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| Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 7:33am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas. Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing. Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho. We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s. I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol � Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Autobot05: 7:36am On Oct 25, 2022 |
"She's all you got "  FR Your parents and siblings will be very disappointed in you sir 263 Likes 15 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Zonefree(m): 7:36am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing. There's nothing healthy about banging someone's daughter for 10 years! 234 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 7:36am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Autobot05:And if I don’t have anyone frm those you mentioned? What does that make you ? Don’t jump just address my concern! She’s all I’ve got to be with rn. I don’t owe you details on that 58 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 7:39am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Zonefree:Na Mr saro, we’ve been apart for 4yrs now tho, and it’s healthy if not the best so far 6 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 7:41am On Oct 25, 2022 |
If you are rich, you can opt for IVF so they can do selective implantation via advanced NIPT screening for the sickle cell trait. If you can't afford it, I don't know how you'll do it cause 10 years is a long time to have wasted the time of that woman. With all the awareness going on about sickle cell and genotype compatibility, it feels like you just crawled out of the stone age where the topic is concerned. 269 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Zonefree(m): 7:44am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020:Remove 4 years from 10 years, that's 6 years. Una dey try sha.. you banged someone's daughter for straight six years  114 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by general111(m): 7:44am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Baba, if you have genotype issues, just dump yourselves. 18 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by advanceDNA: 7:45am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020: ...u might not be able to give your children billions if you dont become a billionaire, or some other advantage in this unfair world.. The least u could do is not deliberately increase the chances of giving them a blood with a follow come disease they will be managing for the rest if their lives.... 184 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by dawnomike(m): 7:46am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020:It is painful but you both have to let go... Trust me, you do not want to bring your lovely kids to the world to suffer the pains of been 'SS'. Please, let go! 27 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 7:46am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Zonefree: Are you a kid? Or just that you sleep around ? Must everyone bang each other ? Lol we hardly see yearly tho, next question ? 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Autobot05: 7:49am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020: Dude there is an advice hidden in what I told you ... it wasn't an insult Learn to be complete with or without anyone You say she's all you got . What if she changes tomorrow? Then from your statement you have nothing if she leaves ... We are humans bro and humans( women especially) are fickle I've been here before so I talking from experience Have a wonderful day and apply my siggy to your lifestyle if possible 51 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by doggedfighter(f): 7:50am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020: There are ways around it now. Someone suggested I VF already. I think you can check the foetus and abort if it's SS too. That's another option too. Meet a doctor specialised in this. He will give you options. Don't dump each other yet. Explore all and every available options . There are solutions to these things now. Remember not to reply little brats here that knows nothing about life ! 37 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 7:50am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Romanoff:I knew about the IVF where the foetus get tested before growing, and that’s the only slimmer chance I’ve been holding unto, I heard it’s cost around 2-4m or so. Believe me you we’ve have to do than growing babies and we both have more to lose leaving each other. 2 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Zonefree(m): 7:50am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020:So, what's so special about the relationship then 19 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Delight2014(m): 7:50am On Oct 25, 2022 |
As + As is a no go area. One girl was crying heavily in our lab the last time when they came to do screening test. They were negative to all the test but their genotypes were As and it was damn hell for her because she wants to get married at all cost and to the man because according to her she loves the guy so much. So my dear, you better separate from her now than it's too late 39 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 7:56am On Oct 25, 2022 |
advanceDNA:We have AA AS then SS options for us, so which of them is a follow come disease? Don’t forget we have people on this forum with same blood, and why narrowing it down to the last option, forgetting our first child can be AA and we done . Lol we should stop been primitive in this part of the world, so I should dump someone with prospects all because I want be having babies. 4 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by javaguru: 7:58am On Oct 25, 2022 |
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| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Sneakytoucher: 7:59am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020:Hardly see? Hahahaha  .. All d more reason to want to bang her silly..3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by robinso01(m): 7:59am On Oct 25, 2022 |
I've seen many sickle cell children cursing their parents for the pain they are going through. You should understand better what a child must have been passing through to curse her parent. I know you won't want this kind of situation for yourself. It's better to let go of each other now, than to later marry each other and be regretting it for the rest of your life. If you don't even think about yourselves, think about the child that might be unfortunate with the sickle cell. 52 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Elmojiid(m): 8:00am On Oct 25, 2022 |
E go clear for your eyes when u born ss and the stress will be too much to bear 32 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 8:00am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Autobot05: Okay brr. Share the experience let me learn, you are the first commenter up there, that comments sends a lot of diversions and wrong signal to others coming to either address my issues or learn too. And meanwhile, when I said all I’ve got, i don’t mean been materialistic tho, we both ain’t. 1 Like |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 8:00am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020: It actually costs more than that. Regular NIPT is around 250k. NIPT that tests for chromosomal anomalies cost more, the one for sickle cell costs around 500-700k. The IVF for sickle cell procedure costs more too. Hope you sha get the money? 13 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 8:02am On Oct 25, 2022 |
doggedfighter: How many abortions them wan do? Do you know that multiple abortions can take its toll on fertility? 16 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 8:03am On Oct 25, 2022 |
doggedfighter: Lawd! Just spoke the words outta my mind swears as in Nairaland just full of bitter people, we’ve dump each other several times tho, fate just keep buzzing us together back. Tanks u really a good thinker 6 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 8:10am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Zonefree: the 10yrs peace of mind and respect 13 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by neonly: 8:10am On Oct 25, 2022 |
doggedfighter: 1 Like
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| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by doggedfighter(f): 8:11am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Ologundudu2020: Having children in your case maybe expensive financial wise. Hopefully you will be able to have the finance required for it. One or two kids are just okay Have a good life ! 5 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 8:12am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Delight2014:That’s my girl there, one white lab like this right? Beside where self |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 8:16am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Sneakytoucher:Yeaaa, we do that a lot in my early twenties, guess you just started hunnn! Lol bang bang bang! Haaa! Try other things na, try powder play too Hunn! Or skit too 3 Likes |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 8:22am On Oct 25, 2022 |
Romanoff: Well if I have I can give it up, just that once lol and I have 45% moving prospects to achieve anything to bring us together. When we thinking about making babies, we should also thinking about making money for the babies. Tnks tho, learnt the other option is cheaper and safer, I mean checking the foetus before growing, and who knows our first hit could be a twin with AA it’s an option too my father had three twin, my uncles did too plus I shoot a lot. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by PrinceSammy02(m): 8:24am On Oct 25, 2022 |
The earlier you start pulling out of that relationship the better. Everything is not about love. This your excuses of being in your 30s or a 10 years old relationship are very selfish reasons. What about the child that might come out of this? Have you thought about the medical issues he/she will encounter? However, you can still have a successful marriage with her. But have it in mind that you must not have any child with her naturally. You can opt for IVF (if you're capable). Having a child with sickle cell is not just a stress to the family, but a big stress to the child. He/she might even hate you for putting him in that condition. Such situation should be avoided. I still wonder why people don't talk about this Genotype of a thing till they want to get married. Personally, I feel that should be one of the first questions to ask a potential mate before even dating. Bro, sometimes breakup is healthy. What matters most is how you do it. If you feel you can cope well with child/children who aren't biologically yours, then you can go ahead and wed her. But make sure she's okay with your plan for adoption. Otherwise breakup would've saved you both from committing to a lifetime trauma. 19 Likes |
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