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My girlfriend of two years always told me anytime she starts her menstrual cycle and she's someone that used to log in her Facebook account on my phone, she let me know that she has started her period on September 29 of this year, she came to visit me on October 2 immediately after her menstrual cycle completed, guess that she will be in her ovulation period.....

We had sex on October 3/4 without protection but withdrawal method which we've been doing for that period of the two years relationship, we still have sex on October 9/10 still the same withdrawal method.

She went to visit her place for ceremonies on October 13 and came back on October 16. We are both contemplating that she suppose to have seen her October menstrual cycle even before October 29 , we were waiting anxiously that maybe this month might be coming late, it was when it reaches November 3 that we decided that she need to have test to know maybe she might have pregnant.

The test was conducted on November 4 and it shows that she's five weeks and five days pregnant countering the first sex i earlier mentioned we had during when she completes her menstrual cycle around Oct 3 and oct 4. I was like i didn't release inside you but withdrawal method, i assume maybe there was a drop and accepted but told her to swore with Quran that I'm the only one that slept with her during the month of October and she agreed and used it to swear....

Remember that i earlier mentioned up there that she used to log in her Facebook account on my phone, a guy message now pop on my notification on messenger through her account, I read through their previous conversation and i discover whenever she travels, they used to see each other sometimes. I now engaged the guy in proxy, chatting with him as if it was my girlfriend and go to a point and i ask him that,

when are we seeing? He replied.

I still went to asked him that did he remember when we had sex last? It was at this point he replied and said last month which is during October, and you know i already asked my girlfriend to swore if it's only me she had sex with during the month of October....

I quickly went to meet my girlfriend at her hostel threatening her that if she lied to me regarding the question I'm trying to ask her that serious problem will happen now.

I told who the guy is and she said she's her ex boyfriend and i said okay, i still went ahead to ask her when did they have sex last, before she answered, i already told her that i have evidence that if she lied that something strange will happen now, she now confessed that they see each other during the period of October 13 when she traveled for burial arrangements stuff and they both had sex on October 15 .

Hearing this i was shocked, and she's adamant that I'm responsible for the pregnancy.

Please nairalander, what can i do, but I've made my stance that it was when she put to bed that we are going to do paternity test to ascertain whether I'm indeed the father of the child because i can't accept her lies.

Please take into consideration that i had sex with her on October 3/4 and October 9/10 with withdrawal method,

And she went to have sex with another guy on October 15

My brother that girl is clearly planning to pin another guy's pregnancy on you.

A drop of semen from withdrawal method cannot get a girl pregnant. A substantial quantity is required to fertilize her eggs. Cos the semen travels from point of contact (vagina) to the fallopian tube to fertilize her eggs.

You should note that during this process, thousands of sperm cells die off on the way, only when your sperm is thick and multiple enough before they can successfully fertilize the eggs of the woman.

So if a girl is telling you that a drop of semen from your penis when you where withdrawing is what got her pregnant, just know that she's playing with your intelligence.

And for the fact she swore with the koran that she didn't sleep with anyone, but you later discovered that she did is enough reason for you to tell her to carry her pregnancy to whoever impregnated her and cut off all ties you had with her permanently.

You could still be the father. I’m thinking maybe use birth control pills next time, I don’t think this withdrawal method is any good lol.

Speaking from experience.

Nazgul:
My brother that girl is clearly planning to pin another guy's pregnancy on you.

A drop of semen from withdrawal method cannot get a girl pregnant. A substantial quantity is required to fertilize her eggs. Cos the semen travels from point of contact (vagina) to the fallopian tube to fertilize her eggs.

You should note that during this process, thousands of sperm cells die off on the way, only when your sperm is thick and multiple enough before they can successfully fertilize the eggs of the woman.

So if a girl is telling you that a drop of semen from your penis when you where withdrawing is what got her pregnant, just know that she's playing with your intelligence.

And for the fact she swore with the koran that she didn't sleep with anyone, but you later discovered that she did is enough reason for you to tell her to carry her pregnancy to whoever impregnated her and cut off all ties you had with her permanently.

I'm even planning to visit her parent for them to know how i feel and not that I'm trying to shy away from the responsibility this weekend to narrate everything that happened and i want her to be there also to checkmate all I'm going to say and i still have the evidence of the Facebook chat....

SenecaTheYonger:
You could still be the father. I’m thinking maybe use birth control pills next time, I don’t think this withdrawal method is any good lol.

Speaking from experience.

But remember that i admit when she told me because to myself i think I'm the only person having sex with her and it was withdrawal method that we've been doing all this while, it was when learnt that she slept with someone else on the same month which is October 15 as against mine of October 3,4, and 9 that I'm finding it difficult to accept now pending when she will put to bed

adebayo10977:
But remember that i admit when she told me because to myself i think I'm the only person having sex with her and it was withdrawal method that we've been doing all this while, it was when learnt that she slept with someone else on the same month which is October 15 as against mine of October 3,4, and 9 that I'm finding it difficult to accept now pending when she will put to bed

Yeah, actually, you're right.

@adebayo10977 , Did you confirm if the Other Guy use protection or same withdrawal?

Hedgefunds:
@adebayo10977 , Did you confirm if the Other Guy use protection or same withdrawal?

From the Facebook chat, the guy used condom. Using protection or condom is not the issue, but the trauma of what happened and the controversy surrounding the pregnancy is what am brooding on.

adebayo10977:
From the Facebook chat, the guy used condom. Using protection or condom is not the issue, but the trauma of what happened and the controversy surrounding the pregnancy is what am brooding on.

Then she slept with someone else whom you haven't known yet.
This already happened to you before with your GF 2019.
How did you sort it out?
Why is it happening again?

Bros it's like you are just narrating exactly what happened to me last year. Just like your case, I was very sure of my withdrawal skill and it has never failed me once. But my girl insisted the pregnancy was mine.

It was my suspicion that led me to hacking her WhatsApp and saw where she had sex with another guy and even collected abortion money from that same guy.

Fear woman � o
She even swear with the Holy Quran

Book of lies chapter 1 vs 1

Fear women for many men can farm with a h.oe without knowing the seed.

Na wao.........If the Fed min of science and Technology finally launch the DNA machine and at a subsidized rate ehn......So many Aliens born into the family would be revealed as seen in the pics above me by nicerod, So many Nyashes of housewives will be opened. DNA test lab.......We cant wait!!!!

In the pix above me posted by @nicerod, Can you all see the Alien I'm reffering to?? So many of them are in the family where they never belong to, calling another man his/her Daddy.

What some married women cannot bring home does not exist.....

adebayo10977:
I'm even planning to visit her parent for them to know how i feel and not that I'm trying to shy away from the responsibility this weekend to narrate everything that happened and i want her to be there also to checkmate all I'm going to say and i still have the evidence of the Facebook chat....

All these isn't necessary...girls are very manipulative. She'll admit to them that she cheated on you, but the child is yours. And her parents would want to settle things between you guys, they'll tell you to forgive her that people make mistakes and other bla bla bla...and believe me, you'll leave her parents house more confused than how you are currently.

If you must involve her parents, call them on phone and tell them that whatever you have or had with their daughter is over cos she's carrying another guy's pregnancy period! Then cut off from her.

Unnecessary lingering, explaining, providing evidence that she cheated on you... etc, will make you keep going back to her every now and then, and she'll keep reformatting your head with mind blowing sex back to back until you find yourself accepting her back and raising another guy's kid would would still be boinking her behind your back.

The date u had sex, n d pregnancy duration no correspond at all. Sumtin is fishy.

internationalman:
Bros it's like you are just narrating exactly what happened to me last year. Just like your case, I was very sure of my withdrawal skill and it has never failed me once. But my girl insisted the pregnancy was mine.

It was my suspicion that led me to hacking her WhatsApp and saw where she had sex with another guy and even collected abortion money from that same guy.

Please how do I hack my partner’s phone?

Go ahead and do paternity test. She is so confused thats why she wants to pin it on you

My guy, dat pregnancy is not urs. I av been into withdrawal method for more than 10yrs nd no case of pregnancy. Dat foetus she is carry belong to another Yoruba niggar but not u.

DNA test loading. If she can swear on the Quran then her lying has no bounds.

Can you imagine! All this could have been prevented by using rubber !!!

adebayo10977:
Please take into consideration that i had sex with her on October 3/4 and October 9/10 with withdrawal method,

And she went to have sex with another guy on October 15

It’s not your seed bro.
The guy is good for knacks,that’s why she’s going back to collect more..
You are good for keeps,a gentle man and a weak man that is being trained to be the nanny of a strong man’s child by proxy.
Man,know thy self.

adebayo10977:
My girlfriend of two years always told me anytime she starts her menstrual cycle and she's someone that used to log in her Facebook account on my phone, she let me know that she has started her period on September 29 of this year, she came to visit me on October 2 immediately after her menstrual cycle completed, guess that she will be in her ovulation period.....

We had sex on October 3/4 without protection but withdrawal method which we've been doing for that period of the two years relationship, we still have sex on October 9/10 still the same withdrawal method.

She went to visit her place for ceremonies on October 13 and came back on October 16. We are both contemplating that she suppose to have seen her October menstrual cycle even before October 29 , we were waiting anxiously that maybe this month might be coming late, it was when it reaches November 3 that we decided that she need to have test to know maybe she might have pregnant.

The test was conducted on November 4 and it shows that she's five weeks and five days pregnant countering the first sex i earlier mentioned we had during when she completes her menstrual cycle around Oct 3 and oct 4. I was like i didn't release inside you but withdrawal method, i assume maybe there was a drop and accepted but told her to swore with Quran that I'm the only one that slept with her during the month of October and she agreed and used it to swear....

Remember that i earlier mentioned up there that she used to log in her Facebook account on my phone, a guy message now pop on my notification on messenger through her account, I read through their previous conversation and i discover whenever she travels, they used to see each other sometimes. I now engaged the guy in proxy, chatting with him as if it was my girlfriend and go to a point and i ask him that,

when are we seeing? He replied.

I still went to asked him that did he remember when we had sex last? It was at this point he replied and said last month which is during October, and you know i already asked my girlfriend to swore if it's only me she had sex with during the month of October....

I quickly went to meet my girlfriend at her hostel threatening her that if she lied to me regarding the question I'm trying to ask her that serious problem will happen now.

I told who the guy is and she said she's her ex boyfriend and i said okay, i still went ahead to ask her when did they have sex last, before she answered, i already told her that i have evidence that if she lied that something strange will happen now, she now confessed that they see each other during the period of October 13 when she traveled for burial arrangements stuff and they both had sex on October 15 .

Hearing this i was shocked, and she's adamant that I'm responsible for the pregnancy.

Please nairalander, what can i do, but I've made my stance that it was when she put to bed that we are going to do paternity test to ascertain whether I'm indeed the father of the child because i can't accept her lies.

Omo! U need to do DNA test be that. A drop of semen can still do sometin if it is highly potent.

There’s a chance that the baby is yours and there’s a chance it isn’t yours.

All these dates you have given us, are you expecting us to calculate something or what? 🤣🤣🤣.