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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 20, 2022
siofra:


Me, beg for urgent 2k??

God forbid! That's the one thing I'll never do in my life.

*Spits


But I can beg for urgent 5k though cheesy

really?..u beg for NGN5,000 (5k)......ok I will double it to NGN9.000 naira (9k) cash if u let me nak u twice again.. ...deal?? cheesy
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by BRATISLAVA: 1:55pm On Oct 20, 2022
SmartPolician:
No woman is perfect. I noticed that where people lag behind, they make in other areas.

Unfortunately, I cannot stand lady who cannot read and write. What will she teach my kids when I am not there?

Are you there when they are teaching your children in school or do men normally fantasize about their wives teaching their children this much?

Marry a teacher and settle that.

There are illiterates with a sound understanding of life, and others who are repellent.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by BuyDomain: 1:57pm On Oct 20, 2022
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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by kleuvet92: 1:58pm On Oct 20, 2022
I categorically cannot do such, but won't criticize any family or friend that does such.
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by franksam2009: 2:05pm On Oct 20, 2022
Most of you here don't have shi shi, while some are jobless, but yet you hv month to pick educated from non-educated,, and later y'all come back here to cry how she cheated or likes money!!
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Aklee4994(m): 2:06pm On Oct 20, 2022
bobkezel:
Illiteracy can't give anyone peace of mind.
But a feminist can give you peace of Mind.

Just try to oppose any girl here and see the way she will rush down
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by BRATISLAVA: 2:07pm On Oct 20, 2022
Gurakel123:
Everybody is just saying Her Her whatabout Him?Abi men no dey be illiterate?

Tells you a lot about the forum. Their responses are illiterate. It seems all relationship standards are only to be met by women.

Even men with backwards reasoning will be here to post "her, her, her, she, my children" to prove that some illiteracy is genetic.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by BRATISLAVA: 2:07pm On Oct 20, 2022
franksam2009:
Most of you here don't have shi shi, while some are jobless, but yet you hv month to pick educated from non-educated,, and later y'all come back here to cry how she cheated or likes money!!

Men (boys) here are confused. That's why.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Aklee4994(m): 2:08pm On Oct 20, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


Are you there when they are teaching your children in school or do men normally fantasize about their wives teaching their children this much?

Marry a teacher and settle that.

There are illiterates with a sound understanding of life, and others who are repellent.
loud am again...marry a teacher and settle that you be YOGA MAN

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by BRATISLAVA: 2:10pm On Oct 20, 2022
IDERAWOLE:


Let me respond to this, it resonates with my view. You can help a wife who's not learned to read and write but I doubt if there's any help for one that can't guarantee peace of mind for the husband. Lack of peace from a woman is all about upbringing, some twenty or more years ago. You can't teach that any longer, it's too late. For knowledge? You can learn that at age 70 or even older. Whatever makes a woman gives you a peaceful life is internal and huge, same with the one that is a trouble shooter, huge and internal too. Both can't be unlearned. Only God's spirit can help the latter. So make your choice.

In your world, men cannot be bringers of peace, but are looking for peace that they cannot themselves give.

Who on Earth told the male posters here that women will give them peace of mind when they don't bring any into the equation? What is this mythical peace of mind that you've all adopted as your new standard?

You all want peace, but are are you peaceful?

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by bobkezel(m): 2:11pm On Oct 20, 2022
Aklee4994:
But a feminist can give you peace of Mind.

Just try to oppose any girl here and see the way she will rush down


I would rather marry a feminist than an illiterate.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Promicah: 2:12pm On Oct 20, 2022
oscaruzie:


lol. so you actually accept and admit to being a bitter soul, always lashing out at men...nice.
okay, seems you're a bit humble today.
you need 5k yeah?
send me a pm.

Naza.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Prince001(m): 2:23pm On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

Read and write english una mean I bet cos that's why u people in Nigeria uses to measure d level of intelligence. Smh. What matter most to me is good heart and she can speak her own mother language the rest who care. I don't!!!!!!
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ibinaboonline: 2:38pm On Oct 20, 2022
The question is will you have peace of mind if she can't read or write?
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Papichulostunne(m): 2:54pm On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?
This one done dey follow e family people fite our e lover.. Better follow peace of mind wey sabi to package. After all reading and writing na oyibo carry am come

Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Dayaa: 2:55pm On Oct 20, 2022
cheesy cheesy cheesy
what kind of situation is this o?
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Dayaa: 2:57pm On Oct 20, 2022
VictorUSA:
How can someone who cannot read and write give you peace of mind in this 21st century?

It's very possible.

Emotional and social intelligence is different from literacy.

The inability to read and write does not hinder
the ability to interact and live with people successfully.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Dayaa: 3:13pm On Oct 20, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


In your world, men cannot be bringers of peace, but are looking for peace that they cannot themselves give.

Who on Earth told the male posters here that women will give them peace of mind when they don't bring any into the equation? What is this mythical peace of mind that you've all adopted as your new standard?

You all want peace, but are are you peaceful?



There you are.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Dayaa: 3:14pm On Oct 20, 2022
IDERAWOLE:


Let me respond to this, it resonates with my view. You can help a wife who's not learned to read and write but I doubt if there's any help for one that can't guarantee peace of mind for the husband. Lack of peace from a woman is all about upbringing, some twenty or more years ago. You can't teach that any longer, it's too late. For knowledge? You can learn that at age 70 or even older. Whatever makes a woman gives you a peaceful life is internal and huge, same with the one that is a trouble shooter, huge and internal too. Both can't be unlearned. Only God's spirit can help the latter. So make your choice.


There you are too.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Karnice600: 3:54pm On Oct 20, 2022
Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

Why not? I bet she'll have a terrible complex tho.., but this won't seem to be possible anymore, one year after our first meeting, cause I'll make sure everytime we spend together gets productive.
Na she go up her game, cos I won't bend everything to suit her absolute comfort .
Fastest way for her to learn is if you tell her to teach you some basic stuff, like making some dishes, or even feminine stuff, no matter how crazy it sounds. Let her see a movie and narrate it again to you. Don't let her run into her shell, cos she can never get better in there. Let her have huge confidence around you. Play Scrabble and Monopoly together, not Ludo.
She'll naturally copy your vibes when she connects deeply with you.
Lastly don't keep her away from social functions. If she notices your trying to avoid her in certain settings, she'll recoil back into her shell or even become non challant and all of these won't work.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by thuxzwda1: 4:19pm On Oct 20, 2022
culf:


Does it matter?


Yes
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Killerbag36: 4:23pm On Oct 20, 2022
siofra:


That message was not for me, sir.

And yes I'm a fine babe, I will feel myself kiss

Nd yes for the time been ok mk use of ur fine bae now b4 its will b too late i rest my case bye
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ericmor: 5:12pm On Oct 20, 2022
siofra:


Wahalurrr!!

Why am I even wasting my time to reply you this early morning??

Mtchewwwww. Believe whatever you want. Don't mention me again because I won't reply you.

but you just did
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ericmor: 5:12pm On Oct 20, 2022
godofuck231:
Thats means she sabi native doctor house well well

lol. You be baba suwe
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ericmor: 5:15pm On Oct 20, 2022
Parachoko:
Yes

I will pay a teacher to teach her how to read and write.

People underestimate the importance of Peace Of Mind a lot.

and that is why we keep having failed marriages now
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ericmor: 5:19pm On Oct 20, 2022
SmartPolician:
No woman is perfect. I noticed that where people lag behind, they make in other areas.

Unfortunately, I cannot stand lady who cannot read and write. What will she teach my kids when I am not there?

you are not there because of lack of peace, but she and the kids can get that educations, even she can get it before the arrival of the kids.

Illiteracy can be corrected but that peace of mind, na only God can help u
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by ericmor: 5:21pm On Oct 20, 2022
DaddyCK:


really?..u beg for NGN5,000 (5k)......ok I will double it to NGN9.000 naira (9k) cash if u let me nak u twice again.. ...deal?? cheesy

oga, 9k is not a double of 5k, so you are scamming the babe
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by SmartPolician: 5:22pm On Oct 20, 2022
ericmor:


you are not there because of lack of peace, but she and the kids can get that educations, even she can get it before the arrival of the kids.

Illiteracy can be corrected but that peace of mind, na only God can help u

No human trait is static. Every behaviour we display today was learned and can be unlearned. At least that's what you learn in psychology 101.

BTW, I will mention it in another comment I made concerning that peace thing.
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Parachoko: 5:47pm On Oct 20, 2022
ericmor:


and that is why we keep having failed marriages now
I dey talk wetin I go do, you dey cry on my behalf grin
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 20, 2022
ericmor:


oga, 9k is not a double of 5k, so you are scamming the babe


angry
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Ijb11: 6:14pm On Oct 20, 2022
Really
Re: Can You Marry Someone That Can't Read Or Write But Gives You Peace Of Mind? by Jumbojax(m): 7:06pm On Oct 20, 2022
Peace of mind trumps everything else grin
If the person can understand small of what you're saying. Why not? Wether you're proud of them or not. You love them right?
If the person is always with you then the person will probably become more literate. But you are already literate, you can't become illiterate by association na.

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