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Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by ikwikwi: 4:41am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Too bad. Is that your culture. Pls involve family members |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Professorcplus(m): 5:54am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Watcharena:Bruv, I like your advice but only good for theory, but reality is that, the guy can't do this at his level. He doesn't have any financial capability which means he won't last longer, the mother is has more upper hand in the community and in family most times. See with this advice you gave, when casala bust, with little physical violence with the mother, she can frame up her injury and call security guys in the street at night to bundle and beat him out. At that point onward, no one cares if he's right... And the funny part is that outside is cold and harsh... You would be shocked to see how people will quickly use their negative and toxicity experience to judge the matter forgetting the main issue. You even see where someone on NL already telling him to go hustle after all nobody care for them when they were little.. Since they hustle all the way without mother/father. @ Greattestman sorry for your experience but... At times the ugliest advice is usually the best. (You father built the house but now he's dead and the only evidence is with your mother. She might as well argue that she built the house without the help of your father nor family members. Your only saving grace would be if there's any extended family member willing to stand for your father and you. That is if your father treated them well during his life time. And if your mother has been the one dashing them goodies and money, them I'm sorry, they might stylishly support your mother for personal gains and you might get worned out. So now seeing the situation of things, I hope you succeed in the future by then everyone would have more things to focus on including your mother might now realise; only then you pay them back including your mother the same coins and not be another simp you once fought against. Thank you. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Advision: 6:41am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Greattestman: Is there a reason why your mum isnt moving to her husband-to-be-house? Also, let your family intervene to decide/share your dad's property if he died intestate because it appears your mum is prioritizing her new partner over you |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Advision: 6:46am On Nov 27, 2022 |
othermen: Remarriage is not the issue, why would he have to leave his father's house so a stranger can live there? does that not sound abnormal to you? A responsible man would not even agree that the former husband's only son be ejected from his father's house so he can live there. He wants to start a home, where is his own house? A man that would do that will likely lay claim to the house later in the future |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by efikoefiko(m): 7:26am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Your mother is not supposed to remarry into your late fathers house, let her move to her new husband house. In my culture is a serious taboo and no one will even allow it. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Caseless: 2:52am On Dec 01, 2022 |
advanceDNA:imagine hearing his mom moan. Lol |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Kobicove(m): 11:56am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Jeffy1206: A woman who is widowed has every right to remarry |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Kobicove(m): 12:00pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
haybeegold: This can only work theoretically not realistically! |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by Jeffy1206(m): 6:09pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
Kobicove:in her husband's house? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by RZArecta(m): 10:46am On Dec 11, 2022 |
Greattestman:I love the way you handle that ídiot. Call your father's people ie brothers and uncles. Tell them your mother wants to kick you out of your late father's house and bring in her new husband. Listen to what they tell you. I personally believe if she feels she's young enough to remarry then her new husband should be old and responsible enough to have or rent his own property. An issue would be if she contributed financially in the building of the house 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by RZArecta(m): 10:46am On Dec 11, 2022 |
Kobicove:it has worked several times in this same Nigeria |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by RZArecta(m): 10:49am On Dec 11, 2022 |
Advision:next thing you'll hear is that the woman died a few weeks after new husband laid hands on the property documents |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by grandstar(m): 8:10pm On Dec 31, 2022 |
Greattestman: She has every right to remarry but she needs to respect the sanctity of your dad. It's disrespectful to bring in another man into the house. The man too has no shame. I would be very uncomfortable if I were the man. I would feel like an intruder. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by obstead200(m): 2:34pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
Greattestman:. If u are an only child......then I am sure u have been a very very very bad child that has brought so much pain and sorrow to Ur mum. That is why she has the mind to want you out of her life. If u were a good and promising child, no dick would make her leave her only son...... kpatakpata she will use her money to rent u a place and pay for Ur upkeep if u are not yet financially stable. No dick will make her let another man take over her son's rightful property. It just won't happen....and at her age, I am guessing she is very unlikely to birth another child anyway. |
Re: My Mother Wants To Remarry by imagrg(m): 5:39pm On Jan 01, 2023 |
I pray she doesn't plan to kill you. Na prick dey hungry am. |
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