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Good evening guys!!!

As am writing this message now my head is hot and I don't know what to do or should I say I can do something crazy? hmmm!!!!

The lady I told u about that was telling me that she will fund the wedding if I don't have the fund.


Haar!!! Guys my head is hot!!! we were good to go and are getting ready for the engagement by January next year, until this God forsaking ex came back from US begging her to come back to him and promised marrying her before DEC this year and they both can relocate to the US.


Guys this evening I called her and she wasn't picking my calls, so I went to her boutique just to check on her, I saw her and this guy sitting close and talking, I couldn't enter because I was enraged with what I saw, I don't want to commit any crime!!!!

I have being calling her now she's not picking up and she's not calling back.

I was trying to be nice by not extorting her and now u see? this is why good guys will become very wicked and mean to such ladies!!!!

And my friends begged me severally to get her pregnant I refused that I can only get her pregnant when we marry!!!

Haar!!! finally I shot myself in the foot, I only wanted to do the right thing!!!



Guys if she mistakenly come back to me na to get her pregnant straight up!!! Pls guys wetin I fit do for now, she's not picking up, should I go to her house? or even visit her in her office? I'm planning to report this issue to the pastor!!! see as I wan take lose this Angel!!!

udofia234:
Good evening guys!!!

As am writing this message now my head is hot and I don't know what to do or should I say I can do something crazy? hmmm!!!!

The lady I told u about that was telling me that she will fund the wedding if I don't have the fund.


Haar!!! Guys my head is hot!!! we were good to go and are getting ready for the engagement by January next year, until this God forsaking ex came back from US begging her to come back to him and promised marrying her before DEC this year and they both can relocate to the US.


Guys this evening I called her and she wasn't picking my calls, so I went to her boutique just to check on her, I saw her and this guy sitting close and talking, I couldn't enter because I was enraged with what I saw, I don't want to commit any crime!!!!

I have being calling her now she's not picking up and she's not calling back.

I was trying to be nice by not extorting her and now u see? this is why good guys will become very wicked and mean to such ladies!!!!

And my friends begged me severally to get her pregnant I refused that I can only get her pregnant when we marry!!!

Haar!!! finally I shot myself in the foot, I only wanted to do the right thing!!!



Guys if she mistakenly come back to me na to get her pregnant straight up!!! Pls guys wetin I fit do for now, she's not picking up, should I go to her house? or even visit her in her office? I'm planning to report this issue to the pastor!!! see as I wan take lose this Angel!!!

If she has not taken anything from you, free her. Her actions are not enough to make you a wicked person if you aren't one already.

segebobo:
If she has not taken anything from you, free her. Her actions are not enough to make you a wicked person if you aren't one already.

Boss!!! Haar!! this go hard o

alaye forget the matter jahre... you prolly dodged a bullet and you con dey complain, because say you don hear US abi... the woman is way older than you and she's telling you that she's going to be footing your bills and you think she doesn't have any ulterior motives...? guy you better give yourself brain... why will you be sleeping with a woman that way older than you and even thinking of marrying if not desperation and lack of options?

you think she's doing those nice things for you freely abi? na until you enter her trap you go hear am... you better free her..

Reminderz:
alaye forget the matter jahre... you prolly dodged a bullet and you con dey complain, because say you don hear US abi... the woman is way older than you and she's telling you that she's going to be footing your bills and you think she doesn't have any ulterior motives...? guy you better give yourself brain... why will you be sleeping with a woman that way older than you and even thinking of marrying if not desperation and lack of options?

you think she's doing those nice things for you freely abi? na until you enter her trap you go hear am... you better free her..

Haar!!! bro!!! I'll try

You’re a lazy man and a gold digger haba... Go and work. As from what you wrote, you’re so interested in this lady because of her financial power. Stop putting your head into what can fall over you... Mr Udofia you can do better

Eyinju112:
You’re a lazy man and a gold digger haba... Go and work. As from what you wrote, you’re so interested in this lady because of her financial power. Stop putting your head into what can fall over you... Mr Udofia you can do better

Thanks babe!!! I'm not a gold digger!!! its just that I never wanted the relationship but she was very persistent but all of a sudden she changed , so I'm still trying to adapt

udofia234:
Boss!!! Haar!! this go hard o

Please let her be if she has chosen to be with the other person.
I just went through your other threads. I saw she's about 7 years older than you... This is a factor you should carefully consider (it works for some people though).
A point I can't ignore in this issue is that she told you she will fund the wedding... Hmmmm, when a woman tells you this, be careful o. Will you be comfortable with her wearing the trouser in the house?
You are probably angry you lost something good. I learnt a lesson that “when something looks too good to be true, then it is actually too good to be true”

Guy go hustle & make money like a real man, nor dey put eye for woman money & the babe come even old pass you.
If she marry you she go control you �%
You nor kwn waytin God do for you.
Guy life na jeje !!

whether you get her pregnant or not, she'll still call the shots , accept your loss and move on

From your previous thread down to this new thread, I observe the following:

* The lady was a U.S returnee.
* You are 30 or 30+ while she is 7yrs older
* Her U.S based Exboyfriend is back in town
You ve even met them sitted very close to each other in her boutique shop
* Her Ex bf lurking around alone like a stubborn fly is a Redflag
* Yet you have chosen to gnash your teeth in pain, looking for a way to get her pregnant.
*You ve been callin callin and she not picking up your calls, pls dont disturb them, she is in da aza room receiving a good Vitamin D from her U.S Exboyfriend.
*Okay, Op, if you eventually get her pregnant, how are you even sure you are the true owner of the pregnancy considering her Ex is still around the corner?
* Be like say Paternity fraud never do you strong tin abi??
* Is this lady even a Virgin at all??........
* @jeromestarks, come and talk to this guy oo

Such a weakling ..no pride between your legs �..

Eyinju112:
You’re a lazy man and a gold digger haba... Go and work. As from what you wrote, you’re so interested in this lady because of her financial power. Stop putting your head into what can fall over you... Mr Udofia you can do better

And thousands of women having nothing marry wealthy men on daily basis and nothing is wrong with that right?

GOFRONT:
From your previous thread down to this new thread, I observe the following:

* The lady was a U.S returnee.
* You are 30 or 30+ while she is 7yrs older
* Her U.S based Exboyfriend is back in town
You ve even met them sitted very close to each other in her boutique shop
* Her Ex bf lurking around alone like a stubborn fly is a Redflag
* Yet you have chosen to gnash your teeth in pain, looking for a way to get her pregnant.
*You ve been callin callin and she not picking up your calls, pls dont disturb them, she is in da aza room receiving a good Vitamin D from her U.S Exboyfriend.
*Okay, Op, if you eventually get her pregnant, how are you even sure you are the true owner of the pregnancy considering her Ex is still around the corner?
* Be like say Paternity fraud never do you strong tin abi??
* Is this lady even a Virgin at all??........
* @jeromestarks, come and talk to this guy oo

You gave him the most plausible words of wisdom.
Ride on brother.

segebobo:
Please let her be if she has chosen to be with the other person.
I just went through your other threads. I saw she's about 7 years older than you... This is a factor you should carefully consider (it works for some people though).
A point I can't ignore in this issue is that she told you she will fund the wedding... Hmmmm, when a woman tells you this, be careful o. Will you be comfortable with her wearing the trouser in the house?
You are probably angry you lost something good. I learnt a lesson that “when something looks too good to be true, then it is actually too good to be true”

Hmm!!

samwash:
Guy go hustle & make money like a real man, nor dey put eye for woman money & the babe come even old pass you.
If she marry you she go control you �%
You nor kwn waytin God do for you.
Guy life na jeje !!

Noted!!! thanks bro

[quote author=Ballzproblem2 post=118505724]whether you get her pregnant or not, she'll still call the shots , accept your loss and move on[/quote


thanks alot

GOFRONT:
From your previous thread down to this new thread, I observe the following:

* The lady was a U.S returnee.
* You are 30 or 30+ while she is 7yrs older
* Her U.S based Exboyfriend is back in town
You ve even met them sitted very close to each other in her boutique shop
* Her Ex bf lurking around alone like a stubborn fly is a Redflag
* Yet you have chosen to gnash your teeth in pain, looking for a way to get her pregnant.
*You ve been callin callin and she not picking up your calls, pls dont disturb them, she is in da aza room receiving a good Vitamin D from her U.S Exboyfriend.
*Okay, Op, if you eventually get her pregnant, how are you even sure you are the true owner of the pregnancy considering her Ex is still around the corner?
* Be like say Paternity fraud never do you strong tin abi??
* Is this lady even a Virgin at all??........
* @jeromestarks, come and talk to this guy oo

I hear u baba!!!

capetownboyz:
Such a weakling ..no pride between your legs �..

I'm not a weakling bro! Just understand how I feel!!!

Joe4real1988:
And thousands of women having nothing marry wealthy men on daily basis and nothing is wrong with that right?

Na so

udofia234:
Thanks babe!!! I'm not a gold digger!!! its just that I never wanted the relationship but she was very persistent but all of a sudden she changed , so I'm still trying to adapt

alaye, you are a full time gold digger and it’s very unfortunate. You sound very disgust dude

Shameless men everywhere.

udofia234:
Good evening guys!!!

As am writing this message now my head is hot and I don't know what to do or should I say I can do something crazy? hmmm!!!!

The lady I told u about that was telling me that she will fund the wedding if I don't have the fund.


Haar!!! Guys my head is hot!!! we were good to go and are getting ready for the engagement by January next year, until this God forsaking ex came back from US begging her to come back to him and promised marrying her before DEC this year and they both can relocate to the US.


Guys this evening I called her and she wasn't picking my calls, so I went to her boutique just to check on her, I saw her and this guy sitting close and talking, I couldn't enter because I was enraged with what I saw, I don't want to commit any crime!!!!

I have being calling her now she's not picking up and she's not calling back.

I was trying to be nice by not extorting her and now u see? this is why good guys will become very wicked and mean to such ladies!!!!

And my friends begged me severally to get her pregnant I refused that I can only get her pregnant when we marry!!!

Haar!!! finally I shot myself in the foot, I only wanted to do the right thing!!!



Guys if she mistakenly come back to me na to get her pregnant straight up!!! Pls guys wetin I fit do for now, she's not picking up, should I go to her house? or even visit her in her office? I'm planning to report this issue to the pastor!!! see as I wan take lose this Angel!!!

Opportunity comes but once. U think say to marry and become a man easy? U have lost ur only Shot on target. Sadly, u may not have such opportunity again.

[quote author=Chris2863 post=118511037]alaye, you are a full time gold digger and it’s very unfortunate. You sound very disgust dude[/quote


I sound disgust how? And pont of correction I ain't a gold digger , I have a very good job on doing and moreover if a guy who doesn't have the kind of money a lady has wants to marry her u are the foolish people to call that guy a gold digger!! But if a lady marries a wealthy man she's not a gold digger abi? You have low mentality

Chris2863:
Shameless men everywhere.

Thanks so much for the comments!!! I know u are wise 100%!!!

[quote author=udofia234 post=118511374][/quote]sounding more pathetic

Chris2863:
sounding more pathetic

You did not read my other thread! She offered me expensive gifts which I rejected , I even took her on a date and I played the bills my self

See I use to say something, everyone wants a good thing, but if the good thing is stressing you and you still keep on pushing, you might loseyour life in the process... what is yours would always be yours...I hate greedy people who don’t back off when things are taking a toll on them...

Same applies to the OP...
The lady is stressing his mental health already and he still wan shook his head inside, that’s greed and we know the result of been greedy. I hope nothing bad happens to him, the babe, and the Ex...

Joe4real1988:
And thousands of women having nothing marry wealthy men on daily basis and nothing is wrong with that right?

udofia234:
Thanks babe!!! I'm not a gold digger!!! its just that I never wanted the relationship but she was very persistent but all of a sudden she changed , so I'm still trying to adapt

That tells you it's not all about you but her. That's why I tell you not to pity marry any girl cos if she were in your shoes, she wouldn't. Immediately, a better option came, she moved on which is normal. Move on bro!

udofia234:
I'm not a weakling bro! Just understand how I feel!!!

thought you said you were concerned about the age gap ,now her ex is back to reclaim the baggage which ought to be grateful for and go look for a young soul to build with and here you are sobbing for a older woman cause you hope to produce a seed with her,so you can have your child reap her wealth .. so you can’t create wealth on your own .. no wonder rich people tend to stay very far from poor folks ..

Can’t believe a man would come online to post this rubbish, no go work make money, you for tell her to come pay your groom price, woman money de vex you, go hug transformer nah