OP Abeg you., No leave that house, you are a representative of your father in that house,.. if anybody want to merry let her pack go her new husband house..
Don’t you know that if you leave that house, another man pikin will inherit your father sweat?..
Man stand and fight for your father!

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

U cant fight a woman who is madly in love. She would fight u dirty and can kill for the stupid love.


Be careful.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

If your mother wants to remarry, that's fine.
But; if she is not the sole owner of the house, she is the one to vacate your father's house, and not you.

Make her understand that; as she cannot bring in another man into your father's house to live there together with him. Rather, she will have to move into the house of the new husband.

But if she is the sole owner of the house, then just vacate as she had said... She prefers the new man to you, and if you don't stand your ground to claim ownership of the house now, know that, once she gives the new man a child or children, you're just about to start a deadly war.

Biafraaa:
OP which tribe are you from? We will like to know which tribe in our dear country commits this abomination. How can a man marry a widow and and want to move into the house of the widow's late husband.
Either your mom is going insane because of lack of dick or the man use charm.
If it's dick buy her a vibrator let's see if she can forget the useless man in question.

as in ehhhh,the woman is insane for real,which kind madness be that?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Omo no go anywhere as long as your father rightfully own the property. Na suppose leave self.

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

Your comments on advices here shows u don't need advice.
And yes of course your mother doesn't have the right to drive u out of your father's house

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

oh boy sorry ur mom love dick and nothing you can do about it. E be one don dey nack her Wella wey make her come de behave this way

Mercury12:

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

Some of you are just empty barrels that make the loudest noise. People like you can use mouth to fly plane but when asked to do what is said with the mouth, problem starts.

Is like you didn't read the story well! The guy is the only son of his mother and father. The house he is talking about belongs to his father. His mother wants to bring a man into his father's house and chase him, the rightful owner of the house, away.

This is not about "going out to work harder and build a better house as you have suggested". What we are dealing with here is "sacrilege" and "defilement". How could his mother plan to bring a man into his former husband's house and house him!

@OP. Dont you have paternal relatives like uncles, aunties that can stand up for you?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Is your father late? And when did he die?

A man gets married and keeps his children under his roof. A woman sends them away.

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

If you leave that house for your mother to bring another man, you are a bastard and have failed your late father.

If she wants to marry, let her move out, rent a place for herself and her husband. You can get tenants for your father's house and use the rent to pay for her own new place. But for her to bring in a man into your late father's house? It is not proper.

If she tries to be stubborn, involve your father's family members.

fineboynl:
Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

She might be hypnotized.Don't fight her,pray for her and play safe.
If you can get a new apartment,leave ASAP.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic

Those saying you should just leave the house are say rubbish.
I bet it with you, if you leave that house, her newly found lover will sell it, then leave her and his whereabout will be unknown.

Even if you go with the documents if there is any, he will forge another one. If this happens, you will spend so much on court case before you could get back the house or financial settlement.

Report her to your paternal family if she is proving strong head.

Godoverevery:

In as much I don’t like commenting on NL due to fact a lot of teens and fools have over taking the his forum but am forced to ask you this question

Does it make sense for a woman to remarry and bring the man to her late husband house…….even if Jesus Christ was the woman son he won’t take it.

Is she not meant to move to the man house or is that how it done where you come from?? Telling the guy to go hustle is not reasonable cos you don’t know is age or if he is still in school…..even if he starts hustling now he still needs supports from her.

You are meant to ask him questions before giving him this your advice and I really doubt if you a matured guy.

The guy is a full time idiot and an A-graded fool! In the past, people like him were guillotined straight away!

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

So she want to marry her new husband to your father's house? Seems that man does not have shame.

BTW: Your mom has no right to chase you from your father's house, you can chose to leave voluntarily when you are due to stay on your own.
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Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

So she want to marry her new husband to your father's house? Seems that man does not have shame.

BTW: Your mom has no right to chase you from your father's house, you can chose to leave voluntarily when you are due to stay on your own.

fineboynl:
Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

If he should go with this, don't be surprise his mother may curse him to go mad

Some women are very wicked especially when you stand on her way

He doesn't even know if his father bought the land and the built it

He can't say much about the land and who owns the building

Na even the woman dey save money for the wedding. Can't imagine what's even going on there.

TYCO77:
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Why do you like to twist justice? Where is it done that a man would get married to a widow and pack in to live with the woman in the late husband's house even when the widow has child/children with the late husband. If one wish to marry a widow, marry and let her pack in to your house. Abeg let's fear God ooo.

Lol, what dîck can not do, does not exist . One useless broke jigolo is probably pushing your mom to kick you out so he can move in

If she is to marry. She suppose go the man house not the other way round. If that house is your father's house. She has no right asking u to leave. Except your mom actually is the owner of the house not your dad. But I still think as she marry I repeat need go the man house.

Her toxicity probably killed your dad, she’s evil. But regardless, she’s your mother

Mercury12:

If you knew what to do you won't be wailing on nairaland in the first place.
Baby like you. You really needs to grow up and be a man for once
I'm sure if we are to even listen to your mama side of the story I bet you won't get anyone support
This one that you are already proving stubborn to good advises show your kinda person

I am most certain dude is a trouble maker giving the mother headache. The way he is insulting people here shows the kind of person he is.
Just leave him with his problematic life

fineboynl:
Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

Did the man make a will giving the house to him? If no, this will depend on the culture of the place. Note she can always argue it's her house since she and the man built it. If he's of adult age and the mom decides to kick him out, I doubt he will carry the day in court.

Calvary247:
I would advice you to move out without hesitation before she plots your killing. Your life is better.

Move out of his father's house for another man? Which kind advice be that? He should move out for a stranger to come an claim his inheritance.

Greattestman:
I'm my mother's only child and the properties he gave me and my mother before he died all belongs to me since she's getting married or at least will die some days too.

lol. seems you have a myopic reasoning.as long as your mother is alive, she has more claim over you. Can an you imagine the nonsense coming from your mouth. She was the one who birthed you. Did you know the suffering she went through with your late father to get to this stage. And because you're her son you now feel you have a right. Yes you do, but only when she is dead

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

How old are you If you are 30 and above, and still seeking for financial help from mum. There is problem

fineboynl:
Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

Your mum is on a deadly mission, she wants you out of her life if possible so don't try to challenge her

I think you should just move out peaceful before she and her man will pack in

You can visit her if you wish

For her to be planning her marriage without informing you shows that she no send any of you

Just move out and watch her from a distance

That man getting married to her without introducing himself to you is a dangerous man and don't be surprise he is coming to wreck your mum down

Dont quarrel with her, just move out

If God help you find your bearing and she comes to you for help

Deny her exactly the way she denied motherly love to you

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

..
I dey vex guy.
Can't you beat the hell out of her.
I hate both Nigeria mothers and fathers.
What they need is thorough beating all the time

JuanDeDios:

Did the man make a will giving the house to him? If no, this will depend on the culture of the place. Note she can always argue it's her house since she and the man built it. If he's of adult age and the mom decides to kick him out, I doubt he will carry the day in court.

If the man did not make a will, how then can she argue the house belongs to her? No Nigerian culture gives a deceased property solely to the wife. children, particularly male children take precedence in sharing of properties.

The court (magistrate) will rule according to the culture of the deceased husband.

When people here keep screaming another deek is coming..
Does it mean the new man is marrying the mom because of her pot of gold?

noble2faith:


Some of you are just empty barrels that make the loudest noise. People like you can use mouth to fly plane but when asked to do what is said with the mouth, problem starts.

Is like you didn't read the story well! The guy is the only son of his mother and father. The house he is talking about belongs to his father. His mother wants to bring a man into his father's house and chase him, the rightful owner of the house, away.

This is not about "going out to work harder and build a better house as you have suggested". What we are dealing with here is "sacrilege" and "defilement". How could his mother plan to bring a man into his former husband's house and house him!

@OP. Dont you have paternal relatives like uncles, aunties that can stand up for you?

but a man who is a widow can do it. Double standard