PoliteActivist:


Well said. An ashawo living in a hotel can later turn genuinely devoutly religious, and vise versa. Rehab was a total ashawo, so was Mary (Magdalene), who was about to be stoned to death for adultery! Then there was that pastor's wife in Lagos who decided to move into a hotel and work as a full-time prostitute - maybe she was a virgin when the pastor married her!

Things Change.

People Change.

BanyXchi:
that's a very delusi0nal thing to say, we are definitely not the same. Good luck with your Cross River wife though.

There was no place I wrote to you that "we are the same".

Read patiently and Understand clearly without throwing insults at everyone as there is no need for it. It is delusional and only shows an evidence of an abused ego.


You can change for better.



Good luck with you. And thanks for the well wish too.

udemzyudex:


Which one is black man mentality here? Are you a white man?

Bro why your papa marry your mama naa since he go favour your mama alone, abi him for no like live a stress free Life like your claim?

So if you no marry you go live for 200 years right? If you no marry you go become the richest man on earth?
Those wey grow old without marrying, without a child if their own dem don share their testimonies with you?

Oh I forget say you be white man,your own mentality different from ours.

Wahala.

Mr man i don't have black man mentality. My appearance is black but my way of life exhibit like the whites. Whether u are married or single for life u still gonna live a great life forget the bull cock stories about old age.. The way someone of u place this marriage or whatever nonsense of having children u will think when someone die they will buries his or her children with them. People weh dem no marry or get pikin shey if dey die dem dey allow their body rotten and smell no matter what dem go burry the person and if dem no burry am e don go e don go so na una weh leave rotten e go smell for nose.

Ladymillion:
Hmmm might he higher if you are not from brides arear

hi do you have an active WhatsApp i can reach out to?

MessiahMARLIANS:



My Wife-to-be actually reedited the list even when I told her not to.


She said "she is not being bought" and some things on the list aren't necessary.

that is what I am saying. Meet the parents, discuss with them. Like I said earlier, some parents will even waves it aside and tell the extended family that you have fulfilled that part of the list. Most list are done that way so that people will not think their daughter is cheap. That is why it is open for negotiation

MessiahMARLIANS:
I'm from The Yoruba Part of Nigeria too.

However; As an Agricultural Journalistic Entertainment Tourist (AJET); I Travelled Down To Cross River State and Have Settled in Ekori, Yakurr Local Government Area for about 2 Years since I left The Year 2020 EndSars Protest in Ikeja, Lagos State.


To The Glory of God Almighty;

I'll be getting Married To My Bossom and Missing Rib Whom I Met This Year as an MTN Customer Care Representative when i went to retrieve my line at The MTN Office in UGEP Town.

We will be getting married Next Weekend - December 9, 10; 202.

All Nairalanders are invited

As a teacher on Nairaland; She's now a nairalander too...and I'm teaching her to teach other people on Nairaland How to bank "Customer Care Representative" Jobs with Brands and Top Companies.

(For Your Information; UGEP is The Town That Yearly Host "MISS LEBOKU" which is One of The Paramount Rural Tourism Attractions for Business Initiators and Investment Tourist.

My Present Wife-To-Be attended to me very respectfully, selflessly and sacrificially like MTN was Her Papa's Office.

And Since I loved her selflessness and respectful manners - Somehow Today; The rest is HISTORY.

Below is The Bride Price Provided to me from her family.

This is exactly what is obtainable in The South-South; Precisely UGEP.

Messiah Oni long time o. Its your namesake here been a long time. glad you are doing great. Your look has changed drastically. I wish you all the Best in your marriage.

Agbebakun22:
Mr man i don't have black man mentality. My appearance is black but my way of life exhibit like the whites. Whether u are married or single for life u still gonna live a great life forget the bull cock stories about old age.. The way someone of u place this marriage or whatever nonsense of having children u will think when someone die they will buries his or her children with them. People weh dem no marry or get pikin shey if dey die dem dey allow their body rotten and smell no matter what dem go burry the person and if dem no burry am e don go e don go so na una weh leave rotten e go smell for nose.

You just dey run around the place without giving us a reason why you think you have a white man mentality, oh is it because you don't value marriage?

So the white that get married don't value it too or some white like you down here with same mentality don't value it?

You're from a family,you have friends and probably have a work relationship with other people in your place of work,now tell me has it been a bed full of roses all this while?
You don't have issues with friends, family and at your place of work? If you have , have you decided to disown your family, stop having friends and stop working since all they do is bring you stress and not make you live the best of your life?

Why is marriage different, even if you marry the best of woman,it still doesn't mean you face issues, stress and other related problems you face with humans.

If marriage favours the woman alone,are you trying to tell us you're the only Man with sense and was able to figure this out but can't use this your sense to invent something good for mankind?

Oh I see you have a white man mentality, since the white don't take marriage seriously,they don't take family seriously, things like having children and all that don't matter because it won't make you live your best life.


You're a piece of joke oga.
You lack common sense, stop saying you reason like the white cos you lack reasoning.

MessiahMARLIANS:



Things Change.

People Change.

Exactly. From good to bad or bad to worse or bad to good or good to better. People's basic personality rarely change - but it has nothing to do with virginity. Sometimes a person is a virgin precisely because they are a stubborn, mean, nasty person no one can live with!

jeromestarks:


This your neighborhood guy story shocked me o. What!

I am taking this thing to Twitter "#No hymen, no marriage " and I will not care who likes it or not. They will understand later.

I'm not bluffing it happened in jakpa road here in warri, and those on this platform who lives in jakpa road in warri here will attest to this story, it was a national anthem

udemzyudex:


Marriage favours the man too, especially if you marry a good woman.

Wait till you grow old, then you will understand.

Part of the reason this man has lived till 109 years maybe becuase he didn't have a wife!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXyfCGDnuWs

PoliteActivist:


Part of the reason this man has lived till 109 years maybe becuase he didn't have a wife!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXyfCGDnuWs

Very funny, what about those who had a wives and live for over 100 years too?

MessiahMARLIANS:


Read the long quote.

You'll understand the message.


My messages are not directed to you alone.

They are sensitization gospels for as many that will read them.

How much did she 'support' you with to get the things demanded in that list?

udemzyudex:


Very funny, what about those who had a wives and live for over 100 years too?

Let's see their video.
But no one is arguing that. The other guy is the one implying that wife leads to longevity!

PoliteActivist:


Note the word dialectal. Any word can mean anything in a dialect. But there is the universal meaning (see below). Please don't use the word homely unless you are saying a girl is unattractive. I see it on NL all the time, and finally decided to correct it.

Noted.

PoliteActivist:


Let's see their video.
But no one is arguing that. He's the one implying that wife leads to longevity!

Read the last part of your post again.

https://gerontology.fandom.com/wiki/Juan_Vicente_Perez_Mora#:~:text=Juan%20Vicente%20Perez%20Mora%20%5BSpanish,Spain%20on%2018%20January%202022.


Search for his name on YouTube too.

PoliteActivist:


Exactly. From good to bad or bad to worse or bad to good or good to better. People's basic personality rarely change - but it has nothing to do with virginity. Sometimes a person is a virgin precisely because they are a stubborn, mean, nasty person no one can live with!

Liked and Shared.

I Flow in Your Vibrations.

..
Your Energies and Frequencies are DIRect AnD of THE TRUTH.

udemzyudex:


Read the last part of your post again.

https://gerontology.fandom.com/wiki/Juan_Vicente_Perez_Mora#:~:text=Juan%20Vicente%20Perez%20Mora%20%5BSpanish,Spain%20on%2018%20January%202022.


Search for his name on YouTube too.

But note that he is in a wheelchair at 88, while my unmarried guy was still driving at 109!

MessiahMARLIANS:



Liked and Shared.

I Flow in Your Vibrations.

..
Your Energies and Frequencies are DIRect AnD of THE TRUTH.

Thanks. Yours too my brother. Liked and shared

PoliteActivist:


But note that he is in a wheelchair at 88, while my unmarried guy was still driving at 109!

What sort of nonsense is this? Are you stupid?

Now you're shifting to goal post? You showed a man that is alive at the age of 109 without marrying and I show you a man that is up to 113 years.

People are faced with different life circumstances,my question to you is , was it his wife that caused the accident?

I won't even bother replying you again because it's obvious you're stupid.

udemzyudex:


What sort of nonsense is this? Are you stupid?

Now you're shifting to goal post? You showed a man that is alive at the age of 109 without marrying and I show you a man that is up to 113 years.

People are faced with different life circumstances,my question to you is , was it his wife that caused the accident?

I won't even bother replying you again because it's obvious you're stupid.

My friend you are the one who was trying to tie longevity to marriage. See your original post below. All I did was show you there are also people who live long, healthy lives without marriage

udemzyudex:


Marriage favours the man too, especially if you marry a good woman.

Wait till you grow old, then you will understand.

[quote author=RedpillAnalyst post=118890252]

Sir you are using normie logic to view issue and that is not good for a man. @jeromestarks did not say sleep with girls willy nilly. However, no commitment for a girl who isn't a virgin. A girl who is not a virgin has given you proof that she not worthy if commitment that is why she was dumped in the first place. Good girls don't have heart breaks, if she is truly good.

95% of marital issues and decadence in our society stems from men starting family with a loose canon.

It is always hard to explain.

[/quote

Comrade,hope this your will surely use on your sisters and daughters who aren't virgin somedays sometimes

coputa:
Not Urhobo women,i speak with data and figures and not hearsay.I am proudly urhobo,i will be celebrating my 35 years marriage anniversary this December,there will be giveaways here in the forum.

Oga truth but while i was in warri almost all d gals there na runs gal ..wetin u de talk self

Warri is a city and has lot of urhobos inaw n itsekiri and other tribes

Warri wey be say if u taost gal na how much you go pay dem go de ask u

Misterone:
that is what I am saying. Meet the parents, discuss with them. Like I said earlier, some parents will even waves it aside and tell the extended family that you have fulfilled that part of the list. Most list are done that way so that people will not think their daughter is cheap. That is why it is open for negotiation

You are right.


I'm happy and satisfied with the list.


God Almighty already Settled Everything.


On Grace.

PoliteActivist:


Exactly. From good to bad or bad to worse or bad to good or good to better. People's basic personality rarely change - but it has nothing to do with virginity. Sometimes a person is a virgin precisely because they are a stubborn, mean, nasty person no one can live with!

I flow with your high vibrations on this.


I Feel your Energies and I'm Tuned Into Your Frequencies.

Starzo:

How much did she 'support' you with to get the things demanded in that list?

Alot.

Danyl:


Messiah Oni long time o. Its your namesake here been a long time. glad you are doing great. Your look has changed drastically. I wish you all the Best in your marriage.

Hi Danyl.


Trust you are well ?


So, Sorry - I've been unable to connect your username to any personality or face that I am familiar with here on Nairaland.


Please Help Me with Your Personality.

menix:
Congrats bro...
Just as someone rightly said earlier, cannibals full that ugep, this I know...

All this cannibal story is unfounded. Please show me anyone or family that has a friend or someone that was eating in Ugep or has gone missing in Ugep for a period of 50yrs ago to date then I will believe that Ugep people are cannibals

Nice one daddy, Pls make sure you vote for LP.

jeromestarks:

My dear son, when you're ready to start a family, read this https://www.nairaland.com/7345496/places-find-virgin-woman

For now, fvck any girl you want.

Like a friend of mine years back who is from Uyo( dad) and Yoruba( mum) but eventually married a Yoruba guy would tell us then that most times the brideprice of AkwaCross can never be fully paid even after the traditional marriage... She advised you just do your best financially and explain to the lady's family.... Most grooms 'owe' even after many years of marriage.

I think the cheapest place to marry is Edo state.... Also, some places might be a bit high but individual families may not want it that high

PoliteActivist:


My friend you are the one who was trying to tie longevity to marriage. See your original post below. All I did was show you there are also people who live long, healthy lives without marriage

You just jump into what you don't understand,do you know how the post come about?

Did you bother to read the post I quoted on that?

Marpol2021:
Nice one daddy, Pls make sure you vote for LP.

I am completely and Yusfully ObiDient my son.

FuckSilly:

Very senseless talk.
Don't you people think before typing or talking?
Do prostitutes fuçk themselves? Is that supposed to be a reasonable question?
If prostitutes don't advertise themselves or make themselves available for sex, will anyone fuçk them?

It is the laziness and GREED that's in you people's souls that turns you into prostitutes.
How many bodycount can you have before you have SENSE?

Talking about 'senseless talk'...lol Weak men like you are notorious for passing the buck, never wanna take responsibility for anything.

Talk of 'thinking before typing' ...lol . "Do prostitutes fvck themselves" - obviously, that question is so difficult for someone like you to answer. You're there on your Alcatel phone tryna give lectures on what a 'reasonable question' should be - Shows how low your IQ is.

You probably forgot about the theory of Demand and Supply.

You should stand in front of a mirror and tell who you see on it that he's a foolish clown.