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I have suffered all types of abuse from my husband for the past 6 years of our marriage.

I did my best to stay peacefully and bear in my marriage for the sake of my children.

But it is now obvious the man who swore to love and protect me wants to take my life because he knows I am an orphan who has nowhere to go and no one to run to.

He did this to me 3 days ago.

I won't advice you to pass the night there.... You're an orphan doesn't mean you don't have the right to live.


Get a room apartment somewhere far from him, carry the kids and move away from that beast.

Please I need help. I need to leave with my kids. I cannot bear this anymore .


I am not a scammer. I really need help. I am penniless and have no where to go with my kids.

Please I beg of you. I don’t want to stay in this marriage anymore. I want to move myself and kids as far away as possible from him.


PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME. I don’t want to die.

So, what is keeping you there?

VeevoH:
The first time he hit me till I lost consciousness. I reported to the police but we were told to settle at home. This man laughed at me and told me he will be the one to bury me

Ps: Stay away from that abusive marriage

Please see a customary court for proper action. Only they can stop this nonesense once and for all.

silvoclaira:
Scam alert: New account!

Ps: wait till you are dead and we will type RIP

Na everything be scam to una sef? Be reasonable.

silvoclaira:
Scam alert: New account!

Ps: wait till you are dead and we will type RIP

You are not mentally stable.

Op please state your location. Report to the nearest police station

Take him to a police station and have him sign an undertaken

Meanwhile try get a job and prepare for a divorce

Even if you sell Indomie and egg, or Ankara by the road side, or get a pos terminal you would make some money to survive and have peace of mind

Yo fish, send me an email, if you can provide valid prove he did this, he is gonna go to jail and you won't have to worry about your kids anymore. PS* there is a slot over here with $13333- 21001 pay check, if you can work then it yours

VeevoH:
Please I need help. I need to leave with my kids. I cannot bear this anymore

Leave the children with him, if you have to, and save your life. They'll understand.
You obviously feel trapped because of them, and he's taking advantage of that.

PlayMaker14:
I won't advice you to pass the night there.... You're an orphan doesn't mean you don't have the right to live.


Get a room apartment somewhere far from him, carry the kids and move away from that beast.

I have nowhere else to sleep. We just moved into this town a few months ago. I haven’t made friends here.

mariahAngel:
So, what is keeping you there?

My children

VeevoH:
Please I need help. I need to leave with my kids. I cannot bear this anymore

I believe you have some little savings in your account... Report him to any of these organisation fighting against domestic violence, get an apartment, move there with your kids and get something doing for yourself.

VeevoH:
My children

What do you want from us exactly

Moh247:
Take him to a police station and have him sign an undertaken

Meanwhile try get a job and prepare for a divorce

Even if you sell Indomie and egg, or Ankara by the road side, or get a pos terminal you would make some money to survive and have peace of mind

The first time he hit me till I lost consciousness. I reported to the police but we were told to settle at home. This man laughed at me and told me he will be the one to bury me

VeevoH:
The first time he hit me till I lost consciousness. I reported to the police but we were told to settle at home. This man laughed at me and told me he will be the one to bury me

Nothing in this world worth your life, absolutely nothing... You must start plotting your divorce even if you have to turn to a beggar or a petty trader

Without happiness or peace of mind you are prone to Cardiovascular health problems

VeevoH:
My children

Leave the children with him, if you have to, and save your life. They'll understand.
You obviously feel trapped because of them, and he's taking advantage of that.

Osinachi couldn't take her children with her to the grave.

VeevoH:
I have nowhere else to sleep. We just moved into this town a few months ago. I haven’t made friends here.

If you have some money with you, I'll advise you go sleep in an hotel tonight with the kids for your own safety, you don't know what next he's going to do.... Then ask around for a cheap accomodation so you can be safe.

Nor go use your life play because of one Mumu man.

mariahAngel:
Leave the children with him, if you have to, and save your life. They'll understand.
You obviously feel trapped because of them, and he's taking advantage of that.

Thanks ma but I don’t have the heart to leave my kids with him as He hits them too. I can’t save myself and leave them in the condition I’m running from

Moh247:
Take him to a police station and have him sign an undertaken

Meanwhile try get a job and prepare for a divorce

Even if you sell Indomie and egg, or Ankara by the road side, or get a pos terminal you would make some money to survive and have peace of mind

Thanks sir. I am penniless as it is. I have skills in hairdressing. I plan to move me and the children far from him to start afresh

PlayMaker14:
I believe you have some little savings in your account... Report him to any of these organisation fighting against domestic violence, get an apartment, move there with your kids and get something doing for yourself.

I do not have any savings. I am afraid to report him to any organization. I’m scared he might bribe his way out and I will be on the receiving end. I just want to move away with my children in peace

My dear stay biko. All you need from us now is money bah... You don't need our advice. Biko stay and wait for the money

VeevoH:
I do not have any savings. I am afraid to report him to any organization. I’m scared he might bribe his way out and I will be on the receiving end. I just want to move away with my children in peace

Scared? Okay oh....


Just move out with the kids, I take God beg you... Their safety and mental health is more important than anything.

Those doesn't look like injury anyway

Bunnybee:
You are not mentally stable.

Op please state your location. Report to the nearest police station

If I am not mentally stable, what about the Op and the husband and you a stranger?!

What are your resources what can you do to make a living and how son can you start a business, the easiest is cooking, a small location and good food , at least the most common in nigeria , service trays ad coolers , u ca start with what you have, ad value to your self and stop replying an aggressive man , keep your head safe , stop replying on impulse and see if this stops, if not then he's been bewitched

why did you stay this long. first thing is to move to any relative house or friend if you don't have the means for a personal place.
hard luck

Moh247:
Take him to a police station and have him sign an undertaken

Meanwhile try get a job and prepare for a divorce

Even if you sell Indomie and egg, or Ankara by the road side, or get a pos terminal you would make some money to survive and have peace of mind

Do this and try to get over him by falling for someone else who is ready to marry and protect you. He is a mumu man. By the looks of your skin you will have a beautiful face. Sorry about what's happening. It's not the end of the world.

VeevoH:
I do not have any savings. I am afraid to report him to any organization. I’m scared he might bribe his way out and I will be on the receiving end. I just want to move away with my children in peace

Be strong. Abusers manipulate you to think they are above the law

Please drop your account number

VeevoH:
I do not have any savings. I am afraid to report him to any organization. I’m scared he might bribe his way out and I will be on the receiving end. I just want to move away with my children in peace

Where are you located some of us can be near you to offer help

Run
Run
Run
Run
After run then run till you flee from him
He go beat you to death one day if you no run