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LotaTee:
Truly you have entitlement mentality. And you sound rude as well. Only God knows how you treated the woman for her to react in such manner.

Anyway, don't feel bad because your uncle refused to help. That's human nature for you.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Just as our faces differs that is how we have 'unkown characters'

superCleanworks:
come back in 20 years when you are married MAN with MULTIPLE financial responsibilities and read this rubbish out to yourself.
That is when you will see the full colour of your stupidity.

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to include details on the character of the uncle in question.

I mean just cause you are siblings with someone don't mean the person, and his family has to tolerate anything you throw at 'em. You also have to be considerate.

superCleanworks:
about 20 years ago I asked my uncle for money and he said he didn't have. next thing he bought a 7 series BMW for his wifey. This is someone my dad paid his school fees but as a real gee, I didn't worry him or take it personal. Nobody owes me anything.

Now here I am. now I understand better and thank God I didn't take it personal.

And here you are age shaming her and painting all the story to make her look like a demon. She even offered you can soft drink. She should have given you a nice plate of jollof with rat poison (KILL AND DRY) for your sense of entitlement.

did you give your uncle money to keep for you? You even had to open a thread about it.

You better delete your uncle's number and remove him from your options.

DonBenny77:
You are an idiot

ExudeLoveToAll:
and her family....

Any lady who treats people badly except you will make you have a long walk during marriage.

The only people they consider as family is their own family and then the husband.

I once had an uncle whose wife will physically chase any of his relative out of his house when they came visiting him without the man rebuking his wife because she doesn't do it to her family. She even has two relatives who lived with them permanently but doesn't want to see the man's relative come visiting for 10mins.

Due to this the family gave them a very long spoon, he alienated himself from the family.

Six years later the marriage had issues, all those who are in the position to talk and bring the man back online she had chased them out and abused them all face to face.

Shame did not even allow her to come seek for forgiveness, the man divorced her and sent her packing. The worst part is that she depends 100 percent on this young man, her world came crumbling.

It is good to be assertive sometimes as a man, what you can't tolerate in the long run don't start tolerating it now.

DonBenny77:
You are an idiot

MadamVanessa:




Even though I am a woman, but I will say 87% problems in this world women are the cause.

Even though I should've heard from both side before dropping my judgement, but no, I can't, because I know what my gender is capable of doing.

But were you able to sort out for the rent?

Edenbello:
Where is the sense of entitlement in the post? Perhaps you have issues with comprehension.

This is a man that is a son of the family. One way or the other, the family contributed to make him who he's. Is it bad for him to also help people in the family? Or he's now for the old woman alone?

AfroKnight:
Omo! See entitlement. You cannot even see how bad you look saying stuff like this.

She went overboard by insulting you but your uncle kept quiet because he shares her sentiments. You said your uncle was “supposed to” contribute to your mom’s hospital bills. Why? Do you know if his kids needed the money? Do you know if he was servicing a loan at the time?

Hope you won’t be expecting him to give you a share in his property when he dies. Hope your cousins won’t have to contend with you for their father’s property.

Stop feeling entitled to a person’s money especially if you didn’t catch him wasting it on alcohol or gambling

superCleanworks:
I lack comprehension abilities but You see your comment again? and you are still asking me where the sense of entitlement is?

his wife is old. go and marry your own.
he doesn't want to give you cash on demand. go and make your own.
Your family contributed to make him who he is, go and meet them let them contribute and make you too.

DonBenny77:
You are an idiot

MadamVanessa:




Even though I am a woman, but I will say 87% problems in this world women are the cause.

Even though I should've heard from both side before dropping my judgement, but no, I can't, because I know what my gender is capable of doing.

But were you able to sort out for the rent?

superCleanworks:
I lack comprehension abilities but You see your comment again? and you are still asking me where the sense of entitlement is?

his wife is old. go and marry your own.
he doesn't want to give you cash on demand. go and make your own.
Your family contributed to make him who he is, go and meet them let them contribute and make you too.

SyrusdeHansome:
I knw that u 're a very stingy person because as a man thinketh in his hrt so is he. U're what u think. Show me one person in life who became successful without the help of another person.

You know everything.
I don't approve of high sense of entitlement but in your head, it ultimately translates into being stingy?

How old are you and how many people have you paid school fees and bills for this year alone? Let's start from there.

Edenbello:
I'm asking again, show me entitlement.

Edenbello:
I earlier created a thread where I wrote about the rent issue I am facing at the moment.

I'm sponsoring myself in school and also responsible for my upkeep and other things in life including house rent.

As I am unable to meet up with my rent while my landlord will not let me rest, for the last option, I had to travel to see my uncle concerning the rent. Why I had to travel was because I wanted him to see how serious the matter is, rather than phone call.

You won't believe what happened.

My uncle's new wife embarrassed me and chased me out of the house.

My uncle wasn't like this until he married this woman. He used to be kind to us until he married this woman. My father is late, so he's been like the father to us.

I went to him to help me with 30k as part of the rent only for the woman to put in a fight I didnt understand and as if I was the one who stopped her from getting married at her younger age.

She used all sort of derogatory words on me. Telling me I should never come to the house to ask for any favour again. This is a woman that my uncle married just for companion sake. She's in her 50s.

Apart from the support for my house rent, my mother just had operation in which he was supposed to help financially too but still this woman didnt allow the man to do anything.

Even the can soft drink i was offered which I didnt even open, she carried it away. It was like a film honestly.

Imagine my uncle watching over all she was doing and he couldnt even tell her to stop. I think he's under a spell. That woman must have hypnotised him.

Finally, I left the house in shame without getting any assistance, not for my sick mum nor for the rent. Not even transport fare back home. I had to maneuver my way back.

Worst is that she's the one managing his calls now. Once you call and she picks the call, she will ask you what is the matter. If you cannot tell her what you want to tell him, you should forget about it. Can you imagine that?

I feel frustrated. I don't know how it's going to happen but i trust God to come through for me even though I may be locked out of my apartment any moment by the landlord.

I am currently in my 300 level and I believe God will see me through till graduation. I'm still applying for a new job as I believe I'll get one soon.

MadamVanessa:




Even though I am a woman, but I will say 87% problems in this world women are the cause.

Even though I should've heard from both side before dropping my judgement, but no, I can't, because I know what my gender is capable of doing.

But were you able to sort out for the rent?

Edenbello:
I earlier created a thread where I wrote about the rent issue I am facing at the moment.

I'm sponsoring myself in school and also responsible for my upkeep and other things in life including house rent.

As I am unable to meet up with my rent while my landlord will not let me rest, for the last option, I had to travel to see my uncle concerning the rent. Why I had to travel was because I wanted him to see how serious the matter is, rather than phone call.

You won't believe what happened.

My uncle's new wife embarrassed me and chased me out of the house.

My uncle wasn't like this until he married this woman. He used to be kind to us until he married this woman. My father is late, so he's been like the father to us.

I went to him to help me with 30k as part of the rent only for the woman to put in a fight I didnt understand and as if I was the one who stopped her from getting married at her younger age.

She used all sort of derogatory words on me. Telling me I should never come to the house to ask for any favour again. This is a woman that my uncle married just for companion sake. She's in her 50s.

Apart from the support for my house rent, my mother just had operation in which he was supposed to help financially too but still this woman didnt allow the man to do anything.

Even the can soft drink i was offered which I didnt even open, she carried it away. It was like a film honestly.

Imagine my uncle watching over all she was doing and he couldnt even tell her to stop. I think he's under a spell. That woman must have hypnotised him.

Finally, I left the house in shame without getting any assistance, not for my sick mum nor for the rent. Not even transport fare back home. I had to maneuver my way back.

Worst is that she's the one managing his calls now. Once you call and she picks the call, she will ask you what is the matter. If you cannot tell her what you want to tell him, you should forget about it. Can you imagine that?

I feel frustrated. I don't know how it's going to happen but i trust God to come through for me even though I may be locked out of my apartment any moment by the landlord.

I am currently in my 300 level and I believe God will see me through till graduation. I'm still applying for a new job as I believe I'll get one soon.