Yh like the headline it true, am finding it difficult to make peace with her.

Am writing this with agony in my heart , it all started when my parent were having a misunderstanding so i got angry with both of them, i tried telling my mum her wrong rather for she to accept it she got angry and say i should get out of her sight, i angrily left the house to my uncles place. from that day till now it been up to 3 weeks now i no longer greet my mum, i even black list her line.

Honestly am feeling it,i miss her motherly care, i love my mum from the depth of my heart but am still finding it hard to talk to her even if we both pass the same road i dont greet her.
please and please i really need advice on this , i want to make peace with my beloved mum cus it only she i have.

Please help guys

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You dey live under your parents still dey keep malice with your mama

It is impossible to hate your mom

Why would you stop greeting your mum.No matter what she’s still your mum

Buy that stuff you know she likes and go apologize to her, You still needs her blessings.

Mum prayers keep us going

Hmmm.

This generation is something else.

Fedrick100:
Why would you stop greeting your mum.No matter what she’s still your mum

Buy that stuff you know she likes and go apologize to her, You still needs her blessings.

Mum prayers keep us going

u are right friend, i was thinking the same

chiefolododo:
It is impossible to hate your mom

i dont hate her, she is still the best to me in this wide world

LogicBomb8:
You dey live under your parents still dey keep malice with your mama

i just dont knw what came over me

Go back to your home and stop behaving like a brat.

Arguments come and go in every relationship, you have no right to shout on your mum and still keep malice with her.

Don’t be surprised parents have sort themselves out with some TLC

gasparpisciotta:
Go back to your home and stop behaving like a brat.

Arguments come and go in every relationship, you have no right to shout on your mum and still keep malice with her.

Don’t be surprised parents have sort themselves out with some TLC

i will and thanks for that

DCmaverick:

i will and thanks for that

She deserves an apology too bro

rtdCivilservant:

All I have to tell u is that u are a very stupid somebody or something.

i felt so and thats the reason for this thread

DCmaverick:

i felt so and thats the reason for this thread

No one (aside God) can love u like ur mum. So go back to her, it is better to keep malice with ur dad than keeping malice with ur mum.

DCmaverick:


i just dont knw what came over me

Go and apologize to your mom. That's the person that loves you the most in this world.

That does not mean you cannot still advise her about your views on their misunderstanding. Don't pick sides, remain neutral but never allow it to affect your personal relationship with either of them.

It's their marriage or relationship. It's different from yours

Helpout12345:


Go and apologize to your mom. That's the person that loves you the most in this world.

That does not mean you cannot still advise her about your views on their misunderstanding. Don't pick sides, remain neutral but never allow it to affect your personal relationship with either of them.

It's their marriage or relationship. It's different from yours

thanks, u are indeed a friend

rtdCivilservant:

No one (aside God) can love u like ur mum. So go back to her, it is better to keep malice with ur dad than keeping malice with ur mum.

thanks for that piece of advice from u

Don't go there with gifts o. Go to her on your knees (Don't give the impression that you're trying to earn forgiveness with gifts.. She might even feel insulted more) . Tell her you are deeply sorry for acting childishly and for disrespecting her. Tell her you love her and you know she loves you.

She's a woman, if she wants to talk about how she felt.. Just keep saying sorry Ma, and listen.

If she forgives you, good, if she doesn't, do it again. This time, kneeling in the front of everyone in the house.

After she has forgiven you, you can now buy her a gift.. With a small note. "Sweet Mother"

gasparpisciotta:


She deserves an apology too bro

truly she deserve such cus i have been unfaithful

Get out of my sight, does it in any way means pack out of my house or do you feel like changing environment and u used that as an excuse?
Hmmmm!! Your uncles that you moved in with, did you even managed to tell them that there was trouble in paradise?..
You will have kids someday.. then you will UNDERSTAND totally what this singular action of yours feels like

Fedrick100:
Why would you stop greeting your mum.No matter what she’s still your mum

Buy that stuff you know she likes and go apologize to her, You still needs her blessings.

Mum prayers keep us going

una dey piss me off. So even if your mom wan kill you, u go still say no matter what she is still your mom

Stephen0mozzy:
Don't go there with gifts o. Go to her on your knees (Don't give the impression that you're trying to earn forgiveness with gifts.. She might even feel insulted more) . Tell her you are deeply sorry for acting childishly and for disrespecting her. Tell her you love her and you know she loves you.

She's a woman, if she wants to talk about how she felt.. Just keep saying sorry Ma, and listen.

If she forgives you, good, if she doesn't, do it again. This time, kneeling in the front of everyone in the house.

After she has forgiven you, you can now buy her a gift.. With a small note. "Sweet Mother"

ur advice is enough for me friend. thanks for it

shege45:
una dey piss me off. So even if your mom wan kill you, u go still say no matter what she is still your mom

yh

advanceDNA:
You told your mother she's wrong to her face..??..as u did not use style to make it look like u are on your mother's side?

. that's a movie that will not end, u will keep hearing about ur betrayal till she goes to great beyond?

Na reverse psychology and deception Dem dey use manage women

This one did not learn anything from nairaland

Your uncle should settle the matter between you both.

Go beg your mother. The matter here isn't even anything serious.

Get off your high horse.

Your mother is supposed to be the bigger person here tho.

Karleb:
Your uncle should settle the matter between you both.

Go beg your mother. The matter here isn't even anything serious.

Get off your high horse.

Your mother is supposed to be the bigger person here tho.

u are right dear

She said, get out of her sight and you didn’t greet her for 3 weeks.

If she had said, you are very stupid nko? You would have killed and buried her.

Somethings I read here sometimes, I believe they are fiction.

DCmaverick:
Yh like the headline it true, am finding it difficult to make peace with her.

Am writing this with agony in my heart , it all started when my parent were having a misunderstanding so i got angry with both of them, i tried telling my mum her wrong rather for she to accept it she got angry and say i should get out of her sight, i angrily left the house to my uncles place. from that day till now it been up to 3 weeks now i no longer greet my mum, i even black list her line.

Honestly am feeling it,i miss her motherly care, i love my mum from the depth of my heart but am still finding it hard to talk to her even if we both pass the same road i dont greet her.
please and please i really need advice on this , i want to make peace with my beloved mum cus it only she i have.

Please help guys

The only help you need is, get some one she respects to reconcile both of you

Having done that, next time she and dad starts their drama, stand with mum

You dont know what she is passing through and you scolding her makes it loveless for her

You need to make peace with her and she will tell you somethings that made her react that way

By then you will understand better

U are at fault.
U know what to do

frozen70:


The only help you need is, get some one she respects to reconcile both of you

Having done that, next time she and dad starts their drama, stand with mum

You dont know what she is passing through and you scolding her makes it loveless for her

You need to make peace with her and she will tell you somethings that made her react that way

By then you will understand better

wow, i find this ur advice very useful now. thanks for that