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Coinwarrior:
when i met this young girl,she was homely and well reserved and she loved me then.I told all my pastors about 9 pastors to help me prayed on her with about six names to make the total names I gave to them be 7 girls.All the pastors prayed on it and they all singled out this girl that is the lord’s choice. Her parent also prayed too on their side by given my name with other 5 names to their pastors and they all prayed and their pastors singled me out that I am the lord’s choice for their daughter.And this is what further made us to get married and we got married in 2020 after we did introduction by 2019 august.All through the time we were dating i love the girl and the girl loved me too and the girl has been good and faithful to me.But i ran into a discovery about my wife then why we were on the road.when we wanted to start the relationship i asked her a question that is she in a relationship currently at that time and she said she was not into any and that the one she was b4 went into water.ok I accepted to her.But one day she was sick and I was away I then called her to know her health condition and one guy picked her call and I was shocked and asked her who was he? And he said he was his boyfriend and I said boyfriend but she never told me she was in any relationship when i met her but out of my genuine love to my wife I just told the guy to not attack her becos she was still ill.Then later when she was totally ok.I sat her down and asked her who was that guy and why couldn’t she tell me the truth then.she then begged me and said she had broken up with him at that time i met her and it was her own friend that advised her not to tell me about it.And when I did my background check I saw that she was not with that guy again because she caught him having sex with her junior.But the guy kept pestering her and begging.Then later on her sister and mother called me that they really want to see me then and it was from there I further confirmed that my wife just finished dating that guy then b4 she broke up with her after she discovered his sexcapade with other younger girls.what do i want to bring out from this narration is dawned on not being totally sincere with me. I caught her there.Another area i caught her lying was when i returned from traveling and saw a new phone in my wife hand then and when i asked her she told me her dad bought it for her but i knew soonest they truth would be revealed.in the course of our relationship then I got to discovered that the old guy that she had broken up with bought her the phone then and her aunty later advised her to return the phone back when it was obvious she would marry me when the spiritual findings of their pastors came out,i overheard her aunty telling her on phone.And when i confronted her she later lied that she didn’t tell me that her father got her the phone.she said the guy gave her the phone as part of his begging to come back.That is lie no 2 I forgave her cos of my love and warned her but the guy was pained that he was unable to sleep with her when they were courting then because my wife was telling him then to wait till their wedding night because i read their long time chat they had on Facebook why they were together then.So when we eventually married...going forward i saw my wife randomly chatting guys with whom they went to secondary school with and some guys that once toasted her and i told her to stop that when she is now married.Even her pastor called her and warned her to never anything to do with those old guys again when she is now married.But one day i just checked my wife contact and I saw a particular number she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake* I was curious what that could mean.And my wife telling me she never had sex with anyone in all her previous relationship but she said she is not a virgin because one incident that happened to her while she was growing up in the north where one old man raped her when they sent her to buy bread by her parent.I didn’t believe the narrative but the same thing she told our church pastor when they asked us during one private discussion point with them.But i stumbled on one book where I saw where she wrote *my first husband Gabriel and put two numbers but I tried to call those numbers but they were not active.Then I remembered one day we were driving out together and we saw one guy and I was talk about him and my wife said she knew him very well.it was there my wife made mention of his senior brother whose name was Bro Gabriel,she said they were in the church quoir and the brother use to called her *his children mother and she use to called the brother *her children father* she told me they took themselves as husband and wife already but one day when she visited the brother the brother told her my children mother let step this thing up by having intercourse but my wife said she just stylishly find a wise way to dogdge it by telling the brother that she is coming to do the act with him he should just wait for her to tell her sister waiting to receive sth outside then she would then come in to do the thing with him.she said she has to use that wiseness because she can’t abuse or struggle with him cos the guy can do anything with her.if that is true or not I can’t say but I am looking at the meaning of *my first mistake* that is very symbolic.with that symbol,I believed she slept with that guy hence the reason why she saved his name with *first mistake*.That is another redflag I observed.Then about one week ago my wife was telling me she would change her phone pin and pattern so that those people in her shop won’t be able to swipe her phone start using it to make calls.I said it would be good and do you know my wife changed the pattern of her and she didn’t come to me to show it to me and I was waiting for her to come tell me as being open as it should be being husband and wife.I watched for 8 days and I concluded she deliberately didn’t want to let me know .I was then wondering what she could be hiding from me when she would look my phone from morning till night.But just yesterday I then confronted her and told her I don’t know the kind of wife she is that she would be hiding things from me.Then she exploded and was telling me that she used a pattern I once know.I then said she should show me the pattern and I could see it was a different pattern and I told her baby you use to lie.why is she lieing? I then told her i have some history of her lieing and I started mentioning those lie she lied that she was not in any relationship when she was in one and she just broke up when I came.I then mentioned that I saw a number on her phone that she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake *immediately she heard that ...she kept quite all through* and the next thing was she went to her phone dialed one unsaved number which happened to be Gabriel number though the number is still inactive.I then confronted her when I saw her dialed the number while she is still married to me.That made her to start telling me she is tired of this marriage and she told me I should go and bring my lawyer to divorce and she threatened that she would walk to where nobody know.And she was crying and I felt for her and started begging her again not to sad because of the love I had for her.

I took time to read this epistle of yours and when I got to the last four lines where you guffed,

That was when I concluded that your are finished

Your Mumu button no get rival

When you hear that some men are simps you are one of them

By the time she will finish with you, you will be left with nothing, totally nothing because your heart will break beyond mending

She can lie more than Chidimma/ATAGA and change words the way Chidimma is doing in the court room

You are too weak as a man

Coinwarrior:
I am very unlucky to have good girls that can make good wife.The one I currently have is so ill-mannered,ungrateful,sultry,snaky and cunny.
Pls I need suggestions of where to find good girls that can be made good wife.Help a frustrated cool headed guy with heart and heart of Gold.

Are you a good man? You attract who you are

phemmyfour:
Are you a good man? You attract who you are

Honestly I swear ...I am a good man with good heart

Coinwarrior:
Honestly I swear ...I am a good man with good heart

you are weak bro.

I need a business partner. Come let's work together in order for Humans benefits.

Register with GHT heath Care.

Lollittaa:
Among the girls you jilted.

Hi dear.

What is a good girl according to you?

Coinwarrior:
I am very unlucky to have good girls that can make good wife.The one I currently have is so ill-mannered,ungrateful,sultry,snaky and cunny.
Pls I need suggestions of where to find good girls that can be made good wife.Help a frustrated cool headed guy with heart and heart of Gold.

Joniww:
you are weak bro.

Forget about those your simp ideology and be a realistic person.stop deceiving yourself.you think I am weak ? I smile I am not weak at all.I know the reason why I brought this talk to this public arena.

Samantha123:
What is a good girl according to you?

A good girl is a girl that would give her man total respect irregardless of anything.A good girl is open,transparent and knows how to set right boundaries with other men outside her man.A good girl is well-mannered,very contented,not money-centric.A good girl value her man’s inputs.she honour her man time to time and give respect to opinions and advice of her man.A good girl doesn’t double-date,lie or cunny and deceptive.A good value her man and prays for him.A good girl manages anything her man put down.The list is endless

I need a business partner.
Come let's work together in order for Humans benefits.
Register with GHT heath Care.

A good girl is a girl that would give her man total respect irregardless of anything

Even when he's fuvkin the mother in-law on the matrimonial bed.



I love this

That girl you've mentioned doesn't exist.. so you might as well make peace with being single for the rest of your life.

Coinwarrior:
A good girl is a girl that would give her man total respect irregardless of anything.A good girl is open,transparent and knows how to set right boundaries with other men outside her man.A good girl is well-mannered,very contented,not money-centric.A good girl value her man’s inputs.she honour her man time to time and give respect to opinions and advice of her man.A good girl doesn’t double-date,lie or cunny and deceptive.A good value her man and prays for him.A good girl manages anything her man put down.The list is endless

Coinwarrior:
I got married to one young 22years for the past two years plus now but she is very untrained for me to my taste becos she always resist all my taste teaching and she loved me when I got her initially.But now she has turned into a very disrespectful girl,very sultry(she can abuse a corpse),she is very unthankful no matter what you did for her.I have provided all good things of life for her yet she doesn’t see me as anything.At any slightest disagreement she would be threatening me to leave and be raining all sorts of abuses and curses on me.And she has a problem sef...her Fallopian tubes are blocked I have been trying to adopt for us and yet she doesn’t value it .prior to discovery of her tubal blockage after hsg test.I had spent over 2mln on her case and my own sperm is good and can impregnate a girl.But i am trying to see if I can see better option for my life.pls help me o

My only advice for you is to look for another woman that will give you peace and born for you. Pray to God to connect you with the right one, don't be deceived by age, those young girls go show u pepper. U can look for someone older but make sure she ticks all your boxes. Good luck!

Coinwarrior:
I am very unlucky to have good girls that can make good wife.The one I currently have is so ill-mannered,ungrateful,sultry,snaky and cunny.
Pls I need suggestions of where to find good girls that can be made good wife.Help a frustrated cool headed guy with heart and heart of Gold.

bro juss try Siofra sir...she yung single & free & she date anythin!(THANK ME LATER)

Coinwarrior:
I am very unlucky to have good girls that can make good wife.The one I currently have is so ill-mannered,ungrateful,sultry,snaky and cunny.
Pls I need suggestions of where to find good girls that can be made good wife.Help a frustrated cool headed guy with heart and heart of Gold.

To get a good girl, you have to seek her in all possible ways and be prepared to date as many as possible.

On street, parks, from friends, blind dates, social media, etc, changing your environment, etc.

Have a set standard and don’t hesitate to flush off any lady you meet that doesn’t fit into what your want.

excanny:
To get a good girl, you have to seek her in all possible ways and be prepared to date as many as possible.

On street, parks, from friends, blind dates, social media, etc, changing your environment, etc.

Have a set standard and don’t hesitate to flush off any lady you meet that doesn’t fit into what your want.

excellent piece sir.

frozen70:
Get one and nurture her the way you want her to be by directing her in a well mannered way

But you have to be prepared and responsible to achieve that

Forget about those crazy girls

They are better of fir dating

If you know what you waefrom a girl interms of behavioral, teach her

If she loves you she will be humble and obeys you by being loyal

If she doesn't love you, she will argue every thing you tells her

How are u frozen70 why this moniker.. just curious

If you dey look for Wife, no go near Abia, Imo, Anambra or Enugu. No talk say I no warn you.

Samantha123:
That girl you've mentioned doesn't exist.. so you might as well make peace with being single for the rest of your life.

i am not here to be fighting you.I have seen young girls and married woman exhibiting these effortlessly so it is not a big deal.so if you can’t do those things as a person...no need to attack it.

Another new advantage I have now is that I am just admitted into u.i to have my masters this session.it can be an avenue to meet some nice good replacement

I'm not fighting you, I don't like fights.

What I'm trying to tell you is that everyone has got flaws. You'll never find anyone perfect.

Do you actually believe that there's a person in this world who doesn't lie?

Coinwarrior:
i am not here to be fighting you.I have seen young girls and married woman exhibiting these effortlessly so it is not a big deal.so if you can’t do those things as a person...no need to attack it.

Coinwarrior:
I am very unlucky to have good girls that can make good wife.The one I currently have is so ill-mannered,ungrateful,sultry,snaky and cunny.
Pls I need suggestions of where to find good girls that can be made good wife.Help a frustrated cool headed guy with heart and heart of Gold.

“He who finds a wife hath found a good thing and obtained favor from his Lord…”

Michelle70:
You are not unfortunate

Ur problem is that u are attracted by physical beauty and big bum-bum and u probably didnt see their bad side.

And who told you that looks defines a woman's character?

Lmao
You are obviouly the blind one here.

excanny:
To get a good girl, you have to seek her in all possible ways and be prepared to date as many as possible.

On street, parks, from friends, blind dates, social media, etc, changing your environment, etc.

Have a set standard and don’t hesitate to flush off any lady you meet that doesn’t fit into what your want.

lol, responsible man, won't have all these time

kumulus:
“He who finds a wife hath found a good thing and obtained favor from his Lord…”

This proverb always crack me up .
Even the most promiscuous Man have this quote behind his brain
You Men should stop abusing this proverb.



What about "she who find a husband hath found a good thing and obtained favor from her Lord ?

Rickmann:
And who told you that looks defines a woman's character?

Lmao
You are obviouly the blind one here.

read my comment again, this time read it slowly

Coinwarrior:
when i met this young girl,she was homely and well reserved and she loved me then.I told all my pastors about 9 pastors to help me prayed on her with about six names to make the total names I gave to them be 7 girls.All the pastors prayed on it and they all singled out this girl that is the lord’s choice. Her parent also prayed too on their side by given my name with other 5 names to their pastors and they all prayed and their pastors singled me out that I am the lord’s choice for their daughter.And this is what further made us to get married and we got married in 2020 after we did introduction by 2019 august.All through the time we were dating i love the girl and the girl loved me too and the girl has been good and faithful to me.But i ran into a discovery about my wife then why we were on the road.when we wanted to start the relationship i asked her a question that is she in a relationship currently at that time and she said she was not into any and that the one she was b4 went into water.ok I accepted to her.But one day she was sick and I was away I then called her to know her health condition and one guy picked her call and I was shocked and asked her who was he? And he said he was his boyfriend and I said boyfriend but she never told me she was in any relationship when i met her but out of my genuine love to my wife I just told the guy to not attack her becos she was still ill.Then later when she was totally ok.I sat her down and asked her who was that guy and why couldn’t she tell me the truth then.she then begged me and said she had broken up with him at that time i met her and it was her own friend that advised her not to tell me about it.And when I did my background check I saw that she was not with that guy again because she caught him having sex with her junior.But the guy kept pestering her and begging.Then later on her sister and mother called me that they really want to see me then and it was from there I further confirmed that my wife just finished dating that guy then b4 she broke up with her after she discovered his sexcapade with other younger girls.what do i want to bring out from this narration is dawned on not being totally sincere with me. I caught her there.Another area i caught her lying was when i returned from traveling and saw a new phone in my wife hand then and when i asked her she told me her dad bought it for her but i knew soonest they truth would be revealed.in the course of our relationship then I got to discovered that the old guy that she had broken up with bought her the phone then and her aunty later advised her to return the phone back when it was obvious she would marry me when the spiritual findings of their pastors came out,i overheard her aunty telling her on phone.And when i confronted her she later lied that she didn’t tell me that her father got her the phone.she said the guy gave her the phone as part of his begging to come back.That is lie no 2 I forgave her cos of my love and warned her but the guy was pained that he was unable to sleep with her when they were courting then because my wife was telling him then to wait till their wedding night because i read their long time chat they had on Facebook why they were together then.So when we eventually married...going forward i saw my wife randomly chatting guys with whom they went to secondary school with and some guys that once toasted her and i told her to stop that when she is now married.Even her pastor called her and warned her to never anything to do with those old guys again when she is now married.But one day i just checked my wife contact and I saw a particular number she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake* I was curious what that could mean.And my wife telling me she never had sex with anyone in all her previous relationship but she said she is not a virgin because one incident that happened to her while she was growing up in the north where one old man raped her when they sent her to buy bread by her parent.I didn’t believe the narrative but the same thing she told our church pastor when they asked us during one private discussion point with them.But i stumbled on one book where I saw where she wrote *my first husband Gabriel and put two numbers but I tried to call those numbers but they were not active.Then I remembered one day we were driving out together and we saw one guy and I was talk about him and my wife said she knew him very well.it was there my wife made mention of his senior brother whose name was Bro Gabriel,she said they were in the church quoir and the brother use to called her *his children mother and she use to called the brother *her children father* she told me they took themselves as husband and wife already but one day when she visited the brother the brother told her my children mother let step this thing up by having intercourse but my wife said she just stylishly find a wise way to dogdge it by telling the brother that she is coming to do the act with him he should just wait for her to tell her sister waiting to receive sth outside then she would then come in to do the thing with him.she said she has to use that wiseness because she can’t abuse or struggle with him cos the guy can do anything with her.if that is true or not I can’t say but I am looking at the meaning of *my first mistake* that is very symbolic.with that symbol,I believed she slept with that guy hence the reason why she saved his name with *first mistake*.That is another redflag I observed.Then about one week ago my wife was telling me she would change her phone pin and pattern so that those people in her shop won’t be able to swipe her phone start using it to make calls.I said it would be good and do you know my wife changed the pattern of her and she didn’t come to me to show it to me and I was waiting for her to come tell me as being open as it should be being husband and wife.I watched for 8 days and I concluded she deliberately didn’t want to let me know .I was then wondering what she could be hiding from me when she would look my phone from morning till night.But just yesterday I then confronted her and told her I don’t know the kind of wife she is that she would be hiding things from me.Then she exploded and was telling me that she used a pattern I once know.I then said she should show me the pattern and I could see it was a different pattern and I told her baby you use to lie.why is she lieing? I then told her i have some history of her lieing and I started mentioning those lie she lied that she was not in any relationship when she was in one and she just broke up when I came.I then mentioned that I saw a number on her phone that she saved with *Gabriel my first mistake *immediately she heard that ...she kept quite all through* and the next thing was she went to her phone dialed one unsaved number which happened to be Gabriel number though the number is still inactive.I then confronted her when I saw her dialed the number while she is still married to me.That made her to start telling me she is tired of this marriage and she told me I should go and bring my lawyer to divorce and she threatened that she would walk to where nobody know.And she was crying and I felt for her and started begging her again not to sad because of the love I had for her.

she is manipulating you with tears. You are a man be a man. If she leaves you, she will find it difficult to remarry, but not you. I know you're thinking because your Pastor say so and so, but when you begin to notice lies, even if you think you heard from God directly, run o.

Coinwarrior:
I got married to one young 22years for the past two years plus now but she is very untrained for me to my taste becos she always resist all my taste teaching and she loved me when I got her initially.But now she has turned into a very disrespectful girl,very sultry(she can abuse a corpse),she is very unthankful no matter what you did for her.I have provided all good things of life for her yet she doesn’t see me as anything.At any slightest disagreement she would be threatening me to leave and be raining all sorts of abuses and curses on me.And she has a problem sef...her Fallopian tubes are blocked I have been trying to adopt for us and yet she doesn’t value it .prior to discovery of her tubal blockage after hsg test.I had spent over 2mln on her case and my own sperm is good and can impregnate a girl.But i am trying to see if I can see better option for my life.pls help me o

At just 22 she has these baggage. Hope you're not one of the virgin obsessed NL men.

Samantha123:
That girl you've mentioned doesn't exist.. so you might as well make peace with being single for the rest of your life.

She exists. Though I've only met one that year

Funny you can't even vouch for yourself to be one

Jeon:
This proverb always crack me up .
Even the most promiscuous Man have this quote behind his brain
You Men should stop abusing this proverb.



What about "she who find a husband hath found a good thing and obtained favor from her Lord ?

Husband: from the Old Norse hūsbōndi, where hūs meant house and bōndi meant dweller. As a verb, husband means to conserve resources and use them frugally for the best possible results/outcomes.

Some girls/women (house/land) are full of excellent resources for the man to husband (if he’s wise of course), some are filled with shafts, weeds and hard rocks (often appearing as appealing attributes to the fool) while others unfortunately are desolate/empty/barren/unfruitful/ devoid of fertility and unable to yield any good thing, unfortunate is he who acquires such lot/portion for he shall have no shade above his grey and no fresh fruit to rejuvenate his scorched stomach.



You will agree no man, wise in these matters will find a land flowing with milk and honey, capable of nourishing his seeds to growth, even unto producing their choice fruits and not choose such.


Be wise daughter of Zion, even a land is able to birth many nations.

Shalom!

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