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MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op):
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3i3CqZrPwE
Courtesy - David's Christian Center
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Don't frustrate him and conflict will reduce

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjNViouEo6o
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Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op): 10:03am On Oct 20, 2022
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by imagrg(m): 10:24am On Oct 20, 2022
Men should learn to control their libido sha
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by Divay22(f): 12:45pm On Oct 20, 2022
where is Dominion city located in PH please?
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op):
Divay22:
where is Dominion city located in PH please?
5 Faith Avenue, Woji Estate Road, Woji Port Harcourt Nigeria.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8yI2pkScYc
7 mistakes single ladies make

1.) Being too available. Manage the gift of your presence Proverbs 27:7.

Wisdom points
- Have a life of your own (hobbies, passion etc).

- Don't insist on talking every time.

- Be disciplined & remember what you want. Restrain yourself from reaching out everyday.

2.) Not defining relationships

Wisdom points
- Be ready to walk away

- Say what you expect from the relationship

- Set and agree on clear timelines

3.) Giving too much too soon (e.g. time, money, sex)

Wisdom points
- Decide what your boundaries are and stick to them

- Declare them to whom and when necessary

4.) Throwing away other vital relationships

Wisdom points
- Identify the vital non-romantic relationships in your life that existed before the person came.

- Make plans to nurture these relationships

- Watch for any intentions from your lover to isolate you from other vital relationships in your life (most abusive partners start by trying to do this).

- Note the relationships in your life that should end now that this person has come in (e.g. platonic relationship with your ex-partner)

5.) Not building yourself. Develop yourself beyond your looks Proverbs 11:22

Areas to develop yourself in
Spiritually, financially, mentally, physically, socially, emotionally (character), domestically (For women to be given breasts I believe God was pointing in a certain direction about their design.
Even if you don't want to cook for your husband and think he's a useless man, what about the children?)

Wisdom points
- List the areas you need to develop

- Come up with a simple plan to develop those areas

- Get a mentor

- Choose your friends strategically (you are usually no greater than the company you keep).


6.) Confusing the ideal with reality. Confusing what you feel should obtain with what is the reality and, what is possible.

Wisdom points
- What is the ideal and what is the possible reality? Make a mental note

- Ask yourself "How can I help him create my ideal?"


7.) Ignoring patterns
(patterns don't lie)

Questions to ask yourself
- Is he always broke, begging, or borrowing?

- Does he show signs of violence?

- Is he proud and listens to no one?

- Is he domineering and always sees himself as right even when wrong?

- Is he always living above his means?

- Is he lazy or too laid back about life?

- Does he show signs of extreme verbal or emotional abuse?

Wisdom points
- Watch out for and notice patterns even while the both of you are initially just friends.

- Ask yourself if you can live with the things you notice

- Get counseling when you see patterns you are unsure of.
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by Divay22(f): 3:59pm On Oct 20, 2022
anointedlinks:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQ9VHDcOssY
Thanks.. But woji is kinda far from where i am..

No one around Choba?
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op):
Divay22:
Thanks.. But woji is kinda far from where i am..

No one around Choba?
Type dominion city church port harcourt in Google,
many options will come up


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S960iqV3oGA
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by Divay22(f): 2:37pm On Oct 21, 2022
anointedlinks:
Type dominion city church port harcourt in Google,
many options will come up
Alright.. Thanks
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imagrg:
Men should learn to control their libido sha
No disputing that. You are correct


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwTZQ2J3c7I
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Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op): 3:38pm On Nov 20, 2022
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Dwell with one another in knowledge

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2PELxw7epc
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Understanding men will help you get one faster

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbkFtw4nLjI
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Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op): 5:55pm On Nov 26, 2022
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Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op): 1:37pm On Nov 27, 2022
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A woman that is ready to parent is loved by men


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vh7H4JSM5NI

What God expects from parents
1. Put the scriptures in front of your children - it prepares their hearts to receive Christ

2. Create boundaries for them - if they don't cry as kids, they will make you cry as an adult (don't give a child a phone, teach them to eat right, create curfew, screen their friend's background, say no to them, teach age appropriate sex education, create boundaries regarding who they interact with)

3 Make them conscious that they are carriers of the blessing of God. Pass down the covenant

4. Train them in the way they should go and in the way of their individual gift or bent
. Know their personality and tailor your training to that.
Re: MANUAL: Ladies...Understand Men Finally! by anointedlinks(op): 8:44am On Dec 01, 2022
Be prudent with finances and give your man peace

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLyg2-_STgs
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Check for red flags and work on yours

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QeDiJ3SaZ2M
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Cleanliness makes one attractive

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dwqam0E-aU4
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