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Give your reasons.

None of em
They are both useless fruitless and incompetent

Many messages talking about how we need to respect women; very little talk about respecting men.

Candidlady you really need to have a change of mind and a quick think on how to stop talking down on all men in this manner.

Sister, Its speak alot about your upbringing and the kind of home you come from in negative ways!

Candidlady:



None of em
They are both useless fruitless and incompetent like my father and my bloody brothers

Of course ... It means treat men with the same respect you would expect for yourself Okay?!

Arrogant lady!

None.

incandescentena:
Yea

When you are done salivating on my mention kindly use the exit door

My husband.

I can easily steal it from my husband, but that my brother's wife na first class witch! No way could I steal from her!

I can give any of them but with a strong agreement that the money must be shared equally among themselves after contract.

Candidlady:



None of em
They are both useless fruitless and incompetent

bitter old cargo ,that boy wey wire you dump ,do you strong thing

Give it to your husband, afterall he will still return 60% as feeding money.

Must she be the one to sign?
So that tomorrow if the husband carry money go give Ashawo wey full Nigeria dem go blame the woman abi if him brother carry am go play bet dem go still blame the womam.
If na only her make dem kukuma no apply.

silvoclaira:
Many messages talking about how we need to respect women; very little talk about respecting men.

Candidlady you really need to have a change of mind and a quick think on how to stop talking down on all men in this manner.

Sister, Its speak alot about your upbringing and the kind of home you come from in negative ways!

probably she was raped by her father and brothers reason she has developed this bitterness towards men... I may be wrong though..

Meanwhile, I'm traveling to Zimbabwe first thing tomorrow morning.

silvoclaira:
Many messages talking about how we need to respect women; very little talk about respecting men.

Candidlady you really need to have a change of mind and a quick think on how to stop talking down on all men in this manner.

Sister, Its speak alot about your upbringing and the kind of home you come from in negative ways!

Its difficult to advice people if you're not in their shoes.

Some of these girls come from homes where their fathers were drunks and wife beaters and their brothers were criminals. It may have damaged them, hence making them have a deep hatred for men in general.

Same applies to guys who have a deep hatred for women. A lot of people walking the streets of life and the Internet are damaged people. You can tell by the number of complaints on this forum everyday.

I will choose my husband on a condition that we must be married in community of property.

If it happened that our marriage status was out of community of property, we will go to the civil court and change it into in community of property.. in that way, if he dares tries to leave me after I handed him that contract worth millions, I'll make sure that I fight him in the courts for my equal share.

As for my brother, we can give him a position within the company as long as he's proven himself and he qualifies for the job.

starring:
Give your reasons.

Samantha123:
I will choose my husband on a condition that we must be married in community of property.

If it happened that our marriage status was out of community of property, we will go to the civil court and change it into in community of property.. in that way, if he dares tries to leave me after I handed him that contract worth millions, I'll make sure that I fight him in the courts for my equal share.

As for my brother, we can give him a position within the company as long as he's proven himself and he qualifies for the job.

U would expect your husband to do things for you naturally because your are his wife..buy u a car without condition...give you millions, etc

But u want to help ur husband with contract now....it is how u will deal with him first that you are thinking about.... i told u yesterday.

that when women want to practice feminism its always about making men suffer...

Now u get it

This is not about feminism, a lot of marriages nowadays don't last.

And when we get married, we get married with the aim of sticking together until death do us apart, but we mustn't shy away from the possibility of a divorce somewhere in the future.

All those people that divorced didn't plan it, it just happened.

I wouldn't want him to buy me a car or give me millions because I'd want us to invest the money on a family business or a company, so that we can create a legacy for our kids and grandkids.

Only after the business has succeeded, he can then buy me that car and we'll go on countless vacations..

advanceDNA:
U wouldn't expect your husband to do things for you naturally because your are his wife..buy u a car without condition...give you millions, etc

But u want to help ur husband with contract now....it is how u will deal with him first that you are thinking about.... i told u yesterday.

that when women want to practice feminism its always about making men suffer...

Now u get it

Samantha123:
This is not about feminism, a lot of marriages nowadays don't last.

And when we get married, we get married with the aim of sticking together until death do us apart, but we mustn't shy away from the possibility of a divorce somewhere in the future.

All those people that divorced didn't plan it, it just happened.

I wouldn't want him to buy me a car or give me millions because I'd want us to invest the money on a family business or a company, so that we can create a legacy for our kids and grandkids.

Only after the business has succeeded, he can then buy me that car and we'll go on countless vacations..

Please explain why you want to do something good for your husband that will even supposedly benefit u both... but you are first thinking of how u will deal with him?? is that not witchcraft

Like I said, you need to consider the possibility of a divorce somewhere in the future when you get married, especially when a lot of money is involved.

When I do something, I always consider the long term outcomes or the possibilities of what may happen in the future.

And don't forget that money can change people, especially when they handle it alone.

advanceDNA:
Please explain why you want to do something good for your husband that will even supposedly benefit u both... but you are first thinking of how u will deal with him?? is that not witchcraft

Samantha123:
Like I said, you need to consider the possibility of a divorce somewhere in the future when you get married, especially when a lot of money is involved.

When I do something, I always consider the long term outcomes or the possibilities of what may happen in the future.

And don't forget that money can change people, especially when they handle it alone.

Wow.....Now i see why marriages dont last..

Be truthful...if your man says he will not do something nice for you like help u win a contract, or buy u car, or help advance your career because u can change or leave him in the future, how will u feel..??

That's why I say we must get married in community of property first.. in that way he'll be able to monitor our financials because what's mine would be his and what's his would be mine.

Me winning the contract would simply mean that the both of us will be entitled to a 50/50 share and we can use the entire money to start a family business.

What more do want me to tell you because we're just going round in circles here..

advanceDNA:
Wow.....Now i see why marriages dont last..

Be truthful...if your man says he will not do something nice for you like help u win a contract, or buy u car, or help advance your career because u can change or leave him in the future, how will u feel..??

Samantha123:
That's why I say we must get married in community of property first.. in that way he'll be able to monitor our financials because what's mine would be his and what's his would be mine.

Me winning the contract would simply mean that the both of us will be entitled to a 50/50 share and we can use the entire money to start a family business.

What more do want me to tell you because we're just going round in circles here..

The question already said "husband" and yes came with all sorts of clause just to help your husband.....all i asked...if the tables were turned how will u feel....u are the one going in circles here in an attempt to dodge the question here cos u already know the answer

I'm an open book, so if he suggests it, we'll talk about it and then do it.

It'd be a reasonable thing to do.. I'll do it if he suggests marriage in community of property because he'd have worked hard for me to get that contract.

advanceDNA:
The question already said "husband" and yes came with all sorts of clause just to help your husband.....all i asked...if the tables were turned how will u feel....u are the one going in circles here in an attempt to dodge the question here cos u already know the answer

Samantha123:
I'm an open book, so if he suggests it, we'll talk about it and then do it.

It'd be a reasonable thing to do.. I'll do it if he suggests marriage in community of property because he'd have worked hard for me to get that contract.

U are still dodging the question samantha.
U know u mentioned all reasons why u have to be careful before u do somwthing??

So Be truthful...if your man says he will not do something nice for you like help u win a contract, or buy u car, or help advance your career because u can change or leave him in the future, how will u feel..??

Already I can do most of the things you mentioned by myself... So I'll respect his decision and find a way to do it myself.

If I can't do it myself, even though I'm not from a rich family, I'm from a successful one and I know that they're always ready to help me out.

advanceDNA:
U are still dodging the question samantha.
U know u mentioned all reasons why u have to be careful before u do somwthing??

So Be truthful...if your man says he will not do something nice for you like help u win a contract, or buy u car, or help advance your career because u can change or leave him in the future, how will u feel..??

Samantha123:
Already I can do most of the things you mentioned by myself... So I'll respect his decision and find a way to do it myself.

If I can't do it myself, even though I'm not from a rich family, I'm from a successful one and I know that they're always ready to help me out.

Samantha.....geez.....u are still dodging the question.. ....i asked how u will feel....truthfully


happy?? Joyful?? weird??, sad?? or indifferent?? ...that a man that u married and claims to love u said he cant go out of his way to do something nice for you that wont even cost him anything ...just to sign a contract to boost your financial position.....because of the possibility of that u will leave him in 100 years or 50, or 20 or 5 years time...??

I'd feel disappointed... But I'll let him be.

advanceDNA:
Samantha.....geez.....u are still dodging the question.. ....i asked how u will feel....truthfully


happy?? Joyful?? weird??, sad?? or indifferent?? ...that a man that u married and claims to love u said he cant go out of his way to do something nice for you that wont even cost him anything ...just to sign a contract to boost your financial position.....because of the possibility of that u will leave him in 100 years or 50, or 20 or 5 years time...??

Samantha123:
I'd feel disappointed... But I'll let him be.

Great.. ....u see where im going...


.now do unto others what you expect them to do to you....especially your husband.

Disappointments a part of life though..

I'd still do what I said.

advanceDNA:
Great.. ....u see where im going...


.now do unto others what you expect them to do to you....especially your husband.

Samantha123:
Disappointments a part of life though..

I'd still do what I said.

Sigh!! Now that the definition of being mean and selfish....but its ur call..

Good boy...

advanceDNA:
Sigh!! Now that the definition of being mean and selfish....but its ur call..

incandescentena:
Of course ... It means treat men with the same respect you would expect for yourself Okay?!

Arrogant lady! bitch!

"a lady is a woman who is refined, polite, and well-spoken: She may be poor and have little education, but she's a real lady. ; a woman of high social"
Stop misusing English language my friend.

silvoclaira:
Many messages talking about how we need to respect women; very little talk about respecting men.

Candidlady you really need to have a change of mind and a quick think on how to stop talking down on all men in this manner.

Sister, Its speak alot about your upbringing and the kind of home you come from in negative ways!

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