Kenogidi:


I spot a little contradiction bro. ''Character'' is the same as ''how you act''. Check your write-ups again.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

OfficialDJ:
To avoid derailing the thread, kindly desist from pitching your ideas until the stated date(1st Dec), so everything isn't clunky, and the purpose of the thread maintained.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:


Another noticeable problem is that guys are scared of upsetting women. They think acting sexually is a criminal activity. They don't want women to judge them wrongly or be seen in a bad fate. However, I do understand their concern from a moral/religious angle, his reputation must be protected. It is difficult to find this balance, the majority of men are on the nice guy side of the scale while few are on the jerks' side of the scale. Balance is incredibly rare.

But a man needs to pull some sexual innuendos when dealing with women; make suggestive sexual remarks; touch her. Rather, they reject themselves even before they start interacting with the woman in question. You don't tell her, let her reason it herself, doing so you can easily separate yourself when she wants to hold you accountable for any move.

For example:

Him: "You disturb me a lot these days. I will flog your ass mercilessly the day I find you".

Her: " I will scream r*pe".

He has laid a sexual suggestion in her and she has picked it too. Both are trying to dissociate but the game just started.

This is why LDR or online game is a no for me. Better to deal with one woman in proximity than 100 women far off, and as the proverb goes "a bird at hand worth more in the bush".

Guys need to learn to pull the strings and lead. Expecting women to be what they can never be is the root of men's problems in sexual relationships.

Man has been bestowed the leadership trait, he must lead in all corners.

Olayinka8793:
make me sef quote you and bookmark this page.
To be honest, I don't qualify based on your business idea criteria, but sha I don too suffer financial losses as the simp I am from the hands of that scheming gender not pitying the fact that I have a disability, before I came across Ubunja's teachings and this thread. 100k will go a long way towards relieving me of the pain from those daughters of Jezebel who almost bankrupt me in the name of fake love.

ubunja:
that's the biggest issue. Men being afraid to upset girls. We really need to talk about this. Guys play it safe and never build sexual tension with women cause they know/feel like doing so will anger her. Building sexual tension is fraught with danger and can very make a woman react somewhat. But this reaction/response/anger is very important. It's necessary. Cause you're getting a woman into her emotions when you're hinting at sex AKA building sexual tension. It's up to you to manage her emotional responses to your advantage.

fattprince:

You are the stupid one if you think all readers and posters are here all day, everyday. Is that even possible to your half baked brain.

Ifeanyicosta:
Am the only child in my family and my girlfriend is the only child in her own family.I was a blue pill when we started dating along the line she initiated a break up ,after 2months she told me she was pregnant for me,I seriously told her she knows am not the owner of that child.she did not argue it,but told me negative things about the guy that got her pregnant.
As a blue pill I pity her and she make me sleep with her when the pregnancy was 2months and 2 weeks,she needed that sex badly,I bleeped her with anger and cum several on her until she delivered.
Miraculously I knew about red pill through hardon and Ubunja.
As a redpiller I make her invest so much with me through sex,money,time and energy.she is forcing me to marry her.am even tired of her love ,and am afraid she might kill me if I marry another girl.
But what surprising me is that
1.she complained I hate her child(boy) and want me to take care of the boy
2.when she had problem with her dad (old)I heard her threatened him am d owner of the child
3.The boy is one year old ,she always tell d boy to call me daddy.in my mind I hate DAT shit.
4.anybody that see me, her and the child always say,d child LOOK LIKE ME.dis got me more confuse
NOTE:her mum is dead and she is older than me.

ubunja:
well that's definitely your baby. but did you count the months to make sure? Some aspects of your post are very confusing

OfficialDJ:
I don't want other blue pilled men to benefit from it, hence why my target demographic is here...


If I open a thread, it's thrown open to everyone.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

emmaodet:


All I see are women with too many options.

Women have options and it makes them take stupid decisions.
It is only a man that blue chip companies like chevron and Mobil are chasing regularly that will be making shakara with jobs but a man that has treaked , suffered, prayed etc just to get a single job will so so so value and hold it tight.
Mother Nature has really spoilt ladies with constant attention, gifts and money from men so they always get carried away.

I like reading ladies diary on that section and I am always surprise how ladies quickly move on after breakup.

There is always men in the corner on stby to jump into relationship with her.
Read on of recent - she claimed to be the average good Nigerian girl, beautiful (only God knows if that is true), tall and earning fine yet men have been chopping and cleaning mouth with her.
She is frustrated, depressed and always having mood swings but in all, what got my attention is the way and rate she swaps relationships.
Just within a month or 2 of breaking up with her boo, she had attended only God know how many weekend dates, tried her hands or couples of failed relationships etc.

There is always one Ugo who has always been her bestie she confides in or James that slides in her dm a long time ago and now she wants to give him a listening ear and chance or Tobi the guy staying the next street who has been a long admirer or Sola at her place of work or or or just too too too many.

For God sake, can’t you ladies just take a 3-6 months break from anything relationship after breaking up and use that moment for a self-appraisal?
From my observation, it seems relationship is the lifeline and blood of women.
They can’t just do or survive without it.
Many will live a miserable life without a man’s impact in their lives just for a year.

OfficialDJ:
To avoid derailing the thread, kindly desist from pitching your ideas until the stated date(1st Dec), so everything isn't clunky, and the purpose of the thread maintained.

Thanks.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

[/b]Watch this space.[b]

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....