Very necessary

RepoMan007:
You date person for 10 years.

ok you meet someone, and they never gave you a reason to dump them, how do you make way ? Create a reason like this ? Well we meet young na why, 2012

Ologundudu2020:


I don’t even send them, Nairalanders no dey chill before. Anyway bro anywhere I can get a sound center ?

hello bro I sent an email with the nairaland message option. Kindly reply

Ologundudu2020:


I don’t even send them, Nairalanders no dey chill before. Anyway bro anywhere I can get a sound center ?

Go to Luth, Lagos University Teaching Hospital.
There are many options.
PRENATAL DIAGNOSIS is surprisingly affordable. Not up to 500k.

I'ma need for you to be near as possible, if nobody's perfect
And I'ma do whatever I can do to help you, if you worth it

Ologundudu2020:


Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Abort Mission, This is not About You nor Your Girlfriend But Both of You are about to Create a Soul into Eternal Sufferness while Others are Enjoying the world and complaining about Buhari, Your Child is Suffering from Myriads of Sicknesses!

I think Nigerian Government should Criminalised As marrying each Other ... That's inhumanity to a Child you never Seek His/Her Consent Before Manucfacturing Him/Her .....

You are about to Become a Criminal!

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

After 10years, you still need someone to advise you on what to do? What have you been doing for 10 years that you can't decide for yourself?

By the way, if you need advise, don't you have parents and siblings you will ask abi na nairaland wan follow you go pay bride price?

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

You will just use your hand and invite trouble and cardiac arrest to yourselves...

Do you know an SS child has the capabilities of gulfing up your entire live savings and investment within 6months, can you bear the consequences of giving birth to a child knowing fully well he might die before turning 20??

Genotype is as important as knowing the name of your spouse, except for people like us who are known AA that goes into a relationship with full confidence...

For your mental stress, for your unborn child, for your peace of mind, do away with this ship because it can only lead to disaster at the end...

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

There comes to a point in a relationship where you’ve got to put love and emotions aside and use your God given brain!! Use your brain !!

I lost my childhood friend to sickle cell at the age of about 17. And he was the first born. I could recall almost all his childhood traumas. It is a pain to deal with - not only for the child, but the parents and siblings. As early as 2 am, they’d rush him to the hospital.

Whatever it takes to avoid bringing a child to the world only to suffer him/her please do it. You are in your early 30s and so what ? Don’t allow pressures to lead you to make eternal mistakes.

I have warned you! If you love your partner and you don’t want a life you’ll always live to regret, then do the right thing.

Giltexo:
Nothing sweet pass distance relationship ..I mean distance not long distance ooo ..when you dey theif am e dey sweet ...but make una dey for house for complete months .. hehehehe ...na that time you go know if she is all you gat or not ...I be born again no reach this one ooo...you go learn how to keep your mouth shut my man...

We’ve once been together for 2yrs tho, how about that ?

Having a relationship with someone does not mean you should marry them.

Ologundudu2020:


Lawd! Just spoke the words outta my mind swears as in Nairaland just full of bitter people, we’ve dump each other several times tho, fate just keep buzzing us together back. Tanks u really a good thinker

It’s not about bitter people chairman, they are telling you the “bitter truth”… If you fit run the IVF parole, no wahala. If not, hmmmmm!.

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

The "long, healthy and lasting relationship" will fizzle the moment you realize your kids or one of them is a sickle cell patient. Good luck!

Absolutely!

I don’t know why the awareness of this procedure is poor !!

There’s a procedure for this and all your kids will come out in good health
It’s a bit expensive
The unborn child can be checked after 3 months through the navel of your pregnant wife
If the baby is SS the pregnancy will be terminated and then you try again
If not SS you go ahead and deliver and thank the lord !

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Two AS's is a no no sir

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Bro dont waste ur time, my friend dated a lady for 5years, both are AS ... both families were against their marriage. The lady decided to be pregnant for my friend so dat the two families will not have options than to allow them to marry.
They are still in the marriage with sorrow. Their first child is SS , the second child is SS and the last one is AS.
They have been spending all their money on them , now they wanted to separate but there is no way because of the children.

My brother, dont marry AS if u are also AS because of ur children to avoid bitter and sorrow future.

Pls can guy with AA marry As or SS?


Bro I advice you let go now .to avoid future regret.

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

oga loose that relationship now and have peace of mind.. a lost relationship is far better than dead children

10 years? That's damn tooooo long.

But it's gonna be way too ooo ooo ooo ooo ooo long if you make avoidable mistake.

OP pls don't dump the love of our life just because of genotype, this is 2022, there is a way out, but it's very costly, if u can afford it bro go for IVF, how does it work? Ur sperm will be carefully collected and screened the best and well screened one will be used to fertilize ur woman, it's very costly, presently in Lagos its between 1.5m to 2.5m depending on the facility u choose

Ologundudu2020:

We have AA AS then SS options for us, so which of them is a follow come disease? Don’t forget we have people on this forum with same blood, and why narrowing it down to the last option, forgetting our first child can be AA and we done . Lol we should stop been primitive in this part of the world, so I should dump someone with prospects all because I want be having babies.

The essence of marriage is having babies

Ologundudu2020:


Are you a kid? Or just that you sleep around ? Must everyone bang each other ?
Lol we hardly see yearly tho, next question ?

you've been apart for 4years, you hardly see yearly, yet she’s all you got. I pray never to have a boy like you

People don't really put genotype in to consideration when going into relationships, except those who have issues with it in their past relationships...

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Both of you are AS and you want to risk it? Two years after marriage, you will understand. And that love will vanish.

Stay tuned

doggedfighter:


There are ways around it now.


Someone suggested I VF already.

I think you can check the foetus and abort if it's SS too. That's another option too.

Meet a doctor specialised in this. He will give you options.

Don't dump each other yet.


Explore all and every available options .

There are solutions to these things now.


Remember not to reply little brats here that knows nothing about life !

Most of this advanced option are not in Nigeria. I doubt any private facility offers in-utero genetic screening in Nigeria.
Best option is to travel out if u guys are willing to risk it and tie the knot.
Don't try such in naija, no church will marry u and the support system for sickle cell pxt is weak.

All of you shouting that he should go ahead,
that he can do PRENATAL DIAGNOSIS bla bla bla...who is deceiving you that it will work 100%?? It is a 50/50 chance...go and ask any great doctor around you...better do not mislead the op...why intentionally go into problem all in the name of relationship or love??...even if you are a billionaire...The medical procedure to prevent the sickle cell child is not even 100% guaranteed..it is a 50/50 chance situation...oh those world billionaires with sickle cell kids , you thought their doctors were not aware of the same procedures which you are recommending to the OP??lol...smh..some of you are just myopic and funny...


Awon motivational speakers...be motivating him into problem oooo..you think as long as there is money , then the problem automatically becomes fixed ?? I pity you...

Angelawhite:


There comes to a point in a relationship where you’ve got to put love and emotions aside and use your God given brain!! Use your brain !!

I lost my childhood friend to sickle cell at the age of about 17. And he was the first born. I could recall almost all his childhood traumas. It is a pain to deal with - not only for the child, but the parents and siblings. As early as 2 am, they’d rush him to the hospital.

Whatever it takes to avoid bringing a child to the world only to suffer him/her please do it. You are in your early 30s and so what ? Don’t allow pressures to lead you to make eternal mistakes.

I have warned you! If you love your partner and you don’t want a life you’ll always live to regret, then do the right thing.

No there won’t be anything sickle cell child born, so no one is dying at 17 anymore, I’m here for measures not to have the SS of a child, which is achievable with proper exposure and not the advice you people are throwing, you all forget I’m here to weight my options for the last time.


How you all quick to dump people self

Zonefree:

Remove 4 years from 10 years, that's 6 years.

Una dey try sha.. you banged someone's daughter for straight six years

I don dey bang one since 2011 till date. We only went off for 4 years cos of distance and resumed cos I already moved on but she no want. Most times na the woman no dey gree allow the man be so na to just dey chop am dey go. After all they prefer heartless men to honest men

Zonefree:

Remove 4 years from 10 years, that's 6 years.

Una dey try sha.. you banged someone's daughter for straight six years

Go and rest Mr man, why always setting your mind on banging matter, if you don't have anything to say stay aside

I think the answer to your question is very simple. Look for a couple who has a child with SS genotype. Let them tell you their experience then you will understand more the English adage that says prevention is better than cure. I wish you well.