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Being A Ladies Man Is Bullshit, Men Don’t Seek That Shit by Wealthbrain22(op): 6:56pm On Nov 29, 2022
Most men seek to be a ladies man because society have made you believe women are superior to you and once you have their approval then you’re an alpha male , that’s bullshit..you being a man in this difficult world alone already makes you an alpha male.

Women have nothing to offer any man, I have all the qualities most of them want in a man but I noticed all it does is attract women who just want to use you for their stupid games. I would go out and have random girls hating on me all because I don’t entertain their stinky attention, I am an alpha man , a woman’s attention means nothing to me and if I ignore you as a woman it’s because you have nothing to add in my life. My mom is my love, I will give her the world because she genuinely loves me not because of how I look or the money I have.

Women’s validation is nothing , don’t let them use you like a mugu because they give you their useless validation. Many men become slaves to women because women make them feel special so they become toys to women and always end up wasting their lives trying to keep impressing women.

So many women hate me because I think, walk, talk, behave like a king and they hate that I understand them so much and they hate the love I have for myself. I will never pick a woman before myself like many men do and then spend the rest of my life trying to impress them, I will rather treat myself like a king for all the rest of my life and if I eventually get a kid someday I will transfer all my love to my kid, presently my love is undivided for my mom and my siblings not some fake gold digger who is smiling at me because of shallow reasons and will immediately drop me once she sees a man who she rates better than me.

Yes I’m a man wanted by that other gender but I will not be used because I’m too insecure enough to be happy that they want me. I put myself first and will never put a woman before me.

Kings put yourself first, don’t make the mistake most of our dads made by working their whole life to impress our mothers till they died, it’s not worth it, I’m a king , a ladies man but the only lady I love and care about her attention is my mum. I’m not a mummy’s boy at all, but my point is that if I’m going to sincerely care for a “woman” then it can only be my mom or my daughter someday not some gold digging heartless female that’s smiling at me.
Re: Being A Ladies Man Is Bullshit, Men Don’t Seek That Shit by marlow1962(m):
I’ve always have this policy that “my self and my family “ comes first. Untill you’re part of my family befor you coming in. No be today dem don start to they call person stingy, if I carry all my love, money and affection to you only, which one will I then keep for my family? (Just cus say I wn please u).

Many girls in my hood finds me arrogant just cus I don’t do hood shit and I don’t give ah fvk about them.
I can never be a slave to no woman, I love women (no doubt), but you can’t say cus I love, you will now be emotionally manipulating me.

I hardly make friends, you can pick both gender of my friends as beans. Your can’t say “ bcus am ur friend, I will succumb to every of ur bullshit”.
I’m a positive person, I can’t be having negativity around me, all in the name of we are frnds or dating.

Omo na my self first o, I no go dy stress myself cus of u. You say u no like me, I jejely rest.
You say u no fit date me cus I no get swag, I go dy my lane (no hard feelings).
U say I no get money, no wahala.

But I no go EVER stress myself say I wn dy impress you or dy carry ur mata for my head (wtf that’s a dumb idea). Na when I go cun marry u join my family, then I go start to dy carry ur mata for head.
But for now, no level for you.

Forget all dis redpill alpha male bullshit, time don pass wer men supposed to dy stupid. U wn dy let woman matter dy fvk u up?
You go be d biggest fool as a man to dy stress urself for pussy wer dy general market (pathetic).


I do not hate women, I love them.
I love to fvk, I love to have more kids, I love to have someone I will call my own.
But you’re not my own and you’re stressing me, madam why?

As I dy like dis now my bro, na as woman take present herself to me I go take follow her up. If you come as frnds (we go package as frnds)
If you come as olosho ( we go package dat one)
But if you come as wife material cun still dy loyal join, then I go carry ur mata for my head like say tomorrow no dy.
But I no go cun dy stress myself for toto wer John,Peter,Mathew, Emeka,ikenna don knack, infact majority of the boys ( if not all self) wer don come in contact with

My cun dy worry myself for toto wer don see different type of dick, God forbid.
Re: Being A Ladies Man Is Bullshit, Men Don’t Seek That Shit by Bluezy13(m): 7:52pm On Nov 29, 2022



My brother, if I should read this stuff you wrote, I may miss the lineups.
Remind me to remove the dot after these England and USA games.
I pray Wales win England sha.
Re: Being A Ladies Man Is Bullshit, Men Don’t Seek That Shit by Acidosis(m): 8:18pm On Nov 29, 2022
Wealthbrain22:
I’m not a mummy’s boy at all, but my point is that if I’m going to sincerely care for a “woman” then it can only be my mom or my daughter someday not some gold digging heartless female that’s smiling at me.
Don't you think that this statement invalidates your entire post? Why are you scared of being labeled a "mummy's boy"? Society?
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