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When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Martinelli35: 4:35am On Jan 28
Although this did not happen to me, but it brought a very heated argument between i and my fiancée.

I saw a video on Instagram where a man caught his younger brother sleeping with his wife. He saw them but they did not see him, he pretended he did not see anything.

A few days later he told his wife that he wanted to surprise her with a gift and told his brother to help him out, he said he wanted it to be a surprise and so he tied up his wife’s eyes with a cloth and then also told his brother he had a surprise for him too, that one also had is eyes tied up.

He then took them both downstairs and gave them both empty cartons to hold. On one side of the carton he gave his wife he wrote “she cheated on me” and on the other side was the caption “with my brother”. She was very excited at the expected gift and was smiling throughout and giddy with anticipation, meanwhile oga was filming the whole drama.

On his Brother’s carton he wrote “my brother slept with my wife”, of course he was blindfolded and didn’t know what was written or the fact he was been exposed and humiliated to the world. Oga now gathered her jewelry, makeups and other stuffs and started putting into the cartoon. Madam was jumping up and down thinking of how many and heavy the gifts were. At the same time oga had carried all his wife’s property and thrown on the road while videoing the whole scenario play out. I leave you to imagine the shock and humiliation on there faces when the blindfold came off.

Now this brings me to my own scenario. Now I love my fiancée very much and as is customary of me, I send her funny videos I see online. We laugh about it and all. So I sent her the aforementioned video and she laughed and then got serious and asked that if I was the Husband what would have been my reaction, I told her that I won’t be violent, but that would be the end of the marriage. I would be done and I would never forgive her, but that after time must have passed, I would eventually forgive my brother. That is where issue escalated o. She said that would be very unfair of me, that they both deserve equal punishment, I told her that he is my family by virtue of blood and that can never change, though he betrayed me, but we remain family and I won’t want my parents go through the agony of seeing there children apart. But that my wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone, nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her.

She just started ranting that it means I would choose my family over her and that I won’t treat her equally and that what am saying says a lot about me and she got really pissed at me. She took it really personally.

My question is, did I do anything wrong? Is my assertion a totally reprehensible one one devoid of logic? Or am I being unfair?

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by silento(m): 4:46am On Jan 28
I will repeat it again go and hustle my brother make money Bleep as much as u can ,

I won't tell u that u are wrong or right or either is ur babe

But girls wahala too much

2021 should be all about making money and enjoying life till 2023

For now things no too set for this country


Added :
God just save you from buying Valentine gift just maintain ur ground it February 15

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Nobody: 4:48am On Jan 28
You did not do anything wrong my brother, vagina people have too many issues I tell you. Let her rant all she want but always remind her your stand on the issue incase she nurtures any funny ideas. I never argue with women. Whenever they want to start arguing with me, I will just reiterate my stand and keep quiet for the rest of the time. I do this to my mother and my sisters too.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by johnkey: 4:49am On Jan 28
what do you expect from these sextoys? with their fish brain... i'm sure the sextoy is cheating on you,they always do. anyway we will be waiting for that story later .

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Martinelli35: 4:49am On Jan 28
Nonexistent2:
You did not do anything wrong my brother, vagina people have too many issues I tell you. Let her rant all she want but always remind her your stand on the issue incase she nurtures any funny ideas. I never argue with women. Whenever they want to start arguing with me, I will just reiterate my stand and keep quiet for the rest of the time. I do this to my mother and my sisters too.
you are absolutely right.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Sundrus: 5:06am On Jan 28
grin cheat dey find fair treatment. Smh

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Cutehector(m): 5:21am On Jan 28
You didnt do anything wrong my brother. Fear women that ask such questions.


You should have even told her you will shoot her if you find out she cheated with your brother. She willl never cheat.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Nackzy: 5:34am On Jan 28
Gobe

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by MEGA4BILLION(m): 5:36am On Jan 28
You better ditch the bullet now

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by lwsquotes: 5:37am On Jan 28
Martinelli35:
Although this did not happen to me, but it brought a very heated argument between i and my fiancée. I saw a video on Instagram where a man caught his younger brother sleeping with his wife. He saw them but they did not see him, he pretended he did not see anything, A few days later he told his wife that he wanted to surprise her with a gift and told his brother to help him out, he said he wanted it to be a surprise and so he tied up his wife’s eyes with a cloth and then also told his brother he had a surprise for him too, that one also had is eyes tied up. He then took them both downstairs and gave them both empty cartons to hold. On one side of the carton he gave his wife he wrote “she cheated on me” and on the other side was the caption “with my brother”. She was very excited at the expected gift and was smiling throughout and giddy with anticipation, meanwhile oga was filming the whole drama. On his Brother’s carton he wrote “ my brother slept with my wife”, of course he was blindfolded and didn’t know what was written or the fact he was been exposed and humiliated to the world. Oga now gathered her jewelry, makeups and other stuffs and started putting into the cartoon. Madam was jumping up and down thinking of how many and heavy the gifts were. At the same time oga had carried all his wife’s property and thrown on the road while videoing the whole scenario play out. I leave you to imagine the shock and humiliation on there faces when the blindfold came off.
Now this brings me to my own scenario. Now I love my fiancée very much and as is customary of me , I send her funny videos I see online . We laugh about it and all. So I sent her the aforementioned video and she laughed and then got serious and asked that if I was the Husband what would have been my reaction, I told her that I won’t be violent, but that would be the end of the marriage. I would be done and I would never forgive her, but that after time must have passed, I would eventually forgive my brother. That is where issue escalated o. She said that would be very unfair of me, that they both deserve equal punishment, I told her that he is my family by virtue of blood and that can never change, though he betrayed me, but we remain family and I won’t want my parents go through the agony of seeing there children apart. But that my wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone , nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her. She just started ranting that it means I would choose my family over her and that I won’t treat her equally and that what am saying says a lot about me and she got really pissed at me. She took it really personally. My question is, did I do anything wrong? Is my assertion a totally reprehensible one one devoid of logic? Or am I being unfair?

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Drsnives(m): 6:11am On Jan 28
The link to the video pls

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by myBETmostCAST(m): 6:15am On Jan 28
Ask her if you fvck her sister and she catch own how e go be las last?

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by nifemi25(m): 6:26am On Jan 28
Why not ask her what will be her reaction when she found out you slept with her sister. M

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by JOACHINpedro: 6:31am On Jan 28
No need to rant much bro. Just ask her "Are you planning to cheat with my brother?"

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Nezzjnr: 6:34am On Jan 28
A red flag there bro

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by dawnomike(m): 6:35am On Jan 28
Martinelli35:
Although this did not happen to me, but it brought a very heated argument between i and my fiancée. I saw a video on Instagram where a man caught his younger brother sleeping with his wife. He saw them but they did not see him, he pretended he did not see anything, A few days later he told his wife that he wanted to surprise her with a gift and told his brother to help him out, he said he wanted it to be a surprise and so he tied up his wife’s eyes with a cloth and then also told his brother he had a surprise for him too, that one also had is eyes tied up. He then took them both downstairs and gave them both empty cartons to hold. On one side of the carton he gave his wife he wrote “she cheated on me” and on the other side was the caption “with my brother”. She was very excited at the expected gift and was smiling throughout and giddy with anticipation, meanwhile oga was filming the whole drama. On his Brother’s carton he wrote “ my brother slept with my wife”, of course he was blindfolded and didn’t know what was written or the fact he was been exposed and humiliated to the world. Oga now gathered her jewelry, makeups and other stuffs and started putting into the cartoon. Madam was jumping up and down thinking of how many and heavy the gifts were. At the same time oga had carried all his wife’s property and thrown on the road while videoing the whole scenario play out. I leave you to imagine the shock and humiliation on there faces when the blindfold came off.
Now this brings me to my own scenario. Now I love my fiancée very much and as is customary of me , I send her funny videos I see online . We laugh about it and all. So I sent her the aforementioned video and she laughed and then got serious and asked that if I was the Husband what would have been my reaction, I told her that I won’t be violent, but that would be the end of the marriage. I would be done and I would never forgive her, but that after time must have passed, I would eventually forgive my brother. That is where issue escalated o. She said that would be very unfair of me, that they both deserve equal punishment, I told her that he is my family by virtue of blood and that can never change, though he betrayed me, but we remain family and I won’t want my parents go through the agony of seeing there children apart. But that my wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone , nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her. She just started ranting that it means I would choose my family over her and that I won’t treat her equally and that what am saying says a lot about me and she got really pissed at me. She took it really personally. My question is, did I do anything wrong? Is my assertion a totally reprehensible one one devoid of logic? Or am I being unfair?
Let her keep ranting... You have said nothing wrong.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Skyfornia(m): 6:38am On Jan 28
You have the right to forgive whom you want...

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Martinelli35: 6:44am On Jan 28
nifemi25:
Why not ask her what will be her reaction when she found out you slept with her sister. M
she doesn’t have a sibling, so I didn’t ask.
Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Martinelli35: 6:46am On Jan 28

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by EzePromoe: 7:03am On Jan 28
You didn't do any wrong.
That is what any sane person should do and just like you said it, you're forgiving your brother not just because of him but because of your parents.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by mosdii(m): 7:33am On Jan 28
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Michelle55: 7:59am On Jan 28
You did nothing wrong and your points are also valid, let her cool off and she would realize her wrong doings.

Family comes first because we don't get to choose our family and parents certainly don't like discord amongst siblings so you have every rights to forgive whomever it is.

She became family by virtue of trust and marriage but your brother is different, they both cheated yes I agree and same punishment should be meted out to them but her own case is slightly different and so is her sin.

Just hold your fort and let her talk all she wants, she will calm down las las. Nothing to fret about!!

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by kc4christ(m): 8:01am On Jan 28
women in general like soft landing,

bros u gave her the best answer,I no pay for your head make u come dey fvck my brother, that hole is made for me alone the moment my perform the traditional rights.......



"wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone , nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her".

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by stchinedu: 8:17am On Jan 28
Cutehector:
You didnt do anything wrong my brother. Fear women that ask such questions.


You should have even told her you will shoot her if you find out she cheated with your brother. She willl never cheat.

Be calming down na cheesy cheesy

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Nobody: 8:29am On Jan 28
Her opposition had nothing to do with logic. Women argue emotionally. Don't mind her. Stand on your word. Remind her that she's your fiancée and might become your wife, so if she tries it she's out and that's that. Remind her that what you then do with your brother is your business and not hers. After cheating, she's now fighting for fair treatment. Smh.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by tnerro1(m): 8:35am On Jan 28
You bleep my brother, I kee you. Then we both sit down over bottles of beer to discuss how useless you were

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Cutehector(m): 9:33am On Jan 28
stchinedu:


Be calming down na cheesy cheesy
lmao, if you dont scare these daughters of eve, they will misbehave.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Kobicove(m): 9:41am On Jan 28
You are wrong.

They both committed the same offense therefore they deserve the same punishment

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by SmellySperm(m): 9:43am On Jan 28
you did no wrong man...
but never trust these women,they can surprise u at anytime,just take ur time

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by justosee: 9:44am On Jan 28
what you explained to her should be the decision of any man with brain.

The only thing holding married couples together is the marriage vow, but your brother is your blood.

I won't have anything to do with either of them in my own case. I could decide to deal with them depending on how pained I am.

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Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by justosee: 9:46am On Jan 28
Martinelli35:
she doesn’t have a sibling, so I didn’t ask.
cousins?
Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by adesile8697: 9:57am On Jan 28
Ask her if you fvck her sister and she catch own how e go be las last?

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