relationship. the problem is me, I trust too much and if later discover it's lie there's a way I feel be it male or female. Get that part!!! Shaaa me don wise I won't trust again.

Laughing, leave duration out of it. There are relationship that lasted a few days, both parties wished til date they never went their separate ways. Learning is a process and Our wisdom is young and growing. Around the corner, WE will trust again. it's in our nature, very much so for you EMOTIONALLY. Our prayers should be for our trust not to be broken and for us to be with that memorable ONE to live with. There is no perfect match. Nyt nyt

Prettygirl200:
Make woman matter still dey comot from una mouth small, and pls stop sowing hatred nd discord between male nd females here. Making pple bitter. If your gf is dating other guys nd not only you, deal with it yourself and do not drag anyone into it.

One of them spotted...they are always quick to attack u wen u speak out the truth about them. Change for your own good

Equity15:
hmmmm..so that means she can't cheat or what if she's toxic and doesn't give peace of mind?

Everyone is toxic. It only depends on the level of toxicity.

Prettygirl200:
You guys should ashamed of yourself oo, I dey always talk this thing no be to carry prick for front make person man. Most of u here think nd behave children while others behave like women. Always disturbing their peace. It's just too much weder na hardship make una dey pour una frustration for here I no even understand.

What makes a guy a man?

Prettygirl200:
Feeling guilty for what? Are u guys not ashamed of yourself? Why carry a woman's problem on your head like governments work. U all are not called men for nothing make una dey behave like one. To dey carry prick for front no be him be the issue. Haaaa God na wa ooo

Guilty conscience I can see that
You don do person piking na
Why u no go get mouth talk here

Interesting2023:
One of them spotted...they are always quick to attack u wen u speak out the truth about them. Change for your own good

Tender that advice to your mother and sisters at home, they need it more

edward1106:
Laughing, leave duration out of it. There are relationship that lasted a few days, both parties wished til date they never went their separate ways. Learning is a process and Our wisdom is young and growing. Around the corner, WE will trust again. it's in our nature, very much so for you EMOTIONALLY. Our prayers should be for our trust not to be broken and for us to be with that memorable ONE to live with. There is no perfect match. Nyt nyt

yeah sleep tight

mikeljack:
Guilty conscience I can see that
You don do person piking na
Why u no go get mouth talk here

Rest!!!

Prettygirl200:
Make woman matter still dey comot from una mouth small, and pls stop sowing hatred nd discord between male nd females here. Making pple bitter. If your gf is dating other guys nd not only you, deal with it yourself and do not drag anyone into it.

But he’s right na

jeromestarks:
Op is right except for the part he said there are 6 billion men.
The entire planet housed about 7.3 billion people and women are more than men in that number.

So, how can only men be 6 billion?

Anyways, never ever think a girl is dating only you. Just fvck your part and let others fvck.

However, the day you meet a virgin girl, use all your resources to keep her to yourself alone. Treat her well and shower her with excess love.

In fact,love her pass your mama.

Chai omo na true talk be this

Himtulie247:

MY G

Germi9:
But he’s right na

He is right bc your said so.

Berrityga:
Even when you make it official between God and man.. Guys like me will still come and chop her and clean mouth.. Do you know how many married women here in Lagos that I've chopped? Talk more of the single ones.. On Saturday I went out a girl approached me telling me I'm very handsome and tall the next day she called and said she is on her way r my house.. The rest is history. Thats somebody's serious relationship?? And she is engaged. I don't have plans on marrying any Nigerian girl. I have a baby mama and I'm working on a second one.

legend

Southernigbo:
Girl that even a butcher can dig with small change

Orile Area boys dey chop fresh UNILAG babes since the 90s o

lol. Are you the 1st man to marry?
If you believe there is no loyalty before getting married, there's certainly no reason to believe in it afterwards.

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

You simply contradicted yourself in your last paragraph. She's not wearing your ring but you expect a full blown commitment to you when you have the liberty to frolick around other girls. If they ask you now, you'll say you have the right to see other girls asides your gf. Continue clowning. You attract what you are. Simple! Werey tutu

Divay22:
This table way you dey shake never balance o


Make school come resume, make romance land dey shine again
Be like ASUU just abandon all federal students for here

hi divay will you grant me the privilege for us to communicate on another different platform?

dontrulee:
While you may be right to an extent, girls that are loyal truly exists. Yes, I have come across them and there are traits or characters they have if you're observant. I for myself don't trust anyone 100% because my eyes have seen many things. And interestingly I have this ability to "know" a person and get them to reveal their bad or dark side easily whether male or female. The number of secrets I have in my hands are shattering. I'm still amazed how individuals will trust me to the extent that they'll reveal secrets to me that if revealed is capable of destroying their lives forever and I realized that it's because I'm trustworthy cos at the point of death I won't reveal your secret not even if you become my worst enemy because it's simply my choice.

Relationship and dating is a complex, dynamic and fun game. I have had my share of this part of life as I have personally interacted with more than 1K + ladies of all class. So my understanding of ladies is topnotch , still yet I do not claim to understand them 100%.

I realized it's better to focus on yourself and get yourself better, women are always available and will always be there, so what's the bother? Why want to kill yourself because of one woman? Why expend your resources on a woman not committed to you? Infact I changed the norm, ladies spend on me for me to give them face because they know I am a person of value. More than 100+ ladies that have sworn never to give money to guys have eventually given me money because I'm different and they know that I can give it back to them ten times over. Almost everyone is in a relationship for an advantage. My number one rule is "whatever you do, do not put yourself at a disadvantage". I hope you understand all my rants.

you said it all boss.
God bless you

Coolguy34:
Lol I understand op don chop hot breakfast, I left my ex because she changed her phone password and denied me access to her phone well as sharp guy I cloned her WhatsApp and was able to read all her text on my phone.. [/b]Omo i saw things ooo I just played along until we went our separate ways.

Check my contact on my signature if you want to [b]learn how I cloned my ex WhatsApp, but you will pay me a token before i teach you.

Anyways
I do data entry jobs and I'm good at it

How do I contact you for your services?

Bianca05:
Before I finally register on naira land , Everytime woman Mata una no dey tire?

That's bcoz woman mata na continuous assessment. Una wahala nor dey eva finish.

Persephone1:
Your family is complete but you are crying here for women like your mothers
Lets not act like we don't know you when you want women like your mothers you want sufferhead women would would take all your shiit and still crown you like kings

Treat your woman right and you won't be looking for your ancestral women ! .As for your prayers, direct them to yourself. You need them more.

Lol

Sorry to say, but u sound unreasonable.

Prettygirl200:
Feeling guilty for what? Are u guys not ashamed of yourself? Why carry a woman's problem on your head like governments work. U all are not called men for nothing make una dey behave like one. To dey carry prick for front no be him be the issue. Haaaa God na wa ooo

They are just exposing u guys bad/evil ways, and it's needed for our sanity. U can go fuc:k yourself if the truth irritates u..........nonsense

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

Even most of the ones wearing ur ring are same too

ccollins:
this is evil and shameful. U better know that what you are doing is destroying other people’s life so you better repent

Don't get it twisted.
I believe you are referring to the married women....u also have to know Op didn't make a vow on the altar they did so they should take all the blame if their lives are being destroyed for foolishly spreading their legs.

Prettygirl200:
yes I was heartbroken but then I still have a heart. I can't hate all men bc one guy cheated on me. U can't dispute the fact that men don't cheat, they are cheaters even the so called married ones

Sorry about that... I believe cheating is a 2 way thing and from my research.. Single ladies cheat more when dating and in marriage men cheat more.

So I don't link a particular gender to cheating.. Since I left school and came back 2 the area where I grew up from. Now most of my friends especially the female ones re all married. Like 70% of them re cheating on their husband due 2 our closeness they do discuss it with me. So cheating has nothing 2 do with gender..