mumu op

The final choice still remains with you. No one can stop you if you insisted on marrying her
Good thing is that you know what you are going into.
Generally, the advice is , don't Marty each other. It is only an advice. The ball stops in your court. All the technology been mentioned is beyond me and you.

I hear you. Bro ... your mind is made up to continue with her regardless. Is her mind made up to continue? ... and be married without children? That will be a bitter pill for her to swallow. Even more bitter is to birth a sickler.....and worse to see the child being tortured by the disease. You need to.do.some research on the disease to get a clear understanding of what's involved.

I lost two of my classmates back then in secondary school through sickle cell disease ,they were both in SSS 3 ,one died before our WEAC ,the other one was after our WAEC,it wasn't so easy for them o . In relationship is better you get to know your genotypes before anything serious or both of you should go for a test ..

Ologundudu2020:


Lawd! Just spoke the words outta my mind swears as in Nairaland just full of bitter people, we’ve dump each other several times tho, fate just keep buzzing us together back. Tanks u really a good thinker

You don’t want to listen to advice. Those advice may be bitter but that’s the truth. If you don’t dump each other now . You will regret it when that love clear for your after you start spending money steadily in hospitals.
Best advice anyone will give you is dump each other even if you’re a billionaire that has enough money to spend on hospitals, it will save you the unnecessary stress and sleepless nights in the future. If you don’t leave each other now, you will in the future when the wahala starts.

Ologundudu2020:

We have AA AS then SS options for us, so which of them is a follow come disease? Don’t forget we have people on this forum with same blood, and why narrowing it down to the last option, forgetting our first child can be AA and we done . Lol we should stop been primitive in this part of the world, so I should dump someone with prospects all because I want be having babies.

you sound to me like an idiôt, simp and foôl.

You’re mumu with certificate. Why are you so wicked like this for Christ sake? Dem don use juju for you?
why do you want to subject your children to eternal pains ? Why do you want to intentionally push yourself into eternal struggles just because of love??

U are so selfish and inconsiderate , and I pray toGod not to have someone like you as a friend or partner.

If you love the lady, you wouldn’t even think of taking such risk, but because you’re so wicked to let her go and meet the better person . Haba, have you ever seen a SS in pain ? Do you know what these people go through?



I know you have some savings in your uba account, na wetin Dey shack u be that, so in your mind, the money will always be there to run Ivf, and abortion , what if the money finishe self? What if she dies doing abortion ?
U should be arrested.


Cc seun
Lalasticlala please expose this guy ip, dss must arrest u for this , ha

OP I abandoned my best friend due to genotype issue. I wanted a selective IVF but aside that it's over 4M which is not the problem, the problem will be that your wife will be placed on medications and medical procedures all through the pregnancy, the chances of success is less than 40%

We also considered NIPT but how do u feel aborting babies after 12weeks of pregnancy, moreover one abortion doesn't guarantee u won't abort the next one

Finally she cried I consoled her, she is married today and I am very happy

Be wise

My brother, my candid advice is to let go the relationship. Any option, other than not giving birth, is in itself expensive and you will regret bringing children that will lay curse on you because of love.

You don't consider love, choosing a partner for marriage. We choose compactibility.

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Keep having kids and birth them you have a chance of getting one AA and two AS

Then if you discover any one to be SS, you deal with it

This OP are you sure you are up to 30?
Leave that gal and respect your future children.
This was how my friend ignored all warnings because of yeye love. They are suffering it now and sadly na only the man dey donate blood everytime.
Dey there dey talk about stupid love.
Leave her and find someone else with AA. If you marry her to bring in sickle cell children, will you be happy seeing your children suffer?

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Are u rich cis the options to be together and have biological healthy as urself kids are very expensive.

Ologundudu2020:

Yea I have the funds, the last I checked I’m doing fine alone.

About chances nah, I’m not taking chances I’m only trying to leave longer while using my brain, you are a lady, you won’t understand tho.

About conscience, nah! I’m a hard thinker, life is not always run on conscience but decisions, the outcome is what matters, tho my only fear is later after all these process, I don’t want to be unfortunate to go and have an ss. That’s my worries Ma

life is not always run on conciense but decisions, dude that's super cool, I have a brilliant take away from your conversations

Within your 10 years of being together, you couldn't ask each other important questions?

I wonder what many of y'all do in relationship these days.

If you both are ready to face the whole rigours

Checking of the baby s genotype and all

I know a few couples who are both AS and they all have one child in each case and most important is that They are all happy as F ...... K...


It all depends on how committed both parties are....

seanwilliam:
I[/b]sound like an idiôt, simp and foôl.

I I’m [b]mumu with certificate. Why are you so wicked like this for Christ sake? Dem don use juju for you?
why do you want to subject your children to eternal pains ? Why do you want to intentionally push yourself into eternal struggles just because of love??

[b]I I’m [/b]so selfish and inconsiderate , and I pray to god not to have someone like my mother as a friend or partner.

If you love the lady, you wouldn’t even think of taking such risk, but because you’re so wicked to let her go and meet the better person . Haba, have you ever seen a SS in pain ? Do you know what these people go through?



I know you have some savings in your uba account, na wetin Dey shack u be that, so in your mind, the money will always be there to run Ivf, and abortion , what if the money finishe self? What if she dies doing abortion ?
U should be arrested.


Cc seun
Lalasticlala please expose this guy ip, dss must arrest u for this , ha

Loooooool! I’m going to response to all response tho, but then you need to be saved.

Of all response, yours sounded too bitter, and more like you emotionally pained, have we somehow met! Cos you shut yourself. Now let me ease your pain to summarize my write up,

First there won’t be any sickle cell child or children, I don’t know if you planning a baby making factory for yourself but I think I’m
Okay with a single offspring, with adoption, you can also be a great parent, but people like you are quick to read. Lol very terrible I will have to attach pix for you to read clearly before curse yourself up there �.


And why you always quick to call on seun and lala anytime you sounded stupid?


Anyway bye and you need the dss more
Oponu read up

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Stop that nonsense, don't bring kids out in this world to suffer. Don't let stupid love or whatever to blind you, you will regret it

lrman:


You have Google on your phone na.....Oh it is your doctor that told you that it is never a 50/50 chance ?? Really?? That doctor that told you so should be fired..he is obviously a quack doctor...

Both of you might have a point here, unless both of you are taking absolute positions.

Sickle Cell screening through IVF for Sickle Cell Disease or trait is not 50/50 chance, it is not Zero chance and it is not 100% either.

The screening only reduces the chances of implementing embryo with Suckle Cell trait or diseases. IVF clinics will disclose this off front to you or put them in their fine prints.

As a result of the chance not being 100% many IVF clinics even after their screening implants many embryos that have passed the screening test into the woman and monitor them as the develop and have to come back to eliminate aka murder the ones that fall-through or reduce overall healthy embryo to the number of desired kids.

duduade:
If you both are ready to face the whole rigours

Checking of the baby s genotype and all

I know a few couples who are both AS and they all have one child in each case and most important is that They are all happy as F ...... K...


It all depends on how committed both parties are....

who knows? We could even be more luckier than them. bitter people start making things difficult. Even if I get married anyone with a better chance, I will still would have fathered not more than two if not one child.

Thanks for sharing the success part of this terrible experiences. Thumbs up � I’ve seen couples who got married without knowing their accurate status too, they had four kids all AA swears lol

"Sickle cell disease could be treated with the Christmas Bush plant, study finds | Express.co.uk" https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/health/1638355/sickle-cell-disease-symptoms-signs-treatment-christmas-bush-plant/amp


Click on the link above and read. It's been scientifically proven that the Christmas Bush plant is very potent in the treatment of Sickle Cell Disease (SCD). The good thing is the plant can be locally sourced. I am in possession of a published scientific journal on its efficacy in the treatment of SCD but it may be too technical for you to comprehend.

Most people here on Naira land are not informed, hence the kinds of comments strewed over this thread.

https://www.sicklecellsociety.org/resource/testing-baby-sickle-cell-pregnancy/

I heard it is available in so many hospitals today. So you go ahead and marry, remember to test the foetus during pregnancy.

Zionmdde:
OP I abandoned my best friend due to genotype issue. I wanted a selective IVF but aside that it's over 4M which is not the problem, the problem will be that your wife will be placed on medications and medical procedures all through the pregnancy, the chances of success is less than 40%

We also considered NIPT but how do u feel aborting babies after 12weeks of pregnancy, moreover one abortion doesn't guarantee u won't abort the next one

Finally she cried I consoled her, she is married today and I am very happy

Be wise

Is she happy if you are ? And IVF is close to %85 success rate read up on it. And more also in your case it’s different, but the fact remains you attempted it for love. I repeat their won’t be any sickle cell child given birth to, No


I have two options, a sound child or be both stop


You got my points now?

nedekid:

Those days we were younger, followed popsi and mum to a neighbour's house, apparently, they had just lost a 3rd child, a boy. Omo, I was shocked when I heard the woman tell my folks had she known, nothing on this earth would have made her marry this man. She said it pointing at her husband!
So sad.
That boy would have been 51 years old this year.

I hope the op will Learn from what you wrote.

''Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing'', Genotype after 10years relationship is a crime, what will you do if the test result revealed AS+AS? tell her to go and find another man? in the same community? Even Obi will reject your vote if he found out you dumped someone's daughter for Genotype after 10 years..

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!

It's a reality check for all intending couples.

People still do genotype compatibility when a relationship is getting too close for comfort, in-fact it's compulsory, so that you don't give your relationship avoidable headaches.

If you know what some of my "He/She All I've Got For Real" Same AS or even SS Genotype Parents are going through right now after birthing kids, you wouldn't have made this post.

That's is when you know that even your true love fades in months. Even that your "All I've Got For Real Spouse" will change over night and regret your so called marriage.

Don't ask me how I know, I treat their kids so I know.

Though we treat some of them and their SS kids get healed and genotype changed to either AS or AA but it's is a VERY VERY LONG AND EXPENSIVE PROCESS. Please emphasis on the " VERY AND LONG AND EXPENSIVE".

If you are not a person with PATIENCE as an natural inbuilt attribute, dont even try the treatment.

if you have money nothing is impossible
you can do blood group test for fetus at sickle cell center opposite luth idi araba

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

lansile:
''Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing'', Genotype after 10years relationship is a crime, what will you do if the test result revealed AS+AS? tell her to go and find another man? in the same community? Even Obi will reject your vote if he found out you dumped someone's daughter for Genotype after 10 years..

Please avoid what is called an avoidable problem.

Love will not solve it and your offspring will be subjected to unbearable pains.

This is where man's knowledge in science and medicine plays a critical role.

If you go ahead, you will bear the brunt.

papi22:
if you have money nothing is impossible
you can do blood group test for fetus at sickle cell center opposite luth idi araba

Bad Idea.

I have parents that did that.

They are crying right now after birth.

Y adults they give advice to someone is not willing to learn...y create a topic if u have a reply to all suggestion..bk then nl used to be an Avenue to learn ..I think sun should put it up for sale..how does marrying her or not affect us

Bros, please don't bring an innocent SS kid to this world to come and suffer. Please I beg you.

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Ologundudu2020:

We have AA AS then SS options for us, so which of them is a follow come disease? Don’t forget we have people on this forum with same blood, and why narrowing it down to the last option, forgetting our first child can be AA and we done . Lol we should stop been primitive in this part of the world, so I should dump someone with prospects all because I want be having babies.

Since you know so much why are you still asking for advice? Don't dump her, marry her and do what pleases you. We will not be there when you begin frequent hospital runs.