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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Crampyblood(m): 11:08pm On Nov 05, 2022

anybody wey read that epistle finish na mumu grin

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by detectivejones: 11:09pm On Nov 05, 2022

You should be more concerned about using protection before you contact some terrible disease.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Sniper101(m): 12:06am On Nov 06, 2022

Bros OP
No too reason the matter.
A loose girl is a lost cause.
And sadly, marriage no dey change Dem.

Back when I was having a relationship with one married young lady like that, this babe dey fvck me and still dey fvck with other guys/men

According to her...before I came along, each time the husband goes offshore, before the next two months that he's to return she go dun go knack like 3 to 4 different guys wey she dey meet via 2go.
Mind you, she doesn't do it for money.
She said she do it out of curiosity or for fun.
And she's been on this fvcking-spree for years;
Even before she got married.

So, Bros OP, I dey tell you...
"A loose woman is a lost cause
A loose woman is a loose woman"

Zagadat

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Sammy101111(m): 12:26am On Nov 06, 2022

Lol a bitch is a bitch some women are cursed from birth I swear they can sleep with a whole family and still look innocent .
A girl will be in a man’s place and still be receiving call telling the other man she is coming .
It her body when time reach to see husband he go con hard because she as over used and experienced a lot of shit ( trust issues will keep hunting her )

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by mimicherry: 1:44am On Nov 06, 2022

Candidlady:

before igive you any advice you this abortionist

how do you intend telling the guy. . Like what would you tell him..

una just no get sense men them

Okay take this advice.. just take your phone show him this you posted on here that will save you lotta stress

Bloody abortionist

and that crazy girl make Ino even talk. .. you are lucky Iam in a good mood all thanks to man city that won if not....

dead gender. ...

you are conscience indeed
Check the OP'S age now the homoerectus should be over 38 busy taking advantage of little girl
some that just even got admission

you are really mad iswear very nonsense thing

Kachiru ubanka

That girl na mumu
Iam sure she is from that brown roof region
tuehhhh

but you are wromg

Your girls are known for sleeping around even in marriage

I won't be surprised your sister is the one involved in this whole mess because normally una dey shameless cheesy

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Tenrack: 6:08am On Nov 06, 2022

Candidlady:

before igive you any advice you this abortionist

how do you intend telling the guy. . Like what would you tell him..

una just no get sense men them

Okay take this advice.. just take your phone show him this you posted on here that will save you lotta stress

Bloody abortionist

and that crazy girl make Ino even talk. .. you are lucky Iam in a good mood all thanks to man city that won if not....

dead gender. ...

you are conscience indeed
Check the OP'S age now the homoerectus should be over 38 busy taking advantage of little girl
some that just even got admission

you are really mad iswear very nonsense thing

Kachiru ubanka

That girl na mumu
Iam sure she is from that brown roof region
tuehhhh

this one father just failed her anyhow. Pathetic.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by shege45: 6:23am On Nov 06, 2022

Tinubumustfail:
Earlier this year I met this beautiful damsel in one of the shopping mall as a cashier. I do come to the shopping mall every week because I have a business relationship with the MD and his Son managing the mall.

Fast forward, I collected the girl number and we keep talking and she told me plain that she is in a serious relationship and can't go into another one. But my goal is just to have and move away.

Fast forward, after few day, I invited her over, she refuse for several days. Later she open up and told me her ex stays in same compound with me. The compound is a twin four story building flat and I stay in the second building. She eventually visit me and we make out the rest is history. Now this lady sleeps in my house every week when she is on night shift. The mall closes by 10pm and where she stays is far. So from my house to the mall is N50, so she comes every week. But the funny thing is that, each time the boyfriend called her, she will tell him she's in the girlfriend place or at home.

This same act goes on for 4months until she finally got admission to continue her HND. Each time she visit me from school during weekend, she will still branch to see the ex to say hello. The ex have ask her who she knows in the compound and she lied her girlfriend they both work together. Wetin concern me, my own na to collect. At a point I start feeling for the main guy. She opens up that she has done all manner of crazy things with men. Infact she took in for me and hang it on his guy neck when I told her to keep it. What actually happen is that, she visited the main guy on Friday from school, they both make love, on Saturday she came to my place we make love and I come on her. Two weeks later she missed her period and visited me from school to tell me. I told her to keep it but she refuse. On Sunday she went to see the main guy and told him same thing that she is pregnant. The guy man was shock that he did not come on her how come. They both calculate when he met her, and it tally. Guy man abort the baby (God forgive me). And this is not the first time she is carrying out abortion she told me.

This girl has been visiting me often from school weekend and sometimes ordinary days and go back next day. She visit the ex too. She really love her guy so much I can attest to that, but if she do, how come she sleeps around with other guys?

Just yesterday, she told me she will be visiting her ex living in the same compound with me on weekend, that next week she will visit me. I was angry at her and ask her why is she still visiting her ex? Note they broke up due to Genotype. They are both AS. I started feeling for the real guy. Her boyfriend always provide for her, make her feel comfortable, send her money. I only give her food and transport each time she comes from school 3k. I have seat her down and let her know that even though am benefitting from it, is not good to sleep around. I have advice her but she won't listen. Mind you am only talking about the one I know, what about other guys she visit I don't know?

My conscience is not at peace. Should I tell the real guy, or should I let go of her and not communicate to her again, or should I just let her be. I just want to avoid her and have peace..

Criticism and advise is welcome.

anonymously text d guy

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by KunGioKehRah: 6:30am On Nov 06, 2022

Op nice moniker

Lol

I was going to work last week and I dey hear " pah, pah pah, Tah Tah Tah fah fah fah" and " argh, uugh, yes, yes," early in the morning inside one of the rooms beside the road and I was like
Inside this place?

Those girls small small girls you are seeing nowadays can tutor devil and MR DEVIL will be speechless.

As for the op

Keep it up EHN,

THEN NO DEY TELL PERSON

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by shege45: 6:30am On Nov 06, 2022

Jii95:
First, Karma is real.
Second, they will do same to your lady, be it wife or girlfriend.
Lastly, you're a dirty guy, sleeping with a loose girl without protection.

bro leave dat karma shit. Weda u do or you no do, dem go still knack all of us babe or wife

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by AdamuKD: 7:25am On Nov 06, 2022

Antimarraige:
Swim your swim and forget about the other people swimming. Make her your sex slave, the type you can try anything with like fisting and anal and BDSM

Porn master, I see oh

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by David1017(m): 7:57am On Nov 06, 2022

Many of una dae Bleep dirty shaa....

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Gentlechika(m): 8:16am On Nov 06, 2022

The idea was to chop and move on. Now, you chop, keep am by d Syd, and now you're drinking panadol for anoda person headache. Discharge d bi**h ASAP. Her SIMPLE boyfriend go get sense one day.

These genders don't really know what they want. Don't take them serious if you want to live long.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by realestate99: 8:22am On Nov 06, 2022

Op just dey vex because the girl is visiting her ex in same compound, you are comfortable knacking a girl in a serious relationship but get agitated when same girl decided to share her hotspot to her ex in your compound....you are not serious

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:30am On Nov 06, 2022

Any girl/lady/married woman who sleeps around with guys is from the marine world.

She's is deployed for one man alone. As their mission is to get as much as they can.

No woman in this world will go into prostitution with open eyes.

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Baronthecelebri(m): 11:58am On Nov 06, 2022

Leave that bitch alone, don't tell the boy friend, cause he'll kill you.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Blunttruth: 12:15pm On Nov 06, 2022

Tinubumustfail:
Earlier this year I met this beautiful damsel in one of the shopping mall as a cashier. I do come to the shopping mall every week because I have a business relationship with the MD and his Son managing the mall.

Fast forward, I collected the girl number and we keep talking and she told me plain that she is in a serious relationship and can't go into another one. But my goal is just to have and move away.

Fast forward, after few day, I invited her over, she refuse for several days. Later she open up and told me her ex stays in same compound with me. The compound is a twin four story building flat and I stay in the second building. She eventually visit me and we make out the rest is history. Now this lady sleeps in my house every week when she is on night shift. The mall closes by 10pm and where she stays is far. So from my house to the mall is N50, so she comes every week. But the funny thing is that, each time the boyfriend called her, she will tell him she's in the girlfriend place or at home.

This same act goes on for 4months until she finally got admission to continue her HND. Each time she visit me from school during weekend, she will still branch to see the ex to say hello. The ex have ask her who she knows in the compound and she lied her girlfriend they both work together. Wetin concern me, my own na to collect. At a point I start feeling for the main guy. She opens up that she has done all manner of crazy things with men. Infact she took in for me and hang it on his guy neck when I told her to keep it. What actually happen is that, she visited the main guy on Friday from school, they both make love, on Saturday she came to my place we make love and I come on her. Two weeks later she missed her period and visited me from school to tell me. I told her to keep it but she refuse. On Sunday she went to see the main guy and told him same thing that she is pregnant. The guy man was shock that he did not come on her how come. They both calculate when he met her, and it tally. Guy man abort the baby (God forgive me). And this is not the first time she is carrying out abortion she told me.

This girl has been visiting me often from school weekend and sometimes ordinary days and go back next day. She visit the ex too. She really love her guy so much I can attest to that, but if she do, how come she sleeps around with other guys?

Just yesterday, she told me she will be visiting her ex living in the same compound with me on weekend, that next week she will visit me. I was angry at her and ask her why is she still visiting her ex? Note they broke up due to Genotype. They are both AS. I started feeling for the real guy. Her boyfriend always provide for her, make her feel comfortable, send her money. I only give her food and transport each time she comes from school 3k. I have seat her down and let her know that even though am benefitting from it, is not good to sleep around. I have advice her but she won't listen. Mind you am only talking about the one I know, what about other guys she visit I don't know?

My conscience is not at peace. Should I tell the real guy, or should I let go of her and not communicate to her again, or should I just let her be. I just want to avoid her and have peace..

Criticism and advise is welcome.

Continue spreading the herpes. I don't understand this generation and their notion of sex.

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Meteng: 12:38pm On Nov 06, 2022

You mean all of you are gbenshing raw and feeling very comfortable about it? You no dey fear?

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Nov 06, 2022

How guys confidently fvck loose hoes without protection baffles me... OP a babe fucking two guys in a compound with a serious guy somewhere no fear u? U know how many guys she dey fvck for school? Her own neighbourhood? Random one time only fvcks? And yet u are bold enough to dive in raw?
The only person u should be telling anything is ur doctor. U don't love urself at all

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Ashjane(m): 1:55pm On Nov 06, 2022

Candidlady:

before igive you any advice you this abortionist

how do you intend telling the guy. . Like what would you tell him..

una just no get sense men them

Okay take this advice.. just take your phone show him this you posted on here that will save you lotta stress

Bloody abortionist

and that crazy girl make Ino even talk. .. you are lucky Iam in a good mood all thanks to man city that won if not....

dead gender. ...

you are conscience indeed
Check the OP'S age now the homoerectus should be over 38 busy taking advantage of little girl
some that just even got admission

you are really mad iswear very nonsense thing

Kachiru ubanka

That girl na mumu
Iam sure she is from that brown roof region
tuehhhh

your foolishness just dey smell around you like he goat!!

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Coolguy34(m): 3:44pm On Nov 06, 2022

This kind of story de always make me fear relationship like that.
once I notice any funny behavior from my girl I will clone her WhatsApp so I can be able to read her chats and WhatsApp call, I will also check who calls her on WhatsApp.

If I notice her doing nonsense with any dude that's the end.
I'm too young to train another man's kid..

And for people who need me to teach them how to check anyone's WhatsApp message check my signature and contact me on WhatsApp..

But you will pay me a token sha.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by advanceDNA: 5:32pm On Nov 06, 2022

If we talk now...dem go say we dey bash them

Na person wife be that oooo

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by aisha1314(f): 6:27pm On Nov 06, 2022

Tinubumustfail:
Earlier this year I met this beautiful damsel in one of the shopping mall as a cashier. I do come to the shopping mall every week because I have a business relationship with the MD and his Son managing the mall.

Fast forward, I collected the girl number and we keep talking and she told me plain that she is in a serious relationship and can't go into another one. But my goal is just to have and move away.

Fast forward, after few day, I invited her over, she refuse for several days. Later she open up and told me her ex stays in same compound with me. The compound is a twin four story building flat and I stay in the second building. She eventually visit me and we make out the rest is history. Now this lady sleeps in my house every week when she is on night shift. The mall closes by 10pm and where she stays is far. So from my house to the mall is N50, so she comes every week. But the funny thing is that, each time the boyfriend called her, she will tell him she's in the girlfriend place or at home.

This same act goes on for 4months until she finally got admission to continue her HND. Each time she visit me from school during weekend, she will still branch to see the ex to say hello. The ex have ask her who she knows in the compound and she lied her girlfriend they both work together. Wetin concern me, my own na to collect. At a point I start feeling for the main guy. She opens up that she has done all manner of crazy things with men. Infact she took in for me and hang it on his guy neck when I told her to keep it. What actually happen is that, she visited the main guy on Friday from school, they both make love, on Saturday she came to my place we make love and I come on her. Two weeks later she missed her period and visited me from school to tell me. I told her to keep it but she refuse. On Sunday she went to see the main guy and told him same thing that she is pregnant. The guy man was shock that he did not come on her how come. They both calculate when he met her, and it tally. Guy man abort the baby (God forgive me). And this is not the first time she is carrying out abortion she told me.

This girl has been visiting me often from school weekend and sometimes ordinary days and go back next day. She visit the ex too. She really love her guy so much I can attest to that, but if she do, how come she sleeps around with other guys?

Just yesterday, she told me she will be visiting her ex living in the same compound with me on weekend, that next week she will visit me. I was angry at her and ask her why is she still visiting her ex? Note they broke up due to Genotype. They are both AS. I started feeling for the real guy. Her boyfriend always provide for her, make her feel comfortable, send her money. I only give her food and transport each time she comes from school 3k. I have seat her down and let her know that even though am benefitting from it, is not good to sleep around. I have advice her but she won't listen. Mind you am only talking about the one I know, what about other guys she visit I don't know?

My conscience is not at peace. Should I tell the real guy, or should I let go of her and not communicate to her again, or should I just let her be. I just want to avoid her and have peace..

Criticism and advise is welcome.

Well first of all, I think what you've done is very wrong. She told you she is already in a serious relationship and you still went ahead to hook up with her. You decided to be the side guy.

Since she's had the abortion I don't think it's necessary for you to tell her real boyfriend. If she'd decided to keep the baby then that would be a different situation. I think you should stop seeing her and cut off all communication with her. In my opinion, only a person who has low self esteem will date someone who they know sleeps around with other people or who is already in a relationship with someone else.

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Tinubumustfail(op): 10:26pm On Nov 06, 2022

torqque7:
How does she answer your calls and her ex when she is with her bf and the guy hasn’t suspected anything?well I’d advice you to tell him, every guy would want to know if his girl is a hoe iam sure you also included,spare him the pain of a broken marriage let him know now and make his decision and let your conscience be clear.

Guy fear some women. If she is with me and the guy man call, she will answer as if nothing happen and even tell the guy she's in school. She hardly take video call and will always tell the guy her data has finish. Me I no send because I no lose anything.

Now what keep running thru my mind is...if this kind of thing could be happening and the guy is not aware, who knows the one that she's doing at my back without me knowing.

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Tinubumustfail(op): 10:32pm On Nov 06, 2022

killmodz:
How guys confidently fvck loose hoes without protection baffles me... OP a babe fucking two guys in a compound with a serious guy somewhere no fear u? U know how many guys she dey fvck for school? Her own neighbourhood? Random one time only fvcks? And yet u are bold enough to dive in raw?
The only person u should be telling anything is ur doctor. U don't love urself at all

I always use condom each time I go. But that day the condom open when am about to come and I empty everything inside her.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:31pm On Nov 06, 2022

onyeadurunujoel:
Like what do some women want

My brother this question complex like Laplace transform. E be things. If God give person better woman, na real thanksgiving.

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Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:41pm On Nov 06, 2022

thuxzwda1:
Do women get pregnant after 2week?

In five days a woman can take in, minimum from the time of knacking that's even when it's visible. Internally I think around 3 minutes if she has ovulated. No joke.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by entrep88: 5:10am On Nov 07, 2022

This is crazy mehn. U pressed her into knacking you now you want to run, until you carry correct std before your eye clear, ode!!!

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by thuxzwda1: 9:33am On Nov 07, 2022

Yusufisraelj:
In five days a woman can take in, minimum from the time of knacking that's even when it's visible. Internally I think around 3 minutes if she has ovulated. No joke.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Tinubumustfail(op): 7:26pm On Nov 07, 2022

I have been following you all, both advice and insult is welcome. Thanks for those whose advice I am following now. I stopped picking her call since Saturday night, I blocked her on WhatsApp. She has been using unknown number to call me. In one of the calls I mistakenly pick, I told her to focus on her main guy that I want to be left alone and she gets angry I hang the call. Ones she call and I heard her voice, I hang the call. Soon she'll get tired.

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Qatar2022: 8:15pm On Nov 07, 2022

Candidlady:

before igive you any advice you this abortionist

how do you intend telling the guy. . Like what would you tell him..

una just no get sense men them

Okay take this advice.. just take your phone show him this you posted on here that will save you lotta stress

Bloody abortionist

and that crazy girl make Ino even talk. .. you are lucky Iam in a good mood all thanks to man city that won if not....

dead gender. ...

you are conscience indeed
Check the OP'S age now the homoerectus should be over 38 busy taking advantage of little girl
some that just even got admission

you are really mad iswear very nonsense thing

Kachiru ubanka

That girl na mumu
Iam sure she is from that brown roof region
tuehhhh

Painful soul calm down, take your frustrated life to that person that frustrates you

Re: Should I Tell The Main Boyfriend? by Billgatessecond: 9:13pm On Nov 07, 2022

mimicherry:
but you are wromg

Your girls are known for sleeping around even in marriage

I won't be surprised your sister is the one involved in this whole mess because normally una dey shameless

All my life I have dated Igbo girls I am from the western part of Nigeria I can write 1000 words about Igbo girls....

They are so demanding they feel the world belongs to them ..
When you can't meet up with their needs they switch even if u like sef meet up they usually have a list

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