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Eyesstone:
I dont understand. She entered and felt like the car was hers or she bought fuel for it?

Egg-zak-t-ly

Wotoporiously speaking

For what you just did I'll pay you 3 months salary up front, do well to contact my account officer and get directives.

More greese to your elbow comrade

JoeRizzla:
What you did was good,
It's been a long time since i carried a naija girl for my car, they deserve the sun beating sometimes, the more you help them the more entitled they become to other guys


If guys were looking out for their fellow guys this way almost all of us will be living a good life.

And the honest truth is 95% of women will not pull over to give a woman a lift. They have zero sympathy for their kind.

Divoc19:
So one can even get lift in this Lagos, unlike Abuja you get free ride everyday no matter your gender. Lagos seem more like an OYO kinda place for me. Maybe because am new...

Back to the matter... OP, you did well. That lady seem rude and saucy.

not true. Only few people. Most people for abuja no dey give free ride and few wey dey carry dey collect money though not all(except few). Maybe na because you be babe sha, una own dey different...

The year have not ended yet but we will give you "Man of the year" award..you just restored man's dignity

jclassiq:
You asked her to come down from your own vehicle and she declined?

Are you sure about this bro?

It can be that:

1. She is too entitled. Entitled women expect to be treated with decorum even when they don't deserve it or have not earned it.

Let us look at the story again. The woman could not believe the audacity of the man who dared to struggle with her for entry. She expects that as a woman, she has earned the right to the space in the car. A terrible sense of entitlement which carries over into the other part of the story when the OP decides to expel her. The same sense of entitlement that her gender gives her immunity from being denied things that she has not earned. She believes that the OP stopped for her and that a gentleman must tolerate any woman even if she is a rude element.

2. She was embarrassed and was thus frozen to the spot.

This happens to the best of us sometimes. I remembered when I was in 200 level, my phone rang in the middle of a lecture. I had forgotten to switch it off (I always switched off my phone altogether while receiving lectures). The lecturer immediately ordered me to get out of his class. I was so embarrassed that I couldn't immediately move. The man became angry and began to threaten to drag me out physically. In the end, I got up and left the hall. I would later go and see the lecturer in his officer and apologize.

Good.....i can never understand why people insult other people.

Babara1994:
Even though I'm writing this with a heavy heart, I still feel I meted out Justice in my own little way.

On my way from work at 5pm today, I met two persons - a man and an extremely beautiful lady at the bus-stop awaiting a vehicle.

By the way, my vehicle is an SUV which can only accommodate just one person at the front, since I had a really large set of engineering equipment at the back seat.

So the man waved at me, prompting me to stop, but as luck would have it, I parked right before the lady. There was a slight scuffle as to who would enter, but the man being a perfect gentleman gave way for the lady.

Now, she entered and hissed while hurling insults at the man for waisting her time. I got mad. I told her to alight immediately. She wouldn't; so I came down myself, forced the door open and pulled her out of my vehicle. I then asked the gentleman to enter.

I felt somewhat guilty afterwards, but I still feel I did the right thing.

Why do we have so many entitled ladies hovering around our community? What have we been teaching our girls? It's getting out of hand.

NB: I'm not a red-piller, and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human, and humans THINK.

You did well. Who. res don't respect men except u r a client

Babara1994:
Even though I'm writing this with a heavy heart, I still feel I meted out Justice in my own little way.

On my way from work at 5pm today, I met two persons - a man and an extremely beautiful lady at the bus-stop awaiting a vehicle.

By the way, my vehicle is an SUV which can only accommodate just one person at the front, since I had a really large set of engineering equipment at the back seat.

So the man waved at me, prompting me to stop, but as luck would have it, I parked right before the lady. There was a slight scuffle as to who would enter, but the man being a perfect gentleman gave way for the lady.

Now, she entered and hissed while hurling insults at the man for waisting her time. I got mad. I told her to alight immediately. She wouldn't; so I came down myself, forced the door open and pulled her out of my vehicle. I then asked the gentleman to enter.

I felt somewhat guilty afterwards, but I still feel I did the right thing.

Why do we have so many entitled ladies hovering around our community? What have we been teaching our girls? It's getting out of hand.

NB: I'm not a red-piller, and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human, and humans THINK.

You did well. Whores don't respect men except u r a client

CaveAdullam:
1. When you always give people leeway to have access to opportunities that transcend their character and ability, it comes to a time they think they are competent enough and desire it even though they are based and incompetent. This is the case for modern-day women. Men have granted them long immunity, hence, the entitlement mentality.

2. They hold no atom of respect for anyone. Once they have had an opportunity to visit a high-brow area, 5-star hotel, or restaurant, fvcked a rich man, and deposited large sums of money in their bank accounts, they do feel they are now at the top. They show no regard for those in their ranks. They rub shoulders with men on top by leveraging their sexuality or exposing their sexuality to compete with the women on top: "so-called high-class independent women".

3. These women have disdain for men at the bottom. If the man is nice and gentle, double maltreatment. The men at the bottom they have an affinity for are those that are arrogant and share sociopathic traits - the group of men they later tag as "dead-beat dads". Meanwhile, they were vapid, slow, and myopic, their eyes veiled from seeing the nice and kind men.

4. It is this arrogant attitude that makes them miss their chances. The vicissitudes of life shouldn't erode character, values, and virtues because, in the end, this is all we've got when the push comes to shove.

5. Such reckless behavior is also quotidian about young generations of males. Their veneration goes to sociopaths, fraudsters, and weak women. No respect. No honor. Fragile males with no guidance. Weak. Shallow. Dull.

6. Dealing with this generation of people and the sets of humans you come across every day is herculean. Solitude is preferable, however, socialization is part of us. One just needs to be extra cautious, patient, and tolerant when dealing with these folks. If you flow the same frequency to mirror their stupid attitude, you may end up hurting yourself long run. After all, they have nothing to lose. However, this shouldn't stop you from pulling the trigger when the situation demands it.

7. The sets of women I love helping are those advanced in age or with kids. At least they still have some reserved values and culture, unlike their younger counterparts that are empty and entitled.

8. Helping men is always a good bet. Not that men can't be ungrateful, but that men have no comforter or helper and must work hard to cater to themselves. Many of them are grateful and will be loyal for long/life. Unlike women who feel that they deserved it for the simple reason that they are "women".

9. Never feed anybody that feels entitled to your resources. Don't throw your pearls before pigs else they will lash at you.

Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and God what belongs to God. Treat the entitled and ungrateful accordingly and as fast as possible.

Thanks.

Right on point sir.

iamyungkhalifa:
those gender ehn
they have been brought up by their parents as liability
na so one girl dey do anyhow ontop my wifi and data
I slapped her that day and come see how people dey para for me , something whey I no chop wella for 2days to do data ,

The same thing happened to me.... By twist of luck I was blessed with excess data when I linked my second Sim to my NIN
One girl I knew begged me to share with her , I did it for her (she didn't even know how to connect hotspot).
She used it for over an hour watching videos and laughing.
When I told her that my battery was low and that I needed to disconnect and charge , she got angry (like say na she buy the data for me). Despite the fact that she had used it for over 1 hour for free .

As for the Op, you did the right thing.
You might say that you aren't redpilled but that act was definitely a redpilled move.

I don't know why Naija girls have such a huge entitlement mentality.

OP Yiu did the right thing. I remember that year when u used to waka waka about with no car ,joining public buses with your dirty shoes full of dust. Now that the Lord has remembered you.
Who is that kpekus to feel entitled to Ur sub.
You for give am back hand sef.
You did very well. I am giving up my man of the year award for you. Please take it
Or can we share it ?

CaveAdullam:
1. When you always give people leeway to have access to opportunities that transcend their character and ability, it comes to a time they think they are competent enough and desire it even though they are based and incompetent. This is the case for modern-day women. Men have granted them long immunity, hence, the entitlement mentality.

2. They hold no atom of respect for anyone. Once they have had an opportunity to visit a high-brow area, 5-star hotel, or restaurant, fvcked a rich man, and deposited large sums of money in their bank accounts, they do feel they are now at the top. They show no regard for those in their ranks. They rub shoulders with men on top by leveraging their sexuality or exposing their sexuality to compete with the women on top: "so-called high-class independent women".

3. These women have disdain for men at the bottom. If the man is nice and gentle, double maltreatment. The men at the bottom they have an affinity for are those that are arrogant and share sociopathic traits - the group of men they later tag as "dead-beat dads". Meanwhile, they were vapid, slow, and myopic, their eyes veiled from seeing the nice and kind men.

4. It is this arrogant attitude that makes them miss their chances. The vicissitudes of life shouldn't erode character, values, and virtues because, in the end, this is all we've got when the push comes to shove.

5. Such reckless behavior is also quotidian about young generations of males. Their veneration goes to sociopaths, fraudsters, and weak women. No respect. No honor. Fragile males with no guidance. Weak. Shallow. Dull.

6. Dealing with this generation of people and the sets of humans you come across every day is herculean. Solitude is preferable, however, socialization is part of us. One just needs to be extra cautious, patient, and tolerant when dealing with these folks. If you flow the same frequency to mirror their stupid attitude, you may end up hurting yourself long run. After all, they have nothing to lose. However, this shouldn't stop you from pulling the trigger when the situation demands it.

7. The sets of women I love helping are those advanced in age or with kids. At least they still have some reserved values and culture, unlike their younger counterparts that are empty and entitled.

8. Helping men is always a good bet. Not that men can't be ungrateful, but that men have no comforter or helper and must work hard to cater to themselves. Many of them are grateful and will be loyal for long/life. Unlike women who feel that they deserved it for the simple reason that they are "women".

9. Never feed anybody that feels entitled to your resources. Don't throw your pearls before pigs else they will lash at you.

Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and God what belongs to God. Treat the entitled and ungrateful accordingly and as fast as possible.

Thanks.

I'm following you immediately sire.

Hm! Na lie. Op realized the girl no be fine girl, na why him chase her out. If na fine chick like me, op for no fit try am because my innocent face alone will not let him do such. Lol..

In a serious note, since you already let her in, you should have just left her. Instead you caution her for abusing the guy. Let her know it's wrong but you had to chase her out. Mtchew. If I hear say the girl fine.... Make billions of dollars enter my account.

I'm out!

As a rule, u only pick the person dat hailed ur taxi or vehicle first

You nko ,you no dey saucy and rude

Divoc19:
So one can even get lift in this Lagos, unlike Abuja you get free ride everyday no matter your gender. Lagos seem more like an OYO kinda place for me. Maybe because am new...

Back to the matter... OP, you did well. That lady seem rude and saucy.

Blessedmercy8:
Hm! Na lie. Op realized the girl no be fine girl, na why him chase her out. If na fine chick like me, op for no fit try am because my innocent face alone will not let him do such. Lol..

In a serious note, since you already let her in, you should have just left her. Instead you caution her for abusing the guy. Let her know it's wrong but you had to chase her out. Mtchew. If I hear say the girl fine.... Make billions of dollars enter my account.

I'm out!

Liability fine girl

Blessedmercy8:
Hm! Na lie. Op realized the girl no be fine girl, na why him chase her out. If na fine chick like me, op for no fit try am because my innocent face alone will not let him do such. Lol..

In a serious note, since you already let her in, you should have just left her. Instead you caution her for abusing the guy. Let her know it's wrong but you had to chase her out. Mtchew. If I hear say the girl fine.... Make billions of dollars enter my account.

I'm out!

U just spoke like a baby, fine or no fine girl, if her attitude is bad, chase her out. That's all.

Naaa. I might tease you. It ends there.

Brownshoe:
You nko ,you no dey saucy and rude

spencekat:
Liability fine girl

If only you know who you're calling a liability.

ogbe88:
U just spoke like a baby, fine or no fine girl, if her attitude is bad, chase her out. That's all.

I'm telling you life truth. You men find it difficult to treat a fine girl badly and I'm not talking about makeup beauty. Talking from experience.
The girl no fine.

Blessedmercy8:
If only you know who you're calling a liability.

I don't want to know.By the way,It was not directed to you.A bad character is condemnable regardless of one's looks.

Good morning guys sorry for coming at you guys like this,but have got no other option.it been a day plus I never see food chop and today sef no hope....I just need anything to help me sustain till month end am working ooh just started this month.... anything guys just anything ....God bless the hand that giveth.
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Blessedmercy8:
Hm! Na lie. Op realized the girl no be fine girl, na why him chase her out. If na fine chick like me, op for no fit try am because my innocent face alone will not let him do such. Lol..

In a serious note, since you already let her in, you should have just left her. Instead you caution her for abusing the guy. Let her know it's wrong but you had to chase her out. Mtchew. If I hear say the girl fine.... Make billions of dollars enter my account.

I'm out!

That's the entitlement Mentality they were talking about. _Entitled because of beauty. I have put so many beautiful girls in their place. I get questions from them like "you behave like one who wants to be a priest", "Sir, you are harsh o".. etc
Do women really thinks Everyman is weak?? That everyman fidgets when they see beautiful women?? Your beauty is in your pocket lady!. How many beautiful ladies are being divorced?_ Lady we are way pass that...try something new!!
I was told by the Boss! "Never Care for a woman, never give yourself in to any duress she wants to create around you. For the fact that you cared means that you are a caring man; and that is the type of man she wants; if she comes crying to you today, she will also come crying to you tomorrow; when she cries, let her cry, For gradually you be roped by her.". This was the greatest advise of my life.

SaintSmart50:
That's the entitlement Mentality they were talking about. _Entitled because of beauty. I have put so many beautiful girls in their place. I get questions from them like "you behave like one who wants to be a priest", "Sir, you are harsh o".. etc
Do women really thinks Everyman is weak?? That everyman fidgets when they see beautiful women?? Your beauty is in your pocket lady!. How many beautiful ladies are being divorced?_ Lady we are way pass that...try something new!!
I was told by the Boss! "Never Care for a woman, never give yourself in to any duress she wants to create around you. For the fact that you cared means that you are a caring man; and that is the type of man she wants; if she comes crying to you today, she will also come crying to you tomorrow; when she cries, let her cry, For gradually you be roped by her.". This was the greatest advise of my life.

Hahahaha... Easier said than done. No be men wey I know?

Blessedmercy8:
Hm! Na lie. Op realized the girl no be fine girl, na why him chase her out. If na fine chick like me, op for no fit try am because my innocent face alone will not let him do such. Lol..

In a serious note, since you already let her in, you should have just left her. Instead you caution her for abusing the guy. Let her know it's wrong but you had to chase her out. Mtchew. If I hear say the girl fine.... Make billions of dollars enter my account.

I'm out!

Haha

Blessedmercy8:
Hm! Na lie. Op realized the girl no be fine girl, na why him chase her out. If na fine chick like me, op for no fit try am because my innocent face alone will not let him do such. Lol..

In a serious note, since you already let her in, you should have just left her. Instead you caution her for abusing the guy. Let her know it's wrong but you had to chase her out. Mtchew. If I hear say the girl fine.... Make billions of dollars enter my account.

I'm out!

So you didn't read where he said ....the lady looks extremely pretty and beautiful

[/quote]Ight cut the malarkey, this whole note is fabricated

garriAndsugar:
Haha

True o. The girl no fine.

Blessedmercy8:
I'm telling you life truth. You men find it difficult to treat a fine girl badly and I'm not talking about makeup beauty. Talking from experience.
The girl no fine.

Pls say some MEN that don't know their left from right

Blessedmercy8:
Hahahaha... Easier said than done. No be men wey I know?

Maybe the men within your Circles!
Talk about your Circles then! Don't talk about the men's!
For W'dont know what you are talking about!