beautyhd:
She said, get out of her sight and you didn’t greet her for 3 weeks.

If she had said, you are very stupid nko? You would have killed and buried her.

Somethings I read here sometimes, I believe they are fiction.

I weak! mother that some of us are looking for! life!

DCmaverick:

wow, i find this ur advice very useful now. thanks for that

Thanks dear

shege45:
una dey piss me off. So even if your mom wan kill you, u go still say no matter what she is still your mom

The thing weak me ooh

Bro, mama or no mama !!! Na you fit control your future and life!!!


If your old woman is wrong then you should tell her to her face biko, same with your old man!!!

If any like make em vex but don't stop greeting her.

TheboyGhost:
Bro, mama or no mama !!! Na you fit control your future and life!!!


If your old woman is wrong then you should tell her to her face biko, same with your old man!!!

If any like make em vex but don't stop greeting her.

This is the only advice i see here.

Others are from the usual roaming kids

frozen70:


The only help you need is, get some one she respects to reconcile both of you

Having done that, next time she and dad starts their drama, stand with mum

You dont know what she is passing through and you scolding her makes it loveless for her

You need to make peace with her and she will tell you somethings that made her react that way
By then you will understand better

Imagine this kind of stupid advice!
And the guy is thanking you!

He should "stand with mum" whenever there's an argument with his dad, even if the woman is wrong
You must have been raised by a single, mannerless, quarelsome and wannabe feminist mother!

ChybuzzDD:



Imagine this kind of stupid advice!
And the guy is thanking you!

He should "stand with mum" whenever there's an argument with his dad, even if the woman is wrong
You must have been raised by a single, mannerless, quarelsome and wannabe feminist mother!

I know that a pig gave birth to you not a woman

So keep behaving like a piglet

DCmaverick:

yh

funny. Well, it’s your own reasoning. Just keep am to your self

DCmaverick:
Yh like the headline it true, am finding it difficult to make peace with her.

Am writing this with agony in my heart , it all started when my parent were having a misunderstanding so i got angry with both of them, i tried telling my mum her wrong rather for she to accept it she got angry and say i should get out of her sight, i angrily left the house to my uncles place. from that day till now it been up to 3 weeks now i no longer greet my mum, i even black list her line.

Honestly am feeling it,i miss her motherly care, i love my mum from the depth of my heart but am still finding it hard to talk to her even if we both pass the same road i dont greet her.
please and please i really need advice on this , i want to make peace with my beloved mum cus it only she i have.

Please help guys

How old are you?

ceeceeuwa:

How old are you?

am 19 this year

DCmaverick:
Yh like the headline it true, am finding it difficult to make peace with her.

Am writing this with agony in my heart , it all started when my parent were having a misunderstanding so i got angry with both of them, i tried telling my mum her wrong rather for she to accept it she got angry and say i should get out of her sight, i angrily left the house to my uncles place. from that day till now it been up to 3 weeks now i no longer greet my mum, i even black list her line.

Honestly am feeling it,i miss her motherly care, i love my mum from the depth of my heart but am still finding it hard to talk to her even if we both pass the same road i dont greet her.
please and please i really need advice on this , i want to make peace with my beloved mum cus it only she i have.

Please help guys

i will say two points that might make you see thing different

1 most african parents dont like to be corrected by their own kids nomatter how wrong they are. The same people who send you to skol to learn and when correct them with something that you learnt from skol, they say you are becoming big headed etc by its same person who sent you to skol to learn.

2 Married people are difficult to deal with, as sometimes they set each other for arguements eg you said was wrong but you might know they have underlining issue from previous issues that were not resolved, so a small issue is overblown due to previous unsolved issues and anger. So you might not have seen the issue from the surface, while there are other issues

ZIMDRILL:


i will say two points that might make you see thing different

1 most african parents dont like to be corrected by their own kids nomatter how wrong they are. The same people who send you to skol to learn and when correct them with something that you learnt from skol, they say you are becoming big headed etc by its same person who sent you to skol to learn.

2 Married people are difficult to deal with, as sometimes they set each other for arguements eg you said was wrong but you might know they have underlining issue from previous issues that were not resolved, so a small issue is overblown due to previous unsolved issues and anger. So you mind have seen the issue from the surface, while there are other issues

I agree with both points, but I am particularly enamored by the second and bolded

You created this crisis by the way you intervened in the conflict between your parents.

No one, not even a younger person, would take a correction while in the heat of anger. You should have waited until your mum cooks down before you quietly and respectively discuss the issue with her.

Right now, you have to swallow your pride and go to apologize. Tell her it was youthful exuberance that made you speak harshly to her. Apologize until she forgives you.

Meanwhile, your mum is bound to interpret what you said as being in the camp of your dad. She'd could have expected you to support her in the argument.

That is not to say you can never hold a different opinion on whatever conflict arise between your parents but do not speak to her while she's angry.

ZIMDRILL:


i will say two points that might make you see thing different

1 most african parents dont like to be corrected by their own kids nomatter how wrong they are. The same people who send you to skol to learn and when correct them with something that you learnt from skol, they say you are becoming big headed etc by its same person who sent you to skol to learn.

2 Married people are difficult to deal with, as sometimes they set each other for arguements eg you said was wrong but you might know they have underlining issue from previous issues that were not resolved, so a small issue is overblown due to previous unsolved issues and anger. So you might not have seen the issue from the surface, while there are other issues

i tink dats wat my mum must be passing tru nw

Socratiz:
You created this crisis by the way you intervened in the conflict between your parents.

No one, not even a younger person, would take a correction while in the heat of anger. You should have waited until your mum cooks down before you quietly and respectively discuss the issue with her.

Right now, you have to swallow your pride and go to apologize. Tell her it was youthful exuberance that made you speak harshly to her. Apologize until she forgives you.

Meanwhile, your mum is bound to interpret what you said as being in the camp of your dad. She'd could have expected you to support her in the argument.

That is not to say you can never hold a different opinion on whatever conflict arise between your parents but do not speak to her while she's angry.

thanks

Make peace with mum now and have your own peace. A day longer might cause more harm to you thereafter.