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he still loves sex even more than you care to think and cos of respect he still has for you he does it coded.its not a matter of talking oh. Pickup urself and try and find the beautiful and sexy lady he fell in love with and ended up marrying. sext chat him take him out, pay the bills flirt with him, go on a vacation without the kids. Try and spend lots of one-on-one time without talking family just both of you. finally nag less cos nagging is a major libido killer

Drug him... He is your husband na

Acidosis:
Stop walking around the house naked.

If you want to kill your man's sexual interest, always go naked in his presence 24/7.

Always give him a subtle flash, very subtle, someone like me, unclothedness of a woman doesn't get me hard but a subtle flash tease that reveals the hot laps and nice panties deep inside would make me want to mount you instantly, I don't know about others, this is just me

Were you thinking about sex.

LadyRosa:
Talk to your husband.
That's what I will do if I'm in your shoes.

"...I saw this man in the shopping mall...I was just staring at him...it was weird because he noticed it too then smiled.I was embarrassed..."

Omo, the discussion go change either for good or bad but the message is already passed. You need to get 4cked!

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Sorry but side things na ur option. This life na only once o.

advice him to check his health status, things wl imrove.

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Sister, you have to understand that "Ije nwoke aburo catwork"

ayando:
Different strokes for different folks. Help yourself. How you interpret that is based on your personality.
Nairaland won't help you.

As funny as your post is, you just said nothing but the 2rut

Maybe you can also try a different perfume

There is time for everything in life and everything in life is subject to change and depreciation. The primary purpose of sex is for procreation and not what we turned it into even as married couples. Why was there no record of Adam and Eve's intimacy in the garden of Eden, and it was only when they were chased out and the flesh took over that it was written that Adam knew Eve. This means, when the flesh is overly gratified sex becomes a big deal and central subject around which all other beneficial things revolves in a family instead of the other way round. Sex within the family unit is a legal and legitimate exercise; and couples should not defraud one another, but there is nothing on earth that can't be abused once the purpose for which it exist is unknown.

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

. Hmmmm, I understand perfectly, it's not ur fault, be patient with him, he has plans for u n till he achieves it, it might be like that. Pray and just support him, little touches, small massage every now n then, special attention every now and then, ( let him work/call anytime he wants, don't ask or initiate sex, just massage his fingers, toes, arms, legs, and he will stretch by himself for a full body work). Na so my wife dey do me. Try it, if it doesn't work u'll agree with some people that all men r d same.

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Learn to control your libido as a married woman. You can begin doing things that make you attractive to him. Try wear sexy clothes when he is around or possibly when you and him are all alone, walk around the house naked nothing on he will come to you

Solofresh2:
Simp of the year lol

Kikiki...

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

who get head no get cap

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

He's no longer attracted to you.

ibkayee:
Won’t be surprised if he’s cheating and just has another phone

Otherwise maybe it’s a medical issue or stress

He doesn't have other phone, the person he's cheating with is more of physical contact than phone calls,no calls at home time.
When real men cheat you will never know.

Dailyparrot:
Thought women don't like sex? At least that's what most of you especially the single ladies want us to believe.

Men libido decrease as they age, women own increase as they age.

Who told you this.

Women love sex more, the thing is, she can't express such side to you, until you marry her.

brandsoncharlie:
He doesn't have other phone, the person he's cheating with is more of physical contact than phone calls,no calls at home time.
When real men cheat you will never know.

How will they be communicating then? Telepathy?

Or maybe email

Mama it is very simple
Serious minded men hardly think of sex.
Divorce him and go for a lazy man who thinks of sex every day

My sister kindly be patient with him as he adjust. However is there anything that piss him about you or mentioned to you at all? Look into it too . All the best

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Sex starved husband is here .....

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

It might be a medical issue....does he still have morning wood? If not, he needs a medical attention.

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

ask am for permission to fuk outside, if he gree, call me

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Cough....
The energy at which your hubby is operating is higher than yours.
Most of his energy is used on financial stability or freedom. Forget about being comfortable , he might be think of how to run his business on autopilot.

Showing interest in sex might not be his priority.

Not everyone knows that over indulgence in sex is destructive and detrimental to creative effort or thinking.

As a woman is your duty to make the atmosphere full of love aural. Ranging from your dressing habit indoor, surprise gift , send him video of a couple romancing his wife before he gets home, caption under it, I want to be treated same way etc.

Last last, I have stem cell that helps to boost men sex cell while still having energy to concentrate on his business.

Check my signature.

Helpout12345:
I think what's happening is this.

1. The age difference is playing out here. You are 27 and he is 39. You as a woman are at the peak of your sexual life, and he is passing his peak. At 39, almost 40, his testosterone is beginning to drop.

2. He also has more responsibilities and things to worry about as a productive man at this stage. You mentioned he is doing well financially with investment here and there. He has things to think about alot in this stage of his life combined with the beginning of his testosterone decline. Stress increases cortisol hormones. Cortisol hormones further reduces testosterone hormones

My advise is thus

1. You need to talk to him about my number 2 above. Let him know worries about things are bad for his overall health condition. It can lead to many health complications. Let him know his health is very important to you and his children.

2. About testosterone level, you and him should research into how to boost testosterone naturally. At age 39 going 40, he needs to maintain certain living conditions to maintain his testosterone level.

3. Talk to him about your sexual desire. Let him know how you feel starved but be careful not to rub it against his ego. Praise his sexual prowess and how he used to handle you in the past and tell him you crave for it still now.

4. Penetration is not only way he can ease your sexual tension. Suggest finger job and other ones you like to him. Even if his service tool is not willing, his hand, mouth and tongue can do many many things to help you ease sexual tensions.

At just 39 D's ur analysis no gel

Messi1:
Pls answer my call na..why do you want to make today bitter for me?

Wahala be like bicycle

ibkayee:
Won’t be surprised if he’s cheating and just has another phone

Otherwise maybe it’s a medical issue or stress

It's more of the later, men will rather die inside than discuss his sexual problems

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Buy toy na.. He will get the message. The problem with genuine money is that it engages you so much that you lost every sense of love. Devil copies that too when he enriches you.

phemmyfour:
It's more of the later, men will rather die inside than discuss his sexual problems

Very possible

CorrectBizWoman

Are you in shape?